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Why You Should Be Humble And Live Humbly, In My Humble Opinion

Posted: 06/12/2012 4:21 pm

Consider your place in the Universe. Think about all the people who existed before you and all the people who will exist after you. When it comes down to it, you are really a dot on the long line of humanity. You were never known before your existence and you will be forgotten at some point when you're gone.

This is why you should be humble and live humbly. No matter what happens from day to day, in the larger picture, you are a dot, reliant on other dots.

But this shouldn't make you feel like nothing at all. To the contrary, be grateful, celebrate even, that right now, you're alive. Right now, you have life. What better reason to live life to its fullest every day you're here? NOW is the time your dot can make an impact, touch lives, help others and help yourself in some cases to live healthily and happily. What a gift life itself is.

This is also a reason to live fearlessly; any rejection or failure you personally experience on this Earth in the larger picture means almost nothing. You have a great opportunity to be as happy as you can and help others as much as you can to make their lives more fulfilling through your talents and generosity.

But back to humility. You can further contemplate your existence with this Bible verse, Romans 11:18 (International Standard translation):

Do not boast about being better than the other branches. If you boast, remember that you do not support the root, but the root supports you.

In other words, no matter what you do, no matter how successful you are, no matter how lucky you are, never boast about being better than others. Because in the end, you are really just a branch. Whatever you do is just part of that branch, connected to other branches and a tree that is way larger than you.

And there is a root that supports you. All the people who have gone before you, all the knowledge they built up, the language they coined that you use to communicate, the businesses and industries that rose to give you work, water, shelter and food, the upbringing your parents, teachers, or other loved ones gave you, what your friends have done for you, and so on. That's the root that supports everything you do and everything you are. Not to mention the Creator of life itself, who I call God, and you may call something else (or believe something else) but that's fine. Recognize all that. Be humble.

Also, if you're lucky enough to have all those basic aspects of life mentioned above (work, food, water, shelter), you're lucky. Because not everyone on this Earth does. And even in your own life, you may go through times when these things are in abundance, and others when they're not. Be grateful for what you do have. Be humble.

More than anything, remember the root. Remember where you came from and those who helped you get to where you are. No one on this Earth is 100 percent original and no one's knowledge is 100 percent their own. Ideas and inspiration come from elsewhere. You yourself are unique, but you come from elsewhere, not from yourself. Remember that. Be thankful for that. Be humble.

Thoughts? Feel free to disagree -- with anything above -- or share alternate viewpoints. Discussion is most welcome.

 

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10:16 AM on 06/20/2012
Excellent article! If it hasn't been mentioned already you might enjoy reading chapter 7 of the Rule of St. Benedict on the Value of Humility.
12:24 PM on 06/18/2012
thank you for this article. I read it first thing every morning.
11:36 PM on 06/17/2012
The most amazing thing is that we are both divine and living in this limited space, time and body. Anything but humility is completely irrational. Anything but humility is just a way of coping with life rather than really living it.
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:50 PM on 06/15/2012
"You were never known before your existence and you will be forgotten at some point when you're gone. "

This is the bases for your argument for being humble. To me this is the biggest argument to NOT be humble. If you're just a speck in the big PLAN, then you need to be the biggest, best and most brilliant speck. Otherwise it was just a ride into obscurity.
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Craig Kanalley
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06:11 PM on 06/16/2012
That's one view. It's a selfish view. Or you can help other specks.

I started the piece that way for anyone who goes around saying/thinking they're the best, it may remind them of reality.
04:22 AM on 06/21/2012
You have missed the point completely. The basis of humility is truth. What this means is that humility is not necessarily to think you are crap or that everyone else is better than you, in fact, humility is not thinking you are equal to everyone else: this is false.

Humility is knowing oneself. To be humble is to know that even though you may be the strongest, fastest, and perhaps even the best running back that has ever lived, you could get into a car accident and loose a leg. To be humble is to realize that while you may make millions of dollars a year, you may have terminal cancer and have 4 months to live.

Know yourself. Think. Do you not realize that chance, fate or God (which ever one you prefer), may take away your talent, your health, your money, or worse...your loved ones? To know yourself would be to see what is your role in this "plan." The talents that you have, where you were born (best country in the world), the parents that you have, the financial stability... were not you.

