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Go For It: The American Spirit(uality)

Posted: 05/25/2012 8:16 am

"When the act of reflection takes place in the mind, when we look at ourselves in the light of thought, we discover that our life is embosomed in beauty." --Ralph Waldo Emerson, Spiritual Laws

When we think of spirituality, a common image that is conjured is of someone kneeling in solemn prayer or sitting in deep meditation. But, for me, spirituality invokes images of a fictional boxer. Let me explain.

On May 28, 1982, my father and I played hooky, him from his job as an upholsterer, me from Catholic school, so we could catch the first showing of Sylvester Stallone's Rocky III. It was opening day, the Friday before Memorial Day, and this little excursion of ours was a more than a little treat though. It was a bit like a pilgrimage. For almost two years I had played Rocky and Rocky II on a regular basis on our family VCR (now just a plastic dinosaur taking up space in some landfill in Staten Island). In that time,

I had become endeared to the underdog story of Rocky Balboa, a humble Philadelphia boxer who went the distance against the heavyweight champion of the world, Apollo Creed. Rocky defied all odds and even though he was a just a character in a movie, he felt real to me and his struggles, valor and victories left an indelible imprint on my young mind. When word got out early in 1982 that another sequel was hitting theatres in the Spring I tormented my parents with unending questions: So what do you think it's going to be about? Is he going to fight Apollo again? Is he going to win? Is he going to die? What if there are monsters in it? Or Jedis? I watched a lot of Stars Wars on that VCR too.

The third movie did not disappoint. Rocky was back. He was rich now, more civilized, and looked ripped liked the superheroes from my Green Lantern and Superman comic books. There was also a new opponent; the most awesomest bad guy around...Clubber Lang, played with some serious fury by Mr. T. I cringed when Clubber beat Rocky into a pulp. I cried when Mickey, Rocky's cantankerous trainer died of a heart attack, and I literally jumped out of my seat at the start of the final scene--the rematch between Rocky and his formidable foe.

Here's the scene: The two warriors face each other in the ring. Clubber looks his smaller opponent dead in the eye and says, "I'm going to bust you up." Rocky doesn't flinch. Instead he curls his lip and says three short words: "Go for it." I rocketed out of my seat and shouted back at the screen, "Yeah, Go for it!" If I remember correctly, I wasn't the only one. I think my dad said it too.

I don't want to give anything away for those who haven't seen the movie (spoiler: Rocky kicks Clubber's ass), but long after the screen faded and my father and I walked out of the theatre and drove back home to resume our everyday lives, "Go for it" became a catch phrase that defined my life. When a kid tried bullying me in school, Rocky's words gave me the courage to fire back, "Go for it!" (though it didn't actually stop me from getting pummeled to the ground).

When I struggled at Math in high school, I turned things around by quietly, but passionately, speaking to my inanimate Calculus test, "Yeah, you're going to keep me down? Go for it." When my parents got divorced or when I couldn't find work or when a relationship ended or when I felt like I just wanted to give up (because life can make you feel that way), those three words would spring forth from deep inside, "Go for it."

It's been thirty years since I saw that movie at the start of a Memorial Day weekend and as I see it now, "Go for it" is an anthem that best defines this holiday. It's at the core of American spirituality and by spirituality, I don't mean anything denominationally religious, but that homegrown, intangible American spirit that, like water, can't be grasped in your hand, but packs quite a wallop during times of adversity. It's that something that lies inside all of us, something author Jacob Needleman calls the "mystic core of human nature." It's a combination of defiance and determination seasoned with a knowing that there is something inside us bigger than ourselves.

Looking back we can see the "Go for it" spirit in the signers of the Declaration of Independence (King George III:" I'm going to bust you up"; John Hancock: "Go for it" as he signs his name as big as a small house on a piece of parchment that changed the world). You can imagine that spirit in Abraham Lincoln as he issued the Emancipation Proclamation. That "Go for it" attitude was in the soldiers of the Civil War (who we originally commemorated with this holiday),

it was found in Thomas Edison; the Wright Brothers; Susan B. Anthony and the suffrage movement; Franklin Delano Roosevelt; the men and women of the Greatest Generation; the Beats; the Hippies; Rosa Parks, Martin Luther King and the leaders of the Civil Rights movement; the soldiers fighting overseas now in far-flung parts of the world; and in the hearts of every man, woman and child who stood up for themselves or someone or something over the last two hundred plus years. In the end it's this affirmative spirit that defines the American soul and makes us most human in the best sense of that word. Emerson writes:

So come I to live in thoughts and act with energies which are immortal. Thus revering the soul, and learning, as the ancient said, that its "beauty is immense," man will come to see that the world is the perennial miracle which the soul worketh, and be less astonished at particular wonders; he will learn that there is no profane history; that all history is sacred.

Or in other words, this Memorial Day weekend: Honor. Live life. Seek beauty in all things. Love.

Go for it.

