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Chaz Bono's Place in History

Posted: 10/05/11 11:44 AM ET

Chaz Bono's reintroduction to America post-transition, through talk show interviews and most especially his appearance as a contestant on Dancing with the Stars, marks more than a mere chapter in his life and career. With any luck, it will eventually prove to be a milestone in the advancement of transgender people and progress in transgender rights. Perhaps by virtue of being born into fame, he is really the first transsexual to break beyond the barrier of being known only for their transgenderness and being seen, perhaps even being allowed to be seen, as more than just a transsexual. He is breaking through the barrier of the glaring sensationalism of having changed sex and is being able to present a real, complete human being to the world.

There have of course been other transgender people in the public eye over the years, such as April Ashley, Renée Richards, Susan Stanton and Amanda Simpson. However, they never moved beyond being short-lived news stories, and they were much more talked about and little talked to, with the specific topic of discussion never straying far from their transgenderness. Until transgender people can begin to be seen as truly human, each of us unique, each of different character, each possessing different skills and talents, each having our own hopes and dreams, and each pursuing our own, unique happiness in no way limited to issues surrounding our gender, we will never rise above the stereotypes and caricatures that hold us back. That cannot be achieved through mere education on the subject. That won't change as long as the only thing discussed in connection to us is our transitions and perception of gender. Things will only begin to change when we are seen at a subconscious level by populous masses as full and complete people. Those kinds of changes in perception only happen when you get to know someone as a personal. Only when you experience a whole individual do you begin to comprehend that stereotyped people are in fact whole people.

There are a couple of different basic approaches to achieving this. One is to have the majority of Americans know at least one of us personally, and the other is to have one of us that everyone knows. The former is impractical. There are too few of us, and too many of us who hide to avoid discrimination and conceal our gender history, and we are too held down by discrimination to reach every socio-economic strata in society. The best way to move beyond crawling out of discrimination and begin walking away is to have a genuine celebrity known to most people as a complete person with their minority group membership status a minor quality of their being. Today, women like Ellen DeGeneres, Rachel Maddow and Suze Orman, by simply doing their jobs, are changing attitudes toward gays and lesbians by showing that they can be liked as individuals, be admired for their talents, and be someone people would like to know personally, without regard to their sexual orientation or committed intimate relationships.

I submit that the emergence of a legitimate celebrity from a marginalized minority who is famous for reasons apart from membership in that group is a vital part of creating social progress. Much like Louis Armstrong in the 1920s and '30s for African Americans, or perhaps Elton John in the 1970s for gay people, simply having a crossover celebrity be accepted for their talents by they greater majority puts a human face on an entire minority that previously had their humanity obscured behind stereotypes and caricatures. There is great reason to hope that Chaz Bono can fill that roll for the transgender community.

This also creates an historic point of reference that can be used as a basis of comparison to the progress of other groups. It was about 35 years from the time Louis Armstrong became popular with white audiences until the passage of the 1964 Civil Rights Act. It's been 35 years since Elton John came out as bisexual, and we are only now seeing gays and lesbians being allowed to assist in defending our country. Based on that, this seemingly innocuous event of Chaz Bono dancing on a TV show means that transgender people are probably looking at another 35 years of struggle at least before they see truly substantive progress in their equality being codified in law.

The true test for Chaz will be whether he can continue to build his career to a place where he can be seen regularly before a broad American audience in a capacity that has nothing to do with his being a transgender man. If he can do that, he will truly be a pivotal figure in transgender history.

 
Chaz Bono's reintroduction to America post-transition, through talk show interviews and most especially his appearance as a contestant on Dancing with the Stars, marks more than a mere chapter in his ...
Chaz Bono's reintroduction to America post-transition, through talk show interviews and most especially his appearance as a contestant on Dancing with the Stars, marks more than a mere chapter in his ...
 
