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Why Atheists Aren't Afraid to Die

Posted: 09/13/11 01:20 PM ET

Christopher Hitchens is always an interesting read. I find his writing entertaining and found him to be a pleasant individual. Recently he wrote of his own impeding death.

In the preface to my first collection of essays, Prepared for the Worst, in 1988, I annexed a thought of Nadine Gordimer's, to the effect that a serious person should try and write posthumously. By that I took her to mean that one should compose as if the usual constraints -- of fashion, commerce, self-censorship, public and perhaps especially intellectual opinion -- did not operate. Impossible perhaps to live up to, this admonition and aspiration did possess some muscle, as well as some warning of how it can decay. Then, about a year ago, I was informed by a doctor that I might have as little as another year to live. In consequence, some of my recent articles were written with the full consciousness that they may be my very last. Sobering in one way and exhilarating in another, this practice can obviously never become perfected. But it has given me a more vivid idea of what makes life worth living, and defending.

This inspired me to reflect upon my own mortality. I, as is Hitchens, am an unbeliever. I lack a belief in a deity of any kind and I have no reason to assume there is life after death. That baffles the believers.

They seem unable to comprehend non-believers, especially those who have no fear of death. There is insecurity among them; they find it unsettling that others don't accept what they cling to so tenaciously. Some, to explain away the lack of fear pretended it existed and invented deathbed conversions for those who challenged them to think. Figures as diverse as Thomas Paine, Robert Ingersoll, Jean-Paul Sartre, and Charles Darwin have all been falsely credited with "seeing the light" and converting seconds before their deaths.

On three occasions, I assumed I would die -- not in the sense that we all assume we will die eventually, but imminently so. Oddly, all three occasions were in Nadine Gordimer's South Africa -- a nation that has had more than its share of dying. On the first occasion I almost drowned off the coast of Durban, but was rescued just before going under.

The second incident began as I was sleeping. Sean, my housemate, just left for work when something startled me and I jumped out of bed. The kitchen door opened and three men entered pushing Sean. Two of them were behind him. The third came toward me with a gun pointed at my forehead.

They tied my hands, as they had already done with Sean, and pushed me onto the bed. After ransacking the place, and beating me, they wanted the keys to other buildings on the property, where I had a business and ready cash. I told them where to find them but they took the wrong keys.

When the keys didn't work they came back and threatened loudly, furiously, and repeatedly to kill us. I laid there thinking that in a few seconds they would shoot Sean in the head and then do it to me. I don't remember feeling afraid, only concerned about Sean. After two more failed attempts to find the right keys, each followed by more threats and gun waving, they grabbed the correct keys and disappeared. I went to my office and called the police.

Months later I was standing at the bedroom window, waiting for Sean, who had just gone out the front door, to walk past. I would watch until he rounded the corner and then turn on a security camera to watch him get into his car and leave. All were precautions taken because of the previous attack.

Sean walked past but never reappeared on camera. Just as I was becoming impatient he walked past with two armed men behind him. I went to knock on the widow, to let them know they were seen and to show them a phone, but instead put my entire arm though it, shattering the glass in a loud explosion of shreds that flew outwards. The armed man turned and shot at me. The men fled and I called the police and then got Sean into the house.

In both incidents death seemed the likely outcome. Yet, that didn't worry me. I was far more upset that Sean was facing such violence.

That is what believers don't understand. Atheists tend to believe that life ends here; there is nothing beyond. Because there is nothing beyond life, there is nothing to fear. I don't fear because I don't believe.

A character in my novel City Limits expressed my view of life and death. Young Tony is dealing with the news that his mentor, Stella, is facing her own death. He was afraid to ask her about this because "he felt as if he were bringing death into her life in a way that she would never do herself." Stella patted his hand, comforting him and then she spoke.

"How did 1950 feel to you?" she asked him. Tony was confused. That was long before he was born. Stella knew this. Why ask such a question? But before he could respond, Stella answered the question herself.

