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Art Of Attention: Yoga As Scaffolding For Your Life

Posted: 03/12/10 11:10 AM ET

I'm honored to be traveling extensively to teach Anusara yoga to teachers worldwide. In weekend intensives, I'm hoping to communicate the crux of the method to already-experienced teachers from other traditions, in order to create an expansive and uplifting experience for their students all over the world. In doing so, I hope to transmit my humble gratitude for the gifts I've received in the past 10 years of study as a student of John Friend.

Of concern is how to communicate the most important aspect of this method, our attitude, the context we create for our practice. Anita Goa's current posting of an interview, in which I share my stance on Anusara highlights this well. This week, however, yet another vantage point has emerged, which I'll share here.


Our practice of yoga provides a scaffolding, a structure within which we can individually and collectively build an effulgent, evolving understanding of how we can bring more ease and light to the world in the smallest interactions of our days. We are responsible for what gets developed within this structure.

Five years ago, Dr. Douglas Brooks shared with us what I now understand to be the heart of Anusara, the heart of the very first Universal Principle of Alignment, known as Opening To Grace. This "opening" involves a simultaneous sensitivity with stabilizing, becoming the context for our practice and our path. The sensitivity is actually an active state that brings a high quality of attentive listening, allowing us to determine how to optimize the flow of any communication (either within ourselves on our mats, or with others in any conversation). The stabilizing is about grounding ourselves, a prerequisite for active listening. This sensitive, stable opening is an "initiation" of sorts: we initiate ourselves in a new perspective and receive a fresh look at the world with every opening.

When we are able to open ourselves through one attentive breath, we drop our resistances to our own grace as well as the grace of those around us and bring light to the moment- and we inspire anyone nearby to do the same. When we listen carefully to ourselves, to anyone, we offer love, light and reverence just by standing still. These are the gifts we offer - our listening, our attitude, our composure, our light - and these are exactly the gifts we receive in return. As Douglas pointed out, Grace's reflection is gratitude. And when we all move forward with this awareness, we expand the beauty within the structures of our bodies, and we expand our capacity for patience within the scaffolding of our practices.

As teachers, we see our gifts reflected back to us in the hearts of the students with whom we share our work. Even more importantly, as students, we open willingly, wholeheartedly, in order to experience Grace as the all-pervasive thankfulness that follows us and infuses our every interaction for hours after our practice ends.

In our hearts, from our hearts, onward and upward.

 

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I'm honored to be traveling extensively to teach Anusara yoga to teachers worldwide. In weekend intensives, I'm hoping to communicate the crux of the method to already-experienced teachers from other ...
I'm honored to be traveling extensively to teach Anusara yoga to teachers worldwide. In weekend intensives, I'm hoping to communicate the crux of the method to already-experienced teachers from other ...
 
 
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02:46 PM on 03/13/2010
Dear Elena,

Thank you for all your insight. I found it interesting that, since I have children 18 years apart, how different they are in what they reflect back to me. The first having lived through "troubled times" , but lessons taken to heart, and how she and I continue to struggle with our relationship in both receiving and contracted states. My son, however, is so open to receive me and I him. So, what is my point? The heart , which holds the true consciousness of being, stays consistent and open no matter which of my children I am with in order to be there for them, when I come from that core center, in times of struggle or ecstasy. Isn't the role of being a mother one of complete growing into who we are, whether we have biological children or we are "mother's" to others and the world.
I so enjoy seeing your evolution as the years go by, you are so inspiring to me.
Much love,
Laurie
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
01:54 AM on 03/15/2010
laurie it's always an honor to hear from you and receive your thoughts. thank you for pointing toward the heart again... and toward OUR growth as mamas, as women. so much gratitude.
01:44 PM on 03/13/2010
About 12 years ago I did a week-long workshop with John Friend, and I have been a sporadic practitioner of yoga ever since. I have to say that although Friend was an excellent teacher, I had a strange experience with him: I had a back problem so had to gingerly approach poses. He invited nearly every person besides me to the center over the course of the week to demonstrate poses, and repeatedly said when he did this he "honored" the person. He never once made eye contact with me until the last day, when he toured the room of 50+ people to check on poses. He reached me and had a subtle look of disdain, so I felt compelled to say "I have back trouble." He said, "I'm really glad you told me that. Really glad you told me that." He then helped me reach my pose with compassion. I'll never forget it. Did he just assume that I wasn't trying? And, I thought, "Isn't his whole schtik openness and nonjudgment?"

