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Pan Am Takes Flight -- Again

Posted: 09/25/11 10:29 PM ET

As a former Pan Am stewardess from 1965 to 1986, I have eagerly -- yet ambivalently -- awaited tonight's debut of the new ABC series, Pan Am, on Sunday nights at 10:00 P.M. My ambivalence is a mixture of feelings of hope and dread.

My fervent wish has been that the show can bring alive the glamour, excitement, and amazing historical significance of our Pan Am world. My dread has been about the show deteriorating into a sexy soap about "mean girls." And so, after having just watched the first episode, it is with feelings of happiness and relief that I sit down to write this review.

In my opinion, there are three elements that we Pan Am'ers want to see: (1) the incredible feeling of "family" and intense bonding among all Pan Am employees, which to this day inspires great loyalty and pride (2) the feeling of bold expansiveness, excitement, adventure, and endless opportunities that we all shared, and (3) Pan Am's profound influence on the aviation world, and its place in America's history in the 20th Century. It's a story that to a large degree is unknown to the American public because for most of Pan Am's history, we only flew internationally (see my Pan Am history blogs: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/helen-davey/)

At this early stage, I would say that the producers, writers, and actors are off to a good start in portraying a romantic era in aviation history that no longer exists. Those of us who experienced it first hand are extremely grateful for our good luck. What many Americans don't understand is that whatever was happening in world news at that time, Pan Am was there, often rescuing Americans. Much of our work involved helping traumatized people, and we were on the front lines of most of the breaking news of the day. We all have amazing true stories.

The first scene, set in Pan's Am's World Port Terminal at JFK International Airport, transports me back in time to the excitement of the hustle and bustle of our passengers who are eagerly looking forward to their experience on our Pan Am Clippers, and to the feeling of camaraderie among the Pan Am crews. I remember so well walking as a group through admiring crowds that would part to let us through, and hearing the whispers of, "Oh, they're Pan Am!" And there were always the little girls with that look on their faces that telegraphed, "I want to be you someday!"

Another scene that is guaranteed to warm our Pan Am hearts is the one where the pilots and stewardesses are ready for takeoff. One stewardess reminds a newly hired stewardess to "Buckle up. Adventure calls!" and as the airplane lifts off the runway, the look on the pilots' faces says it all. We all felt that we had the best job in the world. And then, our beloved Pan Am emblem flashes on the screen, and for us, I don't think there will be many dry eyes.

Now, of course, there are many details that will stand out to former Pan Am'ers as just plain wrong. Pan Am blue was a tunis blue shade, grey-blue and very sophisticated. The bright blue of the stewardess uniforms jars me, but I'm sure it was decided that bright blue was better for television. Our hair had to clear our collar. Captains were all middle-aged, having waited a long time to claim that left seat, and Boeing 707's required at least three pilots but usually also needed a navigator. The configuration of the airplane is very different, but my guess is that it's probably because of difficult camera angles in small spaces.

Girdles have been a topic of much discussion about the show. The fact is that in this time period, everybody wore girdles, if only to hold up stockings. Pantyhose had not yet been invented, and garter belts have never been practical. I remember hearing stories about a particularly difficult grooming supervisor in New York (who is portrayed in the series), but I never personally experienced any rudeness from supervisors. I find it interesting that while girdles are equated with suppression of women, the recent and astonishing success of companies like "Spanx," which are simply girdles by another name, are never put in that category.

Pan Am was a no-nonsense company when it came to being on time -- one minute late and you were sent home. No excuses! Our weight standards were enforced, for sure. The rules had nothing to do with bone structure, so for me who is small-boned, I never had to worry about reaching my maximum weight. Women who had larger bones weighed more but could still look perfectly slim, and they were the ones who suffered the most from the restrictions. Later the policy was revised.

By the time I was hired in 1965, I flew with many married stewardesses who followed a "don't ask, don't tell" policy, and nobody was ever fired for it. There was also no rule that stewardesses must quit by a certain age. The other career choices for women were teaching, nursing, or secretarial work. We stewardesses were well-paid, respected, and able to travel anywhere in the world and take our families as well. I remember thinking that more exciting things were happening each month in my new life than had happened in all of my prior 22 years.

