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Dreamers and Realists: TV's 'Modern Family' and Obama-Romney

Posted: 07/27/2012 1:34 pm

Cameron from the TV show Modern Family once said that "There are dreamers and there are realists in this world." He was right.

Leadership comes in many forms. There are realists, dreamers, and there are combinations of the two. President Obama, for example, is a dreamer. George W. Bush was a realist. And Bill Clinton was a mix of the two.

Obama has always been able to mobilize large crowds and as a visionary he speaks to many Americans' idealistic tendencies. President Bush on the contrary could not mobilize large crowds like Obama but his ability to convey realistic solutions to problems (whether popular or not) was concrete and often overt and concise. Bill Clinton not only dreamt big but also governed in the middle, where he was able to turn dreams into reality for many.

George H.W. Bush was a realist but less concrete than his son. But Reagan, like Clinton, was also a hybrid: He was a great communicator, actually the "Great Communicator" and then worked with a Democratic Congress to try and find bipartisan solutions. And then there was Jimmy Carter, arguably neither a realist nor a dreamer, as he had trouble both commanding crowds and implementing change.

As you can hopefully determine by now, such categorizations are simply my own opinions. Historians categorize presidents all the time -- and I am no historian. But try and see if you notice a trend so far.

Gerald Ford did not have much time in office but his immediate pardon of Richard Nixon demonstrated early on that he was a determined individual with realistic tendencies. He followed Nixon who in some ways was both a realist and a dreamer. Nixon, easily demonized, dreamt of and created the EPA (could you imagine a Republican President doing the same today?) but also carefully managed diplomatic relations by opening relations with China (concrete).

Lyndon Johnson was a sure-footed realist. He knew his mission: to carry out John Kennedy's dreams. It was Kennedy who was the dreamer, Johnson the enforcer. If Kennedy had lived longer, would he have been a hybrid?

Dwight Eisenhower was also a realist. He built the interstate highway system and led Americans in war before assuming the presidency. Truman, a realist too, made one of the most challenging decisions as a leader by choosing to drop the atomic bomb to end the war. And Franklin Roosevelt was like Reagan and Clinton. He dreamt of new social programs to lead us out of the depression and then he worked to implement them.

So notice the trend: realists often follow dreamers or dreamers often follow realists (what comes first is like the chicken or the egg phenomenon). But why?

Maybe it's because we, as Americans, love to dream. Yet often when we do, we discover that the heights we reach are simple plateaus and not mountaintops. Then, possibly in our disappointment, we search for realists to bring us back to earth.

Barack Obama is a dreamer and Mitt Romney, a realist.

So the question now is, do we want four more years of a dreamer?

As Cameron from Modern Family continues, he says: "... the dreamers need the realists to keep them from soaring too close to the sun. And the realists... well, without the dreamers, they might never get off the ground."

With the next four years in mind, how close to the sun do you want to be?

 

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Cameron from the TV show Modern Family once said that "There are dreamers and there are realists in this world." He was right. Leadership comes in many forms. There are realists, dreamers, and there ...
Cameron from the TV show Modern Family once said that "There are dreamers and there are realists in this world." He was right. Leadership comes in many forms. There are realists, dreamers, and there ...
 
 
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08:52 AM on 07/30/2012
I don't agree. Obama is a grown up that is trying to pull the country in the direction of the rest of the civilized world...like issues of healthcare and not provoking foreign countries. If realism is Bush, we don't need that realism...it costs too many lives and $$.
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William Gaskill
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03:33 PM on 07/29/2012
Continuing in the same vein, this would all be a good article if we were talking about the garden variety Republicans of the Reagan era. The problem is, Romney is one of the dregs of the party, which had many of their "best" (moderate, most-electable, etc.) not want to run. The only reason that Romney made it this far, is because of the circus and it's performers called the Republican debates - where Romney looked like an actual sane person. Unfortunately, there are only 2 ways that Republicans can get into office right now: Cut down Obama (not democrats, but the president) so that their candidate wins - this is called the "lesser of 2 evils" election strategy; or put somebody up for the election that is more middle-of-the-road and will actually stay middle-of-the-road (We don't know what Romney is, because he's changed his stance so much on so many things).
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shryock
It never is what it is anymore
01:32 PM on 07/29/2012
Poor Dubya was not a realist. He was a concretist, which is very different.
A realist sees reality, including in idea form.
A concretist cannot imagine, cannot process or understand non-physical ideas.
Dubya could not grasp theory, only concrete form.
Not a good trait for a leader.
Jay Haney
My nuclear family imploded when I was 18. I've bee
10:13 PM on 07/29/2012
Actually, I think the word you are looking for is "ideologue", which is about as concrete as you get in a personal viewpoint.
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shryock
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07:43 AM on 07/30/2012
Maybe. But I would argue that an ideologue must be able to grasp and hold an idea that is based on abstract thinking. Not sure Dubya could do that. I think he was not able to process anything he could not see, feel, or experience in the physical world.

