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Paul Ryan: Grow Up

Posted: 08/13/2012 8:40 pm

As I've been reading about Paul Ryan, I was struck by several aspects of his life story which resonated with my own. We were both just sophomores in high school when our fathers died. We both saved our Social Security survivor benefits to help fund our college educations. We were both beneficiaries of federal and state government support for higher education. We made hamburgers at McDonald's. We were both altar boys and we remain practicing Catholics. And Paul Ryan and I both read Ayn Rand as teenagers and were captivated by her radical individualism.

That, however, is where the similarities end.

Rand's philosophy holds a particular appeal and is especially attractive to the developing adolescent mind. It is self-centered and certain -- traits appreciated by adolescents. And Rand's heroic individualists could be angry and dismissive of others, seeing them as burdensome and obstacles to be overcome on the way to self-fulfillment -- again attitudes quite compatible with adolescent behavior.

While it appears that Ryan never got over his fascination with Ayn Rand, referring to her work in recent years as defining "what my value systems are and what my beliefs are"; I did get over her -- or better put, my mother knocked some sense into me.

At one point in my late teens, after listening to me spouting off about government controlling this or that and infringing on the rights of individuals, my mother sat me down, wagged a finger in my face and reminded me that if it were not for Social Security benefits and the New York State Regent's Scholarships, I wouldn't be able to afford to go to college. "Don't deny to others, what you have benefited from," she said.

My mother, who passed away in 1998, was a devout Catholic and the daughter of Lebanese immigrants who came to the U.S. at the turn of the last century. Her family came to America, like most immigrants, seeking freedom and opportunity. And they found it -- but not without difficulty. They worked tirelessly, overcame hardships, started businesses, and educated their children.

They survived two World Wars and a Great Depression and, as my mother would note, "when the country was suffering and people were in need, Roosevelt knew that it was the role of the government to lend a hand to lift people up and give them a boost."

My mother taught me the immigrant Catholic values of family, community, and service to those less fortunate. She had no patience for "self-indulgence." It is no wonder then, that she reacted so negatively to my short-term embrace of Ayn Rand's "individualism"and Barry Goldwater's Conscience of a Conservative. And she would not tolerate narcissism. Life, she taught, was not about me, it is about us. In the end, she would say, "your life's value would be measured not by what you earned, but by what you did for others." When a person understood that, she believed, they moved from adolescence to adulthood.

So when I hear conservatives talk about "my money" and speaking about government as some evil, alien force, I think about my mother and her generation rescued from the Depression by federal programs that put people back to work and provided a safety net for those most affected by economic dislocation. I think of the millions of families who were able to survive and progress because of Social Security, the GI Bill, Medicare, and more. I also think how much safer and more secure we are because of federal legislation that has cleaned up our air and water, inspects our food and medicine, and regulates our banking system. And I think more recently of the hundreds of thousands of teachers, police and firefighters, and auto and construction workers whose jobs were saved by the action taken by the federal government. And I think of the millions of Americans with "pre-existing conditions" who because of the Affordable Care Act need no longer fear being denied health coverage.

All of this may not be appreciated by conservatives eager to protect "my money." But despite their vain attempts to elevate selfishness and narcissism to a lofty-sounding political philosophy, it remains what it is -- infantile selfishness. My mother would have wagged her finger in their faces and told them "get over yourself. This is not about you, it is about us." And she would be right.

 

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As I've been reading about Paul Ryan, I was struck by several aspects of his life story which resonated with my own. We were both just sophomores in high school when our fathers died. We both saved ou...
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07:03 PM on 09/05/2012
Enjoyed your article. Quoting your mother, "Get over yourself..." I agree with your mother's view, and I see that you've been smart enough to open your mind to look at more than one side of something. It can be a hard sell to get some people to understand working together for a common good. At both my jobs, there are people who try to move up in the company. Some people try to move up by trying to improve the team. These people help others become better workers, showing productive techniques and offering empowerment etc. Other people try getting ahead by weakening the team. They try to place blame on someone else when something goes wrong. They embellish their own accomplishments while putting down others'. Unfortunately, this occurs in many work places, and outside of work places. Sometimes human resources isn't on to those trying to weaken the company, or can't recognize it in time before it can repair damages. It is THOSE types of people to whom it's difficult to get the message to get over themselves and put the team first.
06:12 PM on 08/19/2012
WHAT ????? Rand was an athiest, and her devotee Ryan is a Catholic? Ryan made Rand's stuff required reading for anyone working on Ryan's Washington staff. Now the dilema: Ryan wants to be on the national stage, and his heroin is an athiest. Athiests don't get many votes. IT'S TIME TO DISAVOW RAND. Political expediency. Not social maturity. He's just another politician who speaks with forked tongue. So Interesting: Both the Catholic Bishops Council and the Nuns on a Bus have called Ryan's budget "IMMORAL." So Ryan's no longer and athiest, but still far from being a Catholic.
07:14 PM on 09/05/2012
Good point about the conflicting religious beliefs, of which I didn't catch, although I've been aware of Ryan's devoutness to Rand's theories. Many people will vote with the more contrite message, so it is about marketing. So, if Ryan makes his message sound good, then people will vote for him. I'm not sure how many voters will compare their religions...I guess that's what Ryan has counted on in having won elections. Yes, there is a lot of hypocrisy with politicians trying to win elections, as some people will say anything to get what they want.
03:54 PM on 08/16/2012
James Zogby, you have provided us with a working definition of tea party Republicans and their libertarian allies.
Tea Party Conservatism: the infintile, selfish idea that you should deny others the very same things you benefited from yourself.
Both Ayn Rand and Paul Ryan have benefited from the same Social Security safety net they don't (or didn't) want to see others enjoy. Where I come from, that's called peeing in the bucket after you've had your fill so no one else can drink.
06:33 AM on 08/16/2012
A simply wonderful, deeply moving, and brilliant essay on what this election is about philosophically. