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Questioning Faith: Where is God When We Hurt?

Posted: 08/22/11 08:21 PM ET

When you stop for a moment and think of the millions upon millions of people who have endured unspeakable suffering due to famine, war and disaster, it simply staggers the imagination. Where is God in that? As Arthur Custance writes,

"At such times, thoughtful men do not become atheists because they find it irrational to believe in a spiritual world which is above and beyond demonstration by ordinary means; rather, because of emotional insult, the feeling that if God is really such a Being as we His children claim Him to be, He could not possibly remain silent. He would have to act manifestly, mercifully, savingly, publicly."

How could an all-powerful and loving God allow such suffering? This question is often posed in the form of an argument for or against God's existence. On the one side are believers who attempt to justify God's actions (some pointing to explanations of freewill, others appealing to some higher plan). On the other side are unbelievers who see this as proof that there is no God. The problem with both of these approaches however is that they attempt to address this from a safe theoretical distance. But these are not abstract concepts, they are issues that touch us at the core of our being. Disappointment, doubt and suffering are common to us all. We all need to know how to deal with the reality of suffering in our world so we are not crushed by it: How can we continue to have hope in a broken world? How do you believe in love in a world filled with so much hurt? These are questions we all need to wrestle with.

As long as the discussion remains on a detached intellectual level, both the religious and atheistic responses are inadequate. This is not an intellectual puzzle to be solved, it is a cry of pain, "I cry to you God but you do not answer. I stand before you, and you don't even bother to look!" screams Job in desperation. The answers we seek in our pain are not so much ones of explanation, but of relief. When we cry "Why, God?" what we really mean is "Make it stop!"

C.S. Lewis once commented that we live in a universe which contains much that is bad and apparently meaningless, but at the same time contains creatures like ourselves who somehow know that it is bad and meaningless. God has created us as creatures that recognize the injustice and emptiness and long for something more. God did not have to make us this way. God could have made us like fish -- just swimming around and not noticing much of anything -- but he didn't. Why is that?

Lewis suggests that the outrage we naturally feel at injustice, that cry that wells up inside us, has been put there by God. The only reason we recognize injustice at all is that we have been created with a God-inherited need for justice, just as we have an inborn need for love and meaning. In other words, these are primarily God's questions inside of us. God has placed these questions in our hearts because God wants us to ask them.

That means that doubt is not opposed to faith; rather, doubt is an expression of a healthy faith. Questioning is not an immature phase to get out of our system, it is the hallmark of a mature faith. When we attempt to explain away these questions we shut off that part of us that cries out for compassion and justice, and when we do that we shut off a big part of what it means to be human.

We cannot ever stop asking these questions on this side of eternity. As soon as we stop asking why, as soon as we stop yearning for justice, yearning for God to step in and heal and restore, as soon as we accept the darkness, as soon as we justify suffering and Hell, there will be something very wrong with us.

Instead, we need to learn how to live with these questions -- how to live in the tension of being in a fallen world, full of pain and injustice, but having hope and trust in a good God. So let's have the courage to be honest together about our struggles and pain. Let's make room for questions and doubt as a healthy part of our faith, and in so doing, work toward ending suffering rather than just explaining it. Let's learn to have a questioning faith.

 

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When you stop for a moment and think of the millions upon millions of people who have endured unspeakable suffering due to famine, war and disaster, it simply staggers the imagination. Where is God in...
When you stop for a moment and think of the millions upon millions of people who have endured unspeakable suffering due to famine, war and disaster, it simply staggers the imagination. Where is God in...
 
 
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shadowmoon55
03:09 PM on 08/30/2011
I don't think most atheists would argue that since suffering exists, therefore there is no God. That presupposes the fact that there can't be an evil, sadistic God.

We use the existence of suffering when arguing against the concept that God, if he indeed exists, is good and just. The fictional character God is evil and sadistic.

