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The End Of The Vintage Wedding Trend

Posted: 11/15/11 03:14 AM ET

Sprawling fields of high grass, hillsides off in the distance, and ... a gorgeous bride and groom perched on a vintage velvet burgundy chaise. Oh, the memories of the vintage wedding and its somewhat silly staged photographs. The not-so timeless vintage theme is one that often incorporates elements such as 50's era luggage used as décor, mismatched chairs reminiscent of a casual backyard event, and floral vessels made from all types of throwback food canisters.

Thankfully, the vintage wedding trend that took the nation by storm (in no small part due to the relentless plugging by us bridal bloggers), is finally starting to see the shade of its own sunset. And not a moment too soon -- I say let the trend end!

Over the past few years we've seen such a clamoring for personal and nostalgic wedding details that those details have lost all personalization and actual meaning. A typewriter guest book that once told guests the bride or groom were, in fact, writers, now merely signals a successful flea market shopping trip, writers or not. But today brings a new dawn and a new crop of engaged gals. The popularity of the vintage ideal is fading, since all the guests have, well, been there and done that.

This infatuation actually affects the quality of work too! Robert Evans, co-founder of WeddingPhotography411.com, appreciates art when it doesn't reflect last week's wedding. "Wedding photography should tell a different story each time. If you buy into the recent fad, your wedding photographs will quickly become dated before their time. Every vintage wedding I see looks exactly the same, as if there is a set of directions on how to shoot it! The couple in the field holding hands two feet apart, back lit by the sun, or the dress and slacks pulled up showing shoes and socks. I think it's important for photographers to find their own vision and capture the unique style of the couple, not the trend of the season." Bottom line: the end of a trend can actually benefit brides and grooms, as it translates to more original thinking on the part of wedding vendors.

So what's next? Anthroplogie may have made its mark on our weddings, but thanks to the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, William and Kate's wedding, in 2012 we'll see a shift away from that nostalgic tradition to a more formal and sophisticated style. Say goodbye to those weathered fabrics and mason jar refreshments and hello to detailed French lace and lavish tufted furnishings. A more carefully curated and less-cluttered, old world glamour meets modern sophistication wedding trend has emerged.

A couture gown might still give a nod to history, yet shows the fashion-forward side of today's bride. Dare I say Ralph Lauren and Alexander McQueen even have a shot of knocking Anthropologie off its wedding high horse? Julie Sabatino, founder of The Stylish Bride in New York, has also been noticing the shift. "I'm seeing a return to classic style and glamour. Surprisingly, this is translating into bridal fashion through brides' renewed interest in fuller A-line skirts. It's so refreshing, and perhaps on trend because of Kate Middletown's gown and the influence of the royal wedding. I think we will see a greater number of brides wearing a veil as she did, and considering long sleeves."

And that regal style has found its way into event design, too. The new flavor is infused with rich textures, lots of white (and even some metallics) and grand traditional settings. Linda Pittelli, owner and lead designer of Eventful in Los Angeles, shares her insight, "The classic traditional wedding will never fade away. It just needs a little modification. It doesn't matter how many fads come and go, there are always the girls who have the dream of the fantasy storybook wedding." Case in point, "we recently designed a wedding in Santa Monica and had basically a sandy beach to work with. I needed to turn that into something very special since the bride was wearing an amazing ball gown! The feeling I was going for was an English garden on the sand. We built a platform, carpeting it and added lots of hedging and flowers, and poof: a formal ceremony area on the sand!" Linda explains.

So say farewell to the photo of the couple in the field, and say hello to the next token iconic wedding image ... perhaps a kiss on a regal balcony? At least this image will be anchored by the love of the couple and not the lack of creativity in design. I welcome the glamour of the old world into our new wedding season as it pays tribute to the depth, meaning, and emotion a marriage is meant to have. Though wait until next year and I'll likely be desperate for the next new thing to take shape and refresh our state of unions.

 

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Sprawling fields of high grass, hillsides off in the distance, and ... a gorgeous bride and groom perched on a vintage velvet burgundy chaise. Oh, the memories of the vintage wedding and its somewhat...
Sprawling fields of high grass, hillsides off in the distance, and ... a gorgeous bride and groom perched on a vintage velvet burgundy chaise. Oh, the memories of the vintage wedding and its somewhat...
 
