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Being Thankful, Being Giving

Posted: 11/23/10 10:23 AM ET

As we all settle into the warmth of our families and communities over Thanksgiving, my heart, my thoughts and my prayers take me back to Haiti which as I write this blog, is in a state of turmoil, suffering, and chaos that is not much better than after the earthquake. Since the first moments I, my wife, Paul Farmer, and our team landed on the chaotic tarmac of the airport and worked 20-hours day in the University Hospital, Haiti has gotten under my skin and burrowed into my heart and soul. There have been so many people doing such great work there like Paul Farmer and Partners in Health, and my long lost cousin who I found through my work in Haiti, David Meltzer, the head of International Relief for the American Red Cross.

But Haiti's problems are deep, and their people's suffering is great. Cholera is spreading, gender violence in the camps increases, hunger mounts, over a million are still homeless, and families are even living on highway medians as trucks and cars race by.

Helping Haiti

Though the news may not always reflect it, dedicated people who have devoted their lives to helping in Haiti (and other places the poor suffer are doing good things). Over dinner this weekend, my cousin, David (we have the same great-grandparents), explained the extraordinary efforts of the Red Cross who have spent hundreds of millions of dollars in Haiti already. Since the initial disaster, The American Red Cross has provided millions of dollars to support the main hospital in Haiti where I first worked, and has saved another hospital, Port au Prince's major trauma center, that was about to shut down for lack of funds. They have created transitional homes for 150,000 people, given cash grants and microloans to help nearly 210,000 people with basic needs and to invest in small businesses, provided drinking water for 280,000 people each day, developed preparedness activities to protect 500,000 people and medical care and/or health education for 435,000 people. They also have created emergency shelter materials for 625,000 people, latrines for 238,000 people, and provided emergency supplies for 125,000 people for use during hurricane season.
To learn more about how they have helped and to give to this cause see their website.

And last Wednesday, at the annual dinner for the Robert F. Kennedy Center for Justice and Human Rights, we all listened with open, but sad hearts, as actress Juliana Margulies read the words of Loune Viaud from Partners in Health who shared what is still going on, but also what has been accomplished by the committed.

Last week on 60 Minutes Bryon Pitts and Magalie Laguerre, aired a segment on Haiti that you should all watch.

And there was a 60 Minutes Overtime segment in which I was featured, and Magalie, a Haitian American, who was there when I first brought 60 Minutes to the hospital morgue that first awful night in Haiti, shared how it was for her seeing her people and her land in the wake of such destruction.

Partners in Health recently released their annual report on their work, which I encourage you to review. Once you do, I ask you to give of your self, your money, or your time or support their work.

Here is part of what Partners in Health recently shared regarding their work:

The earthquake that flattened Port-au-Prince on January 12 ranks among the worst disasters in modern history: 230,000 killed in a matter of minutes, more than 1.5 million left homeless.

In the days following the quake, Paul Farmer diagnosed the catastrophe as a case of what doctors call "acute-on-chronic"--an already bad problem rendered immeasurably worse. Haiti's chronic conditions--extreme poverty, food and water insecurity, lack of economic opportunities, crumbling public health and education systems--left the country ever more vulnerable to this acute disaster. The cholera outbreak is once again exposing the fragility of health care in Haiti--and the need for long-term, progressive and fair solutions.

Being Thankful and Giving Thanks

As I get ready to gather with my family and be thankful for the goodness in my life, I am thankful for having gone to Haiti this year, for being able to give of my time, my heart and my money. Gratitude is healing, and we have much to be thankful for. But giving is also healing--it opens the heart and soul. I have received much more from my work in Haiti than I have given.

A few days ago, I received an email from one medical student, Auguste, with whom I worked closely when I was in Haiti. After the earthquake, his family lost everything--they had no home, food, or water. Even so, he showed up in the operating room to help us every day. Things are worse for him now. Here is what he said to me in a recent email.

"Dr. Mark please help me find a way to work a little bit. When God allows the possibility for school I will go... Things are just coming harder every single day for me... My family and I can't even eat, eating is coming a need for us now... Now in the country we have shooting in different areas, because it's election time...

Thank you so much for helping... God bless you... Auguste"

The Buddha said when your heart breaks, it can break open or closed. Let your heart break open for Haiti and for Auguste and find a way to help, to be giving in any way you can. The American Red Cross and Partners in Health are two excellent organizations you can give to and be sure the money will go to help those in need in Haiti.

To learn more about the tragedy in Haiti and my work there read about My Commitment to Haiti at www.drhyman.com.

To your good health,

Mark Hyman, MD

 
 
 

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As we all settle into the warmth of our families and communities over Thanksgiving, my heart, my thoughts and my prayers take me back to Haiti which as I write this blog, is in a state of turmoil, suf...
As we all settle into the warmth of our families and communities over Thanksgiving, my heart, my thoughts and my prayers take me back to Haiti which as I write this blog, is in a state of turmoil, suf...
 
 
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lemmyk73
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04:25 PM on 11/29/2010
Make this year a "presentless Christmas"

If everyone took the money they would have spent for Christmas this year and gave it to a random stranger in need, we'd all be better off.

Instead of going to an office party where corporate money is wasted, go and volunteer for a soup kitchen or buy one child a really cool gift.

Give your money to an animal shelter or instead of that new Xbox game, adopt a pet.

