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What Happens When It Doesn't Get Better? My Modest Proposal

Posted: 11/ 4/2011 3:15 pm

Disclaimer: Before discussing my controversial legal analysis and claim, please understand -- explicitly -- that I am not advocating for anyone to bring guns to school, let alone to use those guns there. Instead, I am making a legal analysis that is, in part, a satirical parody, and, in part, based on the arguable current state of the law. The last thing that I want is another Columbine. But pretty much next to that, the last thing that I want is another queer kid succumbing to suicide as a result of school bullying.

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With that provocative introduction and disclaimer, slightly over a month ago, Buffalo's Jamey Rodemeyer, a bullied openly gay student, killed himself because of the unrelenting nature of school bullying.

Last week, a cellphone video capture and subsequent Facebook post of a beat-down of a gay student at Union-Scioto High School in Chillicothe, Ohio went viral. Stemming in part from having obtained my law degree less than a 50-mile drive from Union-Scioto High School, at Ohio State -- a college I attended because I could study under Professor Rhonda Rivera, a founder of gay rights law -- I'm familiar with Chillicothe and Ohio and how sexual minorities can be treated there.

After graduating, working, and earning an advanced degree from Harvard, in August 2010 I became a law professor in Orange County, California, at the highly diverse Western State University College of Law.

The obvious part of a law professor's job is to teach. But another part of our job involves researching and proposing solutions to important legal matters, often relating to our teaching areas. My teaching area is business law, and last August, I had been researching obscure provisions of the thrilling Dodd-Frank Wall Street Reform and Consumer Protection Act.

But only a month into my stint as a business law professor, at least nine GLBTQ teen students succumbed to suicides correlated with school bullying (collectively, "bullycides"). I asked my Dean if I could shift my research to the pressing issue of sexual minority youths succumbing to bullycide. Thankfully, he agreed, and I dove into nearly all of the historical legal writings, court cases, and laws affecting this issue.

What I found was horrifying, prolonged, and systematic. Historically, the solutions that lawyers, law professors, and other gay rights advocates generally proposed amounted to ineffective frameworks, based largely on inapplicable civil rights laws. Currently, many gay rights advocates call for stronger anti-bullying laws as the fashionable panacea of the day.

But anti-bullying laws don't work. A 2009 Arkansas court decision perhaps best demonstrates why. There, teen student Billy Wolfe endured school bullying (also captured via a cellphone camera), obtained a lawyer, and sued under the state's anti-bullying law.

Yet despite plentiful evidence of bullying, the judge rejected Billy's claims. In fact, quoting the court's opinion, Billy's "claim for deprivation of the right not to bullied" was -- emphasized in all bolded caps -- "DISMISSED WITH PREJUDICE." And Billy didn't even identify as being gay.

Here in California, our state's much heralded anti-bullying legislation did nothing to prevent openly gay teen Seth Walsh from becoming one of 2010's "September's Children." Despite approximately 45 states maintaining some sort of anti-bullying laws, these laws contain broad exceptions and exemptions, leaving anti-bullying laws ineffective when applied, as partly evidenced by the more than 250,000 students who generally report physical attacks against them monthly. Shortly after one state enacted its anti-bullying law, nearly half of surveyed schools reported no bullying for that school year, although many students reported avoiding those precise schools out of personal safety concerns.

Worse, many states have compulsory attendance laws, often making it a crime for students to stay away from school, thus urging bullied students, through the coercive threat of state force, to go, day-after-day, to the very place where they're subjected to repeated and intolerable physical violence. My research discovered that, too often, teachers ignore, promote, or participate in the bullying towards sexual minority students. And evidence suggests that police, courts, and the juvenile justice system are not eager to help gay youth, either.

