The Generosity Plan

I am a believer in generosity and so is Kathy LeMay, author of The Generosity Plan: Sharing Your Time, Treasure, and Talent to Shape the World.

My work with generosity started many years ago when I was affiliated with churches and I began to tithe. I tithe to this day although rarely to churches -- more often to authors of books that feed me spiritually.

Ms. LeMay began her generosity practice as a child. Over time, she realized she was an activist. Activism worked better for her as an idea rather than philanthropy. Philanthropy was for the "big givers." But she could be and was an activist, giving small checks and lots of time to causes near and dear to her heart.

Eventually, she grew up to be a fundraiser and that is what caused her truly to look at philanthropy with new, wiser eyes. Philanthropy means "love of humankind." Philios, from the Greek, is a special kind of love, the love one bears brothers and sisters. She writes, "Philanthropy belongs to all of us because the world needs all of us to participate."

"Generosity is the habit of giving." Philanthropy is the habit of giving to others. The OED says that generosity comes from the Latin word genus which means kind, as in ilk not nicety. Thus, giving to our own kind. Any one of us could be in need at any time. Generosity means that we reach out to those we recognize as of our own kind.

So what is our kind? Everyone. In the whole world. No exceptions.

That's where LeMay's book is an inspiration. I can't work for peace in Gaza, save the whales and the polar bears, and stop human trafficking all at the same time. It will spread me too thin, and I will become unproductive and easily burnt out. "Today, you and I are going to transform philanthropy from big wallets and big checks to meaning each of us doing what we can, with what we have, where we are.

Instead, she counsels, make a plan. We have plans for all sorts of other things in our lives. Why not for generosity? It's a grand idea. LeMay's book was developed out of a workshop she teaches on how to make a generosity plan.

She asks us to list the things we're passionate about. I myself prefer Andrew Harvey's brilliant question in Sacred Activism, "What breaks your heart?"

Then she takes us through her system. First, she suggests that we reconnect with our family giving traditions. Discover how and what you learned about money--always a wise idea. Then, we create a vision statement for our giving. We align our values with our money -- what a concept!

Then we figure out how our time, talent, treasure and taking a stand make a difference. Decide where you want to volunteer your time, where to give our talents, where to give our money, and where we want to make a difference. I love her idea that we be for something.

Dealing with naysayers and burn out is part of becoming generous. Set your goals and take the approach of the tortoise, not the hare, she says.

The idea of a generosity plan for every family is a viable one, and a valuable one. The average American gives 3.2% of her income to charitable causes. LeMay's book is a way to become conscious about our giving, and I'm all for that.

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Comments

[Stephanie Blackwood]

07:37 AM on 04/23/2010

Kathy LeMay is amazing! She made a presentation to the Astraea board that blew a hole in my wallet! Generosity of resources--whether time or money or emotion or space or hope--comes through the belief and faith that we, as individuals, have what we need and so can share the remainder. It takes work and time.

[Planet Express]

11:37 PM on 04/20/2010

“He who obtains has little. He who scatters has much.”

~ Lao-Tzu

[DIAGUY]

03:55 PM on 04/20/2010

I really find giving to deserving people that find themselves in a bind really appeals to me. It is really amazing how selfish some people are when it comes to even assisting people in their own family. I wish I could take all the taxes I pay that go to "lifetime moochers" and choose people who haved worked hard and for no fault of their own find themselves in financial peril. Unfortunately, the entitlement programs that we are forced to fund and often go to people that have lived off the system for generations (these people should be thankful that I'm not president..LOL !) may make many feel that too much of their money is 'donated' so maybe they are inclined to give less. Keep up the giving, it does make one feel GREAT !

[joblessmuse]

03:05 PM on 04/20/2010

I can't wait to track down this book. I, too, am a tither and love to support people doing things that make a positive difference in the world. But it's been rather hit or miss. I need a Generosity Plan. Thanks for alerting me to that.

[flashnomad]

12:21 PM on 04/20/2010

I found generosity really paid off when I was so overcome with concern over my the unjust sentencing of a rape victim - who was the daughter of my friend and the same age as my own daughter - that I not only donated more money than I could really spare and hours of time each day even though I was inundated with work. With the help of http://www.soelsewherecomputing run by 2 young collge grads who donated their time, we built a website and social media campaign. http://www.bit.ly/xsos Over the month we raised money to help fight the legal case. But, I have to admit that I was really dismayed at the number of people who had plenty of resources and sympathy but never lifted a finger to donate anything.