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The Perpetual Tourist: Life as an American Under Mubarak's Regime

Posted: 01/29/11 03:38 PM ET

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I am an American who resided in Egypt from February 2008 till June 2010. I left Egypt because I had a feeling something like this would happen soon. It was next to impossible to live there and not see what was going on around you. Not to see how frustrated and angry the average Egyptian was getting. I believe Tunisia was the straw that broke the camel's back but this was bound to happen in Egypt all on its own. I am married to an Egyptian and together we were residing in Old Maadi. He is still there.

On Wednesday he called me and said he was unable to remove any money from the ATM. He tried 5 different machines. He contacted his bank which is in the US and the bank confirmed nothing is wrong with his card or account. He managed to go to the grocery store and use his card at point of purchase to buy some food. We did not have contact most of Thursday and Friday due to the Internet and phone service being disrupted. When I spoke to my husband Thursday evening his mood was still positive. He was not really aware that the government had shut Internet off and even thought his Internet was off because he had failed to pay the bill on time. He said Egyptian TV was showing normal movies and shows. He managed to get a quick phone call to me on Friday morning (CST) by going to a stationary shop that had a landline with international dialing. He simply told me he was OK and that nothing was going on in Maadi.

I next heard from him Saturday morning at 7 am CST. His mood was entirely different. I could hear the fear in his voice. I could hear multiple gunshots in the background. He said sometimes the shots were extremely close, sometimes they were far. He had to hang up quickly saying he could smell tear gas and had to go. I managed to reach him by phone a few hours later. He told me everyone was out on the street in front of their buildings guarding it with sticks. Throughout this phone call I could hear more gunshots. He said that young boys on bicycles had organized neighborhood watches and were riding their bicycles throughout the neighborhood and passing along messages from people on other streets. He also said that many "suspicious" looking people were seen driving by in cars. At this point they are aware that the looting is being done by police thugs because the looters have guns and not many private citizens have guns. He had to end this phone call very quickly also. I am beside myself with worry. My husband and I are in the process of starting the immigration filing for him to immigrate to the US. However, he already has a valid travel visa to the US and told me he is seriously thinking of fleeing Egypt but is worried about leaving his father and sister behind. But without a way to get a ticket (you need Internet to buy one) and with the airlines suspending service we cannot even make any plans to evacuate him yet. He also said I am not a coward. He told me he just wants this life to be over. It must feel like a dream to him.

I am in shock and disbelief about what is happening there now. I am so proud of the Egyptian people and fully stand behind them and support them. I know that I am a typical spoiled American and complained a lot while living in Egypt about minor inconveniences like not being able to find Ranch dressing and a decent quality milk. I griped about the inefficiency of services, and the stress of daily life there. But honestly, I wish that I was there right now. I wish that I had stuck around long enough to take part in this historic event. I know that from a safety standpoint I am better off here.

As an American living in Mubarak's regime was easy. I was a "perpetual tourist". No matter I had been there for years, I was greeted on the streets with "welcome to Egypt" and "where are you from?" But the downside of this is that it was coming mostly from men who were not being genuine, but trying desperately to latch onto a western woman. As an American I was also expected to be automatically rich. I was charged more for services (taxis, entrance fees, etc.) The corruption is obvious once you step off the beaten path. I had visited the Cairo zoo once with an Egyptian friend. My friend paid for the entrance ticket at 2 LE each. Several months later, my son visited Egypt and I took him to the Zoo and was charged 50 LE for each ticket. I saw the ticket seller slide some of the money under a mat on the table and the rest went in the drawer. Things like this were common and frequent and quite frankly, make it a frustrating place to try to live. The electricity went out all the time sometimes for a few hours a day (we lived in a very old building with outdated electricity). There were frequent water outages.

I also witnessed much corruption within the police. My husband and I were once driving in Maadi and came upon a make-shift checkpoint. He was pulled over and had to pay the officer a bribe. When he looked at the ticket, it was actually a receipt for having a boot removed from an illegally parked car. The officers got their hands on some copies of these receipts and set up bogus check points as a way to make some extra money from bribes. I also feel that my husband was more frequently targeted for things like this because of his foreign wife. There was this constant assumption that I was rich.

I lived in Alex for 3 months from April 2008 to July 2008 and was attending the TEFL class there. The school would hire minibus drivers to transport us from our accommodation in Agami to the campus in Stanley, Alex. On numerous occassions we would witness our driver being pulled over and having to pay a bribe simply because he was driving a van full of Westerners.

I taught school briefly at a "prestigious" International School. There was corruption within these school systems. Parents paying money for their children to pass, schools charging upwards of 30,000 LE per year per child, yet paying it's Egyptian teachers low salaries. Bus drivers and teacher assistants were paid peanuts. I ended up getting fired, but I was fine with that decision.

I can't say my life in Egypt was all bad. Quite the contrary. I had a great time there. However, I am not the kind of person who can exist in the ex-pat bubble and not notice what's going on around me. One of my passions is animals and I became active with a non-profit called ESMA -- Egyptian Society for Mercy to Animals. I am still trying to remain active in raising awareness about the poor treatment of animals in Egypt. Government poisonings, corrupt vets. By June of 2010 I had enough. And I had a very bad feeling that the country was on the verge of this revolution.

It breaks my heart to watch the coverage now on Al Jazeera and see all the areas of Cairo that I know so well and spent some great times being destroyed. One of my favorite meeting places downtown was Cilantro Cafe by the old AUC building. I sat many times on the balcony of the cafe sipping a latte and chatting with a friend overlooking Midan Tahrir. A few days ago, I saw a post on Twitter that security forces had grabbed a protester and were beating him in the alley next to Hardees. That's when it really it home for me. It became surreal to think that not long ago I was standing in that very spot on that very street and life was so different.

I flew back to Egypt in October 2010 to get my dogs and bring them back to the US. While sitting in a coffee shop in Mohandiseen I witnessed a group of 20 plainclothes policeman enter the cafe and pick a man up out of his chair and remove him from the cafe. I watched as they surrounded him in a tight group and walked him accross the street and out of view. Other stunned patrons in the shop fell silent. An Egyptian man sitting next to me leaned over and said one word. POLICE. Even when I was there in October I could feel a spark in the air. I could feel that this revolution was very close. I know that it had to happen.

But it does not make it any easier for those of us that still have loved ones there. I am really beside myself now worried about my husband. He has no money, no access to money as long as ATM remains down. He is eventually going to run out of food and with all the stores being looted and burned, not to mention the random gunshots he keeps hearing, it will be difficult for him to get more food. I am grateful the phone service has been turned back on at least I am able to keep in touch in some way now as unsettling as it may be to hear gunshots while I'm on the phone with him. I am spending my time glued to Al Jazeera English and Twitter reposting and reposting and cross posting on Facebook. I want the American people to know that this revolution is not about Islamists. It is not about the price of gas. To quote something my husband said to me this morning with a slight quiver in his voice: This is a revolution of hungry people. This is the truth.

I used to write a blog while I was living in Egypt. I am really not a political blogger so mine was filled with a lot of fluff pieces. My target audience was American women who may be considering marrying Egyptian men and moving to Egypt -- social issues. I self-censored myself out of precaution. I watched what I said trying not to paint too negative a picture of Egypt just in case I was being watched. If people would contact me offline then it was a different story. But now that I am not in Egypt anymore I am not going to self-censor myself. I just have not had time to update the blog. You can see it here.

 
 
 
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05:44 PM on 02/02/2011
Iman. I have been thinking about you and your husband today what with the ugly turn of events. Can you please give us an update?
12:16 AM on 02/08/2011
Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. Things have calmed down quite a bit and my husband feels things starting to return to "normal" in Cairo. Although we are concerned, as everyone is, that Egypt will never be the same. He is doing well though. Thank you for asking.
04:35 AM on 02/09/2011
The demonstrations have taken a better turn than last week. What an emotional roller coaster. Last week was scary and heartbreaking. Glad to hear your husband is doing well.
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05:47 PM on 01/30/2011
Thank you for sharing your story.
03:17 PM on 01/30/2011
Thanks for this report- it sounds so familiar to me in all respects, except the country. My story was set in the late 70's in Tehran. My husband and I left great jobs and lots of friends there because it was obvious that things had to blow up soon, the Shah was so universally feared and hated. We could never understand how two 20 somethings could tell this (my husband was totally fluent in Farsi, although raised in the States) and the U S government seemed so unprepared and oblivious. If only our gov't employees spent more time interacting with average "man on the street" types and less with government officials they would have a better understanding of the real situations in a nation.
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05:44 PM on 01/30/2011
Sometimes, I feel like the American government officials engaged with foreign policy in action just don't want to break out of their bubble and learn. USAID falls in the same trap. Americans working in foreign countries outside these two departments have a much better idea what's going on.
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02:55 PM on 01/30/2011
Good story - I think your husband is correct

now, will the US media listen to his voice or play this up only to sell ad space and divide Americans more
02:13 PM on 01/30/2011
Thank you for sharing your story, Iman. Your story puts a human face on what's happening there and as you described hearing gunshots in the background, I could feel the fear that the people there must be experiencing.

