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8 Reasons Regular Guys Should Learn To Cook

Posted: 06/10/11 12:31 PM ET

Some guys I know don't consider cooking a worthwhile venture. Besides the occasional stint behind the grill, they'd rather bask in blissful ignorance than feed themselves in more than three steps: stab, chew, swallow.

But ask any woman (or man that already knows how) why it is better to be a kitchen savvy dude and you'll start to see what these guys are missing.

Whether it's because they think it takes too much time and too much effort or wrongly assume it's a woman's job, men who never learn to cook are losing a huge opportunity to take their man skills to the next level.


8 Reasons Regular Guys Should Learn To Cook

1. Chicks dig it

There isn't a woman alive immune to a man who can make her a delicious meal. Step up to the plate boys, we're begging you.

2. Life skills are manly

You can fix your car, hunt wild animals and build a camp fire. Shouldn't you know how to feed yourself without a drive-thru?

3. You'll save money

Though there's a good chance you're single if you never learned to cook (see point #1), a home cooked meal is a much cheaper date night (or singles night) than dinner for two at Chez Fancy -- particularly with the 150% wine mark up common at most restaurants.

4. It's faster than going out

Fancy date meals aside, cooking at home is almost always faster than going out--so long as you know what you're doing. Once you have a few basic skill down, you can stop wasting your time in fast food spots simply because you don't know what else to eat.

5. Guy Fieri shouldn't be better than you at anything

Food Network star Guy Fieri has bad hair, bad clothes and douchey sunglasses, but the dude knows how to cook. Are you going to let him upstage you like that? Of course you aren't.

6. Your puppy (aka girl magnet) will eat better

My notoriously adorable puppy Toaster loves salad scraps (sugar snap peas are his favorite), eggs, meats, fish, and pretty much anything else we're willing to share. A balanced diet is as good for dogs as it is for people (just don't give them onions, garlic or grapes).

7. You might lose weight

Cooking is one of the easiest ways to improve your diet and stick to reasonable portions. This is a recipe for weight loss, if you're willing to swallow it.

8. You might like it

Cooking is relaxing, fun, creative, purposeful and, hopefully, delicious. Why wouldn't you want to add this skill to your tool belt?

Why do you guys like to cook?

Originally published at Summer Tomato, where you can find more healthy eating tips.

 

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02:24 PM on 08/03/2011
Reasons I cook:

I love to eat and I love my own cooking

Highest quality for lowest cost

Greatest control over exactly what you're eating (avoid unwanted/unhealthy ingredients)

Is in some cases the only way to get a given dish just the way I really want it

A corollary to the above, is in many cases the only way to get beloved esoteric or nostalgic dishes you can't find elsewhere

I produce a lot of food on my property; only logical I know what to do with it

Cooking, which includes not just the activity of cooking but imagining and inventing dishes and menus, is a great creative challenge, and as such is extremely interesting and rewarding. It is also virtually infinite, all the possibilities of cuisines and ingredients.

Cooking for others is a fundamental type of sharing, and as such is very rewarding, and can effectively be shared with very many, since so many people love to eat, even people with which you may have nothing else in common

Over the years I just happen to have become my favorite non-professional cook, and my wife's. Now, if you could have your favorite cook make dinner for you every day would you turn down the opportunity? Probably not, and I don't either.
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clarlynn
when government fears the people, there is liberty
03:46 PM on 06/16/2011
"Chicks dig it"

...ain't that the truth. My wife was very happy when I told her I wanted to learn to cook. I was most interested in sauces and have actually gotten fairly good at it. Now she brags to her friends that I cook better than her, which I do not entirely agree with. Some things maybe, but certainly not everything. We enjoy some really fun 4 to 6 person dinner parties and are eating better. So it's been a big plus all around. I highly recommend it. Now if only there was a way to enjoy cleaning up.
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05:31 PM on 06/14/2011
My old man was a fire fighter. Everyone in the engine house had to cook. He also did a lot of the cooking on his days off as my ma worked. If it weren't for my cooking skills, I might've sued for divorce rather than the other way around!
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osofar
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08:09 AM on 06/14/2011
There is nothing finer than the receipe in the book Stone Soup. This is a cooking classic!
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osofar
America once was Exceptional
08:06 AM on 06/14/2011
Cooking is easy to do. Just follow the receipe.
06:45 PM on 06/13/2011
9. It saves your health from irreparable harm if you're going through a rough period. I can't imagine what my health would look like today, after those years with 80 cigarettes a day and equal poisoning from alcohol and other drugs, if I hadn't been unable to imagine - no matter how fuddled my brain - going through a day without cooking a healthy meal.

This is thanks to my mother, who insisted that each child cook a meal for the family once a week. If I recall well, it was Wednesday for me.
12:17 PM on 06/13/2011
If your Mom or Grandma didn't teach you to cook, you're unfortunately left to recipe books and celebrity chefs on TV. The problem is neither of these actually teach you HOW to cook.

The Food Network is the MTV of Food. MTV used to play music, now they're entertainment ABOUT music. The Food Network is entertainment ABOUT food, they don't teach anyone to cook.