Example, he talked a great deal about "freedom", which is an ideology.
What he meant was "stuff I want to do," which is concrete.
He did not mean "stuff you want to do," which is abstract.
Not sure he understood the abstract concept of "freedom" in a real sense.
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shryock
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01:27 PM on 07/29/2012
According to the article, "President Bush on the contrary could not mobilize large crowds like Obama but his ability to convey realistic solutions to problems (whether popular or not) was concrete and often overt and concise."

And wrong. Just because something solves a problem, that does not mean it is the correct solution.
Especially when world politics are involved.
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MikeW CA
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12:05 PM on 07/29/2012
Do we want four more years of a dreamer? Or do we want to abandon our dreams for America forever?
Jay Haney
My nuclear family imploded when I was 18. I've bee
10:14 PM on 07/29/2012
The 20th Century dreams Romney is promising voters are as empty as any he ever made to workers of companies he bought out through Bain Capitol. He gets in, expect him to fail on making good on any of them.
Jay Haney
My nuclear family imploded when I was 18. I've bee
12:54 AM on 07/29/2012
Calling Romney a realist is like calling a mugger a performance artist.
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shryock
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01:28 PM on 07/29/2012
Now see, I was going to be a mugger and call myself a performance artist, but you've just ruined that career path.
Jay Haney
My nuclear family imploded when I was 18. I've bee
08:51 PM on 07/29/2012
LOL So sorry to dash your dreams but I am certain that Romney will be joining you in November.
08:55 AM on 07/30/2012
Agreed. His reality is a parellel universe that the 99% will never see thanks to the nonprogressive policies of the last 30 years.
10:48 PM on 07/28/2012
No offense, but this was not a good article. McCain was the dreamer if he thought he could make things better by doubling down on Bush's policies. Obama was the realist who said we needed to end the Iraq War and focus on al qaeda which we did. He expanded gay rights. He recognized the need to fix health care and he did that. These were not dreams; they were made into reality. He said we needed gov't stimulus to get the recovery going, and he was proven right by its success.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/ezra-klein/post/four-out-of-five-economists-agree-the-stimulus-created-jobs/2011/08/25/gIQAb1CbPR_blog.html

And the fact that you believe we dropped the H-bomb, which was not invented until the 50s, on Japan shows that you are misinformed about basic historical facts.
Jay Haney
My nuclear family imploded when I was 18. I've bee
10:16 PM on 07/29/2012
In my view and probably that of many GOP powerbrokers, Obama belongs to one of the "dangerous dreamers" category spelled out by T.E. Laurence aka Laurence of Arabia. He spelled out how those types of dreamers make those dreams reality, which is scary shit for people who only know the status quo.
08:56 AM on 07/30/2012
Nice post
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littlebrowngirl
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10:32 PM on 07/28/2012
If Romney were a realist, he would not be running for president. Romney, in fact, is dreaming if he thinks he will ever get into the white house without releasing his tax returns.
10:15 PM on 07/28/2012
This is one of the most off base articles I've read in a long time. When GW won his second term my daughter and I predicted what would happen and she felt the voters would deserved what they got. Well it happened and here we are - doing the same stupid thing again by even considering Romney as a candidate. I'll be dead by the time the US digs out of the hole he'll put us in should he get elected. Dubya- a realist. He couldn't even think for himself. I think this author oes not want to take a close look at Obama's accomplishments DESPITE having the worst Congress in history to work with.
Jay Haney
My nuclear family imploded when I was 18. I've bee
10:18 PM on 07/29/2012
The day after the 2004 Election, I wrote a Post-It Note with a quote that I pulled from one of White Wolf's World of Darkness sourcebooks because it matched my mood so well: "Congratulations, citizens. You've just volunteered for Hell." In all likelihood, we're going to be seeing a reversed polarity run at Obama this time, with the Dem holding onto his office and Romney failing to make a dent. Romney's non-stop mouth will take him out soon enough, judging from recent events.
06:50 PM on 07/28/2012
Romney= W's THIRD TERM
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Tracy Amos
05:53 PM on 07/28/2012
Yes the Hope & Change thing was just a dream, an unfortunate illusion! Romney 2012!
Lynette
Liberals have a lot more fun!
03:32 PM on 07/28/2012
"Barack Obama is a dreamer and Mitt Romney, a realist."

No, Mitt Romney is a fat cat vulture capitalist. He will say and do anything to get ahead and keep his money. Bottom line, Mr. Romney loves his money. He said if he knew he had to disclose his tax returns he would not have run. He loves his money first and foremost. There is nothing wrong with that...I just won't be voting for him.
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Madmann
Madness takes its toll. Please have exact change.
01:22 PM on 07/28/2012
You have got to be kidding me.

You have the stones to label W a realist? The guy who thought it was a great idea to start two wars (off the books) AND give out a huge tax cut? Something that has never been done by any leader, anywhere, at any time, because.... it's pretty close to the dumbest idea of all time? That one?

This crisis was decades in the making. It's going to take more than 3½ years (with a minority party filibustering everything) to fix. Sorry if you've been brainf*cked by sitcoms into thinking every problem can be solved in 26 minutes and everything goes back to normal at the end of every episode. You should probably watch less TV.

I eagerly await your next article about how we should alter the electoral process so that it uses 1-800 numbers like American Idol.