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Backlash to Lowe's Low

Posted: 12/15/11 02:36 PM ET

There's a lot of buzz around TLC's new reality show "All-American Muslim" since hardware retail giant, Lowe's, pulled all its advertising from the show on December 5th after hearing concerns through emails, phone calls and news reports. When asked by a member of USA TODAY's Board of Contributors just how many e-mails they received, a Lowe's spokesperson said "dozens," not thousands.

Who's behind these e-mails? The Florida Family Association (FFA), a conservative group based in Tampa, initiated an e-mail campaign calling on advertisers to drop advertising support for the series. FFA alleges the show is "propaganda clearly designed to counter legitimate and present-day concerns about many Muslims who are advancing Islamic fundamentalism and Sharia law."

Their ridiculous assertion is that presenting peaceful Muslims is propaganda, whereas true Muslims advocate for extremism and Sharia law. And apparently, they convinced Lowe's.

In an e-mail to FFA's executive director, Lowe's wrote:

"There are certain programs that do not meet Lowe's advertising guidelines, including the show you brought to our attention. Lowe's will no longer be advertising on that program... We appreciate your feedback and will share your comments with our advertising department as they evaluate future advertising opportunities."

Lowe's made a mistake. Corporations should not delve into matters of religion or express religious preference. Expressing concern over a show that highlights how "normal" and "American" Muslims are, is tantamount to declaring Muslims inherently abnormal or un-American.

But Lowe's wasn't able to quietly pull this off. As Reza Aslan, founder of AslanMedia.com and author of "No god but God: The Origins, Evolution, and Future of Islam," put it on a recent tweet,

"In past, cowards who caved to bigots thought they could hide and get away with it. Not today."
And it's not just Muslims who are protesting Lowe's actions.

Rabbi Marc Schneier, founder and president of The Foundation for Ethnic Understanding and vice-president of the World Jewish Congress, joined Russell Simmons in condemning Lowe's as "caving in to bigotry" and calling on advertisers to reject FFA's -- and other anti-Muslim groups -- demands to drop advertising support for the series.

Chris Stedman, the Interfaith and Community Service Fellow for the Humanist Chaplaincy at Harvard University and the Emeritus Managing Director of State of Formation at the Journal of Inter-Religious Dialogue, has been at the forefront of the "twitter war" on Lowe's. After learning of the FFA boasting that they had compelled Lowe's to remove their advertisements, Stedman bombarded Lowe's with tweets about their actions and encouraged others to do the same.

His efforts caught the attention of Lowe's, who responded directly to him saying

"We did not pull our ads based solely on the complaints or emails of any one group. It is never our intent to alienate anyone."
But this did little to quench his thirst for answers.

"To me," says Stedman, "the question remained: why did they pull the ads, then? Why would they email FFA and say that they pulled the ads because the program didn't meet their 'advertising guidelines'? What were these guidelines? Of course, I got no response to my follow-up questions -- but I and others kept pressing them."

An atheist, Chris Stedman may seem to be an unlikely advocate for the rights of Muslims, but he has proven that justice and tolerance are not confined to any particular religious, or non-religious, group. His goal is to eventually see interfaith cooperation become a social norm. Such selfless voices of reason and integrity represent what America is all about. Religious differences should be used as a force to build relationships, not tear them apart.

This is not the end for Lowe's. Russell Simmons is calling for their CEO to step down. Stedman is calling for the boycott of their business. Why? He says, "if an organization acts in ways that you cannot in good conscience support, then don't give them your money." It is unclear whether an economic boycott will solve the problem, as it may actually further a divide that is separating our nation. Efforts to bring people together should be priority number one.

What is clear, however, is that this episode illustrates how little is understood about Islam, and I call on Lowe's to take this as an opportunity to connect with the consumers they have marginalized by learning about them. I welcome such a dialogue if they so choose.

As Stedman so aptly argues: "Unless we're able to change the way we talk about religious difference, things like this will happen again and again. Our society needs to learn how to handle, and embrace, religious diversity -- how to stop seeing those with different religious identities as alien and threatening. In the end, our shared humanity should come first. We have a lot of work to do to get there, and simply boycotting Lowe's isn't going to cut it."

