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Dr. G (Deborah Gilboa, MD) is a board certified Family Physician and a Clinical Assistant Professor at University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine. She is a Parenting Writer and Speaker, and mom of four. Dr. G founded www.AskDoctorG.com which is a community for parents and educators to ask questions about child behavior. Dr. G leads workshops nationally, empowering parents to raise kids they respect and admire!

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Don't Let Mother's Day be Martyrs Day!

(9) Comments | Posted May 9, 2012 | 4:11 PM

Over the past couple of weeks, I've asked moms on Facebook what they wanted or expected for Mother's Day. Oy, the lukewarm responses I got! "Just a day to myself would be nice." "A day with the kids." "I don't know, my kids will probably do something... maybe."...

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Toulouse Shooting: Answering My Children's Questions When I Barely Have the Words

(11) Comments | Posted March 21, 2012 | 3:20 PM

Here is the truth: A man opened fire at a bus stop for a Jewish school in France, and then went inside the school to keep killing.

I am a mom who answers questions with the truth. "Where do babies come from?" "Where will the...

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If Rush Limbaugh Doesn't Know How to Apologize, How Can We Expect Kids to?

(110) Comments | Posted March 5, 2012 | 12:26 PM

As you've likely heard, Rush Limbaugh said some really offensive stuff last week about a woman wanting to appear before Congress to discuss the necessity of birth control. This is pretty typical behavior for Mr. Limbaugh, but he clearly went too far this time, causing at least seven...

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Create Warriors

(3) Comments | Posted February 23, 2012 | 6:51 AM

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We are, I think, only the second generation of parents who do not honor warriors.

For centuries children played at war, at fighting, at hunting. Boys mostly, but girls as well (ever read "Little House on the Prairie"?). Parents didn't...

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Valentine's Day for Kids: Should It Be Rated PG?

(2) Comments | Posted February 10, 2012 | 12:33 PM

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Valentine's Day can teach kids beautiful messages about taking time to appreciate those we love. This is a day that can make them feel cherished. Kids can learn how good it feels to make someone else feel great -- we can reinforce...

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What Can Your Kids Gain From Watching the Super Bowl?

(15) Comments | Posted February 3, 2012 | 4:54 PM

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Curse words, hearing loss, sleep deprivation, a lesson in burping the alphabet from Uncle Joey, sure. But, also, lessons in sportsmanship, perseverance and loyalty.

Some parents avoid professional sports so that their children will not get caught up in that...

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Ask Not What You Can Do for Your Child -- Ask What Your Child Can Do For You!

(0) Comments | Posted January 26, 2012 | 5:23 PM

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Why do we as parents do so much for our kids? Because we can, I think. We are not, most of us, plowing or harvesting from sunup til sundown. There are magic boxes in our home that scrub the wash, wash...

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Child Safety Seats and Where Can My Kid Sit in the $%#@ Car?

(7) Comments | Posted January 20, 2012 | 10:32 AM

Parents do not want their kids to be injured in a car crash.


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Even though we are all excellent drivers, we know that everyone else on the road is a moron, and we want to protect our kids from danger....

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Why You Should Practice Emergency Preparedness With Your Kids

(9) Comments | Posted January 11, 2012 | 1:27 PM

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My kids will tell you that my husband and I care more about our dogs than we do about our boys.

This is patently false. Their argument, however, is that we take the dogs to the doctor when they're sick, but the...

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Need a New Years Resolution? Stop Counting Your Husband As a Child!

(14) Comments | Posted December 30, 2011 | 3:12 PM

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Ladies, ever been referred to as your husband's ball and chain? Hilarious! The whole group chuckles. It doesn't bug you, much. Inside, though, you're wishing that your husband would stand up, look at his beer-guzzling, living-in-his-parents-basement Neanderthal friend (or brother) and say...

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Use the End of the Iraq War! Teach an Attitude of Gratitude in Your Family

(31) Comments | Posted December 20, 2011 | 9:52 AM

I do not want to argue about the war in Iraq. Was it necessary, was it useful, was it just or ethical? I believe it was, but that is not what's important this week.


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Do you support the...

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There's No Such Thing as a Bully

(22) Comments | Posted December 14, 2011 | 9:32 AM

Scandalous -- of course there are bullies! A bully is anyone who is mean to my darling child! Any kid who doesn't invite my child, who teases or mocks or pushes my boy, who turns a shoulder or doesn't answer a question, who chooses to hang out with someone else...

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Do You Unmask the Tooth Fairy?

(5) Comments | Posted December 7, 2011 | 1:00 PM

The myth of the tooth fairy starts in about kindergarten. It seems to boil down to this:

Losing a tooth might be scary but everybody makes a big deal out of it and then You Get Stuff!

I think this is a really fun tradition. Most kids love...

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What to Say When You and Your Partner Get "Caught" in Bed by Your Kid

(96) Comments | Posted November 29, 2011 | 2:47 PM

If you and your partner got "caught" in bed by your kid, what would you say?

Parenting magazines often run cute stories on "Things to Say at That Awkward Moment!" My favorite of these helpful tidbits was this suggestion, "Oh, honey! Daddy was helping Mommy look for a quarter she...

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