Sadly most people will continue to be selfish this year.
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lotusgirl
Turned off the TV and stepped out of the Matrix
01:33 PM on 11/28/2010
as we are more afraid for our own financial futures, it makes it hard to give of ourselves. i have decided to go a little lighter on gifts this year (we all have everything we need), and more into charities. i like giving to save the children because of it's low administrative expense (at least as of the last time i checked a few years ago).

blessing to those who give!
10:21 AM on 11/28/2010
Giving is awesome.
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07:23 PM on 11/25/2010
I'm thankful that I live in Canada, a country where, if I get sick, I don't have to worry how much is in my bank account.....where rates of violent crime are so damn low, they're WIMPY! Where strong governmental (sorry, righties, GOVERNMENTAL) regulation of the financial industry allowed us to avoid the worst of the meltdown and emerge with the least-damaged economy of any G-8 country.

I hope that, someday, the haters and obstructionists who are thwarting the will of the American majority will come to their senses, so that your great country, which led the world in progress for so long, can once again do so.

Canada's Thanksgiving is in October, but, on this day dedicated to unity and togetherness in the U.S., I wish all Americans peace, both foreign and domestic.

Now enjoy your turkey, eh?

;-)
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10:35 PM on 11/26/2010
We'll wake up eventually, because we'll have no choice. It's only a matter of time before this ship hits the iceberg. It would make good sense to alter our course now, but that probably won't happen.

We can all hope that a different USA — saner, fairer, more mature — emerges from the tough times that lay ahead.

Canada is a great country. You're lucky to live there!
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lotusgirl
Turned off the TV and stepped out of the Matrix
01:28 PM on 11/28/2010
our country is being overrun by the oligarchs. most americans have not awakened yet to realize it. unfortunately, we are being fed incredible amounts of propaganda, while watching too much reality shows. as things get worse, i hope more people will unplug from the propaganda machine and start looking at what is really going on.
12:13 PM on 11/25/2010
There are some of us who also donate with time.
My brother travels with Doctors With Out Boarders at least once a year.
07:52 AM on 11/24/2010
For more on cholera in Haiti--including technology that isn't being utilized, though is more effective than current re-hydrating methods--read Henry I Miller's article at http://www.project-syndicate.org/commentary/miller10/English.
08:52 PM on 11/23/2010
1.Honestly...I have read one too many reports and heard one to many candid remarks of how the money I donate is used throughout the system for membership perks, and 'overhead' to ever feel like donating money...actual currency...to ANYTHING again.
What might be a really neat idea, would be to have charities, especially this time of year, team up with stores across the country. Instead of walking through the doors of a store during a season and a decade when our own financial resources are not the best, anyway...and facing the guilt and lack of socialbility...(along with the reminder of a lack of trust in ones fellow man and the organizations who organize him) for not donating to charities...there might be a better way.
Pick a few items...every day or every hour or ever five minutes...set up a meter or some sort of visually accurate and appealing graph...
08:21 PM on 11/25/2010
I love this idea, its about time charities worked arm in arm instead of at shoulder length with retailers. Some have started but imagine if you can give a matching gift with a card that goes with your purchase to a favourite charity any time of the year? Iv'e asked many relatives to only give me donations to local and other non profits this year in lieu of gifts.
12:02 PM on 11/26/2010
There are still many fine charities that do amazing work without perks. Dr Hyman can attest to this. I have gone to Haiti and done work with doctors without borders. We went there at our own expense. We lived in tents with no electricity. We ate food we brought ourselves. There were no "perks". Doctors without borders helped with logistical support and medical supplies. There was no money being wasted at five star resorts. Doctors and nurses worked twenty hour days doing grueling work like amputations without anesthesia. I understand your reluctance to give money to phoney charities. Do not give up hope. Take some time to research on the internet which charities do real good works without high overhead. Doctors without borders is great. So is Partners in health which Dr Hyman worked with. Remember also that some overhead expenditures by charities are legitimate. What you should not do is pass the buck and call for others, like businesses and retailers, to do the work that YOU can. It is easy to ask someone else to give to charity. Come judgment day, they will not be asking who did you tell to do good deeds, they will be asking what good deeds did YOU do?
08:52 PM on 11/23/2010
2.When a charitable donator sees an item they would like to donate to a particular charity or Christmas drive...they donate money directly to a representative of the charity...who turns the money directly over to the store from which it is being purchased...real-time IN FRONT of the donators...as items are paid for they could be displayed in a case...or pictures could be taken of them for a wall of accomplishment...
It adds a middle man...which the dollar charity industry seems to want...but it does it in a more up and up kind of way.
09:05 PM on 11/23/2010
It might do us good as a race of human beings to be encouraged to donate our nickels, our pennies...to these visible, tangible items. Each time we walk by we can give a little something...or we only have to give a very little something in these tough times to feel like we have done something good. It will make us feel like going back again and again to see how we are accomplishing the goal of the charity along with our fellow community members...each in our own small way.
Sometimes, as important as the big donor is...the idea of the big money may lessen us unintentionally in our own esteem..in the esteem of our 'though patterns' and cause us to miss out on one of the most fulfilling things we can do for our own feelings of happinesss...euphoria even...giving something to our fellow man...working with others...who are like us...from all walks of life...to make a difference.
08:49 PM on 11/23/2010
Doctor Mark,

Ever consider sponsoring Auguste for study in the US of A, so that he could return to Haiti as a Medical Doctor?
12:11 PM on 11/23/2010
In a sea of self serving media, this article reached out and touched my heart. I find it odd that so many people find the ability to respond to articles here of lesser intent, and wonder why healing eludes their own nation. If we cannot discern how in healing and giving we are all connected we shall inhibit our progress to self healing on the home front.

Please see my article that briefly touches on this subject at: http://www.backyardmystic.com/2010/11/healing-in-epidemic-proportions/
Ana4
neutrino alert, just passing through
10:57 PM on 11/26/2010
Well stated Eric, and very true. Thank you for putting it the way you did. namaste