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Cleo Manago: The Most Dangerous Black Gay Man?

Posted: 02/17/2012 9:11 pm

Cleo Manago is despised by some in the LGBTQ community. Descriptors like "homo demagogue," contrarian, separatist, and anti-white are just a few that can be expressed in polite company. But to a nationwide community of same-gender-loving (SGL), bisexual, transgender, and progressive heterosexual African-American men, Manago is the man, seen as a visionary game changer and "social architect" focusing on advocating for and healing a group of men that continues to be maligned and marginalized: brothers.

"Without an understanding of the deep hurt that Black men have around issues of masculinity and their role as a man, you can't hope to eliminate anti-homosexual sentiment in Black men," Manago wrote in his recent article "Getting at the Root of Black 'Homophobic' Speech," in which he castigates GLAAD for demanding that CNN fire Roland Martin for misconstrued homophobic tweets. "There has been no national project to address the psychic damage that White supremacy has done to Black men. But there is always some predominantly White institution waiting, ready to pounce on a Black man for behaving badly."

Unapologetically Afrocentric in his approach in addressing social, mental, and health issues plaguing communities of black men, Manago has created a national study on black men (the Critical Thinking and Cultural Affirmation (CTCA) study) and has built two organizations that, for more than two decades, have had national recognition and have successfully secured millions of dollars in funding: AmASSI Health and Cultural Centers, and Black Men's Xchange (BMX).

Manago's CTCA study is a culturally informed, preventive health strategy that addresses positive mental, sexual, and community health, encouraging self-actualization, cultural empowerment, and responsibility. CTCA has been in practice since 2002.

As the founder and CEO of AmASSI Health and Cultural Centers, Manago was one of the first innovators in the AIDS movement to provide HIV/AIDS treatment and prevention services utilizing a psychosocial, mental health model that was culturally specific to the African-American identity. AmASSI has been in practice since 1989.

Manago is the national organizer and founder of Black Men's Xchange, the oldest and largest community-based movement devoted to promoting healthy self-concept and behavior, cultural affirmation, and critical consciousness among SGL, bisexual, and transgender males and their allies, with chapters in Los Angeles, Oakland, San Francisco, Sacramento, Orange County, Detroit, Denver, Atlanta, Minneapolis, Baltimore, and Philadelphia. Black Men's Xchange has been funded by the Center for Disease Control's Act Against AIDS Leadership Initiative program. And the CDC positions BMX alongside other legacy community black organization such as the NAACP, the Urban League, the Congressional Black Caucus Foundation, and American Urban Radio Networks. BMX has been in practice since 1989.

A native of south-central Los Angeles, Manago began a vocation in social services at the age of 16. While many would call him a social activist, he does not like the term "activist" applied to him, because he considers black LGBTQ activism tethered to mainstream white privilege, ideology, and single-focused gay organizations, which he views as culturally dissonant and too limited in scope to be meaningful and beneficial to African-American LGBTQ communities and the larger black community.

To many in Manago's community and beyond, he's an unsung hero greatly misunderstood and intentionally marginalized by LGBTQ power brokers. Manago would contest that one factor contributing to his marginalization was the debacle between him and Keith Boykin during the 10th anniversary of the Million Man March. In commemorating the 10th anniversary of the Million Man March, the Nation of Islam (NOI) decidedly chose one LGBTQ organization over another, and that decision highlights much of the political, class, and ideological differences in the African-American LGBTQ community at large. Keith Boykin, the founder and then-president of the National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC), an African-American LGBTQ civil rights organization of which I was then a board member, was dropped from the event, but Cleo Manago was not. Both men had much to bring to the 2005 Millions More March, but Manago mirrored the fundamental sentiment of Farrakhan's theology -- a conscious separation from the dominant, white heterosexual and queer cultures -- and he'd spoken at the historic 1995 Million Man March. In an open letter Manago emailed around in 2005:

BMX knows the Nation of Islam (NOI). It's an independent black organization not funded by the HRC or any white folks. The NOI does not, nor does it have to succumb to White gay press laden, black homosexual coercives who want to ram a white constructed gay-identity political agenda -- that even most Black homosexuals reject -- down their throats. Over the years, several members of the Nation of Islam have been to BMX. As some of you may know, almost 10 years ago BMX co-sponsored a very successful transformative debate on Homosexuality in the Black community with the Nation in L.A.

