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The One-Minute Mystic: Simple Things You Can Do to Stay Connected

Posted: 05/16/11 06:00 AM ET

One of the biggest stumbling blocks for the spiritual seeker is meditation. For the new initiate, it can be a frustrating, even painful, experience. And for many already on the path, there's often still resistance to meditating consistently.

But meditation isn't a chore; it's a state of being that sets you free. It's not about the technique -- the technique is not meditation. The state of relaxed, undistractable attention -- that moment you "shoot the gap" between thoughts and touch the timeless dimension of being -- that is meditation.

And there are as many paths to this connection as people.

In that light, I want to offer a practice that doesn't require you to join a monastery or sit in lotus for hours. Using simple, one-minute sessions during the day, you can strengthen focus, lengthen attention, dissolve blocks, and increase connection -- and still have time to live life fully.

In this way you become what I call the "One-Minute Mystic."

These practices are deceptively simple; most authentic spiritual practices are, because they're not about ego, which tends to need complex processes to make it feel important. So don't brush them off or take their power for granted.

When you use them consistently -- the key to their effectiveness -- they will result in a transformational shift in consciousness.

Practices of the One-Minute Mystic:

  • Before you get out of bed, take a minute to connect with your breath. Watch it breathing itself. If your mind kicks in, assure it you'll be with it shortly, then bring attention back to the breath. Instead of "Good God, it's morning!" try, "Good morning, God" Give thanks for everything in your life -- including life itself -- then put your feet on the floor.
  • As you take your bath or shower, take a minute to become conscious of the water against your skin, the sensations, the sounds. Stay in your body, instead of drifting into the future, planning your day or fantasizing that you won that argument! As your body is cleansed, affirm that mental and emotional debris is being washed away as well.
  • At breakfast, take a minute to smell the aromas, taste the food, and give thanks that it's fueling your body. For a longer contemplation, trace back the origins of your meal. Those eggs were delivered by a truck driver, stocked by a grocer, gathered on a farm. Someone fed the chicken, delivered the feed, harvested the grain, and planted the seed. Millions of people went in to making that breakfast possible -- not to mention the animals, sun, rain, and the whole cosmic dance of the universe.
  • In your car (or on mass transit), when you reach a stop, take a minute to watch your breath, give thanks for the perfect harmony in the universe, and how it's reflected in the way the traffic lights and streets organize and order the chaos.
  • At work, before beginning, take one minute to give thanks for your job, bless everyone there, everyone it touches on the planet, and intend this to be the most inspired day of your life. If you're 'unemployed,' give thanks for all the abilities you have, and the extra time for contemplation and connection with loved ones. If negativity arises, breathe, watch it, then focus on what you're grateful for. This cultivates a mindset of abundance.
  • When you use the restroom, take a minute to give thanks for how your body eliminates what no longer serves -- and affirm that your heart and mind are doing the same. If you're having physical problems, focus on a healthy area. Feel the well-being there, give thanks for it. This cultivates the inner conditions for greater health to emerge.
  • Every hour or so, stop for one minute to check in, breathe, re-connect, give thanks for your life, and go back to work. This is the foundational practice of the One-Minute Mystic. If you do nothing else, this practice alone will have a significant impact.
  • At night, if you watch TV, pause during commercials and re-connect. Market your own life-enhancing images to your mind, rather than letting someone else do it.
  • As you fall asleep, affirm that your mind and body are renewed while you rest, and that you will awaken more inspired than ever before.

As you practice being a One-Minute Mystic, it might feel mechanical and require discipline. But after a while you'll notice yourself turning within to re-connect automatically -- even with your eyes open, in the midst of conversation or activity.

The key is consistency. As you stop, for just a minute, several times throughout your busy schedule, you'll not only have more energy and creativity -- you'll literally create new neuropathways that eventually allow you to feel centered, tapped in, and turned on all day long!

Stay Inspired,

Derek

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One of the biggest stumbling blocks for the spiritual seeker is meditation. For the new initiate, it can be a frustrating, even painful, experience. And for many already on the path, there's often st...
One of the biggest stumbling blocks for the spiritual seeker is meditation. For the new initiate, it can be a frustrating, even painful, experience. And for many already on the path, there's often st...
 
 
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08:54 PM on 06/13/2011
This was a great article! I was surprised to see that I already do four of these things regularly! I try to make it a morning ritual of meditating after yoga...it doesn't always happen, as I have four children to get up for school, etc. I feel unsettled somehow...the constant hustle and bustle. I know when I can focus on being present, I can make better decisions and feel life. I often tell myself there will be time later when my kids are grown, etc. At times, I feel cheated out of a freedom to just live and breathe. Thanks for some great tips on being a "One-Minute Mystic". These will definitely help me reconnect and recharge:)
12:00 PM on 05/24/2011
I love your ten tips...they are so right on I wonder why the rest of us hadn't thought of them before.
And, I would like to suggest that a transformational shift is occurring whether we meditate or not, observe our breathing or not....I believe that every human as well as the planet are undergoing a transformation shift. Some are aware of this shift; most are merely feeling that there lives are out of control and they are unsure of what to do about it. The old solutions don't work. The new ways of coping not yet revealed. Absolutely follow these tips, but also consider adopting a new perspective as you view your life and the world. Shift from the perspective of the third dimension limited to seeing reality through the five senses to the more expanded mulit-dimensional perspective that perceives the reality beyond those senses, that sees all of life as composed of energy and that acknowledges that energy as real. Try this new way of 'seeing' and you may be surprised at the new connections you encounter.
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Derek Rydall
07:56 PM on 05/25/2011
Thank you, Elaine. I appreciate your thoughtful response. And, yes, there is a shift taking place on the planet. Things are accelerating. Thoughts are manifesting quicker. And just by opening to this energy, we can begin to shift our lives. Beyond that, the more we understand the new values this shift represents -- and then bring our lives into alignment/integrity with these values -- the more harmony and abundance and purpose our life will reveal.

