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30 Days To Fire Up Your Creative Genius, Day 28: What Would Your Life Be Like If You Only Did What Was Easy? (VIDEO)

Posted: 05/14/2012 7:23 am

Genius is the ability to receive from the universe.
--The I Ching

It's almost unsettling to go there, isn't it? When I try to answer that question for myself I squirm a bit. Lazy dilettante. As if. What would I do with all that extra time I'd have if I just did the easy stuff?

Hmmm . . . maybe I'd have more time to enjoy what I've got and get more of what I want. Maybe things would be . . . easier.

Ease. The concept confounds most of us. Here's why: Pay your dues. Put in your time. Prove yourself. Meet expectations. Soldier on. Nothing worthwhile comes easy.

We'll call these, collectively, the Myth of Endurance: a concept that you can choose to believe in, in varying degrees, or not. "Easy" is also a concept that can be just as useful to you. The easy way is a direction that leads straight to your Creative Genius.

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Today's Worksheet: Easy Priorities

1. What actually needs to get done in your life and livelihood? As in, must happen in order for things to basically run smoothly.

2. What's your competency level for each activity? Lame, sufficient, great, brilliant? (This is not about whether you enjoy it, or whether you need to be the one to execute it).

3. Out of your list of "needs to get done," which of those activities actually makes you feel strengthened, vitalized, and more alive when you do them?

4. Out of the list of "needs to get done," which of those activities doesn't really light your fire, or outright annoys you?

5. Open your heart and mind when you scan your list. You may not be stellar at an activity, but it could feel really inspiring when you do it. And you might think that an activity is perhaps "beneath" you, yet you feel strengthened when you do it. What can you do to develop these strengths and interests? Coaching, classes, courses, training, attending events, reading books, connecting with people, pursuing mentors, setting aside sacred time?

6. What three actions will you take this week to condition and nourish your true strengths?

7. What three actions wil you take this week to decrease your time spent on activities that drag you down and don't feed your true strengths?

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Genius is the ability to receive from the universe. --The I Ching It's almost unsettling to go there, isn't it? When I try to answer that question for myself I squirm a bit. Lazy dilettante. As if. W...
Genius is the ability to receive from the universe. --The I Ching It's almost unsettling to go there, isn't it? When I try to answer that question for myself I squirm a bit. Lazy dilettante. As if. W...
 
 
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dlo2
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11:33 PM on 05/14/2012
A lifetime ago when I first entered healthcare training, I remember that the most profoundly healing experience for myself was reaching out to my patients who were in pain or anxious with fear of what was to come...offering my kindness and the human connectiveness of compassion. And then years later, I recognized during a yoga meditation class that each person needs to nurture themselves and feel loved not only by others, but more definitively, loved by themselves. There is a mantra I heard in a hospice/palliative class run by a psychologist who stated that if we only knew how much we were loved in this Universe, tears would flow from deep within our hearts. As we are born and as helpless infants, we seek the loving arms of our mothers and fathers, we continue to seek that sense of love and well-being. Everything is in its place as long as love creates light within our all too brief and often difficult lives. In the end of each life, the deepest imprint in the sands of time is how deeply we loved.
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03:15 PM on 05/14/2012
Hearing Danielle ask this simple question a year ago kick-started a journey that has lead me to a place where my life feels very easy and light, even if my circumstances are sometimes far from ideal:

"How easy can you let it be?"

WOW! So I started to ask this question over and over again and that lead me to Michael Neill's Supercoach Academy, where I came up with a new question:

"What would I do (now) if I was already happy (regardless of my circumstances)?"

I believe that we were born happy and the only reason we don't feel happiness and aren't at ease is that we're blackmailing ourselves to do something we don't really want to do or aren't ready yet to do.

The only reason we feel stressed or worried is that we're trying to either motivate ourselves to behave a certain way, to keep ourselves safe from something or to appear to be certain kind of person.
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JulieMarisa
10:41 AM on 05/14/2012
The difficult part of this assignment is the letting go part.
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03:17 PM on 05/14/2012
Yes... Until you see clearly a better way to do something -- then letting go of the old way happens automatically.
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JulieMarisa
03:31 PM on 05/14/2012
So true.