"You didn't exist in 1950 and at some point in the future you will once again cease to exist. That's really it, you know. One day you came into being, and you sucked at life itself, grabbing everything you could. You learned, you lived, if lucky, you loved. And one day it simply ceases to be. What is there to fear? Did the time before your birth traumatize you or cause you pain? No. You weren't there to be traumatized or to feel pain. And someday you, and I as well, will simply stop being. It will be as it was for that eternity before our births. The world, for us, came into existence the day we were born and it will cease the day we die. There is an eternity after our death, and an eternity before our birth. Our life is like a slim, but wonderful book sitting between two vast bookends of nothingness. Why worry about the nothingness when we have such a wonderful volume in our hands right now?"

I don't worry about the nothingness, not when I have such a wonderful volume in my hands today. I think Hitchens would agree, even now as he reads his final chapter.

 
 
 
Christopher Hitchens is always an interesting read. I find his writing entertaining and found him to be a pleasant individual. Recently he wrote of his own impeding death. In the preface to my first...
Christopher Hitchens is always an interesting read. I find his writing entertaining and found him to be a pleasant individual. Recently he wrote of his own impeding death. In the preface to my first...
 
 
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05:40 PM on 11/11/2011
"The world, for us, came into existence the day we were born and it will cease the day we die."
The world did not exist for us before we were born and ends for us when we die....but it was in existence……….. for those before and those after us.
There are similarities in the statements above, but are they the same?
Life continues to be a mystery to atheists and believers.
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11:40 AM on 11/11/2011
James,
The excerpt from your book was enough for me. I will be buying a copy.
Thanks!
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
08:28 AM on 11/11/2011
In my opinion the best that 99% of the Atheist could do to try to make the world a better place is to encourage everyone else to try to live up to the values, ideals, principles and beliefs of "true" Christianity. Why do you suppose there have not been too many of them who have figured that out?
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ColleenHarper
Actions always have unintended consequences
04:17 PM on 11/11/2011
Perhaps because so many "Christians" have set such a poor example that atheists can not in good conscience recommend ANYONE to take that path?

When I encourage "Christians" to live up to the example of their Lord and Savior, I receive more hatred and more scorn.

Since there are so few "true" Christians to refer people to, our job would be sisyphian.
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
12:02 AM on 11/12/2011
"ColleenHarper", Did you happen to notice how nice it feels when you are getting hatred, ostracism or scorn for trying to encourage someone to do right? It is a moment when you get a chance to see someone saying by their actions, "I have chosen to be inferior to you".
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GhostOfFDR
You're on the slippery slope to socialism
05:37 PM on 11/11/2011
Maybe because there's no such thing as "true" Christianity?
05:04 PM on 10/27/2011
Your thoughts perfectly reflect my own. I've found over the years as an Atheist that the religious do not hate us because we deny their God, but because we deny their afterlife.
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Jennifer Zirn
Agree to disagree.
05:19 PM on 09/19/2011
To each person to their own beliefs. They range from there is nothing except for today (there is no tomorrow because it doesn't exist) to one of the many "Gods" that different religions. The religions that are out there, they are man made to give their followers a security blanket to give them answers to the unknown.

Not all Atheists believe the same way as that is like saying that all religions are the same. Atheists just believe that there is not a "God" to answer to when you come to the end of your road. I believe that the only one you have to answer to is yourself in the end.
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
04:38 AM on 09/19/2011
Thank you for this article Mr. Peron. I agree that thoughts of life and our loves ones would be my concerns if I was in your position. I am an Athiest and have acceptted that life is limited.

