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Devon Corneal
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Devon Corneal is a lawyer, mother, and step-mother who lives, outnumbered, in a loud and wonderful home in Montclair, New Jersey with her husband, two boys, and a dog named Max. Before becoming a lawyer, she worked for the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services developing, coordinating and analyzing policies relating to children, youth and families. She’s also written on issues involving individual rights, child and adolescent development, children and the law, and now, parenting. She received a J.D. from Seton Hall University School of Law, an M.S. in Human Development and Family Studies from The Pennsylvania State University, and a B.A. from The College of William and Mary. When not working or writing, she can be found puttering around the garden, cheering on the sidelines, swinging at the playground, or if she’s really lucky, hiding in the hammock with a good book.

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What I Know About Stress In My 40s

(24) Comments | Posted April 29, 2013 | 11:52 AM

I just got back from a four-day vacation with my young son who vomits in moving vehicles. During our trip the two of us travelled on planes, boats, streetcars, cabs, buses, carousels, vans, and trains. We stayed with friends who have two small children and a big dog, all of...

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The Talk My Preschooler Wasn't Too Young To Have

(356) Comments | Posted April 18, 2013 | 3:29 PM

We have an old farmhouse table in our kitchen. Nothing fancy, but its sturdy legs and pitted top give us a place to eat family meals, do homework, and create Play Doh sculptures. On any given day it is covered with mason jars of crayons, piles of magazines and drawings,...

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Life Lessons

(115) Comments | Posted April 8, 2013 | 10:44 AM

Last week my husband, Little Dude and I went on vacation. We tried to bring Sporty Stepson, but he wanted to stay home so he wouldn't miss school or lacrosse practice, and it's hard to argue with a kid who would choose calculus over room service in Boston. So he...

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What's Worse Than 'Attacking Other Women'

(195) Comments | Posted April 5, 2013 | 10:48 AM

I can get lost on the Internet. I log on for a short break and three hours later realize I'm up way past my bedtime because I've found another trove of amazing women writers. Women across the Web are writing glorious, touching, funny, controversial, insightful, frustrating, clever, sad, nuanced, direct,...

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A Marriage of Equals

(19) Comments | Posted April 1, 2013 | 12:42 PM

We're getting ready to send our oldest boy off to college next year, which has me reminiscing about my undergraduate days. Before I left home, my father warned me to keep up my grades, stay out of trouble and call once a week. Friends and family encouraged me to take...

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Why You'll Never See Me At A 'Yo Gabba Gabba' Show Again

(187) Comments | Posted March 19, 2013 | 1:54 PM

Dear DJ Lance Rock, Muno, Foofa,
Brobee, Toodee and Plex,

I took my son and his friend to a "Yo Gabba Gabba Live" show a few weeks ago and have been meaning to write to you ever since, but it has taken me a while to put...

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What I Know About Fear Now That I'm In My 40s

(112) Comments | Posted March 15, 2013 | 12:37 PM

In her new book "Lean In," Sheryl Sandberg notes the ways in which fear can hold women back and the importance of pushing through that fear. She writes, "This book is what I would do if I weren't afraid." We asked women of different ages to share what they've learned...

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The Pursuit of Happiness

(290) Comments | Posted March 4, 2013 | 11:35 AM

I've said it. You've said it. We've all said it.

"I just want my children to be happy."

Some people coo the words earnestly, leaning forward with clasped hands to emphasize how important their children's happiness is. Others are more off-handed, breezily noting in the midst of conversation...

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What's in a Name?

(28) Comments | Posted February 26, 2013 | 1:02 PM

I started naming my future children in elementary school. Well into my twenties, I would find old scraps of paper crumpled in my desk drawers with lists of names for sons and daughters that I was in no way prepared to have. I'm pretty sure this is a girl thing....

