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The Best Flip-Flop He Could Make: Romney Should Support Gay Marriage

Posted: 05/15/2012 8:42 am

If Mitt Romney wants to win the election and become president, he should come out and support gay marriage. Doing so will work not so much because it's consistent with conservative principle (which it is) and generally popular (that too) but because it will fracture Obama's base.

Let's start with why marriage is right from a conservative perspective. Conservatism is, as Russel Kirk wrote a "body of sentiments, rather than... a system of ideological dogmata." And, as such, it has to evolve with the times. In a very different society where two-parent marriage was essentially the only setting in which children could be raised, divorce was very difficult to obtain, premarital sex frowned upon by "respectable" people, and co-habitation without marriage virtually unknown amongst the well-educated; it's possible that having the state stand for one-man/one-woman-only marriage could make sense.

But that's not how modern society works. Gay and straight Americans alike enter into a lot of different types of partnership arrangements. Some of these are clearly undesirable. But others -- committed heterosexual couples who live together long-term without marriage, committed same-sex couples raising children together -- bring many of the same social benefits as marriage. Making these relationships stronger and granting them legal recognition is a good idea if one wants to create a society where families, houses of worship, and other voluntary institutions, not government, does most things.

Second gay marriage is a winning issue. In the wake of the President's announcement that he supports gay marriage, Americans' positions are changing -- quickly. For the first time, outright majorities of Americans in big, well-controlled national polls say that they support gay marriage. While simply looking at polls doesn't always tell you what will get votes -- easing of restrictions on gun ownership is generally unpopular but nonetheless a winning political issue for many candidates -- they're nonetheless a decent guide. And now, a majority of Americans want gay marriage.

This matters because current polls show Obama holding a rather narrow lead in the popular vote and a bigger one in the electoral college. Overall, this means that his positions and person are more popular than Romney's. The problem for Romney that much of President Obama's true base, a bit of 40 percent of the vote is simply not going to vote for Romney under any circumstances. Despite a lackluster economy, the President has delivered pretty well for union bosses, businesses that rely on government subsidies, government workers, current college students, and others who make up the Democratic base. For a variety of reasons -- including the historical nature of his presidency -- African-Americans (who, polls show, generally oppose gay marriage) can also be expected to cast ballots for Obama almost no matter what. The bottom line is simple: nothing Romney could do will dislodge most of the Democratic base and he's best off writing it off.

But gay voters are "getable" in significant numbers and could change the calculus. Beyond the party's acceptance of them as people -- an understandably big deal -- there is no reason why gay or lesbian Americans should necessarily belong to either party. Gay government workers, hard-core environmentalists, adherents of age religions, union bosses, and welfare recipients probably should and will vote for Democrats. Gay entrepreneurs, gun owners, pro-lifers, people of traditional faiths, and those just sick of being overtaxed will most often find their interests best met by the GOP. Right now, however, most people in the later group will still vote Democratic just because of the GOP's rejection of gay marriage. If one goes with low-ball estimates that somewhere around 2-3 percent of the population is gay (and it's probably twice that) getting even half of the gay vote would almost certainly put Romney over the top. And there's reason to think he could get more: Marketing data does generally indicate that gay couples are more affluent than the population as a whole and thus likely to benefit from the lower-tax policies that Romney would pursue.

While some voters would certainly be turned off by a Romney endorsement of gay marriage, many people concerned enough to vote against a rock-solid conservative like Romney over gay marriage alone might also vote against Romney for his Mormon faith or previous support for abortion. Sure, endorsing gay marriage has risks but, for Romney, it may be one of the few paths he has to the White House.

 

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07:32 PM on 05/30/2012
So you're saying Romney should change his beliefs and conform to the ideal candidate. Not that ethics, morals, or honor has anything to do with leadership nowadays, but you're essentially saying. In the middle of all this, he should just change this "view" to win more votes? LISTEN TO YOURSELF. You're simply wanting votes rather than a firm steadfast leader??? How dare you insult a presidential candidate as well as our country. More should be expected than just flip flopping stances on issues for more votes.
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bacaja
06:40 PM on 05/15/2012
Sounds like a good idea, maybe R.P. could snatch victory from the jaws of defeat after all.
05:03 PM on 05/15/2012
What's wrong with civil unions?
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realsurfin
Pardon me, can you help out a fellow American
04:30 PM on 05/15/2012
Romney could tell the lie and endorse gay marriage.. but Romney does not have an original thought on anything but covering Romney's butt..

it would not work for him.. he is the johnny come lately candidate that does not even have the stones to back Obamacare which was mostly his Idea...