I've had a bad taste for Anusara yoga ever since, but reading your post has helped me open up to it more. Thank you.
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
09:05 PM on 03/13/2010
thank you so much for this.
from my early experiences [which were challenging at times also], i have some ideas.
there is a good chance that john was seeing you taking it at your own pace, and therefore left you to do what you needed to do throughout your week. he has hawk eyes and sees it all.

secondly, the look of "disdain" - he sees the good in everyone in his classes, and would never assume anything - except the goodness in all of us. if he needed information from you to keep you safer, he would've asked sooner, for sure. I'm guessing that the disdain you perceived was likely just concern with a touch of inquisitiveness, mistakable for disdain [i'm pretty sure i've seen that look on his face before!].

i'm glad your final moment with him was positive; the important thing is that he guided your body in a supportive way. he encourages all of us to speak in our own voice and be creative within the method of Anusara yoga - so keep trying other teachers in your area. the method is super effective and efficient for our bodies and our hearts, so it's definitely worthwhile to pursue your studies further.

at your service, respectfully,
elena
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
11:39 AM on 03/13/2010
Namaste Elena - warm and heartfelt post

Thank you for encouraging people to take yoga off the mat and into the world

In the spirit of yoga,

Swami Brahmananda - Ed Shapiro
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
01:53 AM on 03/15/2010
thank you so much, ed and deb. grateful for your feedback and love.
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Ed and Deb Shapiro
10:37 AM on 03/15/2010
love your energy Elena :-)
10:58 PM on 03/12/2010
Hi, Elena.

Thanks for this education on Anusara.

Bob Weisenberg
http://YogaDemystified.com
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
01:00 AM on 03/13/2010
thank you for always taking the time to read and comment, bob... e
09:27 PM on 03/12/2010
Yes! The essence of the first principle - that intentional spaciousness - is really that which supports a skillfully, delightfully lived life. One that is both supported and encourages us to freely express our unique gifts. Beautifully written, Elena.
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
01:01 AM on 03/13/2010
katrina, thank you. your comment is so appreciated.
04:57 PM on 03/12/2010
interesting article....although it sounds new age(ish) it certainly carries the weight of truth. That graciousness you speak of sounds like humility, kindness, and the golden rule; so all in all it rings true to me. You sound like a very humble person Elena, good post, look forward to reading more.
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
12:51 AM on 03/13/2010
as i'm writing these, i always struggle to keep the new age(ish) note out of the overall flavor; clear mutual understanding is never easy to establish. i appreciate your thoughts and thank you for your time and comment. ~elena
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Erica Heinz
01:04 PM on 03/12/2010
I love this metaphor of scaffolding. I think there's something solid, almost concrete, about a morning practice (whether it's yoga or running or whatever) — it's a foundation for the the day, providing the support to reach higher. So I love the extension of this construction site language to philosophy, too! You can fill (or repair) your mental space much more nicely with good scaffolding. Thanks!
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
12:44 AM on 03/13/2010
well said erica... thanks for commenting.
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
12:49 AM on 03/13/2010
this comment means the world. thank you thank you~
12:16 PM on 03/12/2010
X, and an O!!!! Reflections are a life well lived. That is our dash!!! The line between our birth and our death!!! Touche!!!
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
12:44 AM on 03/13/2010
touche' !!!
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Elena Brower
Mama, Founder of Virayoga, Art of Att
12:47 AM on 03/13/2010
thank YOU for always taking the time to check out the Art of Attention.
i'm honored and most grateful... e