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A Harsh, Cold Slap of Reality

Posted: 10/07/10 01:55 PM ET

Two weeks ago I posted a piece on Huffington Post that criticized some of the critics of the current administration (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/evan-handler/who-are-we_b_737515.html). As usual, it was sarcastic, bombastic, and more than a little self-righteous -- because each of those qualities lives, to some degree, within me.

As usual, the comments in response to the piece varied tremendously. Some praised me so highly I was tempted to believe I might possess some degree of genius. Others skewered my arguments so successfully I felt sorry I'd ever posted the damn thing.

The most troubling comments to me, though, came from individuals who've been understandably disappointed by aspects of the Obama administration; who are understandably angry over shortcomings, compromises, and what now seem to be outright insults (when I know there are 60,000 barrels of oil a day leaking into the Gulf of Mexico, and scads of scientific experts know it, but my government suppresses those findings in favor of its own, unqualified, much lower estimates, I feel like someone's dumped a lot of oil all over me); and who, therefor, have decided to withhold all future support from Barack Obama, from his administration, from the Democratic party, and maybe from anything having to do with United States government unto eternity.

I really feel it would be a terrible mistake.

The phrase that cropped up again and again in the Comments section of the last post was "Obama apologist." Let's deal with that right away. I apologize for no one but myself (and I've got relatively little to apologize for).

My most concise feelings about the current administration are a sense of wonder over the grand ambitions and tremendous accomplishments (yes, accomplishments; whether you like the contents or not, no one else has been able to get a health care bill through congress for a hundred years), countered by mounting horror over the compromises, capitulations, passive stances, feeble executions, disingenuous misleads, and creepy collusions behind each victory, and each defeat. Overall, in spite of tremendous movement back toward some degree of sanity in the nation's policies, I'd have to say I'm significantly disappointed.

Which is why I think it's more crucial than ever to give a massive push of support to the most sensible factions of the Democratic party, including Barack Obama. Because it's a stronger, smarter, better Democratic congress that can best push Obama to live up to his promises, and his promise. (And because all the current alternatives are far, far worse - and some are, or should be, unthinkable.)

I'm talking serious, strategic compromise, and I'm saying it's essential.

The most vivid analogy I can come up with are the good, strong-willed friends who voted for Ralph Nader in 2000. "There's no difference between Gore and Bush," was one line that was pushed then. "I'm going to cast my vote for the candidate I believe in, not the lesser of two evils," was the other.

Is there anyone today who can still seriously claim that there would have been no differences between a Bush and a Gore presidency? From the conversations with friends I know who voted for Nader in 2000, each and every one now wishes they'd voted against the more evil of the other two.

To bring the analogy more up to date, among those who are now furiously disappointed by Obama, are there any who can seriously claim they'd prefer where we'd be had the country elected McCain? I know many will shout that there should be more than just those two options. But, is your anger over the limitations of our current system so great you'd be willing to help elect Sarah Palin in 2012? Because that anger, expressed carelessly (as in, staying home and not voting), in today's climate, could make it a reality. (And she knows this.)

Incrementalism sucks. It's not my cup of tea, either. But, the options are less than ideal. In fact, they are bloody stark. We are either going to have Barack Obama through 2016, or something far worse in 2012. Palin. Romney. Boehner? Can you imagine? I can't.

Break it down state by state: It's either more Harry Reid, or it'll be Sharon Angle. Either more of the effective (though inexplicably idiotic) Richard Blumenthal, or Linda McMahon. Andrew Cuomo, or Carl Paladino. Rodney Glassman, or John McCain. Chris Coons, or Christine O'Donnell. Those are the current choices. It's going to be one of the two, in each case.

I don't care how disgusted you are with the first option in each of those equations, the second would be disastrous. Put a whole bunch of those second options together, mix them up into a majority in congress, and you've got a catastrophe on your hands.

