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You Are Responsible for Your Own (Facebook) Privacy

Posted: 03/ 3/11 05:16 PM ET

The online world is hopping about a rumor that Facebook is planning to give third parties access to user information, such as phone numbers and home addresses. Many Facebook users are expressing shock that the company is looking to monetize their personal information. These people are probably also staunch believers in the Tooth Fairy, trickle-economics and go rushing for a dictionary whenever someone tells them that "gullible isn't actually a word".

It's very simple: Facebook is a business and their goal is to make money. They make money through advertising and selling virtual goods. The more of your personal information they can mine, the more likely their advertising will result in revenue for Facebook and their clients. Facebook provides hundreds of millions of people with a wonderful platform for sharing photos, news, links, videos without charging its users... but it isn't a charity.

Some use Facebook accounts for business purposes, building brands and professional networking. Most use it for social reasons like staying in contact with family, friends, acquaintances, people you have never met, unrequited high school crushes, etc. If you have information that you want to share with only some friends but not others, then either don't place it online or assume that whatever you place online will eventually become available to everyone. If you don't want your contact information distributed, then don't provide it in your profile. If you don't want everyone to see that video of you breakdancing naked in the park, then don't put it online. If you do post that video, then assume it will be distributed to the entire online world.

What about privacy settings? You need to set them. It's your responsibility and no one else's. Facebook wants you to share as much as possible since it helps them monetize your account. Consequently, the default settings tend to be "opt-out" rather than "opt-in", knowing that most people don't review their privacy settings. When you add applications, you are authorizing that program to access your data so if you want to be cautious avoid applications.

You are responsible for what information you post about yourself, the Facebook friends you link to, the privacy settings and the applications you use. You can minimize your exposure by not uploading anything you don't want the entire world to see, by friending only people you actually know, by reviewing the privacy settings and by avoiding applications that use your private information.

Alternatively, you can convince yourself that a huge for-profit company whose business model is based on monetizing your personal information really wants to protect your privacy. For readers who believe that story, did you know that you don't get any hits when you Google "gullible"? Really, go ahead and try it.



Author's note: For information on improving your Facebook privacy, please see this article.

 
 
 

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The online world is hopping about a rumor that Facebook is planning to give third parties access to user information, such as phone numbers and home addresses. Many Facebook users are expressing shoc...
The online world is hopping about a rumor that Facebook is planning to give third parties access to user information, such as phone numbers and home addresses. Many Facebook users are expressing shoc...
 
 
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07:55 PM on 03/06/2011
Well here we are again talking about the lack of privacy on facebook. You do control your privacy on facebook but the problem lies in finding all the different privacy settings in the menus. Another problem lies in the third party apps which are accessing your information. Remember back when data mining was considered bad? It seems that people are stuck between being able to talk with their friends and keep their privacy straight. I am part of a team that decided to do something about it. We created an alternative to facebook. Privacy settings are all located in the same place and the navigation is simple. You can find our community at babblespot.com
05:20 PM on 03/04/2011
How many times do I have to RESET my privacy settings? They keep rearranging the site and we have to be vigilant about our settings. Ridiculous.
08:23 PM on 03/04/2011
I've rarely had to reset mine, but I've had mine customized since I joined.
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TaylerWoods
03:10 PM on 03/04/2011
"You Have One New Crush!" or "You Are Our Millionth Visitor!" flashing in your eyes. I can't tell you how many people I've seen click like it's the real deal. Then, of course FB is known to constantly change privacy settings unbeknownst to it's users. Social Engineering at its finest! Don't put it out there, folks! You'd be better off using the CD slot as a cupholder!
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Isaiah Poole
Online editor, Campaign for America's Future
01:33 PM on 03/04/2011
It is one thing to say -- as this column does correctly -- that it is up to individuals to take control of and guard their privacy. It is quite another to let a company off the hook that constantly shifts its privacy policies, frequently makes its privacy controls deliberately opaque and arrogantly presumes that it is entitled to distribute private information that most Facebook users provided to the company under the now revealed to be false belief that such information was being shared only for the purposes of establishing an account, not to be sold to any business or crook who is willing to pay the price for it. It is not too much to ask Facebook to give its users clear ways to protect their privacy, and to make disclosure of personal information an opt-in rather than an opt-out process.
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Flip75
What's wrong with my micro-bio?
06:07 PM on 03/04/2011
Facebook doesn't require any private information be included on your profile to establish an account. It's easy to set up a secondary email address to open a FB account, so you don't have to worry about giving away your primary account. Anything else - address, phone number, and the like - is completely optional.

