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Misogyny, Moralism and the Woman at the Well

Posted: 03/21/11 01:05 AM ET

She is not a prostitute. She doesn't have a shady past. Yet when millions of Christians listen to her story this coming Sunday in church, they are likely to hear their preachers describe her in just those terms.

Her story is told in the fourth chapter of the Gospel According to John. She is a Samaritan woman who Jesus encounters by a well. Jews and Samaritans don't get along, and women and men in this culture generally keep a safe social distance from each other. So she is doubly surprised when Jesus asks her for a drink. When she makes a remark to that effect, he offers her living water. Confused, but intrigued, she asks about this miraculous water. He eventually invites her to call her husband, and when she replies that she has no husband, he agrees: "You have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband" (4:18).

And that's it. That's the sentence that has branded her a prostitute. Conservative preacher John Piper's treatment is characteristic. In a sermon on this passage, he describes her as "a worldly, sensually-minded, unspiritual harlot from Samaria," and at another point in the sermon calls her a "whore."

Yet there is nothing in the passage that makes this an obvious interpretation. Neither John as narrator nor Jesus as the central character supply that information. Jesus at no point invites repentance or, for that matter, speaks of sin at all. She very easily could have been widowed or have been abandoned or divorced (which in the ancient world was pretty much the same thing for a woman). Five times would be heartbreaking, but not impossible. Further, she could now be living with someone that she was dependent on, or be in what's called a Levirate marriage (where a childless woman is married to her deceased husband's brother in order to produce an heir yet is not always technically considered the brother's wife). There are any number of ways, in fact, that one might imagine this woman's story as tragic rather than scandalous, yet most preacher's assume the latter.

The difficulty with that interpretation is that it trips up the rest of the story. Immediately after Jesus describes her past, she says, "I see that you are a prophet" and asks him where one should worship. If you believe the worst of her, this is nothing more than a clumsy attempt to change the topic. But if you can imagine another scenario, things look different. "Seeing" in John, it's crucial to note, is all-important. "To see" is often connected with belief. When the woman says, "I see you are a prophet," she is making a confession of faith.

Why? Because Jesus has "seen" her. He has seen her plight -- of dependence, not immorality. He has recognized her, spoken with her, offered her something of incomparable worth. He has seen her -- she exists for him, has worth, value, significance and all of this is treatment to which she is unaccustomed. And so when he speaks of her past both knowingly and compassionately, she realizes she is in the presence of a prophet. For this reason only does she risk the central question that has divided Samaritans and Jews for centuries. This is no awkward dodge or academic diversion; this is a heartfelt question that gets to the core of what separates her from Jesus. And when Jesus surprises her with an answer that is simultaneously more hopeful and penetrating than she'd expected, she leaves her water jar behind to tell her neighbors about this man.

So if this seems at least as probable an interpretation as the more routine one, why do so many preachers assume the worst of her? I would suggest two reasons. First, there is a long history of misogyny in Christian theology that stands in sharp contrast to the important role women play in the gospels themselves. Women, the four evangelists testify, supported Jesus' ministry. They were present at the tomb when their male companions fled. And they were the first witnesses to the resurrection. Yet from asserting that Eve was the one who succumbed to temptation (conveniently ignoring that the author of Genesis says Adam was right there with her -- Gen. 3:6) to assuming this Samaritan woman must be a prostitute, there is the ugly taint of chauvinism present in too much Christian preaching, perhaps particularly so in those traditions that refuse to recognize the equality of women to preach and teach with the same authority as men.

(I recognize this penchant is not unique to Christians. Remember Dan Brown's The Da Vinci Code? Given all his celebration of the "Feminine Divine," it's striking to note that he had only two female characters in his lengthy novel -- the love interest of his alter ego symbologist and an elderly nun who survives for all of two pages. So apparently secular humanists can be chauvinists too!)

A second reason preachers cast this woman in the role of prostitute is that it plays into the belief that Christianity, and religion generally, is chiefly about morality. Treating the Bible as one long, if peculiar, Goofus & Gallant cartoon, we read every story we find in terms of sin and forgiveness, moral depravity and repentance. But this story is not about immorality; it's about identity. In the previous scene, Jesus was encountered by a male Jewish religious authority who could not comprehend who or what Jesus was. In this scene, he encounters the polar opposite, and perhaps precisely because she is at the other end of the power spectrum, she recognizes not just who Jesus is but what he offers -- dignity. Jesus invites her to not be defined by her circumstances and offers her an identity that lifts her above her tragedy. And she accepts, playing a unique role in Jesus' ministry as she is the first character in John's gospel to seek out others to tell them about Jesus.

If preachers can rise above the misogyny and moralism that characterizes too much Christian theology, they have the opportunity to tell this woman's story for what it is: a story of the transforming power of love and the capacity to receive and live into a new identity. By doing so, preachers won't just be talking about this woman any more, they'll also be talking to and about us. And that's a sermon I, for one, would like to hear.

Note: My thanks to Karoline Lewis for a very helpful conversation on this passage that prompted this reflection.

