Right after my FBC diagnosis (f-bomb breast cancer for new readers), my husband and I had an information gathering week. After a series of diagnostic tests to determine the extent of the disease, we had a series of meetings to interview doctors to determine who would become a part of my/our health care team.
One big misnomer in our culture is that doctors (solely) develop a patient's plan of care. No. No. No. This could not be farther from the truth! Patients have a real responsibility to be fully engaged in the development (and revision) of a plan of care.
After the testing was complete, we had meetings and interviews with the following doctors:
Whoa. Whoa. Whoa. Are you wondering, "Why palliative care?" Most people hear the phrase "palliative care" and think "buy the plot... she must be dying."
We met with a palliative care physician NOT because I was dying, but because palliative care focuses on providing pain and symptom relief. If you take only ONE thing from this blog post (though I hope that you take more!), please learn that palliative literally means the relief of pain. This is such a pervasively-misunderstood concept in our culture, even in health care. Don't even get me started.
Well, I already got myself started, so let me tell you that as a nurse and now a patient, I am all too familiar with the fact that surgeons and oncologists are not experts in pain management, despite inflicting a great amount of pain on their patients, which is quite an oxymoron, if you ask me. But it's the truth. The silver lining is that there is an area of specialty focused on relieving pain and symptoms and it's called... palliative care!
Incorporating palliative care into a patient's care from the time of a diagnosis is deeply important to me because I have witnessed the benefits of palliative care as a nurse and experienced the benefits of palliative care as a patient. Consequently, I want every person who has to go through the wretched treatment for this disease to have access to the benefits of palliative care.
Such benefits include:
Because the side effects of the disease and its treatment can linger... and linger... and linger, cancer has the potential to become a chronic issue. Speaking of which, I still can't remember much of anything, courtesy of chemo brain. I also still can't feel my toes, courtesy of the chemotherapy-induced neuropathy.
The great news is that the fields of oncology and palliative care are beginning to work together more consistently from the time of a patient's diagnosis. This has traditionally not been the case because of the assumption that palliative care is only helpful at the end of life.
In fact, consistent with recommendations of the American Society of Clinical Oncology, the National Cancer Policy Board, and the National Comprehensive Cancer Network, concurrent palliative care is slowly but surely becoming acknowledged as a best practice for patients.
Finally, it is no longer the case that palliative care is consulted only at the time of a patient's death, which is magnificent silver lining, if you ask me!
To read more about Hollye's holistic and humorous journey over, around, above and below breast cancer, please visit her blog, The Silver Pen (http://www.thesilverpen.com/). You may email her at hollye@TheSilverPen or follow her on Twitter @hollyejacobs.
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