As a result, here's what we generally know hasn't worked to protect sexual minority students from the school bullying that leads to bullycide: civil rights laws, anti-bullying laws, police, courts, the juvenile justice system, parents who throw their kids out of the house for being a sexual minority, religious institutions that choose inflammatory language over love, media that do not portray the graphic detail and prolonged nature of bullying, the legal academy, and psychological and medical professionals who are unprepared to treat sexual minority youths. And public schools -- as government actors -- have failed of their essential function to protect peaceful students from the initiation of harm and to provide all students a safe learning environment. Thus, a systematic failure to protect sexual minority youths exists.

Because of this systematic failure, and because of an understood socially conservative reliance on a political strategy of "God, Guns, and Gays," I constructed a modest proposal based on that strategy that would hoist social conservatives by their own petard.

First, by employing the religio-moral theory known as the "lesser evil doctrine," religious conservatives can call gay youth inherently evil sinners until the cows come home, but a queer kid defensively killing one's bully represents the lesser evil compared with the evils of either committing suicide or being gay. Legal theory reflects the lesser evil doctrine via the Model Penal Code.

With morals (God) now on my argument's side, I believe that the two most recent Supreme Court cases involving the Second Amendment's fundamental right to bear arms (Guns) legitimize bullycidal sexual minority students (Gays) to legally bear arms at school and to use guns defensively.

As a result, the socially conservative mantra of "God, Guns, and Gays" can arguably be turned on its head and used as a legitimate potential weapon to reduce anti-gay bullycides.

In fewer than two weeks, I'll be on several panels at the University of Maryland School of Law's Symposium addressing LGBT Youth and anti-bullying policies and advancing my modest proposal.

Following decades of pacifism in the face of systematic violent beatings, gays' self-defensive use of force in 1969 to repel government-initiated violence at the Stonewall Inn sparked what many consider as the creation of the modern GLBT-rights movement. Somewhat similarly, following decades of pacifism by sexual minority students in the face of bullying, embracing the socially conservative God, Guns, and Gays strategy that is now arguably available after the Supreme Court's recent Heller and McDonald decisions, may, perhaps, modestly lead to a new age Stonewall for the current generation of bullycidal sexual minority students.

 

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Disclaimer: Before discussing my controversial legal analysis and claim, please understand -- explicitly -- that I am not advocating for anyone to bring guns to school, let alone to use those guns the...
Disclaimer: Before discussing my controversial legal analysis and claim, please understand -- explicitly -- that I am not advocating for anyone to bring guns to school, let alone to use those guns the...
 
 
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06:16 PM on 11/07/2011
I was extremely fortunate that my parents recognized my incapacity to deal with the bullying. When I was thirteen, they gave up good jobs and moved the whole family so I could start fresh in a new school. In the first few weeks, the bullying was starting all over again. I was so desperate that one day I turned on one of the bullies and screamed and punched wildly until the teacher broke us up. I got the strap and so did he (corporal punishment was still allowed.) But that was enough of a defense that the bullying subsided. I believe that attempts to legislate the end of bullying are misguided and actually take away our power to deal with the real problem. We do not put enough effort into helping every individual develop the strength and courage to stand up for themselves. We do not encourage each other to help those who are weak. We stand by and leave this to the experts. Of course this approach would be totally unacceptable in a world that wants a meak and compliant workforce to do the bidding of the rich and powerful without complaint for pitiful wages. So we are fooled into believing that somehow authority figures will stop the bullying when they are the ones who benefit most from being bullies.
06:15 PM on 11/07/2011
I was ten when the bullying started in school. This was not because I am gay, but because I was a "four-eyes", a skinny, brainy new kid in small town. The other kids picked on anyone who stood out for any reason and who wouldn't defend themselves. Bullying is a natural and elemental pattern of behaviour that has evolved to develop survival skills in all species and humans are no exception. It is not a good thing: it is a necessary thing for survival. We should be compassionate enough to recognize and defend the weak when they don't find the courage to resolve these situations themselves. But all too often we stand on the sidelines or cheer on the bullies out of fear we too may become targets or because we dislike the person being bullied.
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hawaiianstile
all hail the balance of nature.
10:55 AM on 11/07/2011
gay bullying has the same solution as any bullying. and that solution is for the bullied to fight their bullies and hurt them. no, it really is that simple, there is no need for guns or killing here. if bullies are shown that bullying YOU is a PAINFUL endeavor they will stop. had i the means i would organize a free self defense class for these bullied kids.
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lacrosselamore
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12:31 PM on 11/07/2011
It's hardly that simple. Unless you could have taught me to fight like Bruce Lee, how would I have fought off the 3 or 4 that would gang up on me? what if the bully has more martial arts training than me? Bullies rarely work alone or pick on someone who is bigger than they are.
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hawaiianstile
all hail the balance of nature.
03:09 AM on 11/08/2011
thats the thing, you dont need to win the fight. while thats always the hope its not that important that you actually win, only that you fight. all you have to do is hurt them, badly but not permanently (dont want to run in to trouble yourself). if you consistently make them suffer for picking on you they will eventually decide its not worth it. thats all you have to do. they start trouble you punch them right in the jaw and then you fight as best you can. do that every time they try something, and they will stop. and you will feel very good believe me, few things top a good fighting high.
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08:20 AM on 11/07/2011
The difference between gay bullying and general bullyingg is that gay bullying exists everywhere, at all times, even codified into laws. Prominent respected people, such as religious leaders, incite violence towards gays in their televised hate speech. This tells bullies who to target and that it is acceptable to be violent towards gay people.

Maybe the head of the snake needs to be cut off. Inciting violence towards gay people can no longer be acceptable. and maybe these conveyors of hate speech need some effective hate directed at them to stop their daily war against gay people..
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07:56 AM on 11/07/2011
Bullies will not stop unless forced to by some punishment. Maybe sometimes violence IS the correct approach. These religious people who preach hate against gay people and are the reason behind so much serious violence towards gay people...maybe a taste of their own medicine would be the only thing that stops the incitement to violence that they perpetrate everyday.

Violence is used in wars as a self defense. Gay people are being attacked in a war against them and are entitled to defend themselves. People who fear this will backfire and cause more violence...Maybe in some cases but overall ceasing to be be a passive easy victim will be more productive.
08:26 PM on 11/06/2011
I'm afraid that your sense of humor leaves much to be desired. I enjoy "tongue in cheek" commentary as much as the next person; however, this idea of yours would have been best left in your imagination. There is nothing funny - in any way - about the epidemic of bullying going on in this country. I might also point out that I'm not even talking solely about the bullying of LGBTQ students. Bullies don't need a whole lot of inspiration to make someone else's life miserable FOR ANY REASON.

Instead of trying to be cute, why don't you apply your expertise towards some meaningful solutions to this issue?
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06:28 PM on 11/06/2011
Love this article! I would never advocate for students to carry guns either but how ironic would it be to finally see a bully get what they deserve from one of their victims. The schools are ignoring the bullying problem, the GOTP label's it a "rite of passage" and all the while it gets worse.

I think it would be fascinating to see a case defended under this "lesser evil" doctrine. A win just might be the think to make bullies and their parents stand up and take notice.
10:34 AM on 11/07/2011
Raw violence works. Those who are merciful to the cruel only end up tolerating those individuals being cruel to the merciful. The saying that is still relevant today is "come out swinging". That being said, and acknowledging that this article is satire, one right is denied to the victims of this school violence, defense. In many places students are not allowed to defend themselves, and doing so will subject them to the same punishment as the offender.

Essentially we have told children that they should not resist violence, that they can't defend themselves, and that people see no difference between the bully and the victim. This has to be changed.

