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The Arab Woman You Don't See

Posted: 03/08/11 12:00 AM ET

Throughout the extraordinary events of the last few months, across the Middle East and North Africa, long-silenced voices demanding change are being heard worldwide -- and stalwart among them are the voices of women. From the bereaved mother of the first tragic Tunisian protester, to Asmaa Mahfouz, the 26-year-old whose YouTube video brought Egyptians into the streets, to Sally Zahran, a passionate 23-year-old Egyptian woman who was bludgeoned to death on January 28, to Tawakul Abdel-Salam Karman, the activist whose arrest sparked demonstrations in Yemen and countless others, women have joined with men in peaceful protest, braving beatings, rubber bullets, and worse. In Egypt, considered the birthplace of Arab feminism in the 1920s, an estimated quarter of the million protesters at the height of the demonstration were female. In all the pictures from the protest, none was as powerful as that of the woman standing face to face with an Egyptian soldier in a pose of utmost defiance. One young female protester stated, "There are no differences between men and women here. We are all one hand." In more conservative cultures such as Bahrain and Yemen, fewer women have demonstrated, but for that very reason their presence is perhaps even more significant.

This should come as no surprise. Women are consummate peacemakers, and civil protest has always been one of their most powerful tools of expression.

I have been privileged to work with numerous networks of courageous women who have suffered the worst consequences of war, conflict and discrimination; in Jordan and Palestine, in Israel, in Colombia, in Central Asia, in Africa and the Balkans, raising their voices and joining forces for change.

Many countries that are struggling to recover from harrowing civil war, including Rwanda, Sri Lanka, Chile, Bosnia, and Liberia, have turned to women leaders for stability, security and peace. After the genocide of 1994 in Rwanda, Hutu and Tutsi women joined together to support each other and the war's victims and to lead the search for truth and reconciliation as official members of government.

In Liberia, I have witnessed the inspiring force of the market women who, throughout 16 years of civil war, sustained their families, saved lives and kept food supplies flowing while they marched and successfully negotiated for peace and, then ensured the election of Africa's first woman president.

And, in the former Yugoslavia, the site of the worst carnage in Europe since World War II, I have sat and wept with Bosnian, Serb and Croatian women as they struggled to come to terms with the deaths of their husbands, sons and fathers -- killed, in some cases, by the husbands or sons of women sitting across the table.

Why such compassion to the widows of their enemies? As one woman put it simply, "We are all mothers." They came to our meetings to search for threads of human connection amidst the chaos of conflict.

Today, women raising their voices in Egypt, Tunisia, Libya, Bahrain and Yemen are not all mothers, but they are also daughters, wives, sisters. They are fighting for their families, but they are also fighting for themselves; and in Palestine, the women of the occupied territories are fighting for the freedom to be included in the greater Palestinian struggle.

Heartening though this may be, as revolution gives way to realpolitik, women's rights are all too often the first things to be compromised on and bartered away. For example, although these protests present an unprecedented opportunity for women, some of the results are less than encouraging. In Egypt, while the protests themselves were marked by a sense of unity, it did not take long for sexual harassment to reassert itself. And women returned to protest when the Supreme Council for the Armed forces, designating a committee to amend the country's constitution, neglected to appoint a single woman.

Women's new empowerment will not be suppressed easily, however. So far, these have not been the traditional stories about women -- especially Muslim women -- that tend to show up on the news. Many do not imagine Arab and Muslim women have much in common with their counterparts in the West because of the selective, damaging and stereotypical images that the media commonly present. When I married King Hussein in 1978, reporters were constantly asking me how a progressive, educated, American woman could go live in such a repressive culture. Those reporters did not know the Arab women I did -- the doctors, lawyers, professors and entrepreneurs -- many of whom became friends and advisers as I set my priorities for public service. The dedication and ambition of the increasing numbers of such women gives great cause for optimism about their prospects for shaping the future of the region. Providing these women with opportunities for partnering with international institutions and networks can enhance that transformative potential both within their own societies and for the benefit of our larger world.

Too many in the Western world still equate the images and soundbites describing women under Taliban and restrictive rule in other countries with the teachings of our faith and conditions throughout the Muslim world. Many worry that greater democracy in the region will give reign to more restrictive interpretations of Islam and a rollback of women's rights. I think, however, that there is reason for hope for women within our faith itself.

Most westerners -- and even some in our region -- do not recognize that women were granted political, economic, legal and social rights by Islam in the 7th century -- rights then unheard of in the West; rights that women were still struggling for in the 20th century in so many parts of the world -- such as the equal right to education, to own and inherit property, to conduct business, to participate in decision making, to be elected to office and not be coerced into marriage. The oppression of women in parts of the Muslim world is not because of Islam, but contrary to it.

