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Breastfeeding in Public: Where Do American Moms Really Stand?

Posted: 01/11/2013 4:35 pm

In 2012, breastfeeding entered mainstream American dialogue as either a polarizing or a unifying topic for a wide variety of mothers, parents, employers and public officials across the country.

Breastfeeding will continue to be a hot topic of conversation as we move into 2013. From attachment parenting and duration of breastfeeding to women's rights in the workplace and breastfeeding in public, the conversations being generated are surprisingly controversial.

Tipping Point

The tipping point for the media frenzy occurred around the now-infamous image that appeared on the cover of TIME magazine in May 2012.

However, public attention around the breastfeeding debate and how and when it's appropriate for children and adults to witness breastfeeding began in January 2012, when a group of parents petitioned for breastfeeding to be shown again on Sesame Street.

This was followed by activities across the country that helped further move our society toward embracing breastfeeding and supporting moms who breastfeed, including New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg's Latch On NYC initiative; the focus on breastfeeding in First Lady Michelle Obama's Let's Move campaign; and the multiple nurse-ins across the country that were highlighted by the Great Nurse-In, which was held on the National Mall , in Washington, D.C. and attracted 600 moms.

Opinions Evolving

The fact is, breastfeeding advocacy and support for moms' choice to breastfeed in public, at work and in school have been building public interest and gaining support over the past decade.

The TIME cover simply brought the conversation to the water coolers and dinner tables of America. In general, I believe this is an extremely healthy discussion within our country, where our national community is still challenged with providing complete support for breastfeeding moms.

Following the TIME piece, dramatic accounts of moms' choices about breastfeeding were highlighted nearly every month in a broad range of news coverage. Stories highlighted our nation's struggle to agree about breastfeeding and feeding in public -- from the professor at American University breastfeeding her sick child in class to the Applebee's mom who was nearly dragged away in handcuffs to the Luvs commercial that featured a mom breastfeeding in a restaurant.

What Moms Think

It was amid this stirring of public discussion that a survey completed by Lansinoh asked mothers in the U.S. as well as in the United Kingdom, Germany and Turkey how they feel about breastfeeding in public, how strongly they connect breastfeeding to children's health and what motivates them in their feeding choices.

Some of the results were surprising.

The survey revealed that the biggest fear breastfeeding moms in the U.S. have is nursing in public. Forty percent of U.S. moms fear nursing in public. This ranked higher than concerns about breastfeeding-related pain (28 percent), baby not being able to latch (25 percent) or even the effect breastfeeding could have on their bodies (5 percent).

What was further uncovered was how differently American moms feel about breastfeeding compared with their counterparts in other countries. U.S. moms are the most uncomfortable with nursing in public. Moms in Turkey are the most comfortable, at 89 percent; moms in Germany are second-most comfortable, at 72 percent; and moms in the U.K. are slightly less concerned than U.S. moms are, sharing a similar level of discomfort at 38 percent.

Best News

The best news, however, is that moms across all countries overwhelmingly understand that breastfeeding has incredible health benefits, and cited babies' health as the No. 1 reason.

Within the U.S., however, there are distinctive differences across each region of the country. When we looked deeper at the data, the region that stood out to us as an example of what the rest of the country needs to achieve is the West Coast. Moms there have, by far, the highest positive ratings on breastfeeding awareness, comfort level and stamina.

West Coast moms, along with moms in the South, also ranked the highest for feeling supported by their healthcare professionals. Interestingly, TIME's article this week about breastfeeding challenges sheds light on the lack of breastfeeding education and awareness by mainstream medical professionals and the possible impact this may be having on mothers' breastfeeding success.

Onward and Upward

From nursing babies and toddlers to promoting breastfeeding directly after birth, it's clear that breastfeeding continues to inspire discussion. And with that we have the potential to gain a greater awareness about the benefits of breastfeeding and the support moms need to not only start, but to continue nursing past the first few weeks, when challenges are most likely to occur.

Though progress was achieved in 2012 through these important conversations in making moms more comfortable, educated and outspoken on breastfeeding, there is still much to be done.

 

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09:20 PM on 01/17/2013
I tried to teach my son that a person can do what they want in the privacy of their own home, but when you go out into public you need to be respectful of the people around you. Recently I realized there were women out there who do not cover up when breast feeding. I have read comments like "it's natural" to justify not coving up. Going to the bathroom is natural. Not everyone wants to see you do that. There is no NEED to breast feed in public without covering up. It seems that the women who don't cover up, simply don't want to and don't have any regard for the people around them. Why would a women want a man that is a stranger to her, a 12 year old child, a husband of their friends, their father, etc. to see their breast. That's not necessary if your motive is to feed your child. I keep reading about women being discrete but I have now see two different women breast feed in public, without covering up, and NEITHER one was discrete. Moms can breast feed babies and people don't need to feel uncomfortable if moms would simply be respectful cover up when in public. I know people that are nudist. I understand and agree that the human body is natural but that doesn't mean that I want to see it whn I'm eating at a restaurant or standing in line and the bank.
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08:30 PM on 01/14/2013
What this breast feeding debate really demonstrates is the fragile nature of most Americans sensibilities. A loving and caring mother feeding her helpless baby is offensive? Like these women are doing this to get your attention. I don't even think its the breast, it's the naturalness of it. A natural body, especially a woman's body, is something to be augmented, enhanced or otherwise fixed.
03:45 PM on 01/14/2013
I support a woman's right to breastfeed her child, but I also support her right to NOT breastfeed. As long as our babies are fed and healthy and happy, feed away however you choose. Where I find issue is when one mother looks down upon another mother because of how she feeds her baby. I think I felt just as self-conscious pulling out a bottle of formula in public as I would have if I were to breastfeed my child in public.
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03:15 AM on 01/15/2013
" I think I felt just as self-conscious pulling out a bottle of formula in public as I would have if I were to breastfeed my child in public. "