 
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10:40 AM on 10/26/2011
Chaz Bono is the first transgender to be on mainstream tv show watched by millions of americans. As an African American Transgender I applaud Chaz Bono for his strength and fortitude. He has a great demeanor and wonderful disposition. Congrats to Chaz Bono.
Shenandoah1865
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01:53 AM on 10/10/2011
It is a very human trait to hold back from and sometimes fear those who are different from our life experiences. As we put labels and prejudice aside and get to know people from another walk in life (race, ethnic group, nationality, religion or lack thereof, LBGT, political beliefs, etc) then suddenly they aren't so scary - they are just our friend. And if we're lucky, then we begin to see others like them as just our fellow human beings. Then hopefully acceptance and respect spreads and labels fade away.

Chaz, with his openness and his great big smile that comes from deep within, is doing a great deal to remove the 'scary'. Keep up the good work, brother. I'd be proud to call you friend.
11:10 PM on 10/07/2011
Hey, I'm just for this fella being happy on the show. I don't see him as an odd ball. To me he's just a fella trying to do the best he can, under his own admission of not being a fabulous dancer.
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02:42 PM on 10/07/2011
Cant we get onto to more important issues in life..like those who dont have money!???
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01:17 PM on 10/07/2011
whatever Chaz wants! Good luck Brother.......
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02:40 PM on 10/07/2011
Ok..now onto to the next gender confused celebrity!!
12:18 PM on 10/07/2011
I'm a 57-year-old male. I have terrible lower back pain mostly related to a head injury in 2004. The doctor had to do a four-layer fusion in my neck and block L-4. From that point, my lower back has gotten out of control. I take Vicodin 10, four to five times a day, plus I wear a Duragesic pain patch. The problem is mostly L-5, S-1. They want to do surgery; maybe it's my only hope.

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01:49 AM on 10/07/2011
35 years until we see legislation? Already partially achieved: The Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill included gender identity.

In addition the Information Age is accelerating change. I think we're going to see a lot of change in the next TEN years, not 35.

Last, transsexualism is NOT new to the Amercian conscience. It's been 60 since the story of Christine Jorgensen dominated the headlines. But I do agree that the biggest change can be affected by people knowing us personally. Several years ago I transitioned on the job in front of hundreds of co-workers. I like to think I changed the way a lot of them think about transsexual people.
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02:26 AM on 10/07/2011
Actually, I agree with you, which was the subtext of the essay. I do congratulate you for being the first poster in response who touched on the true thesis I was trying to get at. The hidden thesis is that if we go it alone, we're looking at another 35 years. The progress we have made has come as a result of our association with the gay, lesbian, and bisexual community. Matthew Sheppard was not a trans bill. It was an LGBT bill. It was passed as protecting sexual orientation with gender identity thrown in. It would not have passed if it only addressed gender identity. We're nowhere remotely near seeing any kind of trans-exclusive ENDA even being proposed at a national level. Without sexual orientation in the same sentence somewhere, gender identity still has decades to go. The true target of my essay was those transpeople who promote the nutty idea that we should break away from the LGB. If we did that, we're looking at another 35 years. If we partner with them, we can shave 35 years off the process.
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Pelican1983
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03:44 PM on 10/06/2011
I agree, Ms. Kessler. While I'll certainly give a pass to Chaz for being so confused about his gender issues that they consumed his life up until now, the simple fact of the matter is that he is not a college graduate, has never held a real job other than "LGBT activist" and made some money off his book "Transitions," but that's about it. It appears to me from reading the book that he also leaned heavily on Cher for money and a place to live throughout a significant portion of his life.

He also doesn't take care of himself. I have no issue with him being overweight, but he's severely out of shape and considering he spent major bucks on becoming a man, not taking care of his new body is, to me, disrespectful of all he's gone through.

