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The Soulful Atheist

Posted: 08/23/11 12:40 PM ET

I think one of the most popular misconceptions about atheists is that we don't believe in anything, that our lives are void of spirit, belief and or any of the other things that theists think make the world go 'round.

You know what? It's just not true.

Now, I'm not one of the militant atheist-supremacists. In fact, I refer to myself as an atheist simply to clarify that I do not believe in a deity. Outside of that, I'm not married to the title nor do I use it to define myself. It's one of those "for lack of a better word" words.

I do not represent any particular way of thinking, other than my own. And as an "atheist," I can tell you this:

I pray.
I have faith.
I believe in the cosmic consciousness.
I live in gratitude.
I am moved to tears by the beauty that is nature.
I feel the intensity of great love.

So, a believer in deities or a single deity might ask: How is it that you pray? All prayers are to God.

I do not pray to a deity. It's that simple. I pray, just as anyone else would, with the same intention: "Please let so and so happen..." Perhaps I'm praying to the great cosmic mass mind, a way of putting a creative thought into the pool where the good will of other minds are swirling around, creating, manifesting, sustaining. Because I don't have a figurehead on the other end of my prayer does not mean I am without direction. My focus is clear: I am on the other side of my prayer. In some version of my own higher self, I am the one who will lift me up, grant me peace and/or take my prayer and manifest it. I own complete responsibility for my prayer.

There is no such thing in my world as, "Give it to God." This is a concept I don't understand. Sounds like giving up to me, and I feel that if I'm to give up, I would prefer to give up to a higher source of energy as opposed to a word that is interpreted 10 zillion different ways by 10 zillion different people. The word "God" is so unspecific, so vague and seems almost to belittle the enormity and wonder of the infinite -- how could a word be attributed to a thing of such magnitude and mystery?

How can you have faith? Faith is directly related to a belief in something invisible, intangible...

I have faith in exactly that. I believe in the invisible and the intangible. I have absolute faith in the universe, in nature and in the balance of energy. My faith is unshakeable. I just don't have faith in the same power "name" as you.

Cosmic consciousness? Isn't that just another catchphrase for God?

I suppose it is -- if you believe in God. And if you don't, then, it's just the concept of endless energy, all being projected and retracted on a nonstop basis, forever and ever, inwards and outwards, in every angle, etc, etc. That's big enough for me.

Who do you thank when you say you have gratitude?

Does someone have to be thanked when one has gratitude? Can I not just feel gratitude? Can I not issue the words, "Thank you" to the sky, and let the flow of positive energy flow back on me without having to know myself as beneath a higher power? Maybe I'm just grateful to be alive, or that my loved ones are happy. My gratitude feels sincere when I take full responsibility for what I feel, as opposed to thinking there's "someone out there" who's doing me a favor. I, along with all the other praying minds of good will, am creating the vibration that will deliver our good fortune. In my opinion, we are ALL the "mind of God," once again, for lack of a better word.

If you're moved to tears by the beauty of nature, then you are witnessing the presence of God.

No, I'm witnessing the manifestation of energy, and I love every minute of it.

The intensity of love? You feel this and you don't call it "God"?

They -- you know "them" -- say God is Love. They also say God is everything. So, then, God is hate too, and all the other good and bad things, no? See, there's never a clear explanation on this principle, which is why I cannot believe in it.

Now, let's go back to "love."

They say God is love. I say love is love. Whether it's the attached and heartfelt love that humans feel for each other on so many different and worthwhile levels, or it's the detached love that allows the human being to experience oneness with everything. I feel love. I've felt it all my life. Not a day has gone by when I've had any loss for love or it's many manifestations. And yet, I'm still an atheist, so there's a discrepancy here. I don't believe in "God" but I do feel LOVE around the clock.