 
 
 
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nogods
11:58 AM on 05/30/2012
Spirituality: a huge amount of vacuous talk about things which make you feel good.
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
04:51 PM on 05/29/2012
I tried but I just can't make the "American spirituality is American spirit" leap.
01:44 PM on 05/29/2012
Churches ad hoc:
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Billy Fritts
I love the Lord Jesus Christ
03:34 PM on 05/28/2012
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus - and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the Dead--Thou shalt be saved--For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto Salvation --------------------If you will do this and mean it--You will escape the firey pits of Hell--Oh yes Hell is real and Heaven is real--
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iaov
Reality is demonstrable.
09:44 PM on 05/26/2012
Spirituality is a word I do not like. Its meaning is vague and nebulous and is often used to refer to some non-material state of mind or view of reality. I often hear “I’m not religious but I’m very spiritual” I have no idea what that means. I always think that while the speaker may not like religion they are still reserving the right to engage in magical thinking. To their defense I will say that they are not trying to force their views on the rest of the world. They are not insisting that the constitution be ignored in order to force these views and the totalitarian baggage that comes with all religious dogma, on the rest of the population.
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ariadne1959
A deeply religious non-believer
01:42 PM on 05/27/2012
I define spirituality by making a clear distinction between following religious dogma versus creating and following your own individual path toward enlightenment--IMHO.
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Salty too
Give me Liberty or give me death.
12:43 PM on 05/26/2012
Christianity is spiritual. It is not religion. Catholisim is religion.
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nogods
12:00 PM on 05/30/2012
Why do some people feel compelled to glue gods, spirituality and religion onto everything?
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Salty too
Give me Liberty or give me death.
01:10 PM on 05/30/2012
How can a believer not?
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
10:04 AM on 05/26/2012
The Bible is always right on with the current scene of this world. There are a growing number of sects out there for a reason, consider..................

2 Timothy 4:3 & 4..." For there will be a period of time when they will not put up with the healthful teaching, but, in accord with their own desires, they will accumulate teachers for themselves to have their ears tickled; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, whereas they will be turned aside to false stories."

....and so it has occured. It is not about spirituality, it's about convienence. They go through the 'motions' and think God will be accepting of that. Blind fools.
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phal4875
The world is run by cats; we just feed them.
04:37 PM on 05/26/2012
Quoting the Bible is easy and takes no real thought. What are you attempting to communicate?
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
05:07 PM on 05/26/2012
Maybe if you hadn't prefaced your question with that comment I'd be inclined to explain that basic prophesy for these final days.
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nogods
12:03 PM on 05/30/2012
Persistent Bible Babblers reveal that they are averse to real thought.
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Hillbilly49
Don't tell me you are a Christian; let me guess.
08:52 AM on 05/26/2012
The American spirit doesn't have anything to do with spirituality are talking to invisible supreme beings in the sky.
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researcher
08:26 PM on 05/25/2012
"the soldiers fighting overseas now in far-flung parts of the world"

Really this is spiritual??????

Take your next trip to iraq and see what our spiritually has done to that nation. an illegal war based on lies and deception for oil contracts by all counts of rational thought.

A nation that has capitalism as an economic ideology and on going wars for corp profits and pre existing medical conditions to deny coverage to make corp profits is not a spiritual nation. if we can remove patroitism and nationalism for one brief moment we can see this lack of spiritually in america as a nation.

America is a religious nation not a spiritual nation. world of difference.
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phal4875
The world is run by cats; we just feed them.
04:39 PM on 05/26/2012
Wait just a minute, researcher. I think George W. Bush let us know that God had called him to attack the nation of Iraq. Bush wouldn't lie; there were weapons of mass destruction there, right?
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10:56 AM on 05/25/2012
The author, whether intentionally or not, makes the point that spirituality is what we make it. It is this little flame that keeps us going. It is important to avoid confusing spirituality (belief in something) with Religion. Religion is an institutionalized set of beliefs, but one can believe in anything one wishes, without religion. Religion proclaims truths, belief and spirituality do not have to; there is room for spirituality and belief outside of religion.
10:38 AM on 05/25/2012
I'm not a bible thumper honestly, but wanted to point out that Jesus was probably the biggest "go for it" rebel of all time. He was hated for undermining the Pharisees authority at that time, starting fire to Christianity which is of course the most influencial religion in America. Though I must point out, far different than the tolerance and accpetance Jesus preached. Basically everyone before Jesus and then after him ruined religion with dogma. Oh, and Jesus also smoked a pipe, using it as a spiritual tool. Pretty Bad A$$ if you ask me.
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bermudababy
Left lane for passing only!!
09:51 AM on 05/26/2012
@ jpeepers

Please supply verifiable infomation on the comments you make as to Jesus' smoking a pipe? It is not in the Scriptures. If it is not in the Bible, it is false.
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umbriago
The Tooth Shall Set My Fee
12:30 AM on 05/29/2012
Please supply verifiable information that Jesus Christ actually ever existed.

And please don't just say "It's true because it's in the Scriptures."
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phal4875
The world is run by cats; we just feed them.
04:42 PM on 05/26/2012
The Apostle Paul, the main person behind Christianity, proudly claimed to be a Pharisee when it allowed him to attack the Sadducees.
04:52 PM on 05/26/2012
Well he wasn't very Christ like then was he?
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whirlpool
founder walnut tree congregation
10:22 AM on 05/25/2012
I don't buy it. Religion disguised as "spirituality" leads to enough violence without this "go for it" malarkey being grafted on to it.