Alex Drummond is a 51-year-old transgender woman who works as a psychotherapist and photographer in Wales.
Drummoud recently began making waves on an international level due to her articulate, scholarly understanding of transgender identity, as well as one significant physical trait -- a fully, bushy, beautiful beard.
While mainstream understandings of transgender identity still tend to often rely on binary notions of male/female, Drummond seeks to queer the idea of gender through both her physical appearance and her day to day life and existence.
The Huffington Post chatted with Drummond this week about her thoughts surrounding this important moment in time for transgender individuals, as well as her own journey to living as her authentic self.
The Huffington Post: What are your thoughts about this specific moment in history for queer and trans individuals?
Alex Drummond: We are at an exciting time -- a new era that might finally offer equality of the sexes. A new generation of Trans* identities are emerging, broadening the bandwidth of gender and creating new ways of being. Historically, we saw everything as a binary of male or female and made assumptions about how male or female should look and behave. But the latest neuroscience is showing brains really do have a 'gender' orientation and that brains sit on a spectrum of traits/interests which, yes, society has labelled as male or female but in truth it's more complex. Gentials do not determine gender, brain-orientation does. To clarify, the brain determines gender identity but society creates the rules that constrain people, and importantly, that gender isn't an either/or binary but a spectrum.
With your own personal experiences in mind, what is it about human diversity that you most want people to understand ?
When our understanding of ourselves is limited to what parents and teachers tell us, how are we to know that gay identities are ok, that trans* identities exist? Growing up, I knew only that I was told I was a boy (but the other boys didn't think so and bullied me for being too girly), and for my part I found more affinity with the girls -- but it got me bullied. I tried my best to fit in but despite my best efforts somehow never quite pulled it off. As an adult I did my best to suppress the female side but lived with a constant inner struggle. Only in my forties did I discover "transgender" and finally something I'd wrestled with for 40 years suddenly made sense; that it really was possible to feel more identified as female than male, that not all transsexuals start as gay and not all transsexuals have surgery. For a long time equality law and medicine set a very fixed way to be a "proper transsexual" and, for me, surgery and hormones could be risky. However, since the 2010 Equality Act, non-medicalized transition is now a protected characteristic. This makes a big difference.
As the social and political climate changes for trans people in the West, what do you hope the future looks like for trans and gender nonconforming individuals?
Until recently, the only stories that got told about "being transsexual" were the sensationalized "Trucker Dave Becomes Diana" and the articles invariably took a mocking tone, with unflattering photos and a freak-show subtext. We never got the stories of people living happily and successfully post-transition, so it was hard to know it was possible. And we virtually never saw a story about a "woman transitioning to become a man."
But with the Internet there has been a democratizing of knowledge -- people can publish and share content and young people can connect with others who validate their experiences. And now (due in no small part to the work of Trans Media Watch) the mass media is finally getting its house in order, presenting more respectful pieces about trans* people. As people see what is possible, more will come out and we'll become more familiar with the ordinariness of gender difference and diversity.
You've discussed how having a full beard as a trans woman "queers gender." Can you elaborate on this?
The beard is an accident, as it happens. In working through my process of transition, I took a cautious stage by stage approach and the beard was a legacy of a period in my thirties when I tried to "butch up." A lot of trans women can feel anxious about being read as "male historied" so, in a way, the beard deliberately deconstructs the anxiety -- I present as female but people don't have to work too hard to see the male history. At an activism level, it makes the idea that gender is more complex than merely man-or-woman very visual: hence the term "genderfuck." Importantly, there is nothing in the equality act that says a woman can't have a beard!
There is no universal trans experience. But, to you, what does it mean to be trans?
Trans*, as an identity, has allowed me to find a more congruent way of being, a way of finding myself and allowing the female self to be shown to others. Its been very liberating. I hope to be part of a movement that advances trans* rights and makes it easier and safer for young people, especially, to come out earlier to live their lives without the shame and stigma our generation have battled with.
Drummond wrote a book titled Grrl Alex: A Personal Journey to a Transgender Identity. Head here for more...
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In the world of drag where queens often get all of the attention, we are often left wondering -- where are all of the kings?
Filmmaker Nicole Miyahara is gearing up to bring us "The Making of a King," a documentary that chronicles the lives and experiences of a group of drag kings -- or women who dress up and perform on stage as men -- living in Los Angeles.