Those interested in saving our country from further carnage need to be banding together, immediately, to take action to make sure the better of the current choices take office (even if those choices offend you as you cast your vote). Then, people can apply pressure to those individuals to act in our interests. Or, try to help still better choices make their way onto the ballot next time. But "Throw the bastards out" leaves out all consideration of the fact that something is going to take "the bastards'" place, and that something could be much, much worse. Consider the alternatives. If the alternative is worse, then it's important to vote the bastards back in, even if it makes your skin crawl.

For those inclined to express their disgust through inaction, inaction now will accomplish the same thing as casting your vote for a Tea Party candidate. Your inaction will make John Boehner kick up his heels with delight. It will insure that a flood of disastrous candidates seat themselves in office, and it will give him the Speakership of the House. Things will be unthinkably worse.

If you want to throw some bastards out, aim your ire at the so-called "Blue Dogs." To me, they are the greatest villains of our most recent history. The best way to combat Barack Obama's worst tendencies would be to support the sanest Democratic choices on the ballot, even if they make you quake with rage. Then, work your tail off to surround them with a flood of more progressive office holders in the future, who won't undermine the agenda, and who might even push him back toward many of the visions he used to speak so eloquently about. But, if you're angry about the distance between his words and actions so far, sitting this one, or the next one, out is going to leave you a whole lot angrier at someone else.

When I was a child, if my mother upset me enough, I used to destroy my favorite toy right in front of her. To show her how much she had hurt me. But my mother never changed her mind about anything. The only thing my tantrum accomplished was to leave me with less toys. I'd expressed my anger. But I was less happy then I was before. My circumstances were not improved. They were worse.

There's nothing fun about voting for the lesser of two evils. It's something we all ache to move beyond. But it's a lot better than living under the greater one.

I've been there, and I don't want to go back.

Evan Handler is the author of two books, the most recent of which is It's Only Temporary: The Good News and the Bad News of Being Alive.


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johnminehan
02:45 PM on 10/14/2010
Pres. Obama has done well with what he had. The major mistake, likely to cost him Congress this year and the presidency in 2012, was outsourcing the Stimulus to pelosi and Obay, who did him . . . and the country . . . no favors.
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want2run527
It's priorities, you aren't one. - RP
10:10 PM on 10/09/2010
I am not so much disappointed with President Obama than I am with the base in Congress being so utterly ineffective in highlighting the good he has done and getting that out to the people. It is so I am feeling this man is alone in his struggle to pick this country up. did they forget how to promote their actions? I agree with you the alternative is simply too unthinkable. Thanks for your post.
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jackie123
01:53 PM on 10/09/2010
Wow, thanks so much. My thoughts exactly. Especially the 2000 election, and how everyone thought it wouldn't have a difference. If only enough people read this!
06:41 AM on 10/09/2010
I know a lot of people are disappointed in Obama. I'm not. I take a step back and try to see it from his point of view. From the abrupt halt that was put on his parade the moment he got into office, I think he was privately briefed on a great deal of things that we the public have no knowledge of. He's dealing with a ton of messes, none of which were his doing. What mess takes priority over others? Everyone seems to think the stuff that is important to them must also be his top priority. He's only been in office two years. The messes he's dealing with are a lot older than that. Give the man some time. And if everyone quit bitching long enough to pitch in and help, maybe some of those messes would actually begin to go away.

