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Is It Safe for a Muslim Woman to Wear the Hijab in America?

Posted: 04/26/2012 1:43 pm

Everybody has heard about the tragic Trayvon Martin murder. Far fewer, however, are aware of the brutal killing of Shaima Alawadi, an Iraqi-born American citizen and mother of five, in her home near San Diego. There are conflicting reports about the facts of the crime. In some accounts, a note was found at the scene, reading: "This is my country. Go back to yours, terrorist."

This is a very complicated homicide investigation. While some have labeled the killing a hate crime, others have speculated that it was merely made to look like one. None of that, of course, changes the devastating truth that a young woman and mother has been murdered.

In our video today, we discuss some of the specifics of the case with an eye towards probing deeper questions: What is it like for a Muslim-American woman to wear a hijab in public? Does this particular religious attire render its wearers vulnerable to verbal and physical violence? Or, is the United States living up to its ethos of tolerance for religious minorities?

Our guest, Dr. Jerusha Lamptey, addresses many of these questions as she reflects on her own experiences as a convert to Islam who now wears the hijab. She focuses on a paradox that confronts her on a quotidian basis: Even though she was born and raised in the United States, the donning of this piece of symbolic cloth indelibly marks her as foreign in the eyes of her compatriots.

 
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03:34 PM on 05/04/2012
We should be tolerant of people wearing face-covering outfits,
but we don't have to approve of it, and should feel free to criticize the religious culture which induces women to wear this regressive mode of dress.
03:32 PM on 05/04/2012
According to FBI statistics religious based hate crimes in U.S. against Muslims are almost identical to those committed against Christians.
Majority (over 65%) of religious hate crimes in U.S. are committed against Jewish people.

Therefore, according to FBI evidence it is 3 times more dangerous to be a Jew in U.S. than a Muslim.
12:11 PM on 04/30/2012
Is it safe for the news media and our professional whiners to jump to a conclusion and call a murder a 'hate crime' before all the facts are in.

To their credibility, it's fatal.

It's amusing, though, to see the lengths to which the story is being spun to conform to SOME teachable moment.
12:57 AM on 04/29/2012
It is safe for Muslim women to wear the Hajib. We're a diverse country. No problem.
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09:11 PM on 04/28/2012
How on earth can someone feel more valued wearing a niqab in a country where showing the face is expected and covering the face is looked upon with suspicion or as a security threat even by many people who have no problem with the hijab?

Why are people still conflating the Trayvon Martin case with the Shaima Alawadi case? Even the note said "terrorist," and I know the racist terms usually used for Arab//Muslms around San Diego, and that ain't one of them.

Even the author admits that the Alawadi case is "very complicated." The detectives assigned to the case probably haven't even had a chance to reinterview the victim's immediate family for leads to possible other suspects since they got back home from Iraq. Believe me, her kids do not consider Iraq home, they were born and raised in the US.
07:49 PM on 05/20/2012
I wear hijab, but Inshallah I will 'graduate' to niqab, I have worn it once in awhile and I do feel so liberated, anyone who feels uncomfortable with my choice well that has nothing to do with me it is their problem for being closed minded about different religions and acts of modesty.
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03:24 PM on 05/22/2012
Your choice may have repercussions with law enforcement.  I sure hope I don't end up behind you in line when ID's need to be made, say at the airport, or the DMV. So, no, it's not only my problem, your choices may be inconveniencing others.  
11:16 PM on 04/27/2012
A headscarf is a symbol of purity and respect of religion. There is nothing wrong with a woman’s choice to cover herself. It is personal and individual choice and obedience for respectful religion.
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08:14 AM on 04/28/2012
"A headscarf is a symbol of purity and respect of religion"
- A headscarf serves the same purpose as underwe@r does. Which is to cover nakedness and in this case the woman's hair and neck. Do you disagree? I have references if you like to further discuss this.

"here is nothing wrong with a woman’s choice to cover herself."
- There is no choice in this matter it is an obligation to cover up nakedness.. again do you still disagree?

"obedience for respectful religion."
- Bingo, you said it yourself. Thee is no free choice it has everything to do with obedience to a religion that oppresses women and turns them into s@x toys and second citizens. Do you disagree that women in religon are considered less than man in mind and spirit?

Bukhari (6:301) - "[Muhammad] said, 'Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?' They replied in the affirmative. He said, 'This is the deficiency in her intelligence.'"

Bukhari (6:301) - continued - "[Muhammad said] 'Isn't it true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?' The women replied in the affirmative. He said, 'This is the deficiency in her religion.'" Allah has made women deficient in the practice of their religion as well, by giving them menstrual cycles.
07:53 PM on 05/20/2012
Let me just remind everyone, hijab can from Mother Mary. Christians used to cover their beauty too before it became too 'old fashion', a hijab is not a headscarf, wearing hijab is covering your entire body, hiding your sexual appeal from everyone except your husband or wife. The niqab is not a requirement of Islam, those who choose to wear niqab go above and beyond.
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11:15 PM on 04/27/2012
I often see women in public wearing the Hijab. No problems seen.
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08:14 AM on 04/28/2012
Except for the meaning behind hijab. Do you think women have a good situation in OIC countries?
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JackieSmith890
10:31 PM on 04/27/2012
unbelievable.

of course it's safe. muslim women in america have the safest lives of muslim women in anywhere. why doesn't the author ask, is it safe being a woman in pakistan? or afghanistan? or saudi arabia? or somalia?