If I may use a building simile, and I think I can, the plan is like a big Church; each one of us like a stone. There are many stones that are needed and each stone sustains a purpose for the structure. And while the facade is the most beautiful part and most praised, the stones beneath earth,
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02:24 PM on 06/14/2012
I don't get it: what does "be humble" mean exactly?
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JBaker
fictio cedit veritati
10:32 PM on 06/15/2012
It means to take yourself down a notch before others, or fate, takes you down anyway.
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10:09 AM on 06/18/2012
I'm sure you're on the right track but could you explain it a little further? Are you saying not to go for your dreams or any desires because that would just be futile?
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:51 PM on 06/15/2012
It means to belittle yourself because you don't feel you're as good as others.
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10:10 AM on 06/18/2012
So tell myself "I suck at everything"? Also this implies that I don't feel as good as others. What if one feels better than others?
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02:24 PM on 06/14/2012
One more thing: the consequences of your actions will last for the rest of time.
09:18 PM on 06/13/2012
It is important to strike a balance between humility and a healthy sense of self. There is a Jewish teaching [Rabbi Simcha Bunim of Peshischa 1765–1827] that illustrates this balance: Everyone must have two pockets, with a note in each pocket, so that he or she can reach into the one or the other, depending on the need. When feeling lowly and depressed, discouraged or disconsolate, one should reach into the right pocket, and, there, find the words: "For my sake was the world created."
But when feeling high and mighty one should reach into the left pocket, and find the words: "I am but dust and ashes."
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:53 PM on 06/15/2012
That's silly.
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Monica Strobel
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05:29 PM on 06/13/2012
A long time ago I realized that it was impossible to 'be original' for reasons that you've mentioned. But I believe each of us has the true ability to 'be authentic' because I do believe we are completely unique, and there has never been, nor never will be, anyone exactly the same as us. When we shine in our gifts, we unconsciously give everyone around us permission to shine in theirs. And the world is in need of these authentic gifts, more than ever.
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Craig Kanalley
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11:09 PM on 06/13/2012
I believe that too. We are all unique. Let's use our talents to do good in the world and help others :)
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:54 PM on 06/15/2012
Depends on who's book of good you're reading.
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:54 PM on 06/15/2012
Kumbayah....
05:00 PM on 06/13/2012
Brilliant musings, brother. We would all do well to keep these inspired thoughts in mind.
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:56 PM on 06/15/2012
insipid?
01:57 PM on 06/13/2012
It's really a pretty easy explanation of why you should be humble. Arrogance is irrational.
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:57 PM on 06/15/2012
I'm not arrogant--I'm convinced.
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1John 5:11-12 Eternal Life in flesh
01:43 PM on 06/13/2012
I use to be conceited but now I'm perfect ...lol
Thank you for this humbling article. We know or should know as Christians that we are fighting a daily battle of sin in our life. We are empowered by God's spirit to SIN...LESS, then we use to, as we accept the reality that we are NOT SINLESS.
All sin is bad, but, I believe the biggest sin is PRIDE. The fall of one of the most beautiful angels is attributed to this vice, and a lot more besides.
The gospel message repeats over and over again, that salvation is a gift so NO ONE can BOAST.
When the gospel is corrupted with legalism, it's produces people who are arrogant and causes them to compare their "works to ACHIEVE salvation" to those who have "works of salvation" ...
Like Cain they trust in what they can do and despise the gospel message of grace and compassion as they compare their haughty self appointed standards on others.
Shalom
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03:49 PM on 06/13/2012
PRIDE king sin -
For the true doctrine of God's grace convicts -- striking down human pride with unsparing and uncompromising severity?
http://www.edwardfudge.com/written/gracetext.html
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Craig Kanalley
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05:03 PM on 06/13/2012
Beautifully written response. Thank you.
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06:04 PM on 06/13/2012
Thanks,, tried to follow the spirit of intent. Thank you !
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Henry Avellaneda
No step backwards!
01:40 PM on 06/13/2012
Everyone should keep this in mind! This is the reality of our world and our existence. We are insignificant specs of dust in this universe and in the the scheme of things we are nothing, no matter how important you think you are or how rich your are. In the end, we all turn into dust!
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The Seventh Chakra, amazon
10:59 PM on 06/15/2012
Exactly, so don't waste your time, get in there and be victorious.
12:03 PM on 06/13/2012
I never realized how trut that is about from dust we come and dust we return, until I saw the results of a soil sample I had taken. All of the nutrients in the soil were the same that our body requires. Interesting.
01:42 PM on 06/13/2012
We are stardust...
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Irene Fisher
09:25 PM on 06/13/2012
I always "loved" that one...makes me feel connected when I look up at the night sky!!
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10:59 PM on 06/15/2012
We are star dust ....
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jf12
Esta vez saldré como las otras y me escaparé.
11:54 AM on 06/13/2012
Sure, but in the parable of the vine (John 15), the branch that isn't working properly will be lopped off (and other grafted in, Rom 11:17). There is a reason for being connected to the root, i.e. the connection itself can and will be broken if you don't bear fruit.
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jennnn10
I got an A in Micro-bio.
11:36 AM on 06/13/2012
omgsh. big fat duh. this is huff post RELIGION. i didnt realize, so bible quote = fine by me.