As summer is coming to an end and fall is right around the corner, for many parents it is that time of year again: back to school.
If you are a parent, and your child is getting ready to return to school after a long stretch of vacation time, you know that that the first week is typically a serious struggle. Ever wonder why? A few reasons:
- If you have a teenager, their body clock naturally wants to stay up later and sleep in later so you are really going against nature on that one.
- If your child had a later bedtime over the summer than during than the school year, their sleep pressure (like hunger, but for sleep) is less earlier in the evening rather than later, and going to sleep at their "school year" bedtime will be harder.
- Finally, remember there is always an adjustment period to any big change and it is often pretty painful.
So how much sleep should your child get?
- Toddlers ( 1-3 years): 12-14 hours of sleep, once they reach 18 months, naps will decrease to once per day
- Pre-Schoolers (3-5 years): 11-13 hours, they usually lose their nap by age 5
- School-aged Kids (5-12 years): 10-11 hours
- Teens (13-19 years): 9-10 hours
Here are a few tip and tricks I have used with my patients over the years to make the transition from summer to school a bit smoother:
- About two weeks before school starts, have your child go to bed 15 minutes earlier than they normally do, then after three days of this make it 30 minutes and so on, until they are within 30 minutes of what should be their normal bedtime.
- Begin to limit or eliminate caffeine intake by about 2:30 p.m., many people do not know that caffeine can stay in your system for 10 hours (this includes energy drinks as well). Check the label on some vitamin waters -- they may have caffeine.
- Even if you cannot get your children to go to bed any earlier (which you really should try) get them waking up closer and closer to their school time wake up time. This will help provide an anchor to their already shifting biological rhythm.
- Exercising each day will certainly help their sleep, so keep them outside as long as you can (use sunscreen) and in the pool so they will be nice and tired (particularly for younger children) for bed. Remember to make the bedroom dark, as in many cases you may be asking them to go to bed before the sun has completely set.
- If they are into electronics in the evenings, start to have them "unplugged and powered down" an hour before bed. Have them relaxing, reading, and getting back into a bedtime routine.
Next blog: Pre-sleep video game playing...
Sweet Dreams,
Michael J. Breus, PhD
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Turns out, he was diagnosed last year with Asperger's. Kids with AS (or autism generally) have a real problem experiencing the physical sensation of falling asleep. It is a HUGE shift or transition from one state of awareness to another and kids with AS have difficulty with any transition. Many parents of autistic and AS kids find that putting VERY heavy bedclothes on the bed (like specially weighted blankets) helps their kids finally fall asleep.
I'm not suggesting that all kids with sleeping issues have autism or Asperger's, but if your kid is like mine and NONE of the sugggestions seems to work, it might be worth considering. I always felt like a "bad parent" because I would read articles like these and it just feels like you aren't "doing it right" or your kid wouldn't have problems.
I would also point out that adults with sleep apnea will often feel irritable or depressed during the day due to the sleep disruption.