I like Chaz and have a tremendous amount of respect for him, but he has to get some sort of career going, and fast. After Dancing with the Stars he'll be unemployed, and no matter what your gender, nobody likes a freeloader.
07:06 AM on 10/06/2011
I agree with the comments here. Chaz (and JR- for a different reason) has shown tremendous courage. It is impossible for me to imagine the pain in which he lived his former life- and it is equally hard for me to imagine the discrimination he faces today, but I have seen the ugly face of it made in remarks on other blogs. The names and labels attached to this man by ignorant, narrow minded people amaze me. Clearly, some people view being different as being "wrong", a "freak". The level of tolerance some people simply cannot grasp amazes me. Clearly, these name callers and haters have not experienced true adversity in their lives. I wish that Chaz had the physical capabilities to be able to keep competing on the show- he will, on his dancing ability, eventually get voted off- but his emotional strength is to be admired. Until that happens, he will continue to receive my votes. Education is the only way to overcome ignorance, and maybe, just maybe, his prescense on DWTS will cause a few people to open their eyes and their minds. Good luck in all that you do Chaz.
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Erica Keppler
06:34 PM on 10/06/2011
Oops. My comment was meant to be a reply to Pelican1983. My kingdom for a delete button. Sorry about that.
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06:00 AM on 10/06/2011
I have known and worked with a couple of transgender people and have never had a problem with them; however, until I saw Chaz Bono's documentary about his transformation I did not have a clear idea of what they were up against and the difficulties both physically and emotionally they must overcome. I admire Mr. Bono and have found new appreciation for the people I worked with in the past and I have also found I have a great deal of respect for them also. Mr. Bono's happiness at being who he was meant to be is obvious and I wish him all the best in the future. I also would like to say how much I admire his girlfriend and believe they have found true love. She still loves him so much even after some personality changes he has gone through and he obviously loves her very much. They are brave and resiliant people who have found their way.
11:06 PM on 10/05/2011
Great article. For transsexual people to be fully accepted by society and by the communities where they live, work and play, we must fully integrated in the world as functional people. Amanda Simpson, Susan Stanton and Dr. Richards are no longer transsexual news stories because they are leading very meaningful lives in government and medicine and making valuable contributions based on what is between their ears ...and not what is, or is not, between their legs. Their trans-sexuality is unimportant ...and very much irrelevant to the people they love, the organizations they lead and the communities they impact.
07:44 PM on 10/05/2011
Chas Bono has the most radiant smile, and a deep kindness and tolerance for human frailty. You can see it, and feel it from him.
America can perhaps for the first time see past sexuality and transition, to this beautiful soul within.
I've been especially moved by the first and third weeks, when he seemed to dance in homage to his father, Sonny.
And let's face it. He's taken his mother, Cher, on a journey she certainly did not expect.
I don't think Cher's been 'nervous' in forty years! (as she tweeted in his first week)
Her love for him, and promise to appear next week in the audience, will do so much for the families...
What a lovely person. What a great heart. What tremendous courage.
Not to mention that tender rock of a girlfriend taking it all in. Her emotions so powerful.
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lakat
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03:51 PM on 10/05/2011
I agree with you, Erica. I explained to my husband why Chaz made it through last nights elimination. He is affecting people with his kindness, his gentle spirit and his great attitude. He doesn't show any bitterness or discontent towards those who would silence him and keep him behind closed doors but instead he shows understanding and acceptance that not all will be open to him and his situation. I admire his courage so much and I admire what a difference this person will make in our country. He isn't the best dancer but people obviously want to see him continue, to see how he improves, to let him quietly, graciously send his message that he is a whole person that you would like to be with and befriend. Bravo Chaz!
06:53 PM on 10/05/2011
I couldn't agree more. Isn't it funny that people make a big deal about something, and then when they see the reality of a situation they fall silent. Kudos to Chaz and JR Martinez for
living life fully and not by their orientation or what they look like. Maybe now people can
live their lives and more and more people will never make fun of something they don't understand. This is a teachable moment for many. I hope they learn.
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lakat
Haiti lives.
01:22 PM on 10/08/2011
A teachable moment indeed Fahira! Well said.