As a queer separatist organization, many LGBTQ African Americans applaud BMX for being unabashedly queer and unapologetically black. But the terms "queer" and "gay" are not descriptors Manago and his organization would use to depict themselves. That would be "same-gender-loving," because terms like "gay" and "queer" uphold a white queer hegemony that Manago and many in the African-American LGBTQ community denounce. As a matter of fact, he takes credit for having coined the terms "men who have sex with men" (MSM) and "same-gender-loving" (SGL).

To some in the LGBTQ community, Manago is a dangerous demagogue. But to tens of thousands African-American brothers and generous funders, he's seen as a brother driven with a dream. And he's perhaps dangerous because he's effecting change.

 
 
 
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03:03 PM on 03/01/2012
I'm also one of those men who have my own points of views (P.O.V) and when I don't agree with Cleo it turns into a psychosocial fight, FOR ME: being a adovcate for GAY issues, does not mean you have to use SGL as a term to identify your BLACKNESS in the community you live in, for others this term is for them. Loving someone other than black, does not make you a self-hater, but saying NO BLACKS PERIOD is a major issue for many. Cleo is hardcore and he feels a need to be heard & understood, and if you are not in agreement to his journey and life as he see's it, you become a problem. The Nation of Islam is going to help homosexuals by doing what, & how will they empower us?, we must teach black homosexuals how to be better brothers and how to respect each others difference & P.O.V's I'm so sick of the "White man got his foot on my neck rhetoric"....how long must we hear this before the change is visible in our own building of our own neighborhoods? Let's become merchants and teach our young men what it is to own a business, buy property, & to build real working communities. Cleo is a vet at this, and so am I, but after all the screaming & shouting is done, what is visible?
12:27 PM on 02/28/2012
Greetings Huff Post Readers: First and foremost, I want to thank Huff Post for publishing Irene Monroe's article on BMX and Cleo Manago. I want to personally thank Miss Monroe for highlighting the powerful work that Cleo has done through his organization's internationally duplicated model of cultural affirmation and critical thinking. While this was a wonderfully written article, I was a bit disappointed by the title which described Cleo as a potentially, "dangerous gay man." First off, anyone who knows even a little about Cleo knows that he does not and to my knowledge never has, identified as, "gay." Over 20 years ago, he coined the term, "Same Gender Loving," as a culturally affirmative statement of his own cultural identity. This term was later embraced by thousands across the world as a means to embrace one's Africanness in conjunction with honoring one's same gender lovingness. Lastly, its important for Huff Post readers to know that it was Cleo Manago's AmASSI and BMX model that introduced the idea of cultural affirmation and self love/self care as a key to HIV/AIDS prevention in communities of African descent. This model also had a positive impact on decreasing the risk for health concerns that African Americans are traditionally at high risk for such as High Blood Pressure, Diabetes, Breast and Prostate Cancer. Nevertheless, Kudos to Irene & Cleo--this was a great read! Ifalade Ta'Shia Asanti-Avid Reader, Huffington Post
05:42 PM on 02/27/2012
There is no conjecture in my remarks.

Cleo knows who I am. I believe we share a mutual respect for each other as people who have different perspectives but share some common ground. Everything I have written here I would say to Cleo’s face and he would probably tell you that. Further, I would defend Cleo’s right to his views even though I don’t necessarily share them. Cleo would tell you that too.

DAvionesq, if you are inferring that divergent opinions are the result of associations with white people then you are employing the saddest tool in the Afrocentrist/Black Nationalist’s bag of tricks. You and others like you object to disagreement as a form of race treason because disagreement implies diversity and independent thought. Any ability to question your views causes panic because you can’t stand the idea there may be more than one approach. More unpalatable than Cleo’s tendency towards bullying, is the near blind faith many of his supporters exhibit towards his views. There is little worse than a pair of closed ears.

My biggest general criticism of funders is why do they fund HIV programs while infections rates continue to climb? The question of how Cleo negotiates his beliefs with his funding sources is a valid one that bears consideration. Period.

