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Eugene Cho

Eugene Cho

Posted: February 18, 2011 02:05 PM

In a pluralistic world of a plethora of thoughts, ideas, philosophies, and worldviews, it makes total sense to me that Christians need to be equipped and engaged in "contending" for the Gospel.

I get it. I really do.

It's a larger marketplace of ideas and as such Christians ought to engage this marketplace. We're no longer entitled the majority of market share -- if we've even ever held that distinction.

But here's one thing I'd like to convey: In the pursuit of contending for the gospel:

Please, don't be a jerk.

Because honestly, "Christian jerks" are a tragic paradox -- especially when they think they are doing the Kingdom a great favor.

Let's contend for the Gospel but let's not be jerks in the process. Nowhere do I read in the Scriptures, "Contend for the gospel as a jerk."

What I'm suggesting isn't all that radical:

James 1:19-20

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.

Ephesians 4:26-27; 31-32

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

This call is apropos to everyone, in my opinion, because if we're all honest with ourselves, there's a little bit jerk within all of us, right?

And in my case, a bit more than a little bit.

We don't have to be mean spirited. We don't need to pummel someone down into submission ...

Or in other words, while I do indeed appreciate the value and importance of theology and doctrine, I would suggest that what will fascinate people to consider the gospel of Christ will ultimately be ...

"how we live our lives."

The Holy Spirit will convict and change. May our lives simply testify and point to the truth and gospel of Christ.

Here's a short snippet from a recent sermon from Philippians about not being a jerk:

 

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05:41 PM on 02/21/2011
So basically, the vinegar and honey proverb? I don't support the ends, but I could support this adjustment in means.
03:46 PM on 02/21/2011
Many will say to me in that day, Lord, lord, have we not in thy name prophesied? and in thy name cast out demons? and in thy name done many mighty things? Then I will tell them plainly, I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!
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dancingstu
Christian, liberal lawyer
02:59 PM on 02/22/2011
Quite right.  Just because one calls oneself a "Christian" that doesn't mean that one is leading a Christian life.  As Pastor Cho notes, it is often a struggle to avoid the temptation do stray from doing what is right.
Chroesus
Always seek enlightenment...resist ignorance and s
09:35 PM on 02/20/2011
The more I hear of fundamentalist religion, the more I understand that it is time for humanity to grow beyond our religious doctrines and embrace reason. Our civilization faces many problems that only rationalism and science can overcome. Embracing religious fantasies will do us no good, they have only brought us denial of basic scientific truths and pretending that saying proven science is wrong will make those problems go away. Still, I feel for those who can't face the fact that religion is the creation of humanity and nothing more. I also feel that robbing religious people of the comfort their religious fantasies provide them seems cruel in a way...like severing a trapped wild animals limb so that it can escape that trap.
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Ytrus
''it's a map''
11:32 PM on 02/20/2011
Marx had something to say about that, with daisies and shackles or some odd matter or metaphor.
kellygreen
"Ideology is the Science of Idiots" John Adams
03:15 PM on 02/22/2011
Yes.

...and the world also faces many problems that rationalism and science CREATED..and are ill-equipped to overcome:

Weapons of Mass Destruction. Pollution. Environmental Degredation. Unsustainable economic and energetic paradigms.

I would say that the future of humanity is as much contingent upon transcending an unhealthy relationship to Reason, as it is contingent upon transcending an unhealthy relationship with Faith.
06:30 PM on 02/25/2011
Our "unhealthy relationship to Reason" is indeed a messy one. Once one problem is solved another one pops up. I like to think we're evolving toward a better relationship with ourselves but who the heck really knows? . Freud saw reason as a jockey atop a powerful horse - the ID.

