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3 Keys To Living The Life You Want

Posted: 09/13/2011 8:20 am

As I travel around the globe speaking and training, I have consistently found that most people ask me the same question, "How do I discover my purpose in life?" In the past, who you became was determined by your family and circumstances. You didn't have much choice. But now there is an open moment in history where you have the chance to tap into the soul of your purpose.

Millions of people right now are experiencing a yearning and desire to awaken to their unique gifts and offer them in service to the world -- while living a life of joy and fulfillment. It's a surging of the human spirit, a virtual global awakening, at a scale that no one has ever seen before. Simply put, people are longing to finally feel fully alive and to fulfill their unique purpose in life.

So then why is living a life of meaning and purpose so difficult? It is because our current social systems have not been set up to prepare us to live a life of true purpose. That's because today's culture exists not to nurture our highest aspirations, but to ensure our basic survival. Our educational system is designed to create good workers who will slot into jobs and careers later in life -- not to empower fiery, creative people who are forging the path ahead together. Our social contracts exist to perpetuate the status quo -- not to encourage our highest potentials to blossom. Is it any wonder why so many people's best attempts to evolve themselves and our culture fall short of the goal? We simply haven't been trained in how to bring the possible future into the present.

It's not that they don't have the talent or interest to live a purposeful, meaningful life. The issue is far simpler. People struggle to activate their "purpose code" because they haven't woken up to -- or are only partially awake to -- our situation as a human race. Most people hold on to old, limiting beliefs of themselves and our human story. Overwhelmed by all the changes in the world around them, most people live their lives within a "small story" and therefore confine themselves to a "small self." That's why so many people feel that they don't have a purpose, or that they aren't able to actually live the life they were born to live.

There is a saying that "What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly." I believe that it is butterfly time. Just as the guidance cells in the mush that is the caterpillar in its cocoon suddenly begin to activate the transformation of mush into butterfly, so too this is the time when we realize that the guidance or imaginal cells of our bodies, our communities, and, yes, even of the cells of our planet are calling us to come together in all our parts to form something gorgeous, interdependent, living lightly on the earth, cross pollinating cultures, ideas, spiritual forms, glowing with the light that suffuses us, becoming transparent to transcendence. And to rise out of the mush we have been caught in these many hundreds of years and to take flight in the air of the new story which is emerging in our time.

For the fields we traverse, the many flowers of mind states and soul knowings we now enter are those that belong to the whole earth, to many cultures, to what I am calling "PanGaia." And as the butterfly pollinates and cross pollinates from place to place, flower to flower, so do we also if we have the will and the willingness to discover our purpose and be part of this extraordinary moment in time.

Three Keys to Empowering New Beliefs

The first key to activating your life's purpose is to hold new beliefs about yourself and about your role in the great story of where humanity is headed.

Living a great life requires that you understand the challenges and opportunities of our moment in history. To understand this for myself, I've gathered information from my work in over 100 countries and 40 different cultures, and what I've discovered has served as a sure guide on my path. Specifically, I have found five great shifts in our understanding of the story of our time that are affecting everything we do today. I believe that awakening to the power of these shifts will help you cultivate your sense of compassion and of the infinite possibilities of this moment.

The Five Shifts Are:

  1. Our understanding of who and what we are and what we need to become in order to be able to deal with the complexity of our time is evolving.
  2. Human societies are in the process of re-patterning. Social constructs are dissolving and whole new stories are trying to emerge, such as the rise of women to a full partnership with men across the globe, and many others.
  3. How we conduct business and governance is shifting in the midst of vast ecological and financial changes. This is perhaps the most important social event of the last 5,000 years, because these issues impact almost everything in our lives.
  4. The rise and fusion of different cultures -- we are swiftly moving toward a planetary civilization that accentuates the uniqueness of each culture while blending them together. Think of the great fusions of food, of music and of beliefs.
  5. Whole new orders of spirituality are emerging that are not about religion. The new cosmologies are giving us a view of ourselves that we never had before. For the first time ever, we find that we don't just live in the universe, but that the universe lives in us.
  6. This journey begins by letting go of old beliefs and patterns to make room for the new beliefs and capacities that will empower you to awaken to and live your higher purpose.