So, yes, atheists can feel love, gratitude, faith, even spirituality. Like I've said, I'm not one of the militant types who needs to put anyone else down for their beliefs. I'm truly into the "live and let live" idea. While I do love science, I'm not here to shove Darwin or Hawking down anyone's throat. In fact, if God is what you believe in, I'm all for it if it makes you happy, because that's all we can ask for in this life: A little bit of happiness.

And a little bit of tolerance goes a long, long way.

Live and let live! Viva la Whatever!

 
 
 

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01:17 PM on 08/27/2011
"And a little bit of tolerance goes a long, long way.
Live and let live! Viva la Whatever!"

It is the theists who do not practice this. It is they who insist that we live by their scriptures; that we accept the bankrupt moral principles contained in their unholy text. It is they who insist that one cannot be moral or ethical or virtuous without belief in God. Tolerance does not mean you roll out the mat and say walk all over me. Your brand of tolerance is an unacceptable form of appeasement. Trouble is your brand of tolerance, if allowed to prevail, will consign all of us, yourself included, to an intolerable life. You are a damn fool if you think the most right-wing, fundamentalist members of Christianity will allow you the peace and happiness you seek if you sit by like a lamb. They will surely shear you and then serve you up for a "passover meal" if you and all the rest of us were to choose such passivity. As Edmund Burke famously said, in a different context, “All that is necessary for evil to prevail is for good men (and women) to do nothing.” Religion if left unchecked and unchallenged by those “militant” atheists whom you seem to dislike will become the source of your greatest unhappiness. Religion and God-belief have repeatedly shown themselves capable of the most heinous acts of evil.
01:13 PM on 08/27/2011
“While I do love science, I'm not here to shove Darwin or Hawking down anyone's throat. In fact, if God is what you believe in, I'm all for it if it makes you happy, because that's all we can ask for in this life: A little bit of happiness.
And a little bit of tolerance goes a long, long way."

You may “love science” but from your essay I can only surmise that your grasp of it is sorrowfully and woefully incomplete at best. What you appear to love is not science but something else masquerading as science, pseudoscience. No one is asking you to shove Darwin or Hawking down anyone's throat. In fact, even the so-called militant atheists of whom you refer aren't doing this. Any assumption on your part that they are is a silly misunderstanding on your part of your fellow atheists. This said, you should be advocating for Darwin and Hawking. Unlike the religious apologists, scientists and science have successfully provided us with real truths about the material universe we inhabit. If you love science as you claim then you should be advocating in its favor.
01:12 PM on 08/27/2011
“I believe in the cosmic consciousness.”

What the hell is "the cosmic consciousness"? Do you honestly believe that the universe is itself a conscious, self-aware entity? If so then you are just as deluded as any theistic believer. What is the evidence for a “cosmic consciousness?”

“I have faith in exactly that. I believe in the invisible and the intangible. I have absolute faith in the universe, in nature and in the balance of energy.”

This is utter gobbledy-gook. This is meaningless tripe. What can it possibly mean to have faith in the universe? You have faith in energy and matter? Faith is not a virtue. Science, which clearly establishes the existence of energy and matter in all its forms within the universe, does not rely upon faith to establish its claims. We know that all the objects in the universe and that energy and matter exist not by faith but by a preponderance of evidence acquired through the rational process of scientific inquiry and investigation. Accepting the existence of these things is not an act of faith.
06:57 PM on 08/26/2011
Weird! I can’t say I agree with nothing, but I agree with very little.

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02:05 PM on 08/26/2011
If you are an Atheist and you pray, does that just amount to wishing really hard for something?
02:44 AM on 08/26/2011
Cosmic Consciousness! What the heck is that. I know it can't be the accumilation of all the passed on souls in the universe. Atheists don't believe in souls. It can't be the matter, (i.e., rocks, dirt, etc.), which makes up the other planets. Every rock I know on earth is totally unconscious. Someone did sell pet rocks...but, that's not the same. It's not the quantum jazz of all atoms are one, etc.. It's not the gasses in the universe.