 
 
 
She is not a prostitute. She doesn't have a shady past. Yet when millions of Christians listen to her story this coming Sunday in church, they are likely to hear their preachers describe her in just t...
She is not a prostitute. She doesn't have a shady past. Yet when millions of Christians listen to her story this coming Sunday in church, they are likely to hear their preachers describe her in just t...
 
 
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01:12 PM on 04/04/2011
The author makes the same mistake that he accuses others of making: he reads too much into the story. His opening two sentences are, "She is not a prostitute. She doesn't have a shady past." But how does he know that? All we know is that she's been with 6 different men. So yes, we don't know for sure that she HAS had a shady past — but — we also don't know that she did NOT have a shady past. She may have. Even he would have to admit this. We have limited information; we simply don't know.

So I think that both the pastor who says, "She IS a prostitute!" and the author who says, "She is NOT a prostitute!" are both asserting things that they don't know for sure and should both be more careful.
10:24 PM on 03/26/2011
The perspective of "identity" also fits with the Old Testament reading of the Israelites wandering and complaining in the desert - wanting to return to their old identity.

Thanks so much for helping to redeem the Samaritan woman!
09:07 PM on 03/26/2011
Thanks for this article and for the different perspective about the woman at the well. What you've written here it accurate. After hearing this bible story dozens of times in my three-plus decades as a Christ follower, she has been presumed a hussie by more preachers than not. It is really a glimpse into the lack of scholarship and reflection upon the possibilities of who she is which is really a betrayal of how we view God.
04:39 PM on 03/25/2011
Beautiful. Thanks.
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07:36 AM on 03/25/2011
How could a story of redemption at a well be considered misogyny in any respect? The author criticizes one set of assumptions because they cannot be proved and then makes his own that are equally speculative. The point of the story is that we are all God's children and all of the previous divisions will be laid low. There is no doubt that Jesus gave this same message to both Widows and Prostitutes and Non Jews in scripture. It seems the author is taking issue with one very small, non essential point; making mountains of molehills. We most certainly know that a single man speaking privately with a woman of ambiguous marital status at the hottest time of day at a well would most certainly be scandalous for a religious teacher (wells are a place of biblical romance and an interaction of this type might even be considered scandalous today!

It is most likely that the anonymous Samaritan woman at the well is a composite of the various women at the well scenarios in the Hebrew Bible any way. Perhaps the author hasn't considered how the narrater came to know the intimate details of the story in the first place? This is most likely not first hand accounting! Jesus would not embarrass in this way. Even more scandalous, we should be recalling images of Hagaar (a maidservant given over to her mistresses husband only to be rejected and left for dead as a non chosen one) rather than a prostitute.
09:01 PM on 03/24/2011
Interesting exegesis! We must read carefully without preconceived perceptions
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07:05 PM on 03/24/2011
Misogyny, no matter what it's couched in is misogyny. The bible is full of it, and women have been suffering from it ever since. The women still suffer to this day, one way or another. Somehow patriarchy has rooted itself to our laws, today. Misogyny still rules, there is a war now, on women and women's rights, right here in this so called free country. The separation between church and state is getting narrower and narrower. All because of a book of fables written by the ignorant for the ignorant of their times. How it can still hold sway here in the 21st century, is beyond me, but it does. To the detrimental effect it has on a truly free non-biased government for all citizens regardless of race, religion or lack of religion, color, gender, gays included, citizenry.
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07:46 AM on 03/25/2011
Or it could be that men are bigger than women and tend to use force on people who might have something the want or who might threaten by being considered superior in every other way? If I were a betting man I would put my money on the fact that men are selfish and people are more likely to take as much as they can get with the least possible cost. In a world of survival of the fittest, might makes right until some equal and opposing factor comes along. the Bible actual mitigates some, but not all of that impulse by the way.

Care to review the history of misogyny among the non religious? Care to discuss how this story has impacted the relative well being and freedom of women?
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11:46 AM on 03/24/2011
"And when Jesus surprises her with an answer that is simultaneously more hopeful and penetrating than she'd expected, she leaves her water jar behind to tell her neighbors about this man."

Ok, I'm not a bible scholar...what was his answer? Did I miss it in the article?
11:35 AM on 03/25/2011
The woman asks Jesus the proper place to worship God (the mountain in Samaria or the temple in Jerusalem) and Jesus says the time is coming when all will worship God in spirit and truth. She responds by saying she already knows that someday the Messiah (God's annointed) will come. Jesus tells her that she is speaking to that very one right now. So she leaves her jar behind to tell he neighbors about this man.
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12:09 PM on 03/26/2011
I wonder sometimes if these stories are marketing spins...I can very easily see this woman going to the neighbors and say "he thinks he's the Messiah...can you believe the weirdos that you meet at the well these days..." ;)