Data on Cleo’s work would yield important information rather than the emotionality of anecdotes from his supporters who lack objectivity. More interesting too.
11:31 AM on 02/26/2012
This nation wide article and others like it to come, will further enhance, our light that is you, which the creator himself has sent down to heal the wounded spirits of all folk who identify themselves as persons of African-descent. He's not even just a man who speaks to unravel the damages done to specifically the black same gender loving community, but to all people of african descent as a whole. If you are a white bro/sis reading this, do not let this cause fear in your heart but rather be informed you that we may have finally discovered a man in our community that will deconstruct the ravages of our historical identity as persons and descendants of victimhood. His intensions are pure. It's not about black domination in the world. But it's about people of african descent finally taking ownership of the damage that has been dealt to us and making a conscious decision to move on with it in the most clearest and affirming way possible. We're truly very fortunate: for our damages when it remains, spills into the society and threatens our nat'l and global security. And this man, with the help of his instruction/guidance, will educate many of his cloth to create a national/global group that can help to repair itself again rendering the world a safer place.
11:21 AM on 02/24/2012
SGL Black men should be proud, relieved and appreciative of Manago's work. I too have been to BMX, and have worked closely with the organization. Some people come to BMX full of already had ideas, biases and assumptions about the organization. I once heard some one say that if you go to BMX and call yourself gay you will be attacked or put out. LOL. There are people angry and gullible enough to believe that. LOL. Some of us simply just don’t trust black men. Some of us don’t even like black men; others don’t even date other black men. These are the types that likely lie about and rail against or attempt to “bully” Cleo’s reputation (like on this blog). They couldn’t successfully do this to his face.

Even the “Afrocentricity” claim is untrue. Neither Cleo Manago nor BMX pushes “Afrocentricity.” That is how misinformed people typecast his work because it focuses on black people. As far as Cleo biting establishments go, America is run by establishments; banks, hospitals, stores, restaurants, mechanics, the CDC, etc. Who can avoid interacting with establishments? Just because we do doesn’t and shouldn’t mean we can’t critique them. Otherwise, how would they improve? Some of us are afraid to challenge things. Cleo is not. From what I read, Cleo’s approach to HIV prevention was evaluated and peer reviewed. That's what led to it receiving more support from the “establishment” for more rigorous evaluation. Don’t hate. Be proud.
11:07 AM on 02/24/2012
I think Irene Monroe's article is a great start. We need to hear from other people in our community. Not the same "establishment" voices who lead us nowhere. Of course, such a high profile report guarantees detractors. LOL. A few claimed that Cleo Manago bullies or rails against those who disagree with him. But no one is specific about what the subject was that Manago supposedly "railed" against them on. Maybe if people had this information, some if not most may agree with Cleo. If the subject was should black men be oppressed and marginalized, Manago’s response may likely me be a very enthusiastic “no.” Or, does white homosexual culture or gay culture affirm or advance SGL Black people. His response to that may likely be a very enthusiastic “no.” Or, will HIV among black men be resolved by using prevention models that have not been successfully tested with black men, again, likely another enthusiastic “no,” and we could go on. Yet, there are people, including some black people, who adamantly support every one of these ideas Manago "rails" (to use their word) against. Why aren't you guys specific about what the disagreement was? Contrary to what you claim, Cleo speaks about the importance of us not shaming or bullying each other. He says this re-traumatizes us and is not constructive. I agree. Not because I’m a follower, but because I agree not traumatizing or shaming each other.
10:46 PM on 02/23/2012
This essay reads like a 'Cleo Manago for Dummies'. Is the goal to explain Cleo to the unenlightened masses?

On occasion I've found myself agreeing with some aspects of Cleo's views. Cleo often goes awry when he attempts to bully those who disagree with him.

I've attended BMX meetings on 3 times. I have found men in the space to be hostile towards divergent opinions. The last time I attended, the meeting was started with a check-in filled with negative comments about people who did not share their Afro-centric beliefs

Afrocentrism as the sole means for a healthy black community is a nice idea I suppose, but to disagree with this particular vision is in itself an act of heresy because disagreement is a sign of diversity and independent thought. My experience has been Afrocentrism is not interested in either.