I'm happy with the casting of Pan Am. The stewardesses and pilots strike me as people I would have wanted to fly with, and they are believable. The storyline has opened up many possibilities for plot twists and turns. The scene with the runaway bride and her complicit sister is delightful and fun, and their complicated relationship promises to get more interesting. The CIA theme might seem unbelievable to many viewers, but in fact, because of Pan Am's close relationship with the State Department, there were quite a few Pan Am'ers who also worked for the CIA. It actually was the perfect cover, but we only knew about this after the company went out of business.

I enjoyed watching the scenes that convey a sense of what our lives were like -- the beautiful hotels, our luxurious Pan Am service, the adventures that could turn dangerous, the close bonding of our Pan Am "family" as we traveled our world and had each other's backs. When we arrived at our luxurious hotels, we were handed packets of money in the currency of the country, which felt like allowance from Daddy. And we always knew that if we needed assistance, we could call on Pan Am to help us.

Comparisons of Mad Men to Pan Am have been greatly exaggerated. Unlike the women in Mad Men, Pan Am stewardesses enjoyed an amazing freedom within a company that revered, protected, and respected us. They never sexualized us in their advertising. Instead of ads like "Hi, I'm Barbara. Fly Me," or "We shake our tails for you," Pan Am's advertisement when I first started flying was, "Pan Am stewardesses know their way around the world better than most people know their way around the block." For all of us, that ad quickly became true, because we shared an inner wanderlust, curiosity about the world, and desire for adventure and knowledge. And one of the good things about our job is that we never really had a "boss," unlike the oppressed women with the chauvinistic bosses of Mad Men.

So, at first glance, this show holds the promise of telling our largely unknown Pan Am story in a respectful way. If, in fact, the plot becomes oblivious to the real lives we were all privileged to experience, then I'm sure all of us Pan Am'ers would prefer for Pan Am to remain tucked away in our hearts, and not be defiled by a glitzy show that doesn't portray its excellence accurately. But so far, I'm hopeful that viewers will be enamored of the depth and breadth of stories that are waiting to be told.

 
 
 
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03:21 AM on 10/07/2011
By the way Helen,

The real Pan Am "Stewardesses" were very graceful, classy and beautiful. We at United were lucky to inherit some of those great ladies who came over with the Pacific Route Purchase. I always could tell which were PA or original UA. Don't tell my old friends at UA, but I enjoyed more flying with the PA ones! :-)
With the exception of the one on the cover of magazine none of the "Pan Am" TV girls resemble the real ones.
The casting was the major flop. The moon lighting for the CIA was another silly unrealistic addition!
The real "Clipper Captain", the older and handsome crusty 6'2'' WWII or Vietnam era fighter pilot never stupidly called Gander Oceanic looking for his missing girlfriend either! :-)
Back to watching the more realistic and exciting Housewives of Orange County,

Captain Ross "Rusty" Aimer
UAL Ret.
12:37 AM on 10/07/2011
I held my nose and watched the first episode along with my wife who
was a TWA "Stewardess" for a short time. (I was a fairly new Second
Officer when we met and she a "fresh kill Stew".)

Having worked on the set of several aviation related TV and motion
pictures as a T/A (Technical Advisor) in the past, I knew I was going
to be very disappointed. Production companies rarely listen to T/As,
even though they pay good money for us to be there! In this case they
either did not hire a T/A at all, or hired an airport lavatory cleaner
as one! The cockpit scenes are painful for anyone who has even a
slight knowledge of aviation, especially an airline pilot from that era.

The funny looking so called "Clipper Pilot" looks and acts nothing
remotely close to a real one! This kid looks more like a student pilot in
a C-150 rather than a Pan Am 707 Captain!

The unreal and inaccurate details are too many to mention. In fact I
did not even see ONE dialog or a scene that resembled anything of a
Pan Am 707, its crew or operation.

Overall, I am very sorry I missed an exciting and fulfilling re-run of Jerry Springer for this
stupid and sorry flop!

