What I Learned From Surviving Two Crises In Liberia

04/03/2015 11:57 am ET | Updated Jun 03, 2015
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I grew up in Liberia not knowing who my parents were, and I learned at an early age that I was on my own in the world. By the age of just 10, I had already lived in 2 orphanages and was being moved to live with a family in an SOS Children's Village in Monrovia. These early experiences as a young boy in an orphanage, and then the love and safety I felt with my new SOS family, were my driving force in becoming an advocate for children. I experienced firsthand that with the love and support of family, children can overcome even the most challenging circumstances and thrive.

When the civil war in Liberia began to tear through my country, I was just a teenager living with my SOS family. As a young male, I was at heightened risk for attack or recruitment into the fighting forces. Everyone in my city lived in fear, uncertain of what the next day would bring. But I believe the tight-knit bond I had with my SOS mother and siblings and the security that my family provided are what helped me to survive.

In 1990, when our village was taken over by rebel forces, I witnessed unimaginable violence and death -- experiences no child should ever go through. My family was displaced, and my siblings and I were traumatized; but we stayed together, and the love and protection of my SOS mother -- even during the most difficult of times -- helped carry us through.

Now, as the director of the SOS Monrovia village where I once lived as a boy, I am responsible for keeping the children and families in our village safe from the current threat of Ebola. Throughout my country, we have seen the devastating effect this disease has had on children, families and the fabric of communities.

At the height of the outbreak, for children, the situation was a confusing one. Many of them asked me why they couldn't go to school or play with their friends. Across West Africa, children lost their parents, family members and caregivers due to Ebola. For a time, we allowed fear to creep in, putting many children at risk of abandonment and stigmatization in their communities.

Much like my experience during the civil war, these children -- and I believe all children in crisis-affected countries around the world -- need the love, support and protection provided by a strong family. As we work in Liberia to achieve zero new Ebola cases, we must also prioritize ensuring that all affected children regain the stability of a family environment, and receive the psychosocial support they need to overcome this traumatic experience.

I've been the small boy feeling he must face the world on his own, and the teenager in a war-torn country fearing for his life and the lives of his family members. For as long as these situations persist in the world, I speak from experience and believe there will always be love and families that can help these children overcome trauma and reach their full potential. Everyone can do their part to make this a reality for children. This is what motivates me to advocate for children every day.

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