I think it's perfectly right that Rowland Martin offer an apology for his comments. I do not think it is realistic to expect GLAAD to work outside of its mission any more than one would expect BMX to. But there is nothing preventing Cleo from reaching out to GLAAD for collaboration.

It would also be nice if there were data that looks at whether Cleo’s approach might be having on HIV infection among his constituents. I find the funders spoken of here are often the same establishment that Cleo rails against. Not sure how much hand biting one can do under such circumstances.
10:38 AM on 02/23/2012
I would never be involved in an organization that was cultish or dictatorial. We, my partner and I, have been going to BMX off and on for many years. The organization is particularly constructive and empowering for SGL Black men. I would advise not to take advice from God knows who on the internet. Interested people should check these things out for themselves. People spread rumors, etc. for personal reasons. Why else would they make comments here? Giving such harsh opinions here is likely in envious reaction to all the positive comments about Manago and his work. Our community has great need. Don't lose out on a good thing based on rumors. Make an informed decision.
03:08 PM on 02/23/2012
Perhaps, YOU don't deem it cultish or dictatorial, and that's OK. I agree with you: don't "take advice from God knows who..." That is why I also encourage others to attend a session for themselves; either the approach is for you, or it's not. Lastly, just because we disagree does not mean can't love each other. The common denominator should be our brotherhood. Holla!
08:56 AM on 02/23/2012
If you’ve not been to a meeting, I would still encourage you to go, if only to indulge in the beauty that is the truth of the participants. However, I caution you to “keep you listening ears on,” and know when to refute the claims of some of the facilitators, who can often come off as dictatorial cult leaders. Don’t we all think brothers (and sisters) are worthy of celebrating what’s right with them in both inter- and intra-community? In closing I say, recognizing reality is different from being frustrated; frustrated is different from being angry; angry is different from being hateful. If you don’t rectify issues at the first two levels (and this is possible), then you certainly aren’t winning in the latter two.
08:37 PM on 02/22/2012
Byron Mayes, why are you telling us about stuff that supposedly happened more than 10 years ago?

Diggduggz, where are these insults? Back some of this stuff up, please. Cleo's ideas from many years back are all over the internet. Where is this stuff? Show us proof. These Manago critiques always sound cryptic and personal. Anyone can accuse, and there could be a personal agenda behind it. But, where can we find evidence of these charges? Why do you keep waiting to see this higher level of SGL black love, tolerance and acceptance that Cleo and his followers preach about? What do you preach about? What is your contribution? What is the point and purpose of what you said? Are you warning us, or keeping us from danger? I don't get it. It just sounds personal and not like something said for the community's sake. At least Byron Mayes does admit that it's his "personal" perception, though I don't see the point of his comments either.
03:50 PM on 02/23/2012
uppity my original post did in fact address some of your questions, however as I mentioned it was not allowed (although it was far less inflammatory than the original story) so I wasn't being cryptic or pointless, just censored. As for the rest of your questions, this story wasn't about me so I'm not feeling the need to respond to those comments. However, a few of your questions can be answered by the title of this story "Cleo Manago: The Most Dangerous Black Gay Man?" and the subsequent story. As Mr. Manago chooses to present himself as a leader who has all the answers and solutions, he is opening himself to public scrutiny and the criticisms and critiques which go hand in hand with being a public figure. I certainly don't think it is unreasonable to question whether or not Cleo practices what he preaches, or to critically examine what it is he is in fact preaching. Nor is it unreasonable to come to a conclusion to the kind of person he is by how he, or his devoted followers, react to other people who simply disagree with his POV, i'.e. his "haters".
05:31 PM on 02/22/2012
It would seem that this isn't a discussion forum but more of a support Cleo forum, given the overwhelming pro-Manago comments and that other comments seem to not have been approved for the "discussion", including mine. How odd...this is the internet with many, many options and forums for discussion...so to censure the comments that contradict the authors POV is really illogical, and a bit humorous. What are you afraid of?
08:53 PM on 02/22/2012
OK. Now I see what's up with you Diggduggz, you are bothered by all of the pro-Manago comments. Clearly Huffpo is not censoring. The haters are just outnumbered. The question is, what are you afraid of?
09:04 PM on 02/22/2012
How would you know what is, and what is not approved, accept for your own comments which were approved? smh
03:31 PM on 02/22/2012
I've got more respect for the Huffington Post, and journalist Irene Monroe, for a very balanced piece. Cleo has been one of the few black warriors (female & male) who've consistenly fought on behalf of our people in an, oft times, very white supremacist, unself-reflecting LGBT community. Thanks for this piece
01:12 PM on 02/22/2012
My personal perception of Mr Manago -- which I acknowledge is based on interactions over a decade ago -- is that he's a horribly disagreeable person. When I knew him he was incapable of having a measured debate with someone who disagreed with him without launching into personal invective. And if he saw someone as a threat to his perceived standing, -- which pretty much meant anyone who disagreed with him -- he was more than willing to tear that person down individually, any notions of brotherhood and the like be damned (that characteristic, not the alleged Million Man March incident, is the likely source of any issues between him and Mr. Boykin).

