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The True Story of Homeschooling

Posted: 07/23/2012 9:12 am

When someone mentions homeschooling, do you think of someone who is socially awkward or really nerdy? If so, you have the WRONG impression of homeschoolers. I myself was pulled out of school in the third grade because it was difficult to learn with 30 or more kids per class. The teachers are overwhelmed, and most students don't get the attention they need for a proper education.

With homeschooling, you can learn as slow or as fast as you want; you can also choose what you learn on top of the required topics. Not just the five or less options you get as extra classes in school. You get to pick what you learn, that's the beauty of it.

Another myth many people associate with homeschoolers is that they have no social life. Not true again. Sure, there some socially awkward people, but many of them are perfectly normal. Most homeschoolers take classes with other kids. I have met some of my best friends at classes like those. A bonus with homeschooling is you meet some really cool people, and you learn a lot from people who are different from you.

Someone who is in a school has a very restricting schedule -- you have X amount of sick days or snow days and holidays. A benefit of homeschooling is that you can work when you're sick or work during snow days and holidays. Now that may seem like a curse, but it's not. Those days that aren't wasted don't have to be made up at the end of the school year. You also have the freedom to take a vacation AT ANY TIME of the year. With the flexibility of being homeschooled, I can take a trip almost anytime. I have been all over with world with the freedom of a loose schedule.

In most school settings, you learn via textbook, but the most effective and exciting way is hands-on learning. It is difficult to do hands-on learning with many students, but for homeschoolers, it's perfect!

You must be wondering how is this allowed. Free breaks, learn what you want? Teaching yourself?

It is all true, but it requires a lot of restraint and discipline, and sometimes it hard, but there is one way to keep all homeschoolers buckled down and working: the threat of losing all their freedom. Once a year, all homeschoolers are required to meet with a teacher from the county they live in, and the teacher will review all the work they had done that year. You either pass or get a warning. If you get a warning, you have not done a sufficient amount of work, and they will expect to see a lot more the next year. If you don't pass the next year, they are required to send you back to school, and no one who has had the luxury of being homeschooled wants that. Homeschooling has its ups and its down, but it is an amazing experience altogether.

 
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twfslc
10:40 AM on 09/05/2012
First, I live for the 6 hours and 25 minutes that my son is in school.

Second, I don't have a lot of patience. People have said I would be a great teacher. College? Maybe. Grade school? Absolutely not. I don't like having to explain things more than once.

Third, my son doesn't listen to me anyway. My street is being rebuilt, and I've tried to show him the layers of ashphalt, gravel, sand, etc and where all the water lines, sewer lines, gas lines, and other utility lines are. No interest whatsoever.
08:21 AM on 08/15/2012
One must wonder of our teaching and its methed ? One must also ponder the shooting and bullying in our schools ? Then one must, look at the child, for one to know, what to decide for your child education ?
08:30 AM on 08/15/2012
We search for our troubled schools, in a troubled world, full of its, troubled kid's ! Should one wonder into a child home, to witness a world, for which a child must live in; there one shall find the anwser to your question's ?
11:42 AM on 08/03/2012
The socialization question is such a total joke.
I went all the way through public school at the top of my class, double major in college, masters degree and Ph.D. at a major state university -- and was always socially inept, bullied, and extremely shy in public school.
All 4 of our children have been homeschooled from the beginning all the way through high school, have lots of friends, are completely socially comfortable around people of all ages, know how to converse intelligently, are outgoing, have excellent work skills, and are self-motivated.
I very much wish that I had had the same homeschool advantage!
03:26 PM on 07/30/2012
I am a public school teacher and I will be homeschooling my daughter in 5th grade this year. I can tell you from my experience hands down, it does not matter homeschooled or public school, the bottom line is they have parents that care about their education. Every child I've ever had in my class who's parents are involved, choose to stay home to be there when their kids get off the bus (not talking about the ones who stay in bed all day strung out on meth), encourage them in other interests (besides school) are the students who succeed. My choice to homeschool my daughter was based soley on what SHE needed. Homeschooling isn't for everyone, neither is public school. But a parent who really cares and has a choice will do what they feel is best for their child because every child's needs are different. I would encourage anyone to not judge homeschoolers or public education either way, but decide what is best for the individual child. I know kids that would shrivel up and die if they had to be homeschooled, but my daughter thrives when she is out of school working at her own pace. It's all about the individual child and what he/she needs.
11:03 AM on 07/27/2012
I just read your article again Elena and it sums it all up. That would have been a good article to go on my home-schooling site ;-)
06:02 PM on 07/26/2012
That is a great article and sums it all up I have shared it everywhere and will also put it on my own homeschooling site http://www.home-schooling-uk.com