Most Christians' concept of God is an all powerful being. Everything goes according to his will. We argue that since he is all powerful and everything happens according to his will, he is ultimately responsible for everything and anything, which makes him evil.
10:25 AM on 09/19/2011
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12:03 PM on 08/30/2011
God doesn't have time to help victims of famine in Africa or victims of war, because he is too busy ensuing Bieber gets another VMA and blessing NASCAR and football games in Ammurrika
10:19 PM on 08/29/2011
Why do people blame the Lord for the difficulties we face in life? Life is not meant to be fair, and whoever taught that life is fair was teaching you a lie. I think life is meant to be experienced with the good and bad parts intertwined. If you were just given only wonderful things all your life you would never know the difference of the gifts we experience during our life. I have had throat cancer and I could not eat nor drink for the longest time. My taste buds were wiped away from the radiation, and slowly over the years things have started to return. I can now eat, and enjoy the taste of so many varieties of food, and what a wonderful experience it is to enjoy each and every one of them. However, everyone takes for granted the simple pleasure of eating ice-cream. Take away the sense of smell from someone for a long time and then allow them to smell a bouquet of flowers. Life is good even when it is difficult, and the Lord made it in a perfect way for us to enjoy. Lace up your boots even after setbacks and take advantage of what we have been given!
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Counterglow
Werner Heisenberg may have been right.
05:04 AM on 08/31/2011
Why would I blame a mythical being for bad things or praise it for the good ones? Life is what it is.
08:27 PM on 08/31/2011
Counterglow, many people want to convince you that there is no God, but that is not true. The Lord is very real just like the nose on your face. You look past it every single day until you look in the mirror and see one of his best creations, you! You are unique, and no one like you has ever been created, and God placed a soul in your body to help guild you in your life. If you want to see the Lord, let your soul led the way, and then you will realize the abundance of God’s fingerprints everywhere you look. They are there just like the nose on your face, but you look past them every day.
10:39 AM on 08/29/2011
Apparently, some disagree with associating undesirable circumstance with the human ability to choose behavior that results in such circumstance. I would be grateful for perspectives on what appears unreasonable about that association.
04:25 PM on 08/29/2011
I think that most people agree that people's choices have resulted in a lot of undesirable circimstances. The debate comes when you discuss whether it was God who gave you the ability to choose.
07:47 AM on 08/30/2011
The potential debate seems interesting. Do you have a stance? I have come to associate God with the gift.
12:27 PM on 08/30/2011
Most human suffering comes from the natural world, not from man's choices: earthquakes, tidal waves, thousands of diseases, birth defects, accidents, floods, droughts, and on and on; there is no way man can be blamed for any of the "evils", they exist because (if you are a believer) God designed the world to be this way. Even the evils that exist because of man's bad choices are the result of the creator making a creature that is not wise enough, or smart enough to always make the best choices. There is no way that an all-knowing and all-powerful God can be excused from bearing responsibility for all things that happen in the world, since he knew before-hand everything that would happen and there is no way anything can happen that he did not foreknow and approve of before creation. If he did not approve of it then he had every opportunity to change it beforhand, but chose not to.
09:14 AM on 08/29/2011
There appears to be a conundrum. On one hand, some appear to suggest that God has offered certain restrictions on behavior. Reports appear to suggest that, as a result, some consider God too restrictive despite the intent of said restriction being to protect humankind from harm and the hurt that might result.

On the other hand, humankind appears to have been given the freedom of choice to disregard said restrictions. Some disregard them, experience both harm and hurt and perceive God to be either non-existent or uncaring.

God appears to be considered simultaneously too protective and insufficiently protective. I would be grateful for perspectives to the contrary.
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lux et veritas
01:15 AM on 08/28/2011
when we were kids in grammar school and we had a picnic day planned, the Sisters would tell us to
pray hard for good weather. and we often prayed for Notre Dame to beat SMU. these prayers were
often not answered as we hoped. when we complained to the Sisters, they would tell us that God
answered, "he just said no." not a very pleasing reply to 10 year-olds, and we could be excused for developing some cynicism about all this prayer stuff. why God would let SMU beat Notre Dame was simply beyond explaining. of course Doak Walker had something to do with it, but that didn't hold water with us. in my time in Japan, i read a book titled CHINMOKU by a great Catholic author named ENDO SHUSAKU. the English title is "SILENCE". it seriously probes this issue of God's silence in the face of human suffering. i strongly suggest it as required reading if anyone is interested in this subject. it isn't an easy one to handle for Christians. viewpoint or response to human suffering
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Derek Flood
12:07 PM on 08/28/2011
I second the recommendation. It's a great book. I think the climax is when Shusaku Endo tells the story of a Jesuit missionary in seventeenth-century Japan who is faced with the dilemma of being forced between watching as his peasant flock was tortured and killed before his eyes, or to trample upon an image of Christ placed at his feet as a sign that he had denied Christ. The priest is torn in two between the love for his flock, and faithfulness to his Lord. His foot aches, when he hears Jesus speak to him,