Give the students their rights, and give them their responsibilities, and then enforce the rules. Stop the violence, stop allowing schools to be some sort of prison sentence that students hope to survive.
12:17 PM on 11/06/2011
Use guns "defensively" because of a "fundemental" rights? These words can be twisted so easily by a teenager by using a connotative meaning. A Columbine shooting could happen anyway. Also, bullying isn't limited to the sexual minority teens. Read my blog post on bullying if you are interested (see Bullying: A Rant and some Tips): http://artsandyouthlove.wordpress.com/
01:11 PM on 11/06/2011
bulling happens throughout life.......get over it
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practiceempathy
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12:44 PM on 11/07/2011
Having that shrug off attitude is being complicit in the problem.
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draken54
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11:12 AM on 11/06/2011
Interesting idea. I personally believe that the bullies education begins at home. So maybe if the parents are the party that is libel for their child's behavior, either monetarily or in the jail cell next to them, it might have a harder impact.
01:12 PM on 11/06/2011
sure it will ........laughing
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03:23 PM on 11/06/2011
It couldn't hurt.
09:53 AM on 11/06/2011
I get that this problem is tragic, alarming and really demands that all of society come together address it.

However, I don't think your proposal gets at the place where effective change can happen.

As I consider a young person who might be at-risk for "bullicide" I am thinking about what tools we can offer that person, that would help them weather the crisis. I don't think weapons are that solution.

I think this about helping young people develop their inherent internal resources. I think this is a Spiritual crisis. The young person in question is being told he is "less than" or "unworthy".

If he internalizes this notion, he is in grave trouble. He needs to be shown how to push back on this belief, within his own mind. He needs to gain the understanding that he is radiant, holy and that his essential being is Love. He is all this, already, without doing anything or accomplishing anything.

The caring adults in this persons life, can help model this, and expose this person to writings and ideas that support this view.

This person who is being unfairly targeted, is a warrior, but a spiritual one.
He is charged with standing up and shining in all of his glory, despite what any external situation or person tells him about himself.

There are many examples in history to draw on. One of my favorites is Jackie Robinson.
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05:39 AM on 11/06/2011
An Excellant example of a Mr. Groshoff's Instruction here can be viewed in a very Recent, watered down, Anti- bullying Law passed by the the Michigan Legislature. The Law, in fact allows for one's defence, a bullying subject, to avoid Prosecution on the Religious grounds. Historic, but I would bet Unconstitional. The Law, a guide book to ( Bullying, and how to get away with it ). A Dream study for Mr. Groshoff. A openly Discriminatory practice Built in Legislation. See Gretchen Whitimer, Democratic State Senator speak on floor about her disgust. A Note for further interesting study, Both Michigan Chambers of Government and the Governors Office, are heavily dominated by, and you guessed it, Republicians.
01:13 PM on 11/06/2011
good glad to hear that
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SteveDenver
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03:55 AM on 11/06/2011
Excellent article and worth reading completely. In case you don't, this sentence stuck out to me as the heart of the issue:
"public schools -- as government actors -- have failed of their essential function to protect peaceful students from the initiation of harm and to provide all students a safe learning environment"

The focus is on sexual minority youth, but the problem is widespread and damaging.
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02:02 AM on 11/06/2011
Why not just push for *strict* enforcement of assault and aggravated assault charges against bullies, whether they have anything to with anyone being gay or not?

Instead of adding new laws to the books, which as you've shown, judges might not want to enforce, use the old tried and true laws that are already in place - which they'll have no reason to not enforce.
12:24 AM on 11/06/2011
This is an institutionalized problem- modern day high schools are no better than jails- that calls for systemic change. As a teacher, I believe that education is a privileged to be earned. If you can't earn in through good behavior and respect for all, you should have no rights to it. My proposal is that we get these bullies out of our schools and put them to work for our country- in the United State Military. Let them bully people who have the means to fight back.
09:55 PM on 11/05/2011
A fair number of posts relate how people ended bullying by fighting back. None seem to recount how passivity or gentleness won over the bully. Can we all finally admit the "violence always begets violence" meme is definitively disproven?

In Greek mythology, Athena, goddess of wisdom, is portrayed as a warrior. Weird. Didn't they have another god, Mars, for that? Mars represented the animal ferocity of war. Athena represented the rational use of force.

Those who live by the sword, that is, rely on violence as their primary way of achieving their ends, die by the sword. But use of force to stop violence or oppression is not mindless or irrational. Those who live by the sword, die by the sword, and very often it's wielded by someone left with no other alternative.