If you claim to be an atheist and you don't have a problem with that business of cosmic consciousness...then, you're not an atheist. If you say your an atheist but find no problem with that then your a hypocrite. Yes, a hypocrite to yourself most importantly. Oh, how mean you are for saying that we have emotions and feelings...boo..hoo.hoo!

That's true. There's no escaping human feeling and emotions. But, examine that if we are products of a cosmic mishap which resulted in evolution. Then, we are not of any more importance than the housefly who just didn't evolve that high up on the species list. And, if mankind is of no more importance than the housefly then those same evolutionary emotions are nothing more than man made constructs used as a check and balance system to maintain survival.

How can you say that? I am of importance. I am conscious of beauty, art, music, love...blah, blah, blah. Doesn't work that way.
11:49 PM on 08/25/2011
Refreshing. Thank you.
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iLdoRight
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08:02 PM on 08/25/2011
I would suggest you set aside all you have heard about "Christianity", get a copy of the Bible on CDs and listen to the whole thing all the way through with the unbiased intent to try to discover if there is a unified thought that follows all the way through all its books and comes to a favorable conclusion at the end and after you have listened to it enough times to truly understand what the "true" message is ask yourself, "Can this possibly be true and if it is true could it be any better?" One can get a free download of the Bible on the net or buy a commercially made copy pretty cheap.
GHarry
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08:25 AM on 08/26/2011
Better yet, get a copy of Shakespeare's sonnets on CD and listen to those all the way through. It will have the same effect and you won't have to worry about what "yea, verily" means.
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09:30 PM on 08/26/2011
It would be my guess that if you believe the statement you made here that you have never actually read or studied or listened to all the Holy Bible enough to understand its message. If you do not have an audio copy, downloading a free copy or getting one of the very inexpensive copies on DVD or Mp3Cd would make it possible for you to go through it very quickly and pick out a lot that could help you come to a better conclusion. I prefer my CD collections because they make it easier for me to listen to certain sections that contain some of the more beneficial information over and over again.
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01:52 PM on 08/25/2011
A beautiful essay on Atheism. As an atheist, I seldom argue the merits of someones theistic belief, instead choosing to argue the contradictions of religious belief with theistic belief. I love the references to energy, but believe that a true, more realistic take on the universe is chaos. From chaos comes order, and from order chaos. Every moment offers an opportunity for a future, and those moments should be enjoyed and remembered for what they contribute to the next moment. If we begin looking at life as a series of decisions, based on a moment, and then another moment, life will be rich and satisfying, not because of the tomorrows, but because of the now.
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12:44 PM on 08/25/2011
Wonderful! I dare say your description of yourself as an atheist is what's true of the great majority of atheists. But as with religious people, so with atheists: it seems the greatest noise is made by the most (as you put it) militant. And scanning the comments here, it appears that they are handing you the same sorts of criticisms that fundamentalist Christians hand out to their non-fundamentalist brethren.

Thanks for adding your voice here.
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07:21 AM on 08/25/2011
"Militant atheist supremacist" is typical of religionists' need to make atheism a personal assault, a threat to their safety. It's acceptable to them if somebody says a namby-pamby "I sorta don't believe in god but I'm VERY spiritual." But a simple declarative sentence: "I don't believe in god," makes the speaker militant. The fact is, it's been amply demonstrated throughout human history that the faithful are far more threatening than the doubters.

What makes churchies and semi-churchies and the quasi-believers so afraid? Won't god or the godlike who-knows-what that lives beyond the horizon protect them from the big, bad atheists?
09:02 AM on 08/25/2011
I had the same issue the language. The theistic counterparts to the vocal atheist, i.e. those who believe atheism to be foolish, pitiful, etc and whom vigorously exhort their cause to convert others get a relatively free pass. They are often considered ambassadors to the "faith". They certainly aren’t referred to as “militant” or “supremacist” for harboring such attitudes. This is because criticizing religious belief has been conflated with criticizing intrinsic human traits such as race or gender.
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09:26 AM on 08/25/2011
The thing is, I'd have no complaint with someone who says they think atheism is foolish or pitiful. To each his own. I think religion is foolish and pitiful.