Male and female equality is enshrined in numerous places in Islamic scripture, such as the Quranic verse: "I waste not the labor of any that labors among you, be you male or female -- the one of you is as the other." And from the later teachings: "For the white to lord it over the black, the Arab over the non-Arab, the rich over the poor, the strong over the weak or men over women is out of place and wrong." The true application of fundamental Islamic principles can actually empower women to play a crucial role in the process of peaceful change.

As popular demands progress to political and social transition in the MENA region, it is of critical importance that the women who have played such an important role not be relegated to secondary status yet again. They must not simply be forced to exchange an old for a new set of oppressions. Any reforms must continue the progress toward full human rights for women that our region so desperately needs, not only for the women's sake. It is vital that MENA countries more urgently recognize that the status of women is the key determinant to the development of their societies. In turn, the international community can play a critical role in helping to build bridges that can further integrate women both locally and globally.

It is fitting that in Egypt, where Arab feminists first made their voices heard, women have played such an integral role, and have set something of a precedent, by courageously fighting for their unequivocal rights.

On this anniversary of International Women's Day, almost a century since those Arab feminists raised their voices, it is time for women everywhere to take their proper place beside men as equal parents of new societies born in democracy and justice.

 

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Throughout the extraordinary events of the last few months, across the Middle East and North Africa, long-silenced voices demanding change are being heard worldwide -- and stalwart among them are the ...
Throughout the extraordinary events of the last few months, across the Middle East and North Africa, long-silenced voices demanding change are being heard worldwide -- and stalwart among them are the ...
 
 
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Titanshanks
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09:10 PM on 03/13/2011
So if I follow this correctly, for 1300 years Islam has been trying to create a gender-equal society, yet "women's rights are all too often the first things to be compromised on and bartered away." Whatever you think the cause is, the solution's not working.
09:05 PM on 03/13/2011
If Arabs could advance past religion, they'd be FAR better off.
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StopThePlanet
Outlaw stupidity and only outlaws will be stupid
09:33 PM on 03/13/2011
If mankind could advance past religion, we would all be better off. 
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NAMI
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10:27 PM on 03/13/2011
stop the planet ............i want to cry

Religions showed the way to GOD...........and that is the GOAL .
Only after one reaches GOD, can one advance BEYOND religions...................!!!

to the REALM of the DIVINE . and i believe that is what the FOUNDING FATHERS who were DEISTS arrived at.!!!!!

However since many have not reached that level ...we are where we are although i must confess the EXCESSIVE religiosity has led us backward not FORWARD....to the DIVINE.
ALAS
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NAMI
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10:42 PM on 03/13/2011
Overdog2

Actually, the Arabs have advanced past pure religion, because Islam itself is more than a religion .

It is a SOCIO-POLITICAL way of life.......... I really think the problem is with MOSLEMS themselves who are incapable to understand the dynamic revalatory aspect of Islam.

but again many who have established religious institutions focus on the religious aspects. and want to hold back people .
So that is why i will change my first line and say perhaps only SOME Arabs have moved up UP
07:46 PM on 03/13/2011
//Most westerners -- and even some in our region -- do not recognize that women were granted political, economic, legal and social rights by Islam in the 7th century -- rights then unheard of in the West...//

While I don't mean to diminish her call for the equality of women in Islamic Culture (or just about any religious culture), her statement here is simply wrong. Prior to the 7th Century, Anglo Saxon law granted women extensive political, economic, legal and social rights that weren't eliminated until the Norman conquests of the 11th Century.
06:24 PM on 03/13/2011
The fact that Muslim cultures have prevented women from equality, is not because of the of Islam, but a result of a patriarchal cultural society.
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Indigo1941
Time traveler.
05:33 PM on 03/13/2011
Queen Noor's words are always welcome. She has long been a sensible voice of moderation from the Middle East on many topics.
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Rock Biologist
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05:18 PM on 03/13/2011
"The oppression of women in parts of the Muslim world is not because of Islam, but contrary to it."

I might amend Queen Noor's statement to say it is because of *Islamism,* not Islam. To borrow from Christopher Hitchens, fundamentalism poisons everything.
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ironicisntit
05:09 PM on 03/13/2011
We need look no further than our own backyard ( Hillsdale, Utah anyone?) To see women treated just as cruelly in our own country. While we may condemn Warren Jeffs and his marrying off 14 yr old girls, we cannot seem to do anything to stop it.....
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02:51 PM on 03/13/2011
Beautiful article. Makes us think we ought to be ashamed for the current move in America, under the banner of 'social conservatism,' to limit the the rights of women. For you Christians: please remember that the bible says: "God is love. And he who knows not love, knows not God." Surely, that love is meant to extend beyond love of the foetus.
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10:47 PM on 03/13/2011
Bobandkaye

As soon as I read your "social Conservatism " i thought HEY is this not a form of SOCIALISM too ?!
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FearlessLeader
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02:38 PM on 03/13/2011
http://www.amazon.com/God-Who-Hates-Courageous-Inflamed/dp/0312538359/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300040970&sr=1-1

"A God who Hates" by Wafa Sultan, talks about the Syrian culture where she grew up, and its cruelty toward women.
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VA Jill
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02:16 PM on 03/13/2011
This is exactly the point that all the Islamophobes miss. It is pretty much the same as those fundamentalist Christians who would place women in a subservient position.The oppression of women is tribalism, cultural rather than Islamic, and predates the coming of Islam. Not that the Islamophobes would believe any of that, since their minds are already made up.
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frank day
Obama cares about all of U.S.
04:41 PM on 03/13/2011
Fundamentalism in both forms is the religion of tribalism.

One cannot seperate the one from the other.

Tribalism is the progenitor of Islam.
02:09 PM on 03/13/2011
Benazir Bhutto, a muslim woman, was twice elected to lead a Muslim State (Pakistan), by a Muslim electorate. If Islam is in itself an impediment for women equality, how is it that she became Prime Minister?
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10:00 PM on 03/13/2011
She came from a powerful political family who named her head of the party. When the party won the elections she became prime minister. Incidentally, here are some of her views:

"Bhutto was pro-life and spoke forcefully against abortion, most notably at the International Conference on Population and Development in Cairo, where she accused the West of "seeking to impose adultery, abortion, intercourse education and other such matters on individuals, societies and religions which have their own social ethos."

From Wikipedia
11:56 PM on 03/13/2011
The point in discussion here is not her political views nor her social background, but the fact that she, being a Muslim woman was able to effectively run and win a campaign for the highest office in a Muslim country. That fact alone, is in itself sufficient evidence that Islam is not the insurmountable barrier for women that some people prefer to beleive.
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cordyc
01:27 PM on 03/13/2011
Queen Noor please step up your appearances on US TV to talk about this and your religion. You were raised in America and you can do a lot to dispel all the fear that is being spread by the right wing like that guy King and all of Fox news.

I would like to see you on the more tame shows on Fox to discuss just who the Muslim community is in the US and around the world.
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SaburoHakaida
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12:44 PM on 03/13/2011
The sad thing about your post is that there will always be those who are biased against women, regardless if they are Muslim, Christian or any other form of religion(Even Atheism).
12:08 PM on 03/13/2011
please, please, read what she said carefully, and let it sink in.

"The oppression of women in parts of the Muslim world is not because of Islam, but contrary to it."

she is absolutely correct.
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frank day
Obama cares about all of U.S.
12:24 PM on 03/13/2011
Please explain how one comes to that conclusion.

Islam is the institution that currently justifies gender inequality.

We can argue about what constitutes real Islam, but the reality on the ground is quite clear.
02:24 PM on 03/13/2011
I married an Egyptian Muslim, and this decision tops the list of the best I've ever made. My husband's mother, sisters and neices are cherished and given opportunity for education and careers equal to their brothers. Their opinions and individuality are as freely expressed of those in my family in the West, to a point.

However, I am troubled by laws written into Egypt's constitution, based on "Islamic" law, ie. a son receives twice the inheritance of a daughter, and a woman's testimony in court is valued at only half that of a man's. If these truly are Islamic laws, then I have great difficulty reconciling the religion as a means of promoting gender equality. There is also an obvious double standard in terms of prizing a woman's virginity (or fidelity, or "purity"), vs men's, who have far more license. The reality on the ground is indeed clearly in favor of men as the ones who wield the power and authority over women, and have greater autonomy.

Though my personal experience has been nothing but positive, I do not live in Egypt nor raise my children there. I would want to see those laws and cultural traditions change before I would feel comfortable with that, but a change of this magnitude would likely take several more generations, if at all.
02:33 PM on 03/13/2011
Yes, the reality on the ground teaches us that a Muslim woman, Benazir Bhutto, was twice elected by a Muslim electorate to lead as Prime Minister a Muslim state (Pakistan). You can't argue with that fact.