On Monday I start a new job.
Alongside the relief that comes with accepting a job offer, there are inevitably a whole new set of concerns that crop up as well. In particular -- at least if you're like me -- you fear that once you embark upon this new phase of life, you'll never have time to shower any more, let alone make it to the post office to buy stamps.
To that end, here are five things you might want to take care of before you start a new job:
1. Childcare. Obviously, this applies only to those of us with kids, but within that subset of working parents, this is probably the single biggest stressor. I am lucky in that I am going to start this new job part-time for the first couple of months before ramping up to full time. And because my husband is going to cover pick-ups during camp season in August (I find myself once again grateful for the much shorter summer vacation we endure here in England), we have some time to sort out the sitter situation. Hiring someone to look after your kids is no day at the beach, as I've documented before. So the sooner you get this ball rolling -- use your networks!! -- the better.
2. Buy Work Clothes. One of the joys of working freelance lo' these past six years has been going to work (and school runs!) in some version of my pajamas. But that's all come to an end, as I must now project some measure of gravitas and respectability in my new position. I'm happy about this, although knowing what to wear is not one of my fortés. Fortunately, my husband has an almost uncanny knack for knowing what looks good on women. Several years ago, he bought me a book entitled Does This Make Me Look Fat?, which is all about what clothes work for different body shapes and sizes. I spent 45 minutes yesterday perusing it, got some great tips for my body type (short-waisted, in case you're interested) and then went over to ASOS, an online, affordable but chic fashion company here in the UK to select a few staples for my new work wardrobe. I also plan on scanning Amid Privilege to get some more ideas, as Lisa has a way of making shopping seem fun and easy. Done and dusted, as they say round' here.
3. Buy new makeup. I'm told that it's wise to change your mascara every three months, partly to avoid eye infections. This is one of those rules of thumb -- like replacing your running shoes every six months -- that I've blithely chosen to ignore, partly because it seems expensive and mostly because I don't wear eye makeup on a regular basis. But I will be now, at least to start off, and who wants to have pink eye during their first week of work? I've also noticed that the eyeliner I bought recently -- to replace the one I bought... oh, you don't want to know how long ago -- is actually an eyebrow pencil. Hmmm. Vidal Sassoon, where are you when I need you?
4. Go to the dentist. Let's face it. Most of us hate going to the dentist. This is true, even for those of us who aren't in a perpetual state of denial that it's probably a good idea to do this every six months. (Hello, England! I'm looking at you!) And once you start working, this is one of those things that can move down your priority list very rapidly. Which is why I'll be seeing my dentist tomorrow, even though it hasn't been exactly six months. Among other things, I think she needs to pull one of my teeth and while I don't look forward to the pain, I'd rather do it now than let it fester for another six months.
5. Break up with your therapist. Like going to the dentist (but hopefully more enjoyable?), therapy can also be a difficult thing to work into your schedule when you're working full time. I've been with my life coach for five years now, and as much as I'm a huge fan of therapy, we both agreed during our last visit that I had "graduated" and that it was time for me to move on. We didn't hug and I didn't "accidentally" leave my coat behind. But I did get some closure, which actually felt good.
What am I leaving out?
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