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Chill Out: Seeing With New Eyes

Posted: 10/02/08 09:46 AM ET

A monk asks, "Is there anything more miraculous than the wonders of nature?" The master replies, "Yes, your awareness of the wonders of nature." -- Angelus Silesius

We lived in Dartmouth, Devon, on the south coast of England, and each day we would take walks along the gorgeous river Dart to the estuary. One day we were gazing at the water when it struck Ed that although the river always looked the same, day after day, it was no more the same as it was even a second ago. It was constantly changing; always moving, always different.

Which is just like our thoughts and feelings. What we are thinking now instantly becomes a past thought. Our feelings are always changing and moving. Who we are now is not who we were last year, last week, yesterday, even a few minutes ago. Already we have changed, moved to a different place inside ourselves.

When Ed looked at the river it was as if he was seeing with new eyes, free of the clutter of his own ideas, projections, judgments, or conceptions. When we can see in this way we find that the world is not quite as we had imagined it to be.

Normally we are looking through the lens of our own habitual patterns, conditioning, prejudices and needs, through past regrets or future hopes, but without those we find everything is constantly new and unknown. No longer the same boring sameness, each moment is infused with newness.

You can experience this by imagining you have never been here before. Everything you see is completely new to you, completely an unknown waiting to be explored and discovered, whether you are brushing your teeth, washing the dishes, or any other equally mundane act, you can see it completely through new eyes.

All you have to do is pay attention and look without expectation. Through paying attention you see yourself and others and all things just as they are, and you see the inherent beauty within each one.

Being aware in this way extends you beyond yourself. It takes you out of the ego, out of the fixed way you believe things to be, out of self-centeredness and into awareness of connectedness, of yourself in relation to everything and everybody else.

A Walk On The Wild Side

Try taking a walk in nature -- whether it is in a city park, through a wood, on a beach or by a lake. Make this time an opportunity to see with new eyes, and to appreciate what you see: the colors and shapes, the smells and sounds. See the birds or animals, the trees or the water.

Open yourself to the beauty of the natural world. If it is raining then enjoy the feeling of water on your face, appreciate how it is nourishing the earth and the plants; if it is windy then marvel at the power of nature, a force that is beyond your control; if it is cloudy then observe the subtle colors and the softness of the air. Be aware of each footstep.

Although we protect ourselves from nature with raincoats, boots, gloves and hats, we are a part of it and we need the nourishment of the earth, the plants, the sun, the wind and rain. Life is a treasure to be enjoyed. When we see with new eyes it is the greatest of all gifts.


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A monk asks, "Is there anything more miraculous than the wonders of nature?" The master replies, "Yes, your awareness of the wonders of nature." -- Angelus Silesius We lived in Dartmouth, Devon, on t...
A monk asks, "Is there anything more miraculous than the wonders of nature?" The master replies, "Yes, your awareness of the wonders of nature." -- Angelus Silesius We lived in Dartmouth, Devon, on t...
 
 
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06:52 AM on 10/04/2008
"Seeing with new eyes........" is a phrase which brings attention to the importance of our preconceptions and biases as to how we experience the world we live in.

OK, I admit I am changing the subject. I hope the authors will tolerate my attempt to do so.
The reason is that what the authors have described, being aware of the cognitive process and of how our mind can filter our experience of sensing the universe, can be used in one of my favorite schpiels, the existence of "extra-sensory" experiences.

I am not interested in getting into a debate with anyone who wishes to argue that the "paranormal" and the "extrasensory" are impossibilities. I do want anyone who has not themselves experienced such things to accept that they are at least very remote possiblilities.

What I would like to suggest to anyone reading this, is, please do not tell your mind ahead of time that you will not allow yourself to experience that which you are not used to.

Be aware of experiencing your next walk by a river or in the park. Then, think about allowing yourself to experience at least parts of your life, not by abandoning science and reason, but by letting your mind decide what is real and unreal after you have experienced it, not before.
08:33 PM on 10/03/2008
See things as they are, the thusness of things.............
04:06 PM on 10/03/2008
Hi Ed & Deb...your blogs never cease to amaze me...I always shift into a better place after reading them! What more could I ask for. You two have such a gift! Thanks a million!
12:20 AM on 10/03/2008
Ed and Deb are treasures to be enjoyed. Keep your new eyes open, I am sure we have not seen the last from them. (the sum of the parts is greater than the whole)
05:22 PM on 10/02/2008
I love reading Ed's column and have read ariicles by Deb in the past they both uplift me and I look forward to reading more by both of them.
As always the Huffington Post has the most interesting articles and writers keep up the good work.
Yvonne
05:08 PM on 10/02/2008
I love reading Ed"s articles and have read deb's in the past. It really is great to have both of them together. I look forward to more by both of them. They uplift my day.
Thanks again to the Huffington Post for all the interesting people you have writing for you.
04:54 PM on 10/02/2008
Taking a walk in nature is such a lovely way for us to remember our connection to the real world. It's such a great way of getting out of our heads and into our hearts. Just being in nature helps us breath a little deeper and feel a little calmer, regardless of whatever other circumstances may be occuring in our lives. I'm going for a walk now!
04:33 PM on 10/02/2008
I love Ed Shapiro's blog. I love Deb Shapiro's blog. But together, the two of them create such a unified field of consciousness that is so heart felt and real, it's truly magnicent. Indeed, getting "in tune" with the energies of nature really is a major key to our staying in touch with the balance and harmony that is life. We forget so easily. Thanks for the reminder!
03:39 PM on 10/02/2008
Love this calming story. You certainly open my eyes to life. Looking forward to your next blog
10:17 AM on 10/02/2008
The comment that one's awareness of the wonders of nature is even more miraculous than those wonders is a striking way of bringing together two realms which are sometimes opposed: human nature and physical nature. Modern science throws light on an older, instinctive realization: both are compounded of the same elements in different combinations. I first read Wordsworth's "Tintern Abbey" more than fifty years ago, and the poem still retains its power.
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09:59 AM on 10/02/2008
Yes ... I am fortunate to live at the northern end of Central Park in NYC. And when walking through the gates it is as if I have entered a painting. And I see with new eyes. Thank you for reminding me to do so today!