 

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06:50 PM on 01/10/2012
If companies like Lowes and kayak among others choose to discriminate against shows and shoppers based on their faith what next their race and ethnicity? In america all that shouldn't matter so much as giving your hard earned money to any business that doesn't demean you as a person based on if you wear anything like a veil or a turban as headware. Would that also mean a nun's veil or a yarmulke? If you start to make faith an issue woul anyone shop at that kind of place at all?
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Harris Zafar
Nat'l Spokesperson Ahmadiyya Muslim Community
05:11 PM on 12/27/2011
Thanks to everyone for their comments. I'm very glad this could spark a good dialogue. I agree that any company should make their decision about where to advertise based on what makes good business sense. Businesses should never delve into matters of religion. Lowe's showed the reason for pulling their ads by sending an e-mail to FFA thanking them for bringing this "issue" to their attention and confirming that as a result, they have pulled their advertising from the show. They blatantly listened to the complaints of a fringe, intolerant group.

And as bokhattak aptly pointed out, the interfaith response to this issues is comforting, as it shows that tolerance, good will, and common sense are not qualities of just one faith group. We see people of various faiths, as well as those of no faith, who have shown their integrity to call for an end to bigotry and misunderstanding. I'm hopeful that mistakes like the one Lowe's made will be seldom, God willing.

In the end, we need to understand the people of various backgrounds. Calling for censorship of a show that's trying to do that holds us back.
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bokhattak
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02:55 PM on 12/19/2011
Thank you for another well-written article, Mister Zafar. As much as Lowe's has the right to make whatever decisions they will in regard to their advertising policy, it's unfortunate to see that they have caved to external pressures.

What is most disconcerting is how the outrage against perceived an manufactured Islamic radicalism has created a radicalized Christian group. This is a growing problem where otherwise open-minded and compassionate non-Muslims have become polarized and aggressively opposed to a Muslim presence, citing "facts" that are clearly propagandized to expose the manufactured "Islamic threat".

This example goes one step further to the point where the FFA is actually upset and offended to find Muslims who are not extremists. This sort of thinking actually lends to disenfranchising American-born and immigrant Muslim populations. Sadly, I have lost count of the times I've had to explain why jihad and shariah are not things to be feared, and how I have not and will not participate in anti-American activities.

The resounding inter-faith response to this action from Lowe's definitely is a bright spot in this maelstrom and perhaps a turning in the tide of this cultural misunderstanding.
08:38 PM on 12/16/2011
Nice article, Mr. Zafar. I think the point was made quite well by Mr. Stedman when he said - "Unless we're able to change the way we talk about religious difference, things like this will happen again and again." Seeing people as people, rather than the (perceived) elements of a group helps as well. But until we begin to raise our children respecting the religious differences of those around us, willing to work together for the common good, we will back ourselves against the wall and fight the "enemy behind imaginary walls" to the demise of our own well-being. Together we stand - divided we fall. Haven't we learned that yet? It is the American way. And if we don't start putting that tenet into practice, we will be our own worst enemy.

Thanks again, Mr. Zafar...blessings to you and yours for a happy and healthy New Year...
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04:40 PM on 12/27/2011
Thank you for the kind words. I agree 100% that seeing people as people is needed. People lose heart all too often. Respect and understanding go hand-in-hand. This is what I believe my faith teaches me as well: to love others, regardless of their religious affiliation, and to spread peace wherever I go.

Many blessings and wishes of peace to you and your loved ones in the New Year.
06:35 PM on 12/16/2011
In some ways I think that this is a God-given opportunity to raise awareness and understanding about Islam. Interested yet? www.Alislam.org is a treasure of knowledge!

As a Muslim I find myself constantly trying to defend Islam, that it is a peaceful religion, and that the horror stories covered in the media are not the norm. But what we really need is people to find out for themselves!

Hopefully this discussion will lead more people to get up and research Islam.
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10:19 PM on 12/17/2011
I am a gay atheist; I have no interest in Islam. I care about friends and neighbors who happen to be Muslim. I would like for them to be better understood. I also have an interest in preventing censorship.
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bokhattak
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03:00 PM on 12/19/2011
I, a heterosexual Muslim (inconsequentially), have interest in civil liberties and their equal and fair application. I would like for every segment of our society (gay, Muslim, atheist, Christian, etc) to be respected equally, granted equal rights and have equal responsibility in our society.