Captain Ross "Rusty" Aimer

United/TWA Retired

CEO

Aero Consulting Experts
02:32 AM on 10/01/2011
Reading this from the UK. BBC is to show Pan Am sometime this month (October) and we old timers of Pan Am look forward to seeing it. I was employed by Pan Am 1956 - 1991 at LHR and enjoyed every moment. I hope as the series continues they include some of the stories of the hard working and dedicated ground staff as well. We also had some interesting stories that could be told.
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Helen Davey
01:48 PM on 10/01/2011
Hi Brian,
Oh, my! You spent a lifetime with Pan Am! And I agree that the ground staff have amazing stories too! A few of you have shared them with me. I hope as the series develops that stories from all of the branches of our Pan Am family can be included. Thanks for your comment.
12:27 PM on 09/29/2011
My mom was married in 59 and she flew until 62. She said that pretty much everyone knew about it and no one cared.
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Helen Davey
12:38 AM on 09/30/2011
Hi googuse,
I agree with you about the age limit. When I began flying in 1965, there were quite a few stewardesses older than 32. In fact, I've never heard of a hard and fast rule at Pan Am that you had to be single and quit by the age of 32. That "flies" in the face of the atmosphere at Pan Am, which was that we were family and we stuck together.Like all families, we had our "characters" and our crew members who didn't believe in working very hard, but we all covered for them and accepted them for who they were.
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Helen Davey
11:20 PM on 09/30/2011
And I also meant to say that I knew many stewardesses that were married when I began flying in 1965, and you're right -- nobody cared. I'm not sure when --if ever -- Pan Am had those rules.
11:09 AM on 09/28/2011
Your article was so well written, it has prompted even me to join up to make a comment! I was hired as a Pilot by Pan Am in 1964 and flew as a Navigator, First Officer and Captain until the demise in 1991. I see that many of comments posted are from some of those great Pan Am Stewardesses that flew at the same time as I did. Yes, it's true, our Ladies had all of the qualities that are mentioned whenever people talk about Pan Am Stewardesses but I think we need to recognize the fact that these Ladies had many other qualities..."True Grit" and "The Right Stuff" come to mind.

Pan Am was involved in many stressful situations during this period of time. The first episodes' portrayal of Pan Am's involvement in the Bay of Pigs rescue is but one of many times that Pan Am and their crews showed the World what America is all about! Our Stewardesses are at the top in the list of unsung Heroes that survived these awkward and many times deadly situations. I, like many of your contributers, hope that the writers of this series can "Get it right"

And yes, the Pilots are too young!!
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Helen Davey
12:03 AM on 09/29/2011
Hi clipper skipper,
I'm flattered that you joined up just to make a comment! Maybe the flight attendants had "true grit," and the pilots had "the right stuff." I like that! I'll probably use that sometime. And wouldn't it be amazing if the TV series could actually tell some of our real stories? It's so much better than anything a writer could make up. Thanks for your thoughts.
11:03 AM on 09/28/2011
I am an ex Pan Amer from 1969 to the end and then on with Delta. I personally found the show rediculous and feel it did not portray the real world of a stewardess. Yes, it was glamorous back then but so many things were rediculous about the show. Wearing the uniforms on the layover was just one thing, I waited, as many of us did, for this show to come on with a lot of hope but feel it is an insult to how we really were. I shall watch one more episode and see if it improves otherwise I will not waste my time.
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Helen Davey
12:09 AM on 09/29/2011
Hi Roni,
Yes, please do watch another episode. I'm not in the entertainment industry, but I think it would be very hard to try to introduce major characters and hint at plots without confusing the audience. I was able to watch the first episode three times, and each time I understood much more about what was going on, and caught significant dialogue that I didn't hear the first time. Each time I really liked it better. So please hang in there and give it a chance, because it would be so great if people were finally aware of our Pan Am stories.
02:49 AM on 09/28/2011
As a former Pan Am stewardess (who was also offered a job with the Playboy Club!) I was delighted by the first episode of Pan Am and am hopeful it will capture the spirit of adventure and glamor that was pervasive for us.

I had just graduated from Austin College in Texas and was working at Al Hirt's Club in New Orleans, as a cocktail waitress, while I considered my future as a medical doctor, I held down two jobs and was entranced by the 24/7 jazz scene in the city.

Being hired by Pan Am was one of those synchronistic experiences that totally changed my life. Mine is a story all its own about simply being in the right place at the right time with no intention of working for Pan Am. I'd never even been on an airplane! Seeing the first TV episode flooded me with mostly fond memories from the 60's. There were some inaccuracies, but they arer minor.