Thank you. I felt the same.
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12:43 PM on 01/14/2013
I don't mind women breastfeeding in public....it's the "everyone in the world must accommodate me" mindset that bothers me. Take care of your business, stay out of the way of other patrons of wherever you are at and move along with your day.
09:24 PM on 01/13/2013
I have ever ever seen a woman "whip it out" . I've seen plenty of woman nursing babies and you really cannot see that much when a baby is nursing. I really think it is so very strange that people are offended by a child being fed the way they were designed to be fed.....someone posted that this was gross behavior- what is gross about it? Are breasts gross? Are babies gross? Is eating gross? I really just dont get it. For the people that are so offended by it, think of it as a way to keep health care costs down- children that are nursed are less likely to become obese, which is a huge issue in our country. Nursing is correlated with a myriad of benefits, from improved immunity to increased IQ scores...aren't these things we should WANT the kids of our county to have?? Is the potential of glimpsing a breast (gasp) for a nanosecond while a child latches on so dangerous that these benefits should be thrown out the window? With all this being said, I dont think a woman should be judged if she , for whatever reason, does not nurse her child. Kids of course can be fine without nursing and if it is not a good option for the mom, then much better to have a happy mom feeding formula than an unhappy mom nursing a baby...happy mom = happy baby
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05:31 AM on 01/14/2013
I agree. I nursed mine in public, discretely, with a blanket or burpcloth draped for our privacy (and to help the baby avoid getting distracted). I'm a private person, so I certainly would never have whipped one out in public, but really, all this prudishness over a natural, non-sexual activity is just silly. I think we should all offer every mom full support instead of judging each other! :-)
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11:36 PM on 01/12/2013
We are mammals. What distinguishes us from, say reptiles or birds, is that we feed our young with milk that our bodies produce. It's perfectly suited for them and nutritionally complete, and carries benefits to the mother as well. Our breasts are what delivers this perfect food. Get over it! It's just a boob! Most of the time you can't even see it when a mum is nursing. Funny how people have no issue with breasts being used to sell just about anything but when they're used for their intended purpose suddenly people get up in arms and upset. Doesn't that say something about our society!
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12:12 PM on 01/16/2013
Hmm, well if we want to compare ourselves to other mammals, they don't wear clothes, the don't buy consumer goods, they don't go to restaurants, they don't fly on planes unless a human brings them. They don't walk out on a busy street breastfeeding their young. If you want to live a "natural" life, then go move to the woods, poop in front of the bears, climb a tree and take your kid with you -- and forget the diaper. Baby animals don't wear them.
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11:12 PM on 01/12/2013
We're mammals. We feed our young with our milk as do all mammals. It comes from our breasts. It's remarkably healthy and designed for babies. It's good for mums too. I can't understand for the life of me how feeding a baby can be "controversial." It's just a boob, which you rarely see when a kid's being fed, get over it! :)
09:39 PM on 01/18/2013
I'm don't think I, as a female human, appreciate being compared to "mammals". Other mammals that come to mind have not evolved past pooping wherever they are, having sex whever, they eat food off the ground and some, pick parasites off of each other and eat them. I prepare meals in a sanitary manner, I live in a home and in the woods and I use a restroom. I also don't remove any of my clothes in public despite being a mother who breast feed.
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11:50 AM on 01/19/2013
I breastfed in public too, and didn't remove any clothes to feed in public either - in fact I can recall having a conversation with an elderly gentleman who didn't realize I was nursing until about 20 minutes after we started chatting and my son fell asleep.  I'm discrete for my own comfort frankly.  Sure, there are differences between us and other animals, but we're still animals and that's how we're designed (rather ingeniously really!) to feed our young.  
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02:51 PM on 01/12/2013
Breastfeed anywhere you want to. It's not offensive and as far as the public is concerned a hungry child is a loud child. I certainly don't think mothers should have to take their babies and breastfeed in a restroom. I don't eat in the bathroom and don't think babies should have to. My kids as toddlers were mature enough to handle a naked lady walking down the street, they barely noticed a mother breast feeding a child. Grown ups should be at least mature as a toddler.
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12:02 PM on 01/13/2013
Well said.
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09:11 AM on 01/12/2013
I don't want to see it, anytime, anywhere, anyplace.
01:24 PM on 01/12/2013
5^ on that one, Amaryllis ;0)
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11:13 PM on 01/12/2013
Honestly? Close your eyes then. It's just a boob, it won't hurt you!
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03:49 AM on 01/13/2013
Why should I have to put up with someone's gross behavior?
08:10 PM on 01/11/2013
I don't care if someone breastfeeds or not in public. I don't like seeing someone full out whip out a boob, I think it should be done fairly discreetly, but otherwise its just lunch as usual lol. I always tried to cover up a bit, but thats my own preference. I have seen a few, not many, but a few women in the middle of a busy crowded mall just pull their breast completely out in the open, in front of everyone and their mommas, when they really didn't have too. What bothers me more is the push and pressure some people put on women to breastfeed. By now we all know its great for baby and mom. Some people can't, or simply don't want to nurse, and they shouldn't be called out on it or condemned for a personal choice.
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05:10 PM on 01/11/2013
So it is the WOMEN who are the most outraged by public breastfeeding. Who would've thought that? Ugh.

This also explains the views of about 95% of the people when it comes to public nudity...one more reason we must smash the patriarchy.