What sets me off is when they use language meant to recast atheism into something it isn't so it may be made easier for them to assail it. If they feel a need to assail atheism, they should do it honestly and forthrightly for what it is. Lord knows (pardon the expression), religion is eminently assailable without changing a thing.
01:16 AM on 08/25/2011
I think anybody who believes in "cosmic consciousness" is addressed as a "pantheist" and not as an "atheist" in the common vernacular.
06:34 AM on 08/25/2011
That's why the common definition of atheism as "don't believe in God" seems inadequate. Most who profess to atheism would more accurately be described as materilaists or physicalists, i.e. believing that physical matter is the only fundamental reality.
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07:25 AM on 08/25/2011
Atheist means one thing: "I don't believe in god." Atheism is not something one professes. it is not a belief system. It is the name we give to one who does not believe in god.

The idea of giving a name to people who acknowledge the presence of the material world makes no sense at all—but it's typical of religionists' need to line everybody up, assign them to a team, give their team a name, and then throw stones at them.
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catsanon
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03:36 PM on 08/25/2011
"That's why the common definition of atheism as "don't believe in God" seems inadequate­."

It only seems inadequate to people who want to impose their own beliefs upon that simple concept.

People who fall under the "atheist" label can include individuals who are also Buddhists, devout followers of Ayn Rand, people such as Dori Hartley who reject the word "god" when describing their beliefs - the list could go on for as many individuals as one might imagine. The only common denominator is "don't believe in any god".

Anything which anyone imposes upon that phrase is the property of the person proposing the elaboration, and is not universal. The phrase itself requires no elaboration or theological justification beyond the simple statement "I don't believe" - but for some reason that seems to drive theists crazy.
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06:09 PM on 08/24/2011
I, too, am an atheist, but I’m the kind who doesn’t pray. (In fact, I believe Dori Hartley’s beliefs are more accurately defined as agnostic.) I have no gripe with anyone who practices faith; I understand that being an atheist puts me in a small minority. I do, however, have a big gripe with the perceived relationship between faith and morality.

Being an atheist doesn’t make me want to suddenly go out and kill kittens. I understand what honesty is, and I cherish it. I understand what love is, and I cherish it. At the end of the day, I have myself to answer to, and I can be a tough critic.

It’s hardly a secret that religion has been used to propagate a number of atrocities throughout history. What might be less known is that belief in the mortality of the soul can be a powerful force for good. After all, if there’s no heaven, shouldn’t we live as though this will be our only chance to experience just a little of what that could be?
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catsanon
Humans... Such silly creatures.
10:17 PM on 08/24/2011
Kittens everywhere thank you.

And I like your comment too.
04:06 AM on 08/25/2011
Kathleens,

No, we shouldn't live our lives as though we are experiencing what Heaven could be. You seem a little confused. In other words, you want to believe that "morality", "good", etc. are entities outside the human construct which merit their own reward...doesn't happen with atheism.

I want you to sit back an imagine...heaven. You already know that it should be a place of absolute perfection. Well, it is! Think of every good thing you have ever experienced, and think of things which are good that you want to experience. Those things will be there for you in Heaven.

If God has the capability to create the good things which you know of right now, don't you want to see what the good things are He has waiting for you. I just bet you do.