"Trample, trample! It is to be trampled on by you that I am here."

If God looks like Jesus, then that tells a lot about God's priorities as "the trampled one," and what it looks like for us to be faithful to a God like that.
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Gregor53
Remembering your past gives power to the present.
05:23 PM on 08/29/2011
You may also want to read "God's Problem - How the Bible Fails to Answer Our Most Improtant Questioin - Why we Suffer" by Bart E. Ehrman. As with your comment, it would not be an easy book to handle for a Fundamentalist Christian as it does induce some challenging thoughts. I found it very interesting.
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Derek Flood
09:45 PM on 08/27/2011
I have to say that I was surprised at the negativity in the majority of comments here. As I kept reading, I slowly realized that behind the rude comments and cynicism there were a lot of people who are really hurting -- reacting with raw moral outrage to the injustice and suffering they see. I’m sympathetic towards that because I feel that outrage too, and I think it is important that we’re honest about our pain.

I'd propose however that the real question is not whether or not one believes in God, but rather: What will you do with that pain? Or perhaps better: What will you let that pain do to you? Will you find a way to love and hope in the middle of that pain? Or will you let it drag you down with it?

Looking at most of the comments here, I'm afraid many have taken their legitimate feelings of pain, and used them as an excuse for intolerance, judgmentalism, and contempt expressed towards anyone of faith. Again, the question is not whether you believe in God or not. It is what will you allow your pain to make you become? Our response to that is not seen in any kind of theoretical answer, but in how we treat others. I hope we all (believers and nonbelievers alike) could learn to respond with love, despite the pain and darkness, and I hope we could show that to each other. That’s my hope against hope.
10:08 AM on 08/29/2011
Another important issue appears to be the extent to which God, rather than humankind, is credited with unfortunate circumstance. I would be grateful for related perspectives.
11:30 AM on 08/29/2011
Or, there is no god, God, gods, whatever; it's just all in your head. Pain created by humans against other humans is the fault of humans, and hurricanes, earthquakes and lighting are natural events which only humans could imagine to have human (or therefore godly) traits.

One could argue that there are plenty of opportunities for pain in this world. To attribute them to a god would seem to only make matters worse. I mean, what's the point of going on if god is going to smite you or allow you to be smitten and that you have no way out, nowhere to hide; alive or dead?

Wouldn't it be better to imagine no god?
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Djay0252
America needs to Bless God
08:27 PM on 08/27/2011
God is showing us what we are doing to ourselves and when we discover that within ourselves; there will be no poor.
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owlafaye
Love, laugh, be happy and free, God is dead
08:09 AM on 08/27/2011
In my time of hurt god was apprising a bad lie at the 17th hole of the local golf course. I appealed, but he couldn't be bothered.
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Gregor53
Remembering your past gives power to the present.
05:25 PM on 08/29/2011
Or the other person prayed harder the night before...
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selene26
09:46 PM on 08/26/2011
so many of these comments are either nonsensical quoting of inapplicable scripture, exhortations that god punishes out of love (huh?) and we must accept a jesus-as-a-blood-sacrifice, or mean-spirited attacks on any belief in anything other than the rational, physical world. if folks would stop expecting god-as-santa-claus, fixing all our problems, maybe they would take responsibility for fixing it themselves.
10:47 PM on 08/26/2011
I wonder if your post would have taken that much longer to type had you capitalized things. i mean, i wonder if your post would have taken that much longer to type had you capitalized things.