Thanks to Huffington Post for giving us a voice.
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Toutlaguerre
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10:53 AM on 09/17/2011
"That is what believers don't understand. Atheists tend to believe that life ends here; there is nothing beyond. Because there is nothing beyond life, there is nothing to fear. I don't fear because I don't believe." This is a pretty blanket statement. I don't ever recall trying to comprehend why believers far less non-believers don't fear death. The truth is that not all believers fear death and not all non-believers live without fear of dying. It all depends on the person's personal experiences and perspectives on death. Some might not want to die but yet they do not believe that there is a fiery torment or eternal torture after death. Others may not fear death because they believe that if they along with a few innocent ones die they will get ten virgins in the "after life". Those who base their beliefs on the bible know that the dead are conscious of nothing at all. Yet we were created with eternity in our minds.Therefore whilst death is nothing really to fear for some, the desire to die is far removed from those who want to live forever.
06:08 PM on 10/27/2011
To not fear something because because according to your superstitions you are immune to it is to fear it. Belief in an afterlife is evidence of a fear of death that cannot be denied.
07:04 PM on 09/16/2011
Um, I'm atheist and I am terrified of death. Admittedly only because I hate pain and love consciousness.
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James Peron
12:03 AM on 09/17/2011
Pain and death are two different things. And loving consciousness doesn't mean terror otherwise you would have a real hard time falling asleep, every night.
06:39 AM on 09/17/2011
It would be nice if non-believers didn't talk about what believers do and don't understand. These statements lump us all together, inappropriately so at that. It is so much more credible to me if you talk about your own perspective and experiences, rather than to presume that you understand how I think. I promise you, you do not.

"That baffles the believers. They seem unable to comprehend non-believers, especially those who have no fear of death. There is insecurity among them; they find it unsettling that others don't accept what they cling to so tenaciously. "

It is a very limited perspective, and inaccurate when speaking in sweeping terms.
07:31 AM on 09/17/2011
They are two very different things. Which is why my fears are somewhat irrational. However, one cannot escape the fact that pain often precedes death.

I didn't mention whether or not I was scared of sleep. Being 'gone' for a few hours doesn't bother me though. Perhaps I should clarify. I fear the event that precedes permanent lack of consciousness, because I like 'being'. Another irrational fear.

So yes, I am human and have an irrational fear of death. I guess it could make sense if you look at it from an evolutionary perspective though.
01:19 AM on 09/19/2011
My only fear of death would be if I had not helped my family into the best situations possible before I went. That goal informs my life's decisions every day.
01:39 AM on 09/19/2011
That's very admirable :) Lucky family.
02:49 AM on 09/16/2011
I'm a believer, but I have a severely limited expectation of heaven. The bible is unclear concerning the afterlife. Maybe my imagination is too limited to understand it's description. Ditto for the image I have of God. There are many believers like myself who believe because we haven't found solid evidence to refute religion, any more than we have solid evidence that supports the many guesses scientists are making about the universe we seem to be a part of. Quantum physics points to the possibility of an endless number of universes, with endless possibilities within those universes. Time and space seem very different from the linear view I grew up with. I don't know. Neither does anyone else. If there is a God, he exists whether or not we believe in Him. The same is true of the validity of scientist's theories. People need to take a deep breath and realize how little can be proved of what we believe. Most of what we base our lives on is simply an acceptable guess. And, at that, usually chosen when we were too young to really think about alternate views.
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DeliciousDemon
Brevity is the soul of wit.
09:00 PM on 09/16/2011
You "believe because we haven't found solid evidence to refute religion"?

You're looking at it the wrong way around. Is there solid evidence that shows there aren't invisible fire breathing unicorns living in the hollow centre of one of the moons of Jupiter? No, of course not. Do you believe that there are? No, of course not. Most religious claims are the same, when it comes to extraordinary, unsupported claims like life after death, the existence of gods and heavens etc, the default position is disbelief not belief.
04:14 PM on 09/19/2011
I think we fundamentally agree. Your point seems to be that if in doubt don't believe. Or don't act on what you don't know. I agree we don't know. And I can accept that you or anyone else may choose to not act on what isn't or can't be known. Myself, I'd rather act on the possibility and see where that leads me. What I'm admitting to is that believers don't know. A taboo thought in too many christian circles. But I think the christian culture is maturing. Probably too slowly for most people, but better than no positive change at all. To accept that there is much that we don't know is the foundation of any belief system. What troubles most people is the insistence of Christians, or any other group of people who are trying to live a faith based life), that everyone must believe what they do because the Bible (or Koran or whatever other "authority" you choose to plug in) says so.
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Robert Blackburn
09:08 AM on 09/15/2011
As an atheist, it's not death that I fear, but the leaving behind a world into which I brought children that remains as messed up as when I found it. It's not death that scares me as an atheist, but what I have not done to change the world I found to make it better for my children and the future. The only peace I find in that is that I gave it everything I had.
See: http://revolutionofreason.com and http://www.youtube.com/RobertLBlackburn
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
04:44 AM on 09/19/2011
Can I say I love you on Huffington Post? This is actually how I feel too. I do think that we "go on" as long as there's Humanity. It's our duty to make the Earth a better place before we die.
jm26dream
gaining fans despite posting ridiculous things
03:07 PM on 09/23/2011
I like polluting the environment
08:11 AM on 09/15/2011
I'm an atheist and I don't fear death, but I do mind not living forever. Or at least for a few thousand years:
The world is so vast, there is so much to learn, so many things to experience, so many people and things to interact with, so many lifepaths to take. I wish I could get a taste of all these things, but since I am well aware that I have this one life I try to make the most of this one and help people along my way towards my inevitable end of existence.