From your post it is easy to tell that you are a person full of good emotions...but, those emotions run deeper than you would like to admit. Until death the door is always open.
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kathleens
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12:37 PM on 08/25/2011
I began my comment with I don’t have a gripe with anyone who practices faith, and I honestly don’t. I’m not going to try to convince you anything so personal. I’d hope you’d afford me that same respect.
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09:30 AM on 09/08/2011
This comment pretty well sums up my problems with the "mainstream" view of WHY people should believe. "Don't you want the big reward (heaven) you get for toeing the line?" and "It's never too late until you die." So God is a loving Father until you misbehave and happen to die before you learn your lessons. After that your loving Father tosses your soul into a fiery pit of torment for all of eternity. If that's your Christian, Jewish, Muslim view of God (yes, it still amazes me that the vast majority of the so called religious don't know all three religions worship and acknowledge the same God) I'm going to take a pass.
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Cole 33
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.
04:49 PM on 08/24/2011
It seems in our modern age we are on the verge of creating all new Gods, because the old gods are defined by ancient language, and don't sounds convincing. But now we can create all new gods, and we can use pseudo scientific language to make them sound easier to believe in.

This is how you know god created man, by the evolution of it's definitions, it's attributes, because if a god did exist why would it's definitions and attributes change at all.

And this is why there is some respect for fundamentals, they're crazy, but at least they're consistent.
04:24 AM on 08/25/2011
Cole 33,

God remains Constant. It is man's knowledge which changes man's understanding. Much like yourself. When you were young and looked up in the sky you knew airplanes fly. Now, when you look up at an airplane you know that it's the jet engines which keep it up in the air. They still fly but your understanding has matured. And, you still marvel at them regardless of your understanding.

I can tell you that it seems as though we are living so much more "modern" or advanced from our ancestors...but, it was only yesterday. That's the way life continues one day after another. There's no great jump in life...a day, a month, a thousand years...just one day after another.
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07:47 AM on 08/25/2011
Something else is a constant: the speed of light through a vacuum. I can also prove it exists.
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Cole 33
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.
10:22 AM on 08/25/2011
Well it doesn't *seem* like we are living in so much moderns times, we are. the industrial revolution, was the big jump.

As far as god, how understanding can't change for something we cannot prove exists. The airplane we can prove exists, *we* don't define the physics of flight, we've discovered them, so our understanding is informed by that which we can prove *thrust* *lift* etc.
10:23 AM on 08/25/2011
You may be right but I think it's fascinating that math and physics can present possibilities as to the nature consciousness and matter that have been described by ancient yogis in India. I don't see it as proof of anything but it's very interesting. We may be on the verge of finding some answers that will challenge both religion and the accepted scientific understanding of our nature. If a spirituality emerges from it that abandons the dogma of the past, it could be a positive thing.

Personally, I have no respect for fundamentalists, they are unable to assimilate new information into their belief systems. Buddhists, 'New Agers' and others are not threatened by science.
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Cole 33
Careful. We don't want to learn from this.
11:42 AM on 08/25/2011
Interesting, I'm not aware of any mathematics and physics that have made presentations on consciousness. would love to see them if you have any you can share.

The key to buddhists and *some* new agers aren't threatened by science I think, is that they aren't proposing anything thats in direct opposition to current scientific understanding, which I think helps.
03:23 PM on 08/24/2011
Ms. Hartley, Thomas Jefferson would love you.

While Jefferson loved the core message of Jesus (around the golden rule, peace, love, compassion, charity, empathy, forgiveness, etc.) he rejected what he called "corruptions" in the Bible. In fact, he wrote the following:

"Among the sayings and discourses imputed to Jesus by his biographers, I find many passages of fine imagination, correct morality, and of the most lovely benevolence; and others again of so much ignorance, so much absurdity, so much untruth, charlatanism, and imposture, as to pronounce it impossible that such contradictions should have proceeded from the same being." – Thomas Jefferson

I agree. So do a growing number of religious scholars and archaeologists whose research has revealed that the Christian Bible, as we know it, is not the literal "Word of God" as is claimed by Fundamentalists who do not understand the true fundamentals of their religion.

Read About Christianity, at http://messenger.cjcmp.org/christianity.html
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04:29 PM on 08/24/2011
"Ms. Hartley, Thomas Jefferson would love you."

Sure, appeal to someone who's been dead for 185 years and can't contradict you.
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10:51 PM on 08/24/2011
LOL. Thank you.

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