I will, with thousands of others, look forward to sharing comments about future episodes.
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Helen Davey
12:12 AM on 09/29/2011
Hi Merrinell,
It sounds like you have quite a story! Every Pan Am'er mentions how much Pan Am changed their life, and I'm wondering what ever happened to medical school? Thanks for the comment.
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Robert D. Stolorow
Founding Faculty Member, Institute of Contemporary
11:08 PM on 09/27/2011
Let's hope the TV series captures the richness of the Pan-Am experience as you have been so artfully describing it!
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Helen Davey
12:37 AM on 09/28/2011
Thanks, BB. They are sitting on the most unbelievably dramatic stories, and I just hope they get it right by telling some of our real adventures.
09:27 PM on 09/27/2011
Wonderfully written article. I don't ususally watch a lot of TV but this show is captivating. As a young boy my Aunt was a stewardess for PanAm. My whole family was so proud of her jetting off to far away places whose names today can't be found on a map. She always knew where to get the best of everything. She would buy this in one corner of the world and something else in another. She used to always tell us exciting tales of rescuing hostages, hostile lands and humanitarian efforts. One time she was telling us all of the crazy things that the crews would do and if I remember right someone checked a volkswagon onto the bottom of a plane by puttting a crew tag on it. Recently she was cleaning out some things in storage and at great expense sent them to my family. It was crazy there was at least 15 boxes with stuff packed from around the world. With each item she had attached a story of and when and where it was from. It was exciting to hear about a wild romance that produced a purple cape in Russia, being followed by people within foreign lands and tiny villages where she collected everything from paper mache nativity scenes to indian purses that were from the 1800's. From the few stories I know it doesn't appear that the producers are far off the mark for realism. It's so unfortuante that travel has changed so much.
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Helen Davey
12:35 AM on 09/28/2011
Can anybody tell that this is my nephew? And my Godson! Thanks, Gary.
08:45 PM on 09/27/2011
I hope we will not be disappointed with the telling of the Pan Am story on this new TV series.. I loved your radio interview on Canadian broadcasting....
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Helen Davey
12:42 AM on 09/28/2011
Thanks, wilddogg,

Yes, we're all so excited, but anxious that it won't portray things as they were. And I'm thrilled you liked the radio interview. I've never done THAT before! A brand new adventure.
04:44 PM on 09/27/2011
I too am a Pan Am'er. I started flying in 1965, and just recently retired from Delta.
Your post is SO right on!! Pan Am was an incredible lifestyle. You can fly around the world today as a Flight Attendant. But, you can never be a Pan Am Stewardess. The Pan Am family around the world was incredible. I am blessed to have been able to experience it.
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Helen Davey
12:44 AM on 09/28/2011
Once a Pan Am'er, always a Pan Am'er, and it's difficult to explain to people just why we have such deep gratitude to Pan Am for giving us the world.
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beachgirl61
04:31 PM on 09/27/2011
I enjoyed reading this article as much as I enjoyed watching Pan Am. Mind you, I don't want much TV but I am going to make a point to watch this show as long as it airs!
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Helen Davey
12:48 AM on 09/28/2011
Oh, that's wonderful! Let's all keep our fingers crossed. I, like you, don't watch too much TV, but I'm going to be glued to my set every Sunday at 10:00 P.M. I can even imagine writing letters of protest about what I think is wrong. Never done THAT before!
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learninglife
Be the change you want to see in the world
04:21 PM on 09/27/2011
I'm surprised to learn that there was indeed a connection between some "Pan Am'ers" and the CIA.

It may sound a bit strange, but I was feeling protective of Pan Am while watching the series pilot. I flew on Pan Am a number of times as a kid throughout the 60s and have brief though vivid memories that I cherish because they are from childhood and a vanished era.

I think Sunday's show was busy and agree that the pilots were too young, but the characters are interesting and hold potential for development. Drawing from the richness that was the 60s, many situations could prove riveting with the proper writers. Let's hope the show doesn't move more and more in the direction of a nighttime soap - that would be doing Pan Am and Pan Am'ers a disservice.
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Helen Davey
12:51 AM on 09/28/2011
Hi learninglife,

I recognize you from my other blogs, and I've always been touched by your feelings for Pan Am. So that makes you a part of our extended Pan Am "family." The family includes people from other airlines, passengers, people who are just fascinated by airline history, etc. We're a very inclusive "family."