That's too bad, because his arguments are spot on. Black homosexual people have far more to gain by working within Black community structures than by emulating a white gay culture that ultimately has no use for them beyond whatever fetish-based role that culture has carved out for them. The need to look more deeply at the Roland Martin incident and more broadly at incidents like it is absolutely correct, and GLAAD certainly has its own share of racial skeletons in its history.

Perhaps Mr. Manago has matured since I knew him, or maybe he has found a "deputy" with strengths in areas where he needs work. I certainly hope so. The message is too important to be clouded by the man.
01:39 PM on 02/22/2012
Byron, Manago doesn't seem to have changed much from what you've experienced. I've seen a few instances over the last few months in which Cleo chooses to insult and belittle anyone who disagrees with him, and his followers have learned quite well to do the same. I keep waiting to see this higher level of SGL black love, tolerance and acceptance that Cleo and his followers preach about...but I haven't seen a sign of it as of yet.
01:12 PM on 02/22/2012
I am delighted to see Huffington Post make space for this important perspective and conversation. Cleo Manago offers unfettered honesty and insight into the often difficult landscape of being black (African-centered), black-manhood, community, and sexuality. I look forward to more of this conversation!
10:36 AM on 02/22/2012
I’ve also attended several BMX meetings, one of which was facilitated by Mr. Manago. Personally, the sessions served as a reminder of the frustration and pain many of our brother still contend with when attempting to reconcile their sexuality with the faith, family, friends and foes. As someone who has been very comfortable with his sexuality while maintaining a healthy dose of cultural pride as a Black man, I was so moved by the participants’ willingness to share their innermost feelings with others - not strangers because as Black men, there is always a sense of family when we gather. Now, the point of contention I had with the group, especially those facilitating, was the inability to soothe the frustration and pain of those who had shown up for guidance and mentoring. For me, I found the incendiary remarks of the facilitators, including remarks about fellow Black people, only allowed those feelings of frustration and pain to manifest into anger and hate - that’s not healing my friends, and WINNING has never resembled anger and hate. To gather a significant number of brothers on a weekly basis with the (seemingly) sole purpose of allowing all to leave in a rage is a disservice to our people. To hear Mr. Manago bash President Obama AND his wife at these meetings was too much to bear. Likewise, for him to claim “gay marriage” was not for Black people was equally insulting.
12:02 PM on 02/22/2012
My partner and I were reading this post last night and enjoying all the positive comments. We were wondering when a torpedo was coming, but we didn’t know it would be one we personally could contest. I enjoy BMX and have gone several times since 2004. I have heard Cleo speak of the first family many times. He literally glows when speaking of Michelle Obama. Yes, I have hear him critique some of Barack’s decision but always refers to him as exceptionally brilliant, and has spoken glowingly about the energy at the White House where he has been invited to since Obama’s presidency. I must have missed the meeting you are referring too. Regarding how BMX makes people feel, it uplifts us. There are several videos that show how the organization affects Black men. My memory of Manago’s view on gay marriage was that he felt, overall, it was not a priority for many SGL black men, who are still working on having a relationship. Yet, he also said that the right to marry should be celebrated, because now it’s a legal option for those of us who were interested. So, maybe you just went on a bad night. Here are two of the videos I was talking about.

http://vimeo.com/13788536

http://vimeo.com/35968290