Who knows. If humanity wisens up, learns to put away its differences and scientific and moral progress doesn't stop, it might very well be that in the future the disease of aging will be a very easily treatable one and future Adams will get their wish of a thousand year long life.
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Andres64
Religion is a sectually transmitted disease.
01:56 AM on 09/19/2011
Death does not concern us, because as long as we exist, death is not here. And when it does come, we no longer exist.
-- Epicurus
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sweetlilthing
hurt no one but tell the truth
04:47 AM on 09/19/2011
If we concern ourselves with science and not religion we may be able to extend our lives a bit.
06:54 AM on 09/15/2011
"...death is nothing to us. For all good and evil consists in sensation, but death is deprivation of sensation. And therefore a right understanding that death is nothing to us makes the mortality of life enjoyable, not because it adds to it an infinite span of time, but because it takes away the craving for immortality. For there is nothing terrible in life for the man who has truly comprehended that there is nothing terrible in not living. [Death] does not then concern either the living or the dead, since for the former it is not, and the latter are no more." Epicurus (341–271 B.C.E.)
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Chad Wheeler
03:46 PM on 09/16/2011
I found this a terribly soothing quote. (That sounds like sarcasm but I am sincere.)
06:42 AM on 09/17/2011
So did I. Sincerely. Brilliant statement in fact.
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ladywiccan
a wife, mother and grandmother
04:45 PM on 09/17/2011
F&F
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grayplace
Life's a dream within a dream.
03:01 AM on 09/15/2011
I find it incredibly liberating to not believe. I am free to live my life to the best of my ability, without the added burden of kowtowing to some make-believe deity who may punish me or reward me for the kind of life I've led. To act as an adult, rather than cower like a frightened child, is what it means to not believe. Who needs the fear or worry believing brings?
10:42 PM on 09/14/2011
What ought to be discussed is why an atheist should fear *living* if his worldview be taken honestly.

Written by Steve Turner:

If chance be the Father of all flesh,
disaster is his rainbow in the sky,
and when you hear
State of Emergency!
Sniper Kills Ten!
Troops on Rampage!
Whites go Looting!
Bomb Blasts School!

It is but the sound of man worshiping his maker.
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messy
artist, writer, adventurer
07:14 PM on 09/14/2011
An atheist dies and winds up at the pearly gates. St.Peter greets him and says "SURPRIZE!"
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James Peron
09:26 PM on 09/14/2011
A Christian dies, doesn't end up anywhere and never realizes he was wrong.
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hangdogit
Progressive with some Libertarian (abolish DEA).
12:37 AM on 09/16/2011
After a long life of piety and self-denial...
01:10 AM on 09/15/2011
As an Atheist, I would say fair enough, and know that the god running the place would be powerful enough to understand why I found no evidence for belief. So whatever way you look at things, the atheist will always be a winner.

“Live a good life. If there are gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been, but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are gods, but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no gods, then you will be gone, but will have lived a a noble life that will live on in the memories of your loved ones.” - Marcus Aurelius