Men In Love With B*****s Ain't Men 'tall!!

Men Love Bitches screams the cover of a popular book from the 'featured' table at Barnes & Noble, as I plunge toward the only 'sure thang' restroom in a popular Orange County strip mall, seeing red all of a sudden.

Who's ridiculous idea is this? Any man worth his salt knows that the thrill of chasing a bitch is just that -- the short-lived, testosterone-fueled lust upon which damned relationships are founded.

Nay, let me say loud and clear: Men do not love bitches. They may lust after them, but how many guys do you know want their balls bashed at every turn?

This misnomer has led to a generation of divorce-fated, confused people who actually buy the bunk that stipulates we should treat each other poorly to get what we want from a relationship. Now, why would you want to participate in a relationship if it's premised upon games and manipulation? This sort of contrition seems fake and soulless to me, the fodder of females who would take the highest bidder over their heart ties.

Girls, before you believe what's contained in these 'how to' books about getting and keeping your man, consider carefully what sort of citizen you're trying to become. Do you really want to found a family with such an individual who would seek abuse and misuse? Furthermore, what evolved male would seek such punishment?

Sure, there's a bit of a thrill in the chase. This fact may be genetically hard wired into our psyche from the days of hunting, gathering and scarcity; but what marks our difference from the animal kingdom is the ability to use rationale to overcome such impulse. Any man incapable of overcoming the urge to chase tail is not man enough for a mature woman. Period.

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Comments

[historymatters]

I think guys going for the b*tch could be a lot like girls going for the bad boy. It's the thrill of the chase, of being bad yourself (at least for a while), of not knowing what's going to happen next, of conquest, of being special enough to turn the head of someone who's otherwise haughty, snarky, arrogant, or whatever. Girls generally (I hope!) get over the bad boy complex by the time they reach their mid-twenties, as most realize after learning the hard way that the bad boy isn't going to be there holding their hand in the midst of a crisis, working to put food on the table and a home over the heads of their children, listening to and caring about their hopes, dreams, fears and wishes, and just generally making a life together. Boys who are titillated by b*tches hopefully learn the same before they make the mistake of marrying one.

[hapaglloyd]

It does'nt last long ,but its true ,many men are turned on by "bitches"---your words,not mine------ but after a man "conquers her" the thrill goes away. Its just a game. Most men want to marry and settle down and have a family with a nice homely girl. Men almost never marry the "B' types.

[plebeianswillrevolt]

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Drivers license at 16.......... marriage license at 40. I caught a bi'atch at 25,,,,,,,, & married,

my GOD did that ever doom my life, (yes, I am leaving her half of the equation out if it, (frankly my dear, I don;t give a damn).she was the bi'atch, I was the testosterone driven loser with the good job.