This thread is mostly the same sentiment over and over: reality consists solely of things that can be proven, and everything else is a moronic delusion. In short, truth equals facts. We don't worry about what can't be observed or proved because Science and Logic and Reason didn't mean for us to to do so. Reality consists of two aspects: fact and fantasy. And, apparently, it's possible to swear allegiance to one or the other--to hop on the Fact Train, as it were, and shout nasty things at people who regard humans of old as anything but defective dorks stumbling around, lost and frightened, but for the light of microchips, live images from Mars, "Apps," and stilted, best-selling secularist platitudes.
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selene26
07:43 PM on 08/30/2011
Well, I don't see what capitalization has to do with it. Nevertheless, thanks for the reply.
10:58 PM on 08/26/2011
Very well said. As JFK said it, "God's work must truly be our own."
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Seer Clearly
Only truth remains when fear is denied
03:58 AM on 08/26/2011
Where is God when there is pain? God is in the pain. The pain is an experience that feels bad, but it's just as valuable to your mind and soul as experiences that feel good. The pain is a gift, that teaches you humility and open-heartedness (compassion) - but only if you let it. For most religious folk, pain is an excuse to go into states of total dissociation and delusion, making up ever more complex and irrational mental constructs about God to explain why they are in pain. Essentially, there delusions are created by the mind to explain to them why they're still OK since they feel that experiencing pain is a sign that their projected-parent "God" is judging them.
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owlafaye
Love, laugh, be happy and free, God is dead
08:11 AM on 08/27/2011
The old Catholic "Offer it Up" platitude eh?
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Gregor53
Remembering your past gives power to the present.
05:32 PM on 08/29/2011
That logic is always challenged when asked, "Why does God allow innocent children to die?" I have found that mircles always happen when someone survives a disaster when in reality, the mircle should have been there was no disaster.
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iknowscottyknows
09:43 PM on 08/25/2011
As Jesus said: "In this world you will have tribulation. But be of good cheer, for I have overcome the world." John 16:33.

And the reason? When sin entered the world, death and decay came with it as creation itself was changed.

"For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay. We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time." Romans 8:20-22

And that's why there is pain and suffering in life, Charlie Brown. Along with our own penchant for sin.

Why does God allow evil? Because He loves you. If He didn't, you would never have been born.
01:32 PM on 08/27/2011
Just as with Abraham and Issac, Our God teaches us a lesson what it means to honor and be Faithful.


I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld your son from me

Genesis 22:16
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stettin
lux et veritas
01:38 AM on 08/28/2011
honeydove: try that little trick in today's world and you will be in jail before you know it.
so why was it OK for the god of abraham to test him in such a manner, which manner
would be illegal and immoral in our world?
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TN4th
Southern Thinker
06:27 PM on 08/25/2011
Where is god when we hurt? Same place where he is when we don't. He's an unreal nowhere man.
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02:46 AM on 08/26/2011
It isn't a man. It's an illusory entity.

I know we agree about the subject of a god, but to give it a sex is to give it too much credit, to give people who believe in it too much credit.
10:49 PM on 08/26/2011
Yeah! Pile on that contempt! That'll show 'em!
06:05 PM on 08/25/2011
"The argument that religion is fundamentally illiberal thus provides an excuse to treat it illiberally."--Michael Gerson.
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Mikesfreedomblog
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05:06 PM on 08/25/2011
because we are people that were evolved from alien DNA tampering thousands of years ago, and the entire god mythology was based off of a superior race of aliens..the Annunaki. who created the myths to keep the primitive people under their subjugation. Try researching pre-biblical Cuniform Tablets for the story, or ck out Ancient Aliens.
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way2sunny
10:03 AM on 08/27/2011
I have to admit your theory is way more fun :)
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10:31 AM on 08/27/2011
Thanks for commenting. I am against anything which harms people, and advocate against all types of oppression, in whatever form. The entire 'ancient Alien Theory Theory' is discussed by Zacariah Sitchin and many others, and makes as much sense as the other stuff, and furthermore the Sumerian Tablets pre-date the Bible by several thousand years, and there is a flood story there...The Epic of Gilgamesh. So much foe the Genesis Account which was obviously borrowed.
ck out my blog and the links if you like contraversial truths which bother people.