You can't make everyone happy all the time.
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Maxiesid
06:15 AM on 10/09/2010
The whole 'democrats are dispirited, disgusted, disillusioned and are just going to stay at home and sit out this election meme was invented and is being pushed 24/7 by the party that is using it as their main strategy to win. The rest of the pundits and beltway crowd are doing an excellent job of carrying that load for them and making sure that we out here in the real world get to hear it.. The republicans know that if the same people turn out to vote that put Obama in the whitehouse, they are toast. That is why they are throwing themselves behind this whole scheme to try to influence the election.... they dont have ANYTHING else to run on, no accomplishments, no ideas, no plans.. and add in their crazed candidates that want to create a new America that resembles Victorian England, they also have no one that can convince any voter with a brain that they should be elected. So, instead they tell us the election is over, they have won, the democrats took a trashing.. no need to go out and vote it is just a waste of your time. But, the problem they have is that it isn't true, just because the media makes sure that NOTHING gets reported that might reveal that they are wrong doesn't make it reality. You want enthusiasm, and the truth? Go to the march for sanity website, you will see the reality there.
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ewldest
I don't care "whose" war it is - end it now
03:12 AM on 10/09/2010
I admit disappointment with Obama - But I'm with you on this - a stronger Democratic Congress, encouraged by a win in Nov., may yet give the American people what we voted for in '08.
The GLOP will only do us harm.
02:03 PM on 10/08/2010
Evan--

I've always enjoyed your posts, and this is no different.

However, I wonder what you are going to say when/if on November 3 Robert Gibbs stands up and says that the fact that Dems have held onto the house and senate is a clear indication that America thinks that the Obama Administration is doing a great job as is and that all complaints are the meaningless drival of the "professional left"?

Because that is what is going to happen. And behind closed doors Rahm will be crowing that the left "doesn't have anywhere else to go".

And, starting in 2011, the administration will again start with the "republican boogie man" threats.

I too want to see positive change--which to me once meant electing democrats (and there are some who are still flag bearers for positive change). Supporting this WH, however, seems like indulging bad behavior.
08:43 PM on 10/08/2010
You don't have to worry about Mr. Gibbs saying that, seriously.
He'll be saying something along the lines: "The president congratulates the republican party on their victory and looks forward to co-operating with the new leaders in taking the country forward...."
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jemiltd
Writer,author,thinker,creative
02:25 AM on 10/09/2010
Not with -- as Elisabeth Hasselbeck put it -- the Tea Party candidates that are the bedbugs of the Republican party, sparky. Too much crazy.
lastpost
see biography
07:25 AM on 10/08/2010
It’s a bit like watching the “unsinkable†Titanic sink, in slow motion. The Captain stands aloof. Ignoring his greatest asset, in that hour of need. Why not galvanise into action the very souls that need saving? Throw everything that drags the great vessel down, over the side. At the very least it will lighten the load. But at best it could serve to shutter those unconstitutional gashes. Through which the ship of state is reverse-haemorrhaging, to its grave. The last lifeline is true democracy. Deploy it now, or accept the inevitable.
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DarianSentient
Omnium Bonum Est
03:59 AM on 10/08/2010
Evan, while I'm in agreement with the practical side of the issue ("well, we're GONNA get ONE of the two, so let's get the one least likely to lead the vast majority of people towards disaster"), it seems like the TRULY sensible thing to do would be to push the system responsible for the false dichotomy in the direction of actual fairness towards people without a (D) or (R) behind their name. Until the day a GENUNIELY reasonable person stands a chance of getting elected, I'll likely continue to vote for the most reasonable candidate in any given election (which is usually, but not always, the Dem)...

But I would like to hear your thoughts on how we can create a system more conducive to candidates who choose to stand on nothing more than rationality. I'd be interested to know what steps you think could conceivably be taken to move election emphasis from ideology (whether left or right) to something closer resembling investigative pragmatism and actual thought. I'm espousing my own personal philosophy here, so I may be a bit biased in this area (you may read http://www.wasabisoft.net/2009/02/18/integrity-covers-rock/ at your leisure for some additional foul-mouthed yet poignant evidence towards this particular issue), but I feel evaluating a candidate based on integrity and open-mindedness rather than chosen platform would probably yield better results for the greatest number of people.
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DarianSentient
Omnium Bonum Est
04:16 AM on 10/08/2010
And once again I choose to use this space to bemoan and rail against the paltry 250 world limit on HuffPo comments... the above comment was much more eloquent in full. *heavy sigh, slight facepalm*

There's a REASON I don't have a Twitter account.
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12:22 AM on 10/08/2010
"Which is why I think it's more crucial than ever to give a massive push of support to the most sensible factions of the Democratic party, including Barack Obama."