Thank you for speaking for understanding, common sense and the prevention of censorship.
05:57 PM on 12/16/2011
It's sad to see that instead of promoting and supporting ideas which bring forward the peaceful American Muslims, there are groups who can't see the true peaceful image of Islam to be shared. We all should work on interfaith harmony and promote common things to improve the tolerance instead of supporting divisions.
04:19 PM on 12/16/2011
Just one more reason to get fox news off the TV
.Its sad that our fellow Americans don't know its not news.
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06:04 AM on 12/16/2011
'An atheist, Chris Stedman may seem to be an unlikely advocate for the rights of Muslims'
I would like to see the day when people stop being surprised that most atheist are good people who care about what is right.
DianaLynn1967
It's a great life if you don't weaken!
06:46 PM on 12/27/2011
I fanned Chris Stedman because of this post of his: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/chris-stedman/atheist-activism-problems_b_1164399.html

Some atheists do not approve of Mr. Stedman's willingness to tolerate people of faith, I'm afraid.
10:37 PM on 12/15/2011
I'm just not as optimistic that dialogue will ever make a difference. See the comment below by Jan Allen McDaniel, for example, who stubbornly refuses to acknowledge the absolute bigotry of the FFA and refuses to discredit this silly group. People who are bigots are too close-minded to listen to dialogue.
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03:05 PM on 12/19/2011
I can't recall where I've heard or read the quote, but it seems apropos at the moment: "When there's an immovable object in your path, create a path around it."

There are the immovable, steadfastly-stubborn few who have their agendas and will not change their outlook even if they are aware of how wrong they are. Fortunately, I believe those types are the exception and not the rule.
09:41 PM on 12/15/2011
In the plans for a boycott, consider if there's a better solution, a win/win possible for both Muslims & Lowes. Is there a better solution than a boycott? Please see this surprising proposal for a deeper level of evolution of the issues at stake:
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/allamericanmuslim/2011/12/anya-cordell-how-to-make-this-situation-a-winwin-for-muslims-and-lowes/ by Anya Cordell, Recipient, Spirit of Anne Frank Award, www.Appearance-ism.com
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08:50 PM on 12/15/2011
"An atheist, Chris Stedman may seem to be an unlikely advocate for the rights of Muslims."

This describes me, as well.

This isn't about religion.

It's about the rights of all Americans to live free from unreasonable, fiction-based prejudice.
02:26 AM on 12/16/2011
Ditto.

Given that the number of adherents to Islam is growing in the United States, it seems reasonable to me that there should be a greater awareness of Muslim life here. People in the US have a high degree of fear of Muslims in large part because we don't *know* them. In aggregate we have no gut feel for "which way the frog will jump" when dealing with a "scary Muslim" so we feel discomfort and even fear. The antidote to this is for those of us Americans who are not Muslim to learn more about those of Americans who *are* Muslim.

Muslims are not going away. Jews are not going away. Christians are not going away. Atheists and agnostics are not going away. Neither are Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhists, Shintoists, Animists or any of a truly large number of other religious traditions.

We are all going to have to learn to live with one another. It's time to be truly American and put some focus back on 'e pluribus unum'.
DianaLynn1967
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06:51 PM on 12/27/2011
Amen!
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Jelle NL
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07:56 AM on 12/16/2011
"It's about the rights of all Americans to live free from unreasonable, fiction-based prejudice."

You are right. I would add: people even have the right to live a life based on (what others call) myths, nonsense, and fairy tales, as long as this does not reduce the choices of others.
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07:31 PM on 12/15/2011
FFA alleges the show is "propaganda clearly designed to counter legitimate and present-day concerns about many Muslims who are advancing Islamic fundamentalism and Sharia law."

Their ridiculous assertion is that presenting peaceful Muslims is propaganda, whereas true Muslims advocate for extremism and Sharia law.
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I fail to see bigotry in the FFA statement.

I do not understand why that assertion should be called ridiculous. Agree with the statement or disagree, but ridiculous bigotry? It is simply undeniable that both kinds of Muslims are citizens of America.

Since 9/11, a national debate has been taking place on the relationship, if any, between jihadists, terrorists, Islamists and the religion of Islam. I think it is likely that more Americans have a considered opinion on this religious issue than any other except abortion.

It is absurd to claim that only virtue appears on one side of this debate and only bigotry on the other. Very few issues are that black and white, and this certainly is not one of them.
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Doug Sandlin
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09:00 PM on 12/15/2011
We have millions of fellow Americans who worship as Muslims.

In the last decade, less than 200 of them have been arrested on suspicion of terrorism. The number one source for reporting those people to the authorities was American Muslims, themselves.

And so, while it may be factually accurate to say, as you did, above:

"It is simply undeniable that both kinds of Muslims are citizens of America."

... it is extremely misleading.

Jon Stewart made a poignant (and I thought very amusing) point when he suggested that they had to add an "abortion-clinic bomber" character to the show "Touched By An Angel", in order to give a "balanced" view of Christians.