Ridding ourselves of the notion that reason is somehow a "higher" power than emotions is a good starting point for a healthy relationship. Reason is more reasonable and that's about it. The emotional part has survived a whole lot longer than our enhanced abstract part, and some theorize that reason is a very risky evolutionary strategy
Interesting fact: Did you know Neanderthals actually had a larger brain in total and per pound than Sapiens? Its been theorized that this overly powerful rational part lent to some emotional problems or "issues". Its also been shown that some of todays sapiens do carry Neanderthal DNA but that's for another post...
11:48 AM on 02/20/2011
Preach the gospel at all times and when necessary, use words ( St Francis )
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dottyeb
02:00 AM on 02/20/2011
Eugene, please send a copy of your commentary to Sarah Palin, Jim DeMint, Governor Scott Walker, Michelle Bachman, and all the rest of the CINO's (Christians in name only) out there so vociferously 'representing' Christian principles and trying to force them down the throats of every citizen in this country irregardles of creed, race, or heritage. They should ALL be ashamed. They all need to ask themselves WWJD before opening their mouths and angrily eviscerating their fellow Americans. I am certain (from what I was taught about Jesus and Christianity), that Jesus would NOT be pleased with their actions, deeds and rhetoric. He certainly would not be pleased with all of the prevarication that seems to be commonplace in their lives and speech.
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Patrick Flannery
Editor, nerd, dad.
04:50 PM on 02/20/2011
Awesome comment. A smart man once said that the two hottest cards for Christian conservatives to play today are sex and politics. And they are the two cards Jesus never played.
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dottyeb
09:56 PM on 02/20/2011
Would love to know who the 'smart man' was/is--obviously wise beyond his years. I am a follower of Ghandi. From the Hindu/Ghandi point of view; "I LIKE your Christ. I DO
NOT like your Christians. Your Christians are SO UNLIKE your Christ." Mohat Mohandas Ghandi. Somehow the Hindu ideology resonnates with me on a much higher level than Christianity.
02:53 AM on 02/23/2011
Wha? Who was the smart man you are referring to?
Matthew 5:28 Jesus playing the sex card.
Mark 12:13-15 Jesus playing the politics card.
Despite Patrick's ill-advised quotation, I agree with Pastor Cho that we must be honest that we have so much in us that needs redemption, we shouldn't have time to be meddling in other's lives. The church is not a clinic run by healthy people--it is a hospital where we are all sick to some degree.
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
04:55 PM on 02/19/2011
In both of the verses you quoted, the writer is talking about how one Christian should treat another Christian. In both cases James and Paul are dealing with matters within the church. If you will notice as you read the epistles 75% are concerned with keeping peace in the God's church. As far as those outside the church they still need to hear that there is a heaven to gain and a hell to shun which is the whole point of the gospel of Christ.
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
05:32 PM on 02/19/2011
in God's church.
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LynneE
A not-so-elite liberal.
11:02 PM on 02/19/2011
How condescending of you to imagine that we people "outside the church" still need to hear your religious delusions regarding heaven and hell.

And that's the whole point of the gospel?
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
11:14 PM on 02/19/2011
John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
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TheWM
aka The Wrong Monkey
02:37 PM on 02/19/2011
"I would suggest that what will fascinate people to consider the gospel of Christ will ultimately be ...

"'how we live our lives.'"

How Christians lived for the first two thousand years of Christianty -- does that count, or are we starting now?