All the 'hype' around "hope" and "change" all but evaporated the day Obama continued to believe Geithner, Summers& that clown Bernanke Show!

The most 'sensible' factions are clearly in the minority SO if they are really sensible they will seperate and start a fresh with a NEW third party option. Why beat a dead horse just because it's better looking than the other dead horse?

Rome burned because the 'people' wanted to watch it burn and start over.
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Computer Geek
Logician Atheist Lefty
11:43 PM on 10/07/2010
What's that old line from the song 'You've got to accentuate the positive'. As I've argued in my posts on here and elsewhere - I have seen more of what I wanted to have happen (even if not precisely what I wanted) in 2 years under this administration than I would have seen/gotten in 4 years under others - and in the case of the previous administration, 8 years! I am hard headed. I refuse to let the Republicans bully me and the people into losing more ground to retirement and the American Dream which we are all pursuing. These people are talking about the lifeforce of this country (we middle and lower class workers) giving even MORE to the upper 2%! NO MORE WIRE HANGERS! Vote! Volunteer! Give what you can to the cause! Get 'er done!

(I and my wife are doing all three - volunteering for 2 campaigns, giving money to the Dems, and we've early voted already - just so you know I am not a hypocrite).
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Nosybear
Liar, damned liar and statistician
11:36 PM on 10/07/2010
The incrementalism sucks even harder when you realize the majority the Democrats squandered. They had the votes to effect real change but with their embrace of Lieberman, the Blue Dogs showing their true Red colors, individual senators demanding bribes and generally some of the worst conduct since Republicans held the reins of power, that opportunity is gone. The naysayers on the Right will have real power after this election and will have to be pandered to in order to accomplish anything. Talk about snatching defeat from the jaws of victory....
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hstdem
In search of the 4th Estate
02:14 AM on 10/08/2010
FYI- Lieberman and the Blue Dogs are part of the "they had the votes." If you actually looked at the facts: the Senate had 59 (NOT filibuster-proof) votes until July 7, 2009 (almost 6 months since Obama's inauguration) when Franken was finally sworn in; then Ted Kennedy died late August, 2009 and his seat sat vacant until late September with Paul Kirk; 60 votes (passed health care reform bill during this time); then back to 59 February, 2010 with Scott Brown's win.

So, the Senate had 60 votes for one month during the summer recess of 2009 and 4 months after Kirk replaced Kennedy. Please tell me- how much more could have possibly been done with the 60-votes-is-the-new-majority Repubs obstructing the whole time?
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artleads
Let's have a national retreat.
11:29 PM on 10/07/2010
The main thing is for all Democrats (progressives) to vote for Dem candidates in November. We must save the Dems from themselves by holding our noses and voting for them. Is this the solution to oiur problems? Not a chance. But Prez O deserves four years with a Dem congress. G W had eight years with the Reps. Also, let's not be too impatient. America's voting in its first Black president is so momentous that we haven't even started to process it. WE need time to do that. The discussion on race and how we deal with that in an increasingly non-white planet hasn't even started. Voting in the Dems and returning Prez O gives US the breathing room to turn the page to one that allows us to survive and thrive in a changing world. The Dems and the Prez are as much the pretext as the means for this change. We the people need them so WE can change.
11:09 PM on 10/07/2010
Bringing up 2000, hmmm? What's your excuse for the Democrats losing everything in 2004, by the way. Nader again? Yeah.

It's like it's our JOB as voters to save their sorry sell out bottoms every election. Republicans couldn't act this crazy and still have a chance against a halfway competent party. Everybody who tells a Democrat, "You don't have to do anything to win my vote, I'm just scared to death of the Republicans..." is an enabler. It's like buying thunderbird for the winos.
10:37 PM on 10/07/2010
You mean like a Mandate that got us the biggest windfall to the health care monopoly in US history. Yeah.