I hope your husband and his family are safe and that you will be reunited soon.
02:11 PM on 01/30/2011
I lived in Egypt for 6 years with my husband of 50 years in Maadi. My husband is a Scientist who worked for the Egyptian Atomic Energy. We met in N. Y. where he was getting his PhD at Columbia University. While in Egypt I taught school at Cairo American College a school for American residents in Cairo and also the children of diplomats from various nations. The school was a delightful place in which to work and I had friendly relations with all the teachers and families whose children attended the school. We were very aware that we lived in a Police State. We were very well aware that the head custodian at our school who drove a Mercedes rec'd money from the Muhuburat the Egyptian Security Police. Human Rights oppression began very slowly and eventually reached ugly proportions when we were advised that no more than 10 unrelated people could gather for private parties. When Nasser instigated his secret war in Yemen and bodies of soldiers were returned to Egypt mourners were told that they could not have the typical mourning occasions that were customary. Meat and Chicken could only be sold on certain days of the week and shortages were incredible. Among them Cooking gas for stoves, toilet paper, and matches that did not explode in your hands. We left in 1966 with 2 young children and 2 suitcases. This was just before the 1967 war with Israel.
01:58 PM on 01/30/2011
This is a wonderful post Iman. I sincerely hope your husband gets through this safely and that you are reunited soon.

There is so much about Egyptian society that is misunderstood in the U.S. My experience is not as extensive as yours but what you described rang true to me.

I've heard much in the media about fear of the military and calls for more enforcement by police. I've had an Egyptian police officer reach into my wallet to choose his own bribe. The joke is that you can park your car in the middle of the street and hire a policeman to guard it for less money than the parking ticket.

My experiences with the military have been more positive. One of their roles is to watch over public projects to make sure they don't completely fall prey to corruption and theft. I'm not saying they are angels, but I would trust a soldier over a policeman any day. That seems to be the present outlook of the protesters as well.

Americans should realize that the military has very little to gain by siding with Mubarak. If they back him the populace will be temporarily subdued, but far angrier - still under the same 83 year old dictator. If they side with the protesters they will have a voice in what happens as well as the trust of the new regime.

I hope that this ends peacefully and quickly..
01:57 PM on 01/30/2011
There are so many events in you heart wrenching tale that I find myself pausing and thinking, why weren't we told this was happening? It serves to drive home the reality that; if you want the truth, seeking it has to be an active process. One cannot simply assume that any news source is giving us the complete story. Thank you for writing this piece.
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01:53 PM on 01/30/2011
Does the author think that it was because of Mr.Mobarak that people assume that she is rich or ripped her off in Taxi cabs, restaurants or other prejudices toward westerners and foreigners? I don't think you won't be ripped off in your next trip to Egypt because Mobarak won't be in power anymore !
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05:45 PM on 01/30/2011
I suspect she knows that. But her personal experiences speak to the point of poverty and corruption.
06:30 PM on 01/30/2011
What?

That's what happens in every "non-western" country a westerner visits. In the MidEast, South America, and Asia.
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01:41 PM on 01/30/2011
Thank you, and for the link to the stray dog story on your blog. Best of luck to you. You are a gem.
01:23 PM on 01/30/2011
"To quote something my husband said to me this morning with a slight quiver in his voice: This is a revolution of hungry people. This is the truth."

This is what the monetary $ystem does to people. Corrupting them to their very soul.
01:05 PM on 01/30/2011
I predict that this is what will happen in America if we keep going down the road we are on now. Once the conservatives have totally bankrupted the middle class and there is nothing left in this country but the very rich and the very poor, a revolution will be inevitable.
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01:18 PM on 01/30/2011
Once they are able to corrupt the education system which they are doing now, anything is possible
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02:18 PM on 01/30/2011
You have no idea what poor is... as was so eloquently stated by the author.. a spoiled American...
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12:49 PM on 01/30/2011
Very interesting read - worrisome, yet hopeful.

I'm living in Saudi, and just by reading this account, I can see many differences in the mentality of the people. People have asked me if I suspect that there will be an uprising here, and I respond that I do not. Hearing about the problems that exist there, and not here (or on a smaller scale), I can see why that's the case.

Good luck to you and yours.
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12:41 PM on 01/30/2011
My heart goes out to you and your husband, Iman. We hope for your husband's safety and eventual reunitement with you. Thank you for your wonder inciteful article.
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12:40 PM on 01/30/2011
My parents traveled several times to Egypt and as "tourists" experienced many of the same things you talk about. My mother was so compassionately concerned for the children. We have many photos of her with very young children (5-7 yrs. old), not in school where you would expect them to be, but in the markets 'hawking' rugs, and tourist type items. She would embrace them and get them to verbally interact with her. She said that even at 5 years of age they were polished little salesmen, and very adept at dealing with the tourist trade. As an educator, she saw the potential in these children and often mused how they could "change the world" if they were able to afford to go to school and become educated. Perhaps these are the children, now adults, who are in the streets today demanding a leadership change that will hopefully improve their lives.