While "The Making of a King," isn't due out until 2016, Miyahara recently paired with Buzzfeed to create a promotional video in which the stars of the film make over a group of women who do not normally participate in the world of drag.
The Huffington Post chatted with Miyahara this week about what viewers can expect from the film, as well as the recently produced drag king make-over video.
What is your overarching vision for the documentary?
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Popular YouTube vlogger Arielle Scarcella tackles this question with a bit of nuance in her latest video "Lesbians Guess: Straight Girls Or Gay Girls In Porn."
Scarcella brings together her usual roundtable of other lesbian YouTube vloggers to watch various porn videos and judge -- based on the actions of the performers -- whether the women actually identify as lesbians or not.
The twist? Well, for one, this is literally an impossible task to undertake. Secondly... Scarcella doesn't even know the answer herself! She explains at the end of the video:
"I don't think it matters because the truth is if somebody told you as a lesbian that you can't be gay if you use dildos or you can't be gay if you don't like when a girl goes down on you, you'd probably be upset about it! Because we know that how we express our sexuality has nothing to do with our sexual orientation."
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A compelling new video brings together a diverse group of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) athletes to discuss what the "perfect body" means to them.
Pat Manuel, Robbie Rogers, Julie Shaw and Lypheng Kim open up in this video from Buzzfeed, offering nuanced and candid thoughts about the idea of a "perfect body" -- both for them personally and from a larger, cultural perspective.
"As someone that's struggled with body issues, not only with gender dysphoria but as a black man," Manuel shared, "When I was younger I wanted to look like a tall, lean swimmer... but that is not my body type."
"The 'perfect body' also comes with race," Kim says. "Why is the world idolizing the perfect white image?"
The overarching narrative of the video is one of self-acceptance -- learning to recognize and accept your own body as "perfect," despite the message from the world around us.
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"Steven Universe," one of our favorite cartoons with heavy queer overtones follows the adventures of Steven, a young boy, who protects the universe with his magic gem powers alongside superheroes Garnet, Amethyst and Pearl. In a recent episode, the show revealed that Garnet is actually a fusion of two other gem characters -- Ruby and Sapphire.
The scene in the video above initially raised questions about the nature of Ruby and Sapphire's relationship. This week, co-executive producer Ian Jones-Quarterly confirmed via Twitter that the pair are, in fact, a lesbian couple.
"Steven Universe," is one of a number of kids shows that are increasingly focused on queer representation. As noted by Autostraddle, "study after study and expert after expert says that when kids see people like them positively portrayed in the media they consume, they are positively impacted, and when they don’t see that same representation, it negatively affects not only them, but how others view and treat people like them."
Most recently, Hulu premiered "The Bravest Knight That Ever Lived," a queer fairytale where the main character rescues both a princess and a prince and later gets to decide whose affectation he truly desires.
We love you, Steven Universe!
Each week HuffPost Gay Voices, in a partnership with blogger Scout, LGBT HealthLink and researcher Susana Fajardo, brings you a round up of some of the biggest LGBT wellness stories from the past seven days. For more LGBT Wellness visit our page dedicated to the topic here.
Good Relationships Prevent Eating Disorders
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Las Vegas Is Successful Reducing LGBT Smoking
If you’ve ever hit the bars in Las Vegas, you might’ve run across the innovative tobacco-free social branding campaign called CRUSH. Now, there’s evidence CRUSH has been effective in reducing smoking. A new analysis shows those with highest exposure to CRUSH messaging and social events had 37-48% lower odds of current smoking.
LGBT Elders Americans Act Introduced in Congress
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"This Town: San Francisco" comes from the mind of Accidental Bear founder Mike Enders, a site which aims to "inform, and promote news, art, culture, music and a whole lot of sexy" as well as act as a platform for original videos.
Check out pilot episode #2 above....
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In recognition of this huge moment in the mainstream narrative of queer rights, Freedom To Marry put together this emotional video that chronicles many of the significant political and social moments for the LGBT community over the past several decades. From the days of the AIDS crisis to SCOTUS' ruling last month, this video will take you back through time and remind you how far we've come -- and how far we still have to go.
Check it out for yourself above.
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