THANKS ;-)
03:38 PM on 07/27/2012
Oh wow, thanks that awesome!
06:13 PM on 07/29/2012
You are welcome :-)
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03:00 PM on 08/04/2012
I totally disagree. The article was pretty run of the mill until the last paragraph. Why does a public school teacher get to hold a homeschooler accountable and not the other way around? Why does the public school system ( which is notorious for its low test scores) get to tell me that i have to step it up or I will lose the freedom (or "luxury" ) to educate my own child? Who is holding the public school accountable? Tell me, will I be given tenure after a few years and not have to worry about it anymore? Why is my "freedom" based on the approval of the public school system?
In my experience, homeschoolers do not need to be told to "buckle down". These are people who are doing something counter cultural for the purpose of their child's education.
And do you not see a conflict of interest in the teachers unions and their stated goals and their being able to approve the freedom of homeschoolers?
10:52 PM on 07/25/2012
This is a great article, but I would like to point out that schools do offer several electives. My school is a public school and we have tons of electives. There are several different art, tech, chorus, orchestra, band, and gym classes. There are also classes like personal finance, child development, and international business. Not to mention, I get to do a lot of social interacting and meet new people on a regular basis. Homeschooling seems great, but normal school is not too bad either.
03:28 PM on 07/30/2012
I wish it were that way everywhere. In my district many extra curriculars are being cut or never existed to begin with. The few things available are usually sports related and not all kids are into sports.
04:59 PM on 07/30/2012
Everything you mentioned; homeschoolers have too. We have proms, swim teams, debate clubs, band and the list goes on and on. The only difference is that WE organize & run it instead of a school district.
04:24 PM on 07/25/2012
What about when time comes for higher education - college. Does a child not feel overwhelmed being placed in a class with as many as 50 - 100 students?
07:22 PM on 07/25/2012
My nephew was homeschooled and attended college with no problems. He graduated from college with a 4.0.
09:30 PM on 07/25/2012
One of my nephews went to public school. He enrolled in college and dropped out after the first week because he was so overwhelmed. Another nephew was a straight A public school student. He worked so hard in high school to get into college and decided to take break before beginning college. He never went. My niece attended a private Christian school and was a straight A student and Valedictorian. She felt out of place and overwhelmed at the first college she attended and had to switch to a smaller college. No one questioned why they had difficulty or blamed the public or private schools they attended for providing proper socialization but if a homeschooled student has trouble adjusting it's because they were homeschooled. College is an adjustment for all new students regardless of where they went to school and the first year is tough.

Our daughter attended school from Pre-K to 3rd Grade and was homeschooled from Grade 4 through high school. She is enrolled in a 4 year college, will major in English and starts in the fall. She already has her schedule and all of her classes have under 25 students. I am sure it will be an adjustment but life is full of adjustments.
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03:54 PM on 07/25/2012
homeschooled students benefit from a 1:1 student-teacher ratio.
it's obvious that a student in a class of one will learn more than students will in public schools where the ratio is more like 30:1,
but its not a sustainable system for the nation as a whole. I'm grateful for what public education gave me, even if it wasn't the greatest system.
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01:24 PM on 07/25/2012
My son's friends that are home schooled are less stressed and more educationally and emotionally stable. They meet with other home schooled kids for social interaction.
01:24 PM on 07/25/2012
I am sure there are many benefits to home schooling, although it is not a choice I would ever make for my children. My concern is the wide range of definitions of "homeschooling". I recently read an article about new home schooling regulations that would require the parent/instructor to be a certified teacher. As a teacher, it is hard for me to imagine how someone who has no specialized training would deal with teaching their child who has learning disabilities, etc. What level of oversight does home schooling have? Who must the parents "answer to"? Besides evidence of state testing-in my state home schooled students must take the state tests in a public school-what other evidence must a parent submit for the child to earn a diploma/GED and to whom must they submit it? Also, since a home schooled child receives the equivalent of a GED, how does that affect college admissions?
07:26 PM on 07/25/2012
My nephews both were homeschooled, and both scored above 31 on their ACT. Both received scholarships. The oldest one just graduated from a community college with a 4.0 and is now going on to earn his bachelor's degree on a scholarship. The younger one will be starting college this fall.
10:09 PM on 07/25/2012
Every state has different homeschool guidelines/requirements. We have several choices in TN. We chose to utilize an umbrella school option. We reported grades & attendance and they kept our records & provided a high school transcript & diploma that was easily accepted by the college. The 4 year university that our daughter will be attending in the fall did not consider her homeschool high school education equivalent to a GED. I believe homeschooled students are required to have a higher ACT score than public school graduates. When we met with the Assistant Dean she mentioned that they are very happy to have homeschool students. In fact, she told us that their Honors Program consists of almost all homeschooled students. I'm sure that there are good & bad homeschool situations just as I there are public schools & teachers that are not making the grade. There are pros and cons for both.