Furthermore, and in all seriousness: how many people do you think there are on Earth who haven't yet been forced, in one way our another, to consider the gospel of Christ? I don't want to be a jerk about this, but if you really want to be nice, you might want to consider the possibility that few or none of the people who will read you on Huffington Post don't already have Jesus coming out of their ears.
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
10:00 AM on 02/19/2011
*listening to crickets on this thread.* Don't all talk at once, Christians... :)
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michelesda
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11:31 PM on 02/18/2011
Asking the leopard to change his spots; good luck with that program.
11:51 AM on 02/20/2011
That's what Christ means by repentance michelesda
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michelesda
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12:26 PM on 02/20/2011
I think you may have missed my point. Christians who believe that Matthew's "Go ye therefore and teach all nations" charges them with a public responsibility to testify and prosetylize will generally do so; however, the passage says nothing about how they ought to go about it. People who happen to be jerks will of course go about it like jerks, not knowing any better, which I think is central to the writer's argument as being counterproductive. Unfortunately, jerks, Christian and otherwise, don't generally realize they are being jerks, or know how to be anything else but jerks, and so can hardly be expected to repent of being jerks.
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09:52 PM on 02/18/2011
Jesus taught: "Do not seek straight paths in darkness, possessed by [fear]. But gather force and support each other. He who supports his neighbor strengthens 'himself'."
It can be said again that Jesus put it this way: "In the end (millennium) most all will be deceived." Some may begin to understand this saying by reading the 29th Canon and how it relates to when they observe the Sabbath. Some may start to understand the deception, in part, and call themself a 'jerk' for doing things out of habit and breaking the 4th Commandment and not being aware of the deception.
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ManuOB1
A voice crying in the wilderness
01:37 PM on 02/19/2011
You keep quoting Jesus from non-canonical books, which were written in the 19th century. This has as much validity as quoting yourself.
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06:28 AM on 02/20/2011
I hardly think that any of the twelve apostle's works were written in the '19th century'. One can Google anyone of the twelve apostles and can read their 'original' works. When you talk of the latter century, you must be reading books that Texas wants you to believe?
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rtgmath
There has got to be a better way!
09:39 PM on 02/18/2011
As a Christian, I wholeheartedly agree that Christians can be jerks. Unfortunately, jerkiness is often taught from the pulpit as zeal for Christ, a view that the Christian is right, everyone else is wrong, and those who don't automatically jump to believe the Christian's "witness" and call for repentance is rejecting Christ.

And I confess that as a young fundamentalist Christian, I was often a jerk.

As I have lived, I've learned a lot about others. I discovered that not every problem has an answer, and that God does not answer every prayer -- not even every prayer made in faith for the right things for the right reasons. Senseless tragedies happen that God could have prevented. People who believe differently usually have very good reasons for why they do so. Scientists are not evil men bent on defying God. There is room for a great diversity of belief or nonbelief, and Christians are often very wrong on social issues, on matters related to the poor and the rights of others.

Yes, we Christians can be jerks.

I am no longer a fundamentalist but liberal and recognize that my life will best tell others whether I believe anything of worth. I try to listen more, judge less, and have compassion on those who are suffering. I no longer assume that crisis means sin.

If one's faith makes him or her act like a jerk, then their understanding of faith is wrong.
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Eric N Davis
If a button needs pushing, I'll be there.
04:04 AM on 02/19/2011
As an agnostic atheist, I very rarely appreciate anything I hear or read coming from a person of the Christian persuasion. With that said, I applaud you for your decency and tolerance of views other than your own.

I've found often in life, that "zeal" is a trait of the youth. Young people are often filled with emotions and wild mood swings from manic to depressive. Young people are often led by their emotions. Moderation seems to be a trait developed through age.

I hope that we can all learn a sense of moderation, and understanding, as we progress through life. The only way for us to make the world a better place is if we take some time to learn from each other, instead of spending all of our time condemning each other.
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Saidas
09:29 AM on 02/20/2011
An agnostic atheist?
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LynneE
A not-so-elite liberal.
11:04 PM on 02/19/2011
rtgmath, kudos to you for making such an extreme life change and embracing your humanity as well as your spirituality.
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ninetailedfox
banning people.....so childish
04:12 PM on 02/18/2011
ive seen Liberals bout with fundies pointing accusing fingers in both directions. As pluralistic (give me a break, christians are the majority) society, Ive watched many christians banter and attack each other from all ends of the spectrum. This is one of several reasons why I rail against christianity, not only that, the prospect of a theocracy comes to mind when I rail against them online.
thebigbike
ran away to be a cowboy
06:19 PM on 02/18/2011
You said a mouthful brother
03:00 PM on 02/19/2011
Ever try and talk with a fundamentalist ? they can't agree to disagree they talk over you and when you try and answer they interrupt with question after question most of which are horrifically ignorant of science or history .
08:41 PM on 02/19/2011
Seems to me you are describing the a-theists I've talked with over the past 20+ years. And, in watching them on youtube respond to someone trying to explain something from the Bible to them. It seems both xtian and a-theist think they have won the debate by "over-yelling" their opposite.
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Saidas
09:32 AM on 02/20/2011
Honestly, I've met and spoken to a number of Fundamentalists and I've never met one that I considered to be well educated, intelligent, or deep thinking. I think someone who was would not be attracted to Fundamentalist Christianity.