Thanks for the answer.
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04:24 PM on 03/23/2011
I hope nobody is surprised. The same thing has been done to Mary Magdalene and the woman in Mark 14 who poured perfume on Jesus feet. Always they are said by priests, preachers, and lay leaders that these women were worldly, prostitutes, or just bad women. Jesus saved the day for them. Never will you hear that they were godly, wholesome women.
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bsmithslo
07:53 AM on 03/25/2011
So that biblical authors place Jesus with prostitutes rather than regular people because they want the women to look bad? -- the Christian New Testament was written as an attempt to gain new converts towards Christianity. The purpose of the books were to promote Christ. Logically speaking, would it be better to increase or decrease the relative status of Jesus's acquaintances to achieve that goal from your perspective?
10:23 AM on 03/23/2011
This may already have been mentioned in the 302 comments that I don't have the time to read, but the claim that this woman "is the first character in John's gospel to seek out others to tell them about Jesus" is simply wrong. In John 1:43-46, Philip seeks out his friend Nathanael to tell him about Jesus. I'm as much a fan of women's gospel proclamation as the next person, but that's no excuse for sloppy exegesis!
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03:01 AM on 03/23/2011
Show me a nerd that doesn't get any and you'll find a book telling you not to do it. So she liked getting banged. Big deal. Hey Mary wasn't conceived immaculately and neither was any other person in the Bible. So guess how they were made? With a glass of wine and Barry Hashim singing in the background....awwww yeah.
06:29 PM on 03/22/2011
Congratulations on your gymnastic attempt to twist an example of confronting sin so that salvation truth might be shared into some kind of feminist rhetoric. Jesus also confronted men about their sins as well. The fact she had five previous husbands and was living with a man in sexual immorality is the least of what is going on here. Notice his response in verse 14 to the example of her sin was to offer eternal life to WHOEVER drinks of His living water. That's open to men and women. It also implies both men and women are in need of Jesus.
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04:26 PM on 03/23/2011
His point is that scripture doesn't say that at all. It only says she has had five husbands and is living in the same domicile with a man to whom she is not married. That does not equal sin.
09:15 AM on 03/24/2011
She could have been living with a brother, uncle, cousin or son. But it's far easier for those who preach hate rather than love to condemn her as a harlot. I have never understood this need in some to condemn or preach hate and fear when in fact Jesus was about forgiveness, love and compassion. Perhaps those preachers of fire and brimstone and condemnation should revisit the Bible and this time read it.
09:57 PM on 03/25/2011
Clearly she was trying to avoid the truth of her situation by telling a half-truth. Jesus called her out on it when He said 'the one whom you now have'. Whom is connected to the word translated husband in her previous response. This refers to the man she is now with who is not her husband. If the discussion was about her brother/father then a single word to that affect would have removed any ambiguity. If Jesus was not confronting her on some level about her sexual sin then the whole dialog is superfluous.
05:09 PM on 03/22/2011
To far, far too many who call themselves christian, sex and sin are synonomous and all else is easily forgiven.
03:48 PM on 03/22/2011
David Lose (continued). Key 8 shows the ‘higher’ female controlling this lion of nature = psyche. This is done with the lemniscate, the horizontal 8, the third eye--wild beasts will no longer kill or 'burn' Venus as the 'male' psyche-in-action (as compared to the passive, female psyche of mass consciousness = prostitute). The soul = psyche is born female and becomes active 'male' in the few, when Mariam M'Gadola, emerges from the 'waters' of the mass consciousness as the true individual. The inorganic exterior light becomes organic and inner, as in the process of 'insight' therapy, self-reflection. When this process is accomplished, the incarnated spirit no longer acknowledges its mother (lower psyche), which is why the NT advises to leave one’s family behind. Aleph (JC) descends into the well = psychological structures, offering to ‘explode’ them for others using Lamed (‘ox goad’, as in 30 pieces of silver). We suffer, especially guilt, not because of sins, but because the well = cell = 9 is too strong; we will not allow the ‘fire’-cracker to explode us. Infants who are abused by narcissistic parents are ‘exploded’ too early, and the psyche hasn’t had its time to grow into ‘manhood’. ‘Branch’ is a reference to Virgo, the astrological ‘female’.
03:46 PM on 03/22/2011
avid Lose, re 'prostitute'. In Jewish mysticism, this has been the code word for 'psyche', the cell, 9, the feminine, mass consciousness which imprisons the spark, 'one', Aleph (JC). JC is the second aspect of God, the dual psyche in its ‘male’, active form. The mass-soul starts off 'imprisoning' the spirit, as the womb which sometimes gives birth to it. 300 refers to the trinity, spirit, which is held in 9, and when it breaks out becomes male = 'action', 700, the freedom of indetermination (300-9-700). In a garbled version of an initiation rite, Joseph is thrown into the 'well' to emerge as the ‘one’ with the 'coat of many colors'. Simon-Peter girts his coat and goes into the water, while the correct goal is to become Venus, rising from the waves (the higher feminine is Venus = neck chakra = suspended by a rope from ‘above’). Mary Magdalene = Myriam M'Gadola = Mareh = image, appearance, mirror = sea/psyche as a false, mirror-like image. M’Gadola = 'big', as in 'big mamma' = the psyche, which is eternally redeemed and regenerated (prostitute to virgin to prostitute), from moment to moment, when filled with the male 'fire' of aleph. Daniel in the Lion's den is the ability of the initiate to use this 'fire'. (continued)