Here are some articles regarding Colleges that WANT homeschoolers.

http://homeschooling.about.com/od/highschool/a/colleges.htm
http://voices.yahoo.com/homeschoolers-preferred-colleges-universities-6318238.html
http://www.journalgazette.net/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20070923/FEAT/709230406

“Home educated students generally score at the 65th to 80th percentile on achievement tests, 15 to 30 percentile points higher than those in public schools,” writes Brian D. Ray, Ph.D. of the National Home Education Research Institute. They also tend to stay in college and finish on time, often with above-average grades. This makes them very desirable students.
01:24 PM on 07/25/2012
I am a public school teacher and am open to the idea of the benefits of homeschooling. I am extremely disappointed, however, to see the nature of this "discussion". So many subjective pieces of information and so many personal attacks! It is extremely disappointing. The "statistic" that homeschoolers, religious schools, and private schools outperform public schools in itself is flawed. Public schools are mandated to provide free and appropriate education to any student registered, which means you are not comparing apples to apples. Public school data includes scores from students with disabilities, English Language Learners and students from the lower socioeconomic levels, none of which are comparably represented in the other school settings. If this is the reason for choosing to home school your child, that is absolutely your perogative and not for me to judge, but it is unfair to base the performance of each group of children on the data representing the masses.
01:23 PM on 07/25/2012
homeschooling would not need to be as common as it is if our government would improve the education in a similar way to Finland which improved its education system by moving the focus of its educational system from the test scores to the individual student their education doesn't even start until they are 7 they teach them to love learning and they teach them what they are interested in learning the most important part of the education system is teaching the children to love learning when they do they can learn anywhere in any enviornment
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03:09 PM on 08/04/2012
Is homeschooling something that needs to be reduced? Regardless of test scores or performance many want to homeschool their child for religious reasons or they have a different educational philosophy than the public school. The freedom should be protected and not at all policed by the public school system- I thought the public school system didnt believe in standardized test scores anyway? Why does is only approve when it comes to homeschoolers? If they wont be evaluating test scores what exactly will they be judging and how can the p.s. be judges accordingly as well?
01:04 PM on 07/25/2012
How do you replace interaction with other kids of the same age? That seems like a problem in itself.
Putting that aside it seems that the largest movement for home schooling are the Evangelicals that don't want their kids exposed to the real world and the truth.
I fail to see how twisting history and suppressing information makes anyone ready for life in a secular nation unless the agenda is to kill public schools and create new generations of dumbed down citizens that are under the control of religion.
03:08 PM on 07/25/2012
I would like to see this 'twisting of history' as you say. Would you agree that the dominant influence in a child's life will come from those he spends the most time around? Do you also believe that a child's peer group is so filled with wisdom that you believe they are the best influence on your children?
03:22 PM on 07/25/2012
One would hope that the dominant influence in a child's life is their parents. If you are instilling values, consistently disciplining and providing unconditional love, you will always be the dominant influence in your child's life, regardless of how many hours a day they spend at school.
10:12 PM on 07/25/2012
it would depend who they are spending their time with but i see your point most of the time the peer group will be a negative influence
10:05 PM on 07/25/2012
I have traveled the world for 6+ years, i have been exposed to so much it is depressing at times. I have an internship and UNANCA (United Nations association of the national capitol area). If you are trying to say that children with the ability to learn whatever, whenever, and wherever, are going to know nothing about the world and current issues, i am dreadfully sorry sir, but you are mistaken. I would like to think that i know more than the average 9th grader on global issues, that i am not socially awkward. Like many teens i spend all my free time hanging out with friends, (some home schooled many not) or texting and listening to music. While writing this article i wanted to avoid bringing the religion because it can be a very sticky topic. But i do know what you are talking about, i know students who's parents have told them nothing and shielded them from anything more threatening than a unicorn. Like i had stated in a previous comment, the main point of this article was to dispel myths, and other beliefs that many people associate with homeschoolers, but from all the comments it would seem like i didn't do a very good job at it. Hopefully my comment will help enforce the point i was trying to make with the article.
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12:24 PM on 07/25/2012
I have only met a few students who were home schooled. But each of them was remarkably knowledgeable, well educated, well spoken and far beyond the academic level of public school students in the area. Yet there seems to be a fear that they threaten the union run government school model. They do, and in a very good way. Congratulations to those who reject the government model by home schooling. They are the hope for the future.