Romney is a spineless amoeba... the man of split decisions.
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happyblackman
Gotta have more cowbell baby!
04:02 PM on 05/15/2012
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!
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grittyreboot
LOLitical activist
03:41 PM on 05/15/2012
"While some voters would certainly be turned off by a Romney endorsement of gay marriage, many people concerned enough to vote against a rock-solid conservative like Romney over gay marriage alone might also vote against Romney for his Mormon faith or previous support for abortion. "

First off, a "rock-solid conservative like Romney".... really? I mean come on.

And secondly, what I'm reading from this is that conservatives are small-minded in many varied ways. a veritable multi-vectorial rainbow of bigotry.

True believer social conservatives, this is what conservative think tanks like the Heartland Institute think of you. Enjoy.
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grittyreboot
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03:08 PM on 05/15/2012
Weasel words.

" the President has delivered pretty well for union bosses, businesses that rely on government subsidies, government workers, current college students, and others"

You could write an article about equality without implying that people only vote Democrat if they depend on government largesse. This is intellectual laziness.

Have you considered for a moment that people could support them because of policy positions? On general principle, perhaps?

I just disliked this entire article. And then I googled Heartland Institute (Mr. Lehrer's disclosed affiliation)
LOL.
Now it all makes sense. If the Heartland Institute (an astute nose for profits if there ever was one) takes the position that supporting gay marriage is good, then I do believe that national acceptance or receptiveness to the idea of marriage equality must be OVERWHELMINGLY positive. Silver lining!
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bluedog24
< I'll vote Republican when...
02:56 PM on 05/15/2012
He had his chance to comment directly after the president spoke out. Unless he is evolving, it would look pretty crass to change his position now. Willard the Mormon bishop will not come out against his church.
02:16 PM on 05/15/2012
Excellent suggestion! Politics are about votes not principles! It's all about winning the majority at whatever cost, who cares what you actually think or what you'll actually set out to accomplish in-office!

This is the kind of thinking we need. For sure, but let me stop you there and just suggest a little something: maybe Romney could support Gay Marriage because it's...just the right thing to do? Pretty novel I know, but give it a chance.
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News Media: We don't need balance. We need truth.
01:30 PM on 05/15/2012
That would be the awesomest thing ever. He would certainly look bold and decisive if he made a statement like that precisely five days after Obama did.
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Chris1962
NYC
12:35 PM on 05/15/2012
>>>The Best Flip-Flop He Could Make: Romney Should Support Gay Marriage>>>

Why? Only 38% support same-sex marriage.
01:02 PM on 05/15/2012
Unfortunately for the Left, the Hit.!er Youth that grew up w/"Billy has two Daddies" hasn't reach voting age, yet.
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Chris1962
NYC
01:13 PM on 05/15/2012
It's stunning how the Left just lives in a world of pure SPIN. http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-57433493-503544/poll-most-americans-support-same-sex-unions/?tag=pop;stories Only 38% support gay "marriage." Even fewer support legal unions: 24%. Yet that somehow translates into a majority of support for gay marriage, in the liberals' minds. And then they wonder why they get wiped out every time a gay-marriage or gay-union (or both) initiative comes up for election.
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grittyreboot
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02:36 PM on 05/15/2012
So then you would agree this was an incredibly brave and principled move by the president, to make a statement like this, when only 38% of Americans, as you say, support gay marriage...? at the very least it cannot possibly be a cynical power play, since there is no political capital to gain from coming out in support for marriage equality, according to your own convictions (which you were kind enough to cite.)
10:35 AM on 05/15/2012
Not going to happen. Sometimes it's better to take a stand for what you believe in, even when it's not popular. Popular and 'right' are often two separate things!
06:07 PM on 07/12/2012
And sometimes the right thing is unpopular, like freeing slaves in the south.

Do I see a parallel?!?
10:14 AM on 05/15/2012
Reading the headline: Umm...no.