Joel knows a lot about dinosaurs. His parents are told that he must put a stop to this obsession so he can focus on other subjects. Marcy can sing every Joni Mitchell song but speaks only a few words. She is put in a class for lower-functioning children and taught menial labor skills. My son, Neal, loves bees. He actually picks them up, examines them and then puts them back onto a flower without getting stung. Well-meaning educators and therapists work tirelessly to refocus these children's interests into more "appropriate activities." Time and time again, I've witnessed kids with special needs kicking and screaming when they fail to comply with the norm, and they are coerced away from their preferred interests. As adults, they are taught to sweep floors in a fast food restaurant or stack boxes in a warehouse (not that there is anything wrong with sweeping or stacking).
In this Sunday's The New York Times, writer Amy Harmon shed light on Justin Canha, an artistic, autistic young adult and his transition to adulthood. Major kudos to Justin's parents and support team for viewing Justin's preferred interests in art and cartoon characters as a way for him to earn a living as an adult.
Sometimes I wonder if there is a fine line between autism and certain kinds of genius. Or artistry. Think about it: Anyone who excels at something has to have spent countless hours each day perfecting their craft, art or gift. For instance, if the mother of a young, would-be juggler were to say, "It's inappropriate to toss little balls up and down," no one would ever have the joy of watching an accomplished juggler. Or, think of scientists who spend hours in their laboratories developing cures for all sorts of ills.
How great would it be if every child had mentors who saw a child's strengths as a way toward adult life. This is not a new concept! In "The Republic," Plato urges educators to view a child's early interests and play as serious business that helps prepare a child for adult work. He emphasizes that forced learning cannot remain in the soul. What if parents, educators and therapists saw a child's intense interests in a positive light. Perhaps Joel could become a paleontologist; Marcy could sing in local plays. We homeschool Neal. He is now learning all about bees. In fact, his school curriculum is built around his preferred interests in bees to learn math, science, language, history, etc. His world is expanded by all of us following his intense interests. Perhaps one day he will be a bee keeper or a honey manufacturer. Clearly, the world can benefit from people who are free to explore and enact their obsessions.
Elaine Hall is the author of "Now I See the Moon" (HarperCollins). Her new book, (co-authored with Diane Isaacs) is titled "Seven Keys to Unlock Autism: Making Miracles in the Classroom" Wiley). In stores November 1, 2011. She is the founder of The Miracle Project, which holds classes at Vista Del Mar and The Help Group in Los Angeles, and at the 92nd Street Y in NYC. Visit www.themiracleproject.org.
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Also, as Temple Grandin would say, expand that special interest. If a child loves to draw horses, have her draw the stable too, and the farmhouse and the field and the people who care for the horses. In your son's case - not just the bees but the honey and the flowers and the social communication that happens in the hive - these are all wonderful things for him to look deeper into. Take that tiny area of concentration and stretch it. There's a lot that we can learn about our children and students from the adults with autism who have found their voice in this world.
What innovations would the world be missing without all of these brilliant and focused individuals.
It seems like common sense to do so, yet sadly it hasn't happened often enough in the past. Educators and parents are becoming wiser now.
Thanks, Elaine for a great article. And thanks for all you do!
Now he can limit his obsessions to 30 minutes a day and focus on other stuff. Of course what worked for my son may not work for everyone, but parents should take an effort to research to find out the combination of therapies that would work for their child and keep working towards the goals.
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It must be so difficult to learn to let the child be independent & not even mention that they are autistic for fear they might get hurt or misunderstood. My son is not autistic, but he knows a lot about certain subjects & so I've been asked about his IQ, at the same time, someone has asked about whether or not he might be autistic. It is interesting to see what some folks think is "autistic" but they are forgiven because there is so much to learn.
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or being told you're limited.
perhaps the only limitations are those of the adults imagination .