The second key allows you to discover and realize the vast field of inner intelligences -- using multiple means of knowing and being in order to gain insight into life at a level to which most people rarely have access. These skills are to be found on four levels of your human capacity, sensory-physical, psychological-emotional, mythic-symbolic and unitive-spiritual. As you learn how to utilize the extraordinary capacities to be found at each of these levels, you literally move into new ways of being. For example, you will learn how to play with time in such a way as to take five minutes and experience it internally as hours -- these are "hours" you can use to develop a skill or move a project forward.

You will learn to access "inner experts" -- willing helpers or personas that will help you navigate the complexity of life with elegance and confidence.

The third key gives you the means to break free from unconscious, habitual ways of reacting to life that were born thousands of years ago, and embrace higher ways of being for a new era. You will discover ways to move through life with ebullience in your bones and an appetite for celebration -- seeing everything as an expression of the creator. You will move through life, motivated not by guilt or obligation, but by gratitude and an abiding zest for doing the things that are called forth by living out of your higher purpose.

Dr. Jean Houston is presenting a free 75-minute downloadable audio seminar titled "3 Keys to Discovering and Living Your True Purpose Available Now" at www.DestinyandYou.com.

Dr. Jean Houston is a scholar, philosopher and one of the foremost visionary thinkers and doers of our time. She is considered one of the principal founders of the Human Potential Movement. A powerful and dynamic speaker, she has served as consultant to several agencies of United Nations, including UNICEF and the UNDP. She has worked in more than 100 countries training leadership at every level to enhance skills and purpose so as to bring a new mind to bear upon challenging issues. A prolific writer and author of 26 books, including "A Passion for the Possible and The Mythic Life," Dr. Houston has recently joined the faculty of Evolving Wisdom, today's fastest growing global e-learning company specializing in transformative education, to provide her wisdom online in a cutting edge format. www.DestinyandYou.com.

 

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As I travel around the globe speaking and training, I have consistently found that most people ask me the same question, "How do I discover my purpose in life?" In the past, who you became was determi...
As I travel around the globe speaking and training, I have consistently found that most people ask me the same question, "How do I discover my purpose in life?" In the past, who you became was determi...
 
 
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Boopsie2008
Obama 2012. Says it all.
12:02 AM on 10/19/2011
These three steps sound like they require a focus and concentration to effectuate that may not be possible to people who are deeply stressed and troubled. What I'd like to know is how you get calm enough to do the three steps.
05:53 PM on 10/13/2011
So, the five shifts are parts of the three keys? Does that make eight things altogether? Or just seven since the first key is really an aggregate of the five shifts? It would be very helpful if you'd clarify.

And are bones really the best place for ebullience? Wouldn't ebullience be better in a soft tissue location?
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DrMiaRose
Author, Psychologist and Wellness Coach
04:52 PM on 10/13/2011
I love the idea that we're living in 'butterfly time.' Indeed we do. This reminds me of one of my favourite passages from Mark Nepo's 'The Book of Awakening': 'Now more than ever, when each decision feels like the end, you must believe that each question is a beginning... Now more than ever, when feeling that you are the source and recipient of all pain, you must bow your head till the ancient channel from sky to heart can re-open, till you remember that you are a blessed piece of spirit-dust in spirit-wind. Now more than ever, you must breathe till your ounce of breath becomes the sky, again and again.'

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Yvonne Serocki
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09:08 PM on 09/23/2011
Great article. Thank you for your wisdom and leadership. The key I have found to living a fulfilling life is changing my mind, literally:) "Free your mind and the rest will follow"
http://newheavenonearth.wordpress.com/2011/09/22/what-were-you-thinking/
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Lorenzo&BushH8ter
04:23 AM on 09/20/2011
Student: Master, what is the fundamental principle of Buddhism?