The FFA is suggesting that it's "propaganda" to depict regular American Muslims as regular Americans, because the show doesn't say anything about (what they imagine to be) "Shariah law".

However, what they fail to recognize is: what Shariah (religious law) is to Muslims, and what Shariah is to the FFA, are obviously two very different things.

Maybe if Muslims were:

A. More than 1% of our population.

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B. Doing or saying anything to suggest that their detractors have any merit at all to their negative statements about "Muslims".

.... more of us would be more concerned about it.
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02:34 AM on 12/16/2011
Doug, as usual, great post. Fav
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03:21 PM on 12/20/2011
"In the last decade, less than 200 of them have been arrested on suspicion of terrorism."

Terrorism is not the only and not necessarily the chief concern among critics of political Islam. More relevant in an American context is the the development of social enclaves in which an antipathy towards certain American rights and American culture is often visible. Since 50 percent of American Muslims believe in the literal truth of the Quran (http://pewresearch.org/assets/pdf/muslim-americans.pdf, page 23), a book that reflects the state of the primitive surrounding culture at the time of its writing more than 1,300 years ago, it is apparent where the dislike expressed by literal believers towards modern society and rights stems from.

While religious fundamentalists share the same rights as the rest of us, it would be a mistake to give their views a pass simply because they are a minority and rarely commit terrorist acts.
01:54 AM on 12/16/2011
You state: FFA alleges the show is "propagand­a clearly designed to counter legitimate and present-da­y concerns about many Muslims who are advancing Islamic fundamenta­lism and Sharia law."

and then

I fail to see bigotry in the FFA statement.

You just flunked the course "Awareness of Bigotry 101"
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07:44 AM on 12/16/2011
You just flunked the course "Awareness of Bigotry 101"
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Why?
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05:40 PM on 12/15/2011
Has anyone seen the show, "All American Muslim?"
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ZenGardner
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08:44 AM on 12/16/2011
Yeah... didn't see anyone "advancing Islamic fundamenta­­­lism and Sharia law."
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09:07 AM on 12/16/2011
Like most American's when there is a controversy on something, I have to check it out. Thanks. I can't understand why people have to be such haters.
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05:36 PM on 12/15/2011
Reality shows: Hand fishing, Storage Wars, Pregnant teens, fairy glam, q' eye for St8 guys, Surviors, female hog chasers, and these are the better ones.

Do Muslims really want to be lumped into that pile of crap they call reality shows. I hope they have more self respect.
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O K Ali
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09:08 PM on 12/15/2011
I've seen the show, and no, it's not the real Housewives of Dearborn. In the beginning of the year, I vowed to lay off the "reality" and was doing a pretty good job, but I watched AAM to see how it would turn out. I didn't look to see how Muslims Americans act; I see that every time I look in the mirror. It wasn't a few months back that Katie Couric was asking if any television network would come up with their own Muslim "Cosby Show", now something like that appears on the horizon and the screech of sharia is splattering the blogosphere.
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10:40 PM on 12/15/2011
Sounds like a good recommendation. I will try to check it out. My knowledge on the life styles of Muslims is very limited here in the rural mountains of Virginia.
02:02 AM on 12/16/2011
As a non believer I am not into "religious based programming" and not into pseudo reality shows. The only real reality shows are non scripted documentaries. But the statements by FFA and the Lowe's (non) explanation of pulling sponsership are bigotry. Even us despised atheists by all faiths have fared somewhat better on "reality" shows.
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05:35 PM on 12/15/2011
They can cry and bitch about it all they want to but the fact remains that company's can pull ads anytime they want to for whatever reasons they want to.The FAA may not aprove of it but they cannot prevent it.More and more compnay's are pulling their ads on TLC over this muslim family show.I'v never watched it myself,hellmdidn't even know bout it till yesterday when i started reading about this.I don't see any harm with the show being on TLC I guess.I mean there s so many insanely stupid reallity shows on out there right now and i on't watch any of them myself.The thing I'm seeing is the American people are not liking what TLC has done and they do buisness with the company's that are and or were showing ads on the channel.If their going to lose customers and money over it then their gonna pull their ads if it makes the people happy
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07:38 AM on 12/16/2011
They sure can pull ads any time they want to. And we can show them how much we like that decision by not giving them any money.
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03:24 PM on 12/20/2011
Of course, you won't be giving your money to companies that never risked advertising during the show in the first place, either. Will you?