shaima alawadi was beaten to death by her husband for filing for divorce. that's why her daughter and husband (whom she married at 14, when he was 30, btw) fled to iraq as soon as they could.

this wasn't a hate crime. this was an honor killing. the FBI consistenly shows that muslims make up barely 6% of overall religiously motivated hate crimes. jews make up nearly 70%. muslims peaked at third in 2002, and the numbers have dropped every year.

the note was found to be a fake. nobody walks into a woman's house at 11 AM, beats somebody to death while a family member is feet away, and then walks away without a trace. neighbors saw glass broken from the inside out, with glass all over the patio. this was obviously set up.

it is dishonest and completely fraudulent for the author of this article to exploit shaima's life and death to play the victim game for muslims in america. the truth of this murder DOES change everything--because it is the life of a human being who was slaughtered for breaking free from an oppressive, woman-hating environment.

the fact that jacques can so easily dismiss that shows he's the one without much respect for shaima.
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09:17 PM on 04/28/2012
"Jews make up nearly 70%." Not in San Diego County they don't and frankly, I'd love to see the orgins of that statement. Link please?

Anyway, in SD County, the most hate crimes are perpetrated against young black men.
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thorrsman
Why should I define myself by quoting others?
11:46 AM on 04/29/2012
Coming from the FBI, the figure would reflect the national averages on the victims of religiously-motivated hate crimes.
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08:03 PM on 04/29/2012
it's FBI statistics, and it's nationwide. i'm talking about RELIGIOUSLY motivated hate crimes. you're talking about race. two different categories. look it up yourself. pay attention.

i live in SD county. there isn't a rash of crazy people attacking muslims. that's a bunch of garbage.
10:30 PM on 04/27/2012
It's a lot safer than a woman not wearing a hijab in most middle east countries.
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Galaxie
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10:05 PM on 04/27/2012
So long as the public can see your face for security reasons, who cares....
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07:58 PM on 04/28/2012
Agreed. I'd also say that the percentage of Muslim women who wear the hijab in Western countries will go down over time.
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thorrsman
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09:55 PM on 04/27/2012
S'funny, but I see this sort of headdress commonly in Denver. Indeed, I saw it today at a McDonalds. No one gave her--or the man she was with--a second look. Most people in America just treat a woman in a hijab like anyone else.

The media makes far too much of isolated incidents to create news.
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graceaustin
11:16 PM on 04/27/2012
I think you're right.
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08:00 PM on 04/28/2012
I was in Watertown, MA today and ran across a coworker who wears a hijab, and no one was giving her dirty looks. In fact our employer has given her prayer breaks during her shift.
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06:23 PM on 05/01/2012
he shouldn't give her prayer breaks. no other faith would be given prayer breaks, and she shouldn't be given special accomodations.
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09:17 PM on 04/27/2012
I wore hijab for all of 2010, not because I am Muslim, but because I felt I needed to get a better feel for what it was like to be a Muslim woman today. No one person's experience can be definitive, but in the Riverside, CA area I encountered no religious animosity. Since I am a so-pale-I-glow-in-the-dark WASP, the scarf was the only thing that would identify me as an outsider.
In this area, at least, the problem seems to be more plain, old racism, which is no more acceptable!
08:09 PM on 04/26/2012
This article is a lie. All the current evidence points to a domestic murder. Shaima was leaving her husband and announced she was moving to Texas. The police say the note was a 'copy' of some sort.

The author is spreading misinformation for an ideological agenda to support sartorial gender apartheid for some bizarre reason. He must see the idea that women should be covered in public with no similar onus on men as somehow very liberal.

Jacques Berlinerblau please come out of your ivory tower and publish all the facts that are known in the Shaima case and don't misuse her death for your ideology.
08:05 PM on 04/26/2012
Wow, talk about pure utter nonsense.

The author must be so ideological as he fails to post any of the relevant evidence that has come forward in the news that points to an honor killing by the family.

What about the text message to Shaima's daughter telling her not to talk to police?

What about the fact that daughter was caught having sex with a man in a car just a few months ago and that the daughter jumped out of a car being driven by Shaima?

What about the fact that Shaima's relatives report that she was leaving her husband to move to Texas and that she had told him just days before she is found beaten to death?

What about the fact that her husband and daughter fled to Iraq and haven't returned?

Jacques Berlinerblau is just irresponsible and lying to attempt to still spin Shaima's murder as a hate crime at this point in time.
01:49 PM on 04/26/2012
When I joined the service, I wore what I expected. I didn't tell my Chief PO that I wanted to wear Levi's and a T-shirt. These woman should wear what is common in this country other wise go back where she feels comfortable. It makes Americans very uneasy with their past.
04:42 PM on 04/26/2012
I was unaware there was an American uniform. Perhaps you could tell us all what it is, so we can conform. After all, that's what you fought for, right? The right to conform.
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thorrsman
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09:58 PM on 04/27/2012
I disagree. While on duty, I wore the uniform. Off duty, I dressed as I pleased. When I brought my foriegn-born wife to America, I was pleased that she still dressed in the fashion current in Europe at the time, despite the prudish looks from American women.

Within limits--no masks, no hiding gender and identity--dress as you please, which is the true American way.
07:08 PM on 04/28/2012
Again, a few countries that house terrorists are the ones we have to look out for. Not the woman with the wooden shoes from, ahhhhhhhhhh, let me think. Oh yha, Holland.