Neither will you learn how to cook from a book. Written recipes won't teach you to cook any more than having sheet music will teach you to play piano. There are too many variables in recipes that always lead to frustration.

The best way to free yourself from recipes and cook like a chef at home is to examine the basic cooking methods. When you learn HOW to saute, broil, grill, roast, then you can create your own recipes from what you have on hand.

Knowing HOW to cook anything is a skill that will save you time, money at the grocery store, improve your health, reunite your family over dinner, eat a greater variety of foods, and have this skill for the rest of your life.

Chef Todd Mohr
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05:32 PM on 06/13/2011
I'm not sure that's entirely true. Neither my mom nor my grandmother taught me to cook, as my mom was a harried single mother that used to cook out of necessity only and my grandmother hated to cook. I started following recipes out of trusted cookbooks like Better Homes and Gardens and learned over time to add what spices and other ingredients to add to create my touch. I'm not a chef by any means, but I like to cook and my food comes out tasting pretty good. I've had my epic failures just like anyone else, but I know my boundaries and rarely attempt anything that requires fancy kitchen equipment that I don't have or ingredients I've never heard of. I do ok.
11:03 PM on 06/14/2011
I agree with you Todd, and your piano analogy is spot on. A good deal of cooking is handicraft, involving much sense or feel gained only through hands on experience. Look at knife skills, something the tyro chef works at everyday to hone and master. Picking up the knife is the only way.
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Anthony Garnett
11:24 AM on 06/13/2011
I don't see what the big deal is cooking should be part of the life skills your parents teach. My mother taught me how to cook at the age of 5.
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10:28 AM on 06/13/2011
9. Relaxation. There's nothing as relaxing as pouring a glass of wine, and erasing the stress of the day as garlic simmers.

10. Man toys. Every guy likes tools. We love whirling danger, things that spin, chop, and wield fire.

11. It keeps your Facebook posts from being boring. Lord knows we don't live a flashy lifestyle, but I get so many comment on observations about food and posts about what I'm cooking for dinner.

12. It enhances restaurant dining. As I've become a better cook, I've become more discriminating in terms of palate. Sometimes, I'm pretty sure I can cook as well as the cooks at restaurants I've visited, and will try to replicate dishes. And even when they're way out of my league, my wife and I can try to parse how the chef made the dish. I can discuss why making a good demi-glace is too time-consuming to try at home, or try to figure out some hidden spice component of the soup, but at any rate we're rarely at a loss for something to talk about.

13. Because you can be sophisticated. I love nothing better than a good burger on the grill, but sometimes it's fun to show off knowledge of gastronomy that reveal that more refined palate. Because it's sorta cool to be the guy who can work all day with a chainsaw, clean up, and make my wife another dinner that she raves over.
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11:52 PM on 06/12/2011
I have no respect for men who can't cook. We eat at least three times a day and to have to rely on someone else to put that food in front of you is just ignorant. Men eat peanut butter sandwiches and endless bowls of cereal simply because they're too lazy to put in a little more effort and have something wonderful. I don't get it. They keep the Ramen noodle people in business.
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osofar
America once was Exceptional
08:08 AM on 06/14/2011
Ramen wasn't built in a day. You would be appalled at how many Chinese men and women students in the universities can cook (almost none). Parents do it all for their children.
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benji85
10:21 PM on 06/14/2011
I've been in the grocery store and either in front of or behind a woman who has nothing but pre-made food a number of times. It's just sad that there are people who don't know or want to know how to cook.
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11:40 PM on 06/12/2011
One of my favorites is creme of carrot soup using a chicken base with sauteed shallots, leeks, some creme, topped off with a sprinkle of fresh chives and a shot of Sherry. Yum, yum.
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Peter Combs
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10:41 PM on 06/12/2011
looking back over the years, it seems more single men know how to cook than single women.
10:30 PM on 06/12/2011
It's true that men cooking impresses women but only because so few men cook in the first place. Women do too much of the work anyway and they appreciate it if someone is looking after them for a change.
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12:42 AM on 06/13/2011
Ain't that the truth.....I have been married for thirty years and I really appreciate eating a meal that I don't cook myself. My husband isn't a fancy cook but I appreciate all his efforts.
yappnmutt
humping legs for liberty
09:55 PM on 06/12/2011
if you want to eat well and good, you better learn how to cook. that goes for women, too. i taught my wife how to cook. we only eat out for occasional convenience and the lure of something unique. restaurants, in general, can match our food.
yappnmutt
humping legs for liberty
12:03 AM on 06/13/2011
that is "can't match our food"
09:36 PM on 06/12/2011
Please all you guys out there.... learn to cook! Know some cool kitchen gadgets and HOW to use them too. I detest a guy looking to me to cook dazzling dishes. Dazzle me once in a while and don't expect me to feed you just because I wear a skirt. I already have a child, and she just might be able to cook better than you because I've taught her so well. Wouldn't it be embarrassing to be shown up by a 13 year old?