Peace, Derek
04:14 PM on 05/22/2011
Finally a one minute guru. Why slow down and learn when people with their hand and ego out will help you get everything you want with no effort.
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Derek Rydall
04:32 PM on 05/23/2011
Thank you for sharing. If I understand your comment, it sounds like you think I'm suggesting that people DON'T slow down -- and instead I'm offering some get-enlightened-quick recipe. Is that right? Actually, that's not it at all. In my years of meditation and study, I've seen a lot of people fall off the path because they thought that meditation had to be a certain way, such as long, arduous postures. But of course that's not true -- although it can certainly be powerful. I personally do long silent meditation retreats. But shorter check-ins like I suggested can help to begin building a connection that leads to a deeper practice. It's also a great way to strengthen an existing practice.

I look forward to more of your comments. Please feel free to share anything that is on your mind and heart.

Peace
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There's nothing to fear about Logic.
05:23 PM on 05/23/2011
I don't really see how any long, grueling, frustrating meditation can lead to any profound spiritual experiences. Perhaps I'm just not patient enough, but I prefer certain molecular tools to help me break through.

Anyway he said it. "The key is consistency." You won't reach total enlightenment until you die probably, so by planting small seeds of positive thoughts deep into your psyche, on a consistent basis, basically trains your subconscious mind to adopt new habits and patterns of thought, any of which you desire, positive and/or negative, but you gotta Do it. It will eventually grow and flourish into 'Everything you want', with what will feel like No Effort. But gaining the ability to give way to destructive patterns takes a monumental effort.

Our culture is good at keeping your energy down, and your thoughts in line, not getting too crazy too often, making sure you're distracted by Media and Political Games, but that's irrelevant. Actually not really, most people are shaped by Negative and Fearful thoughts, at least in the states. We feel safe with our grand military here and everywhere to protect us from the Bad Guys :P
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Derek Rydall
01:46 AM on 05/24/2011
Thank you for your thoughtful comments. Indeed, the key is consistency. Some mystics have said that it's more powerful to stop 60 times a day for one minute, then to sit for 60 minutes straight. The reason is that every time you stop and turn within to connect, you break the pattern of hypnotism coming from this world -- and begin to create a strand of pearls of mindfulness. Just as the Grand Canyon could be worn down by the consistent flow of water...so too can the seemingly solid sense of separation between us and Reality be worn down by our consistent practice of the presence.

Peace, Derek
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Duzula
There's nothing to fear about Logic.
05:34 PM on 05/18/2011
Now mix all that with a little Elf Spice.
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Derek Rydall
10:22 PM on 05/18/2011
I like the sound of that. Where can I get some? :)

Have an inspired, connected day!

Peace, Derek
01:43 PM on 05/16/2011
Wonderful post, Derek. I have been meditating for a couple of years now and found it very difficult at first. I just couldn't stay focused. Thoughts would interupt me that made me feel distracted, fearful, sleepy, even sad. But I stayed with it and found the the path was to be constantly aware of the present moment by watching my breathing. Staying with the breath all the way in, noticing how it felt in my lungs as it filled them completely, how it felt in my nose, both on the way in and the way out, a brief pause at the top of the breath and then watch it all the way out. I would remember that I am perfect as I am in a perfect moment in time for a perfect purpose. It may sound like hooey, but it works for me. It calms my mind and allows me to be present in the moment. I can do it for a minute, or for hours on end. What a wonderful sense of peace it creates within you. Thank you for your constant work in helping us find the potential in ourselves. You are a great mentor. Bobbi.
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Derek Rydall
12:21 AM on 05/17/2011
Thank you, Bobbi. That sounds like great insight and a strong practice. That's what it's all about -- practice, practice, practice. All the theory in the world doesn't liberate us -- its the daily, and sometimes moment by moment practice, that does.

Stay inspired, Derek
11:26 AM on 05/16/2011
Another great post, Derek! I too have found that a minute here and there can really add up to big insights and conscious shifts into higher states of awareness. Over time, the desire to stretch that minute into five, ten, or longer naturally grows because the peace and clarity feels so good. Thanks!
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Derek Rydall
12:22 AM on 05/17/2011
Yes, thats right Jack. You start with a minute...and you eventually want two and three and ten...and then you yearn for that inner time, you hunger for it, you can't go without it. It becomes as natural as
breathing.

Thank you for sharing. Peace.
04:58 AM on 05/16/2011
Great post Derek. It is the practice/forgetting/remembering/remembering/forgetting etc that builds this into something that really makes a difference, over time. Not a quick fix, though having said that it can be amazing what one minute sitting with an uncomfortable emotion without wanting to fix it- can do. And I love the do-ability of 1 minute at a time. Thanks
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Derek Rydall
12:24 AM on 05/17/2011
Absolutely, Judy. The willingness to just sit and witness the content of our consciousness -- thoughts, emotions, physical sensations -- no matter how uncomfortable, can have a profound transformational effect. Even one minute at a time.

Thank you for adding that depth.

Peace, Derek
06:45 PM on 07/06/2011
So basically, there's no wrong way to do it which is great news. You can find your peace one minute at a time :)