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Erica Jong

Erica Jong

Posted January 30, 2009 | 11:24 AM (EST)

Love Comes First


My life as a writer did not start with the Zipless Fuck. It started with poetry--my passion for reading it and writing it. But poetry is a tough sell. Stephen King (also a great lover of poetry) once told me that he thought the critics had ruined poetry for the general reader by celebrating the most obscure, unreadable poetry. And I have come to agree.

Poetry is what we turn to in the most emotional moments of our life--when a beloved friend dies, when a baby is born or when we fall in love. Poetry is the language we speak in the most terrifying or ecstatic passages of our lives. But the very word poetry scares people. They think of their grade school teachers reciting "Hiawatha" and they groan.

So I made a video with two talented young video artists, Jessica Wolfson and Paul Lovelace. My hope was that people who were afraid of poetry might find in it what I found--balm for the soul, a way of confronting love and death with calm, with peace, with acceptance. The truth is we need poetry--even as we fight against it.

Here it is.

 
 
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07:40 PM on 02/03/2009
I have been a long time fan of your writing. What a joy to see and hear you read your poetry. The words just came alive. I look forward to enjoying my own copy of Love Comes First. Never stop writing!
Pat Anderson
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02:16 AM on 02/02/2009
I loved watching and hearing you read your work. Thank you.

And yes, ain't the internet grand?!
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brooklyncitizen
Quaerite primum regnum dei
02:01 PM on 01/31/2009
Great post on poetry...and it is far from dead. Poetry is the language of the soul .

People think of poetry as a "thing"- they think of particular poems for particular ocassions- "The Prophet" has been mined for all ocassions from weddings to the birth of a child. I've always read and enjoyed poetry from Vallejo and Neruda to Robert Frost. Yet only in the last three years has poetry become a part of my life in a real and useful way.

As a caregiver for a parent entering late stage Alzheimer we've lost all ability to have conversations as the illness has replaced Mom's use of language with the nonsensical.Though she loves music it still keeps her in her world and doesn't really allow for a dialogue.

Enter Walt Whitman's "Leaves of Grass".

I discovered that she responds to words -stories yes, but especially poetry. Each week I read out loud to her for about a half hour or longer and I love it and she loves it. It's as if we are still talking. It's been a revelation and frankly you can't ever grow tired of Whitman,a fellow brooklynite. The language is accessible, musical and profound.
12:43 AM on 01/31/2009
Thank you Erica for offering up a relaxing and refreshing tonic.....especially after spending an hour on huff post reading about all the insanity in the world.
12:30 AM on 01/31/2009
Great video Erica, I look forward to reading "Love Comes First". And I agree with Mr. King as well, poetry is thought to be synonymous with the obscure these days. It's a mistake I made until discovering the poems of Raymond Carver after squeezing all I could from his short stories. Billy Collins also comes to mind as an anomaly--a best selling poet.

Maybe you're right and the internet will help save poetry. There are some wonderful YouTube videos of Collins reading his poems with animation and video bringing them further to life. There are also sites like http://FightingIrony.com working to redefine "modern" poetry.
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dahpunkster
good music and cheap wine are my greatest comforts
11:03 PM on 01/30/2009
when does the book of poetry ,love comes first come out I will be looking for it..
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Dukedraven
06:59 PM on 01/30/2009
Like many early teens, I was disappointed that your book, "Fear of Flying," didn't have any overtly racy parts when it came out in the early '70s. That's okay, Erica, I like your poetry much better. It's very well-written and you speak it eloquently. Personally, I find poetry in many songs that I like, so I don't read it too much. I'm glad you're keeping the flame alive. Peace and light always
06:55 PM on 01/30/2009
Poets were men of great distinction and honour amongst the Ancient Celts. Robert Graves, in Claudius the God, describes the brutal physical conditioning the Poet had to endure in order to shape his mental acuity. As the status and power of Poets increased they became corrupt. As such they were a threat to the power of the monarchs and thus the institution of the Poet was abolished. Funny how things always seem to work out that way
06:09 PM on 01/30/2009
You and your orchid wisdom
Complicated, beautiful, desireble
And me and my dim wit
God.. made us that way
Know why ?

Cause He just can't get enough of it.

What some poetry
Tired of things just not ringing true
Then, spend a day lisening to your heart
Instead of having your head telling you what to do !!

blessings and light
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maribelle1963
Welcome to the end of the world. Coffee or tea?
06:07 PM on 01/30/2009
Beautiful! Well said and important topic.

I was struck at the Inauguration how spiritual and moving the poet's words were--and how they inspired me far more than either of the preachers reading their prayers. If you didn't care for Elizabeth Akexander's reading of her poem, try it in the written form:

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/20/us/politics/20text-poem.html

Also, I have recently discovered the joy of writing poetry--a deeply profound experience whether you share them or not.
06:25 PM on 02/23/2009
Thank you for using the internets for the good. It's quite a joy to listen to you read your own works. And lucious words they are.
I appreciate your having paraphrased King's comment to you, "the critics had ruined poetry for the general reader by celebrating the most obscure, unreadable poetry." I am one of those general readers who tends to shy away from poetry. I do, however, enjoy when I come across poetry whose images and feelings I can relate to. I definately feel the Rapture.