Master: There is enough breeze in this fan to keep me cool.
06:02 PM on 09/16/2011
Absolutely agree that current social systems do not prepare us to live to our true purpose; that's why I left corporate America after fifteen years! I also believe that we would find our human existence more meaningful if we were to focus more on "being" than "doing." It all reminds me of the Teilhard de Chardin quote: “You are not a human being in search of a spiritual experience. You are a spiritual being immersed in a human experience.”

Now, for all you poo-pooing naysayers out there, "being" doesn't mean you sit around and do nothing all day, but rather you move through each moment of your day mindfully aware of yourself and all those around you! You appreciate every minute of every day!
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Tree S-B
Well, you know...
09:18 AM on 09/16/2011
Great article, very well put.

As seen in a lot of the comments, many people are still trapped in their own fears and negativity.
11:56 PM on 09/14/2011
Addresses universal need of 6 Billion people :) Wonderfullllll !!!
02:29 PM on 09/14/2011
sounds like a bunch of hooey to me. Somebody please explain to me just exactly how one is supposed to earn money to live while one is off discovering one's "true purpose" in life. Just a bunch of tree huggin hippy crap if ya ask me.
05:50 PM on 09/16/2011
Dude, like... you really need to hug a tree. It will make you feel much better! :-)
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Alexis Elizabeth Drob
I do not reply
12:11 AM on 11/03/2011
LOL good response, I like that!!!!
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smp276dp
free us from the craziness
01:11 PM on 09/14/2011
The power of positive thinking. I will hit the mega millions. I will hit the powerball. I will hit the mega millions. I will hit the powerball. If you say it enough you'll soon believe it.
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riverdaughte3
Mother, Minister, Life Coach, Relationship Counsel
12:33 PM on 09/14/2011
This is a lot of verbiage to make something so simple seem as if it is esoteric teaching. Simply put, understanding ourselves leads us to understanding others which leads to compassion, which engenders kindness. Our "soul" purpose is simply to be ourselves and we can positively affect change on a global scale one smile at a time. You don't need to purchase any book or take any expensive training course to do this.
01:36 PM on 09/14/2011
Well said! Excellent!!!
12:39 AM on 10/07/2011
I agree with you that most 'new agers' make the simple seem super complex. I think the reason is that these people can't quite put their finger on what it is they're suppose to do to actually live the life they want. So they spend a lot of time jabbering around trying to re-invent what's already been said and done. Simply go out and start living it.
12:01 PM on 09/14/2011
this stuff sounds to me like the crap that is currently sending our nation downhill. everyone is getting more selfish. it's me, me, me. no one worries about taking care of parents (put them in a home and ignore them), taking care of spouse or working on a marriage (if they need attention just divorce them), or putting children first (dump them on someone else, kill them, which is happening more and more) and nothing is worth working for. people think they should come first and anything that gets in the way of their happiness should be swept aside. maybe instead of going to school with the purpose of becoming a productive member of society, we should just all follow our "true purpose" and do what we want and let others pay the bill.....
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Vote ABC- Anybody But Cantor
09:46 PM on 09/18/2011
"find yourself", deepen your compassion for others
03:01 PM on 10/15/2011
Sounds like a bunch of crap? I think Mother Theresa and others like her did a wonderful miracle of love through out the world because they followed their purpose. Do you think Jesus followed his purpose? Should he have been more productive in society, working at a job that you think would be more appropriate? Like maybe instead of going about doing good, he should have known his place and stayed at home being a carpenter like Joseph?
10:08 AM on 09/14/2011
Three things that I do not understand: 1) How gas is priced. 2) Depression...long-term ( clinical ) and 3) Suicide.
09:44 AM on 09/14/2011
This article reminds me of her book A Passion for the Possible: A Guide to Realizing Your True Potential. It was also a PBS special. Her books are worth a look if you enjoy self help with a dose of spiritualitiy.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
09:17 AM on 09/14/2011
Jean Houston is an inspiration to us all!

A true jewel who I am happy to know walks her talk!

It is a joy that she is a featured contributor to our book

BE THE CHANGE

as well as other of our books!