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A Parent By Any Other Name

(19) Comments | Posted February 19, 2013 | 1:41 PM

Seems everyone has a label these days. We've got tiger moms, attachment parents, and detachment parents, helicopter parents, permissive parents and free-rangers. You can be a working parent or a stay at home parent. There are French mamans bringing up their bébés properly and over-scheduled American soccer parents. You can...

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To Know Is Human, To Comprehend, Divine

(108) Comments | Posted February 11, 2013 | 12:25 PM

Little Dude is 5 and at the stage where everything is a question. "How do you spell 'Daddy'?" "Where is Mount Rushmore?" "What is a 'wintry mix'?" (Thanks to Nemo, we've been watching a lot of the Weather Channel lately.) "Will you die before me?" "What will kindergarten be like?"...

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Bye, Bye Baby

(218) Comments | Posted February 4, 2013 | 10:30 AM

Recently, a dear friend and her gorgeous 9-month-old son came for a visit. Her baby is even-tempered, sweet, warm and snuggly. He's a good sleeper, a good eater and has a gorgeous toothy smile that he bestows on everything from the dog, to Little Dude to our favorite Laurie Berkner...

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Qué no debe decirse a una madre trabajadora

(13) Comments | Posted January 31, 2013 | 1:25 AM

Hace poco, Amy Shearn publicó una lista de las cosas que no deben decirse a las madres que no trabajan fuera. Habría bastado con que citara cualquier cosa de las que ha escrito Elizabeth Wurtzel en el último año, pero eso habría sido demasiado fácil. Por...

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Cosa non dire a una madre che lavora

(4) Comments | Posted January 30, 2013 | 6:51 AM

Di recente, Amy Shean ha comunicato una lista di cose da non dire alle madri che stanno a casa. Avrebbe potuto limitarsi a citare una cosa qualunque che Elisabeth Wurtzel ha scritto nell'ultimo anno, ma sarebbe stato troppo facile.

Shean, invece, ha elaborato una lista...

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Ce qu'il ne faut pas dire à une mère qui travaille

(2) Comments | Posted January 30, 2013 | 2:11 AM

Récemment, Amy Shearn a fait part d'une liste de choses qu'il ne faut pas dire à des femmes au foyer.
Elle aurait pu se contenter de répéter n'importe quelle phrase écrite par Elisabeth Wurtzel l'an dernier, mais ça aurait été trop simple. Shearn a...

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What Not to Say to a Working Mom

(1364) Comments | Posted January 28, 2013 | 11:50 AM

Recently, Amy Shearn shared a list of things not to say to stay-at-home moms. She could have just cited anything Elizabeth Wurtzel has written in the past year, but that would have been too easy. Instead, Shearn came up with a list that was funny and...

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To Little Dude, on the Occasion of Your Fifth Birthday

(19) Comments | Posted January 16, 2013 | 9:44 AM

Dear Little Dude,

You're turning 5 this week. You are one-eighth as old as me, yet sometimes you seem worlds wiser. On occasion, you seem bat crazy too, so it all balances out. Surviving half a decade is no mean accomplishment, which is why I'm awake at 5 a.m....

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A Fistful Of Dollars

(12) Comments | Posted January 7, 2013 | 3:23 PM

I don't pretend to understand the fiscal cliff. I hear those two words and my brain shuts off and all I hear is Miss Othmar from the Peanuts. I know that this financial precipice had something to do with the debt ceiling, taxes, expiring legislation and some seriously pissed-off members...

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I Want

(12) Comments | Posted December 21, 2012 | 9:27 AM

When I was a kid, I'd ask my dad what he wanted for Christmas and he'd always say, "I don't need anything" or "The only thing I really want is time with my family." It drove me crazy. I could not understand why he didn't want to spend Christmas day...

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The 'Right to Bear Arms' Is Not More Important Than a Child's Right to Grow Up

(689) Comments | Posted December 14, 2012 | 3:05 PM

I'm fighting every fiber of my being right now not to run to my son's school and take him home, lock the door and read stories about superheroes while eating peanut butter crackers in our pajamas. I want to know he's safe by having him in my sight. I might...

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