 
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05:25 PM on 12/19/2011
Vintage wedding trends are becoming extremely overdone. Yes, they are pretty and unique, but it seems like it is the only wedding style featured on blogs anymore. Plus, the "real weddings" you see more than likely aren't budget friendly. Weddings are just expensive. I think it would be nice to see some different styles out there and give our undecided brides some more options.
12:56 PM on 12/18/2011
Sorry but I dont think the Trend is dying. An Im glad, I love vintage touches I even have some threw my house, So I plan to incorperate some threw out my Fall Wedding in 2012. But I believe a Bride should have the Wedding she wants an that being said it being however she chooses, theme, no theme, personal touches or modern. Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder an its just important that SHE tha Bride love it. :)
03:37 PM on 11/22/2011
Big, formal weddings are needlessly expensive and lack personality. I can see how the vintage trend might be a little played out- seriously how many pictures have we seen of the bridal party's shoes and colorful socks! But I think that the trend is based in the need to conserve money and have a homemade and intimate celebration. There's certainly nothing wrong with that.
01:13 AM on 11/19/2011
I love vintage...I think I was born in the wrong time frame.
04:44 PM on 11/18/2011
Every wedding should be about the bride and groom, period. If the couple wants vintage and it fits their budget and resembles their personalities, then what is the problem? There are as many ways to decorate or dress vintage as there are dresses and artifacts. If each couple goes about planning their wedding with imagination, then no two vintage weddings will be alike. However, if everyone wants a dress like Kate Middletons, then all weddings will be the same. As for the typewriter example, if the guests know that the bride and groom are both writers, then surely the vintage typewriter will not be lost on them.
09:09 PM on 11/17/2011
I just read this article out of idle curiosity - I've always thought that big expensive weddings were extremely stupid unless you truly have that kind of money to throw away. So many brides get too caught up in being the Princess who MUST HAVE her fairy tale wedding because "I've been dreaming about this since I was a little girl". French and Saunders had a hilarious skit of this woman who had her dream day all planned out to the last detail, um except she had no groom. One commenter bragged that she spent only 10k and had a wonderful day. TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS!? See, that is extremely stupid unless you can really throw money away and not have it hurt. Parents shouldn't be made to think they owe their daughters a grand and glorious event. Couples should pay for their own weddings and should not be allowed to take out loans for them. Then maybe they'd get creative - even use some old crappy typewriter (now what is that again?) for something or other.

I also hate those strapless gowns - so few look good in them and really ghastly with tattoos.
04:45 PM on 11/18/2011
Couldn't agree more!
09:03 PM on 11/17/2011
I completely disagree with this article. Thank goodness for vintage and the use of so many amazing pieces. It's brought texture, life, color and it's own story to each and every wedding it has graced. To me, it never gets old. No pun intended. It is seen more and more because people love it. They are finding new uses for items and are seeing the potential and the life that can be restored. It has inspired people to get creative, to re-use, recycle, and appreciate the history and heritage that these pieces hold. Bottom line to me is: your wedding day is your wedding day. In 10 years you aren't going to lay your wedding album next to 20 others and compare notes. It will be yours, just the way you wanted it to be, and the photos from vintage inspired weddings are some of the most breathtaking photos I've seen. I'll never get tired of it!
02:40 AM on 11/18/2011
I agree. I'll never get tired of it either :-)
07:37 PM on 11/17/2011
Going into debt to get married is about the most stupid thing to do at the beginning of a life together. My wife and I just got married in Las Vegas, at a very nice, beautiful, and tasteful chapel on 11/11/11. No, there were no Elvis impersonators or pink Cadillacs present. We spent a week in Vegas, eating at delicious Michelin Star restaurants, and enjoying a stay at a massive suite in a 5 star hotel. Total cost for the week including the wedding, suite, dining, entertainment and the rings: $4200.00. I am friends with a jeweler, so I got the rings at wholesale, about 20% of the store price.
07:15 PM on 11/17/2011
Thanks everyone for getting the conversation going! That's what this is all about!
06:58 PM on 11/17/2011
No, vintage is a budget bride's staple. Yes, we would all love fancy, storybook weddings, but the reason twine-wrapped mason jars, burlap runners, and vintage furniture came into fashion was because it was more affordable than Swarovski crystal centerpieces and Italian lace runners. Glamorous weddings never went out of fashion; they just lost their place in a struggling economy.
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02:52 PM on 11/17/2011
"those details have lost all personalization and actual meaning."
YES, they have. Now it just makes the bride and groom look like they spent too much money to look like they aren't trying.
11:03 PM on 12/19/2011
I could not agree more with your statement. Everyone keeps talking about how budget friendly they are when they have no idea how much money these pictures of vintage weddings cost.
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11:58 AM on 11/17/2011
None of this means anything. I had a lovely wedding, traditional but with some quirky touches...now I am divorced. The whole day haunts me. I don't even have most of the photos anymore.

I think it is great that people want to have a wonderful beautiful day but since 50% of these marriages end in divorce. Remember to give it perspective, who you marry is so much more important than flowers, music or photos in fields.
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12:34 PM on 11/17/2011
I agree to a point, but at the end of the day, photos are incredibly important and should trump the other components of a wedding if need be. I understand this isn't true for people no longer married, or having fond memories of that day, but for those that are pictures bring to life an amazing day for years to come. I am not a photographer, promise, just my opinion.
03:16 PM on 11/17/2011
way to go debbie downer. why are you still reading articles about weddings?
04:47 AM on 11/17/2011
I am in Australia and because our seasons are different to yours and every bride has seen this "vintage theme" "random crap in fields" be the in thing, we are now all suffering with it. I think we have another 12 months of this before it dies off. GIVE US STRENGTH
12:21 AM on 11/17/2011
I think Harmony was just saying EVERYONE doing vintage makes it lose its unique quality and that it will be great to see some new ideas in the wedding industry. I think her example of the typewriter says a lot. I am not sure how budgets work out in all aspects of a wedding but as a graphic designer and letterpress printer, it doesn't matter if your wedding invites are rustic, vintage or glamorous, they cost the same. I am sure this isn't true for everything but I would make one suggestion, that glamor doesn't have to mean an outlandish price tag. Today's bride is savvy and I am sure they can do glamor on a budget if that is what they want! And I don't think Harmony was suggesting that a bride shouldn't get what she wants, because our job is to make that bride's dreams come true no matter what her budget or her style. ;)
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Shawn Longino
06:48 PM on 11/16/2011
Don't approve of "vintage" weddings? Don't attend one. Simple.