David Valdes Greenwood
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David Valdes Greenwood in a nonfiction author and playwright. Valdes Greenwood has written about same-sex marriage and parenting for the Boston Globe and AOL, and in his book Homo Domesticus: Notes from a Same-Sex Marriage, the first memoir of legal same-sex marriage. His other nonfiction includes The Rhinestone Sisterhood and A Little Fruitcake. As a playwright, his work has been produced throughout the United States and the United Kingdom, including the published drama Brave Navigator. He is currently a Huntington Theatre Company Playwriting Fellow.

With an MFA from Emerson College, David has been teaching writing to students of all ages for 20 years; currently, he is a Lecturer in English at Tufts University. But his own education continues at home, where his daughter keeps her two dads on their toes.

To find out more about David’s work, visit him at www.davidvaldesgreenwood.com and read his blog on Red Room.

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Who Are The 'Real' Parents? An Adoptive Dad's Answer

(5) Comments | Posted May 23, 2012 | 1:20 PM

When our daughter told my husband that he was the best Lego castle-builder, he replied, not very seriously, "Is that what you tell your friends -- that I'm better at Legos and Papa's better at playing Monster High?"

She gave him a perplexed look. "No one asks about my...

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Summer is Over! (Well, Almost): The Mad Dash for Summer Camps and Classes

(0) Comments | Posted April 4, 2012 | 2:33 PM

I stayed up till after midnight last night to handle a crisis.

To put my behavior in context, let me point out that I'm the kind of guy who DVRs my favorite 10 PM TV show, because I know if I tried to watch it live, the credits would...

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You Can't Un-Hurry Love: When Crushes Start Early

(9) Comments | Posted February 11, 2012 | 12:53 AM

My daughter calmly informed me that she'd broken up with her boyfriend Miles. I asked how Miles had taken the news, and she shrugged, "I didn't tell him Papa; I just did it." This is all fine, of course, because he didn't know they were dating to begin with. And...

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"They Shot Him, Papa!": Finding Smarter Ways to Talk to Kids About Diversity

(741) Comments | Posted January 12, 2012 | 2:40 PM

Teaching children about diversity can be a tricky proposition. In the "No Child Left Behind" era, so much time is devoted to preparing students for test-taking that old school subjects like good citizenship, social behavior, and community values may get short shrift. (There is, after all, no standardized...

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Mean Girls, The Starter Edition

(67) Comments | Posted December 10, 2011 | 9:40 AM

Our daughter startled us at the table one recent night by saying that she and a friend were playing a trick on two of their other friends. When we questioned what this meant, she brightly replied that they were going to make the other girls think they didn't like them...

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The Single Child Equation: When Parents Just Aren't Enough Fun

(8) Comments | Posted November 15, 2011 | 7:00 AM

Wanted: One child, part-time only, flexible hours. Ages 5-7, girl preferred, though boys who like American Girl doll play will be considered. Must be available for play dates, excursions, dinner with grown-ups. Sleep-over expertise desirable. All snack, outing, and transportation expenses covered; no reciprocation required.

If there was such a...

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It Got Better For Me... But That's Not Good Enough

(3) Comments | Posted October 25, 2011 | 4:23 PM

From the top of the center arch of the Sophie May Lane bridge in Norridgewock, Maine, high above the racing waters of the Kennebec River, I thought I could see the way out. At 15, I was not looking at the point where the brown river curled around the bend...

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You Let Your Kid Trick-or-Treat In That? What Halloween Costumes Say About Your Parenting

(19) Comments | Posted October 11, 2011 | 10:00 AM

Two years ago, my daughter startled us with a most unusual request for a costume: She wanted to dress up as Madonna. She was not even 5 at the time, so this raised some eyebrows in our house, and made us consider two questions:

  • 1) Why would a four year-old...
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My Daughter, Chaz Bono And What Keith Ablow Is Really Afraid Of

(17) Comments | Posted September 26, 2011 | 12:33 PM

My daughter has something to say to Keith Ablow, but since Fox news never asks her opinion, she'll have to speak through me.

She hasn't actually met Ablow, nor have I, but he and I have a lot in common. Both in our 40s, we each got married in...

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5 (More) Shocking Side Effects Of Becoming A Dad

(11) Comments | Posted September 19, 2011 | 11:00 AM

I was terrible at science and math in school, and skipped out of so many courses in those fields that my left brain was practically wizened from lack of use by the time I graduated. And yet I feel perfectly qualified to comment on the latest buzzy scientific study:

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How To Guarantee Your Children Won't Be Teased! (Hint: Don't Have Any.)

(24) Comments | Posted September 8, 2011 | 1:02 PM

Of all the reasons I've heard from people who oppose same-sex parenting, perhaps the most oft-repeated concern is that having gay or lesbian caregivers sets up a lifetime of trauma for the child who will endure teasing about the comparative oddity of her family. As one person recently asked, "Did...

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Do Ask, I'll Tell: Gay Parents And Back To School Time

(475) Comments | Posted August 31, 2011 | 7:06 AM

The Hello Kitty backpack is ready, as are the Justin Bieber notebook and the shiny purple pencil box freshly larded with Ticonderoga #2s. All that's left now is to pack the first lunch and saddle up for the first day of school drop-off, knowing that our simple presence will provide...

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