Well, tomorrow, May 21, 2011, is supposed to be the end of the world. Wait, I thought the Mayans said it was supposed to be December 21, 2012? Either way, it gets a lot of publicity. (This post is a good example.)
A Christian Family Radio station in Oakland, Calif. has been spending of lot of time, money and effort letting people know that if they step up and believe, they will be beamed to heaven when the giant worldwide earthquake hits tomorrow, while the rest will be left to suffer.
So what's the truth?
The quick and dirty answer is who knows? But these claims have been made for centuries on end, and each time, the next day comes. So my guess is that the probability of this happening is smaller than I can even imagine.
So what is it about the need to find a definitive date in religious or spiritual teachings when all things will come to an end?
Why strike fear into people's hearts and minds?
It doesn't get us anywhere to judge the people who are lighting up this movement, but it is more helpful to get curious about it. My guess is that it's not intentionally vindictive; there is a deep belief that this is true. If a person who believes is reading these lines right now, it's highly likely that they think I am ignorant and feel sad for me as I will likely go to hell. They're sure of this.
But how does that happen? How do these deep, unshakable beliefs come to be, and how is it reconciled when the next day comes?
I think these are all important questions to ask because to some degree, we all have deep-seated beliefs that we aren't even aware of.
We believe we have to dress and act a certain way to belong. We may believe that deep down we're unlovable, or that we'll never be able to write a book, get that job or lose weight. Beliefs are probably the most powerful subconscious thoughts that exist as they color the way we see life and influence our behaviors moment to moment.
We don't know when beliefs start, exactly, but we do know that from the moment we open our eyes in this world, we are sponges for how things work, and we absolutely buy what we see and hear in our environments. Our brains are in critical stages of formation and the wiring is happening quickly. So we wire together beliefs based on our experience. If you were abused as a child, it's highly likely that you felt unworthy or unlovable. If you were brought up in a loving and attuned environment, you may believe that you can do anything you set your mind to.
However, beliefs can be brought to light, and if they are unhealthy, they can be shattered.
Certainly many African Americans believed deeply that there would be no way they would see a black president in their lifetime, but it happened, and the glass ceiling disappeared.
Practice:
Consider whether you have any beliefs suggesting you are unlovable or unworthy, or that you just can't do something. See if you can ride the string back to earlier times in your life and see where that message came from. Then each time you experience those thoughts, let the emotion, whether it's fear, shame, etc., as it comes up in your body, ground you to the reality of the present moment. Then see if you can see an alternative vantage point.
Try this out as a practice over and again and see if you start to see cracks in your beliefs. It's through these cracks that the light shines through.
And by the way, if you're reading this post after May 21, congratulations, we've all made it!
As always, please share your thoughts, stories and questions below. Your interaction provides a living wisdom for us all to benefit from.
This piece is adapted from Elisha Goldstein's publication on Mentalhelp.net.
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If you see the world through the eyes of Love and Compassion....you believe in a God that is Love and is forgiving. A God of Fear, Destruction, and Judgement makes no sense to you. Because it would be worshipping a God that is less psychologically and emotionally evolved, than you are.
Likewise....if you see the world through the Eyes of Fear, Shame, and Judgement....you believe in a God that is Angry, Judgemental, and perhaps even Vindictive. A God that is Loving and Forgiving (even if one professes to believe in such a God) makes no sense to you. Because you cannot forgive the imperfections of others---and of yourself----you cannot envision anyone else being able to truly forgive. It is like a person who has been blind from birth, trying to understand what the color "blue" looks like.
Wonderful advice on how to work through and resolve emotions. Because---when negative emotions and the beliefs they spawn---are projected out into the world....they turn into the pain and suffering that we inflict upon one another. Both as a result of unbridled passions...but also in violence and intolerance in the name of dogmatic and destructive ideologies.
Expect more desperation from the evangelical community in the coming years.
Peace my child,
God
Even the Universe is impermanent, ever moving and changing; collaspsing and expanding; new ones are formed, so will our galaxy and solar system. Until then we must cherish life and love all those that live within. Castastrophic events will only teach us to value life and Mother Earth that we take for granted.