Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin

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Gretchen Rubin is a writer working on The Happiness Project—an account of the year she spent test-driving every conceivable principle about how to be happy, from the wisdom of the ages to current scientific studies, from Aristotle to Ben Franklin to Martin Seligman. On her Happiness Project blog, she reports her daily adventures on her way to becoming happier.

Rubin is a graduate of Yale Law School and was editor-in-chief of the Yale Law Journal. She was clerking for Justice Sandra Day O’Connor when she had the epiphany that she really wanted to be a writer.

Her bestselling Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill and Forty Ways to Look at JFK are succinct, provocative biographies. Power Money Fame Sex: A User’s Guide is biting social criticism in the form of a user’s manual. She also has three terrible novels safely locked in a desk drawer.

Raised in Kansas City, she lives in New York City with her husband and two young daughters.

Blog Entries by Gretchen Rubin

8 Ways To Find Right Thing To Say In A Difficult Situation.

1 Comments | Posted October 8, 2008 | 09:32 AM (EST)


I often feel like I don't know the right thing to say. I'll be desperate to find the right words, but in a tough situation, I just don't know what to say to make a person feel better. I often find myself switching the topic of the conversation -- so...

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Happiness Project: Find The Fun In Failure

1 Comments | Posted October 5, 2008 | 07:20 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now.

I'm very competitive, and also insecure, and I hate, hate, hate the feeling of failure -- but I know that failure is a...

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Exercise Quiz: Are You A Work-Out Drop-Out?

4 Comments | Posted October 1, 2008 | 09:21 AM (EST)


I discovered the key to my Happiness Project. What is it? Resolutions. It has been the ability to make and keep my innumerable resolutions that has allowed me make real changes in my life, and therefore in my happiness. (As always, if you'd like to get a copy of...

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Happiness Project: Master A Device

1 Comments | Posted September 28, 2008 | 07:16 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now.

I don't know about you, but I sometimes feel overwhelmed...

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12 Quick Tips To Boost Happiness And Productivity At Work

2 Comments | Posted September 24, 2008 | 09:50 AM (EST)


Of course, being happy at work depends mostly on how much you like your job. But there are also smaller steps that can boost your happiness, as well. Some of these steps are VERY small, but the fact that you're taking steps to improve your situation itself boosts happiness.

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Happiness Tip Of The Day: Throw Away Other People's Trash

11 Comments | Posted September 21, 2008 | 07:48 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now.

The subject of self-esteem is a topic that has generated...

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5 Tips For Kicking A Bad Habit

1 Comments | Posted September 17, 2008 | 09:01 AM (EST)


Well, September is half over, and I've managed NOT to eat any of my beloved Tasti D-Lite. And it hasn't even been that hard to give it up. How did I go from 2-3 stops a day, to zero? Here are the strategies I used to kick my bad...

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Happiness Tip Of The Day: Dig Deep

5 Comments | Posted September 14, 2008 | 07:58 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now.

It took me many months to come up with my personal

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Balanced Life: Eleven Tips That I'm Using to "Eat Very Right" (and Cut Calories).

1 Comments | Posted September 11, 2008 | 10:23 AM (EST)


Scale2 For the month of September, I've resolved to "eat very right." I wouldn't be able to eat this right forever -- and I wouldn't even try -- but I decided to take a boot-camp approach to...

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6 Good Deeds That Take Less Than Five Minutes

3 Comments | Posted September 10, 2008 | 09:37 AM (EST)


"Do good, feel good" is one of the great truths of happiness -- but you may be thinking, "Sure, good deeds would make me happy, but I barely have time to get through the essentials of my day. I don't have time to do any good deeds!"

Wrong. Here are...

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Happiness Tip Of The Day: Use A Milestone

Posted September 7, 2008 | 07:52 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now.

I'm a big believer in using milestone moments as cues...

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Happiness Project: Look Out The Window

3 Comments | Posted August 29, 2008 | 07:00 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now. The Happiness Project isn't just a book and a blog; it's...

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Seven Ways To Tell If You're Boring Someone

10 Comments | Posted August 27, 2008 | 09:40 AM (EST)


In one of my favorite movies, a quirky documentary called Sherman's March, the documentary maker's former high school teacher tells him, "As people get older, they get more like themselves. And you're getting more boring." I've never forgotten that.

Like most people, probably, I have several pet subjects...

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Happiness Tip Of The Day: Always Pick A Favorite

4 Comments | Posted August 22, 2008 | 11:40 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now. Each Friday's post will help you think about your own happiness...

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9 Ways To Stay Motivated To Exercise

10 Comments | Posted August 20, 2008 | 08:45 AM (EST)


Everyone knows that exercise is a KEY element to good health. The trick is keeping yourself motivated to exercise, if you're a person who naturally relapses into the couch-potato pose.

It took me years of prodding, but I've finally managed to turn myself into a dedicated exerciser. I never push...

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Happiness Project: How To Enjoy The Process

24 Comments | Posted August 16, 2008 | 04:48 PM (EST)


AirportlineI'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right...

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Six Tips For Enjoying A Vacation

4 Comments | Posted August 12, 2008 | 04:55 PM (EST)


JetplaneOne of my goals for my Happiness Project is to do a better job of learning from experience. How can I do things better, next time? Also, one of my Twelve Commandments is to "Identify the problem," so...

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The Happiness Lesson I Learned From A Barry Manilow Concert

7 Comments | Posted August 1, 2008 | 08:51 AM (EST)


I'm working on my Happiness Project, and you should have one, too! Everyone's project will look different, but it's the rare person who can't benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now.

I've been thinking a lot lately about enthusiasm. Enthusiasim--the aptitude...

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Clutter-busting: Eight Tips For Preparing For A Real (Or Virtual) Move

5 Comments | Posted July 30, 2008 | 08:01 AM (EST)


Knowing my preoccupation with clutter-clearing, a friend emailed me a few days ago: "I am starting the great purge of our belongings in preparation for moving. What mantras should I be using?"

Good question! Moving is a fantastic opportunity to tackle clutter. And even if you're not thinking about moving,...

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19 Tips For Cheering Yourself Up -- From 200 Years Ago

8 Comments | Posted July 23, 2008 | 08:28 AM (EST)


While reading a biography of English writer Sydney Smith, Hesketh Pearson's The Smith of Smiths, I stumbled across a letter. In 1820, Smith wrote a letter to an unhappy friend, Lady Morpeth, in which he offered her tips for cheering up.

I have my own variety of

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