Perhaps an opt-in option would be better.....but why no outcry for the many other businesses that do the same thing? (Credit cards, insurance, home/auto loans, etc.) FB seems to become demonized for all of this when the very same thing has been standard operating procedure for decades now.
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allwarisbad
12:45 AM on 03/12/2011
Very clearly said. FB's competition is desperately trying to undermine them, MySpace the leader. Any pronouncement out of Washington always stinks of lobbyism. Schumer is the kingpin, but now slyly passing leadership to the gullible new senator Franken.
Always felt SNL had a low IQ quotent - now I am convinced!
01:23 PM on 03/04/2011
I have to agree. I did not use FB for a long time and several friends and family members urged me to sign up. I am SO glad I did- it has enabled me to reconnect with many old friends I had lost touch with, to post pictures and updates for family members overseas and is just a generally useful tool.

But that is what it is - A TOOL. Like any other, you need to use it properly. I read rants all the time about the evils of FB and how people will post anything and are so rude or about information sharing..

Anything I post, I ask myself- are you ok with EVERYONE you know (including my mom!) reading it?

Anything I post, I ask myself - would you say this to the person's face? If not, don't post it!

And last but not least- I do not friend ANYONE I don't actually know personally, I don't put my address, phone number or any other information on my profile that I wouldn't want the whole world to see - and I frequently maintain my account by checking settings, etc. to make sure they reflect what I want them to.

I have NEVER had a problem using FB in this way. But its my responsibility- if I don't like the way it works, I shouldn't use it. But if I take responsibility and control how *I* use Facebook, then it doesn't use ME!
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TaylerWoods
03:13 PM on 03/04/2011
I bet FB's social engineers really really go apoplectic over people like us. :)
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allwarisbad
12:48 AM on 03/12/2011
not FB - but the schemers who "buy the access" from them! :)
12:53 PM on 03/04/2011
Yes it's our "responsibility and no one else's" – but it's Zuckerberg's damned responsibility to not keep changing (read: eroding) their privacy policies on the users. Also? To not have repeated security "lapses".
10:03 AM on 03/04/2011
isn't "facebook privacy" an oxymoron type statement?
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09:24 AM on 03/04/2011
You completely miss the point. Face can use my data all it wants. But the current kerfuffle is not over Facebook collecting information. It is about them allowing any third party developers access to that information.

But you are totally correct in the statement that privacy is our responsibility. Facebook was started when Mark Zuckerberg thought it would be cool to steal personal information, make it public and allow others to make fun of people based on that stolen personal information. The very titillating nature of knowing secrets about someone else is the fuel that Facebook runs on. I choose not to run down the street naked. Why would I choose to expose myself on the web?
01:15 PM on 03/04/2011
If you put that personal info or pictures on line, Facebook is not stealing it, you are handing it to them. You have to enter the info yourself. No one forces you to.

Taking a picture on a phone or camera does not automaticly put it on your Facebook page, nor can Facebook log onto my camera and take it without my knowledge.
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TaylerWoods
03:15 PM on 03/04/2011
yet...:)
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08:41 AM on 03/04/2011
I enjoyed facebook until they decided to sell it to Wall Street. I closed it out at New Years. I also closed out my Twitter last week at the announcement of City Bank's acquisition. I believe in online social networking as an enhancement to face-to-face contacts and for distance family relations. I see potential there for synergy on entrepreneurial ideas as well. However, I will not have my make my life accessible to bank collectors, lawyers and other fraudulent activities protected by a veneer of institutional stature. Watch the backlash as people learn about this.
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JohnnyLawson
What goes around comes around.
11:18 AM on 03/04/2011
Hmm, and you didn't provide HuffPo with any personal information when you joined?
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allwarisbad
03:18 PM on 03/12/2011
Nope :)
01:17 PM on 03/04/2011
What could you have put on Facebook that has any interest to Wall Street?
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allwarisbad
03:23 PM on 03/12/2011
Not much really. They are just creating the next bubble.
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08:34 AM on 03/04/2011
Excellent comments. I would add a few more:

(1) There is a BIG difference between "what you tell Facebook, Inc." and "what Facebook, Inc. promises (cross my heart, etc., but no more) not to tell any other _subscribers_ except your 'friends' (sic)." If you give the information to "Facebook, Inc." AT ALL, then who now possesses that information? "Facebook, Inc."

(2) There are no laws at this time regulating what Facebook, Inc. can and cannot do with the information that you voluntarily gave them. Granted, they are not stupid, but there are no laws.

(3) The imperative for "practice sensible privacy on the Internet" extends to many things ... including e-mail and even HuffPo postings. Imagine that you are saying, whatever you say, at a podium in the middle of the Super Bowl. Granted, there are no brilliant spotlights shining upon you, but every word that you utter will not only be heard by (or be within the hearing of) millions of others, but it will be preserved for all time. Christina Aguilera will be hearing herself flub the National Anthem from now until Kingdom come, and there's zero that she can do about it. The same is true of anything, and e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g, that flows from your fingertips into the global computer network.

Caveat Surfer.
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TaylerWoods
03:17 PM on 03/04/2011
It kinda reminds me of the Big Pharma patenting our DNA playbook.
08:09 AM on 03/04/2011
Facebook is like a creepy cult. "Oh, I don't DO email. Email is haaaard. Can't you go on Faaaceboook?" I've met quite a few who get offended and hostile when they ask you why you don't do Facebook and you tell them your reasons.
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leftheaded
Cognitive scientist, researcher, professor
06:48 AM on 03/04/2011
My students suckered me into joining facebook years ago--back when joining required that you have an official university email address from one of the relatively few schools on board at the time. I used it a lot. Too much, in fact. Last month I quit, and it has been the best decision I've made in years. I'm surprised at how quickly I no longer cared.
07:20 AM on 03/04/2011
Good for you! One has to do what they feel is best. It is nice to have a spot on the web where you can stay in-touch with family and close friends, etc. to discuss daily life, but there comes a time when each individual needs to examine what they are using this utility for (personal, business, etc.). They need to be separate, especially in an age where an innocent post can take on a life of its own and get a person fired from their job. As written above in a prior comment, I have quietly observed in my own little Facebook corner, and came up with "The (Unofficial Facebook Friends Definition List". You may find it interesting. jillfeyka.wordpress. Best of luck!
06:46 AM on 03/04/2011
They also have to remember that Myspace was once the most popular networking site.
Things change, especially if you bite the hands that feed you.
06:42 AM on 03/04/2011
I guess when the first user owned and managed social network takes hold and MySpace.com is converted into "owned" condos, then if the users want to sell their own phone # they can do that, but they'll be compensated accordingly. This movement is five days old. www.myspacecondos.com
11:14 AM on 03/04/2011
LOL.
02:00 AM on 03/05/2011
Like ikoniqueOS?
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teddyr
01:33 AM on 03/04/2011
Let's face it. If you put your real name, your City and State, anyone can get your address and phone number. If you put down your birthday, you allow them security information. Now you are bragging about the trip to Europe you and your whole family are enjoying. So someone has your name, address, phone number, and they also know you are not home. However, if you carefully watch the settings, only your friends see your information and hopefully you have pleasant and honest friends who wish you no harm. Also, be careful allowing employers or future employers to be "friends", unless you want them to know about the crazy party you attended Friday night, how many girlfriends you have besides your wife, and that one of your "friends" is in the penitentiary.
01:28 PM on 03/04/2011
Seriously. Why do people put things on Facebook that they would never say in public or on the phone?

I last night I saw on a friends kids page (she is 16 now I think) where she actually posted " I am so borred, 'rents are out for a "date night"--EWWWWW. My cell is boke so all I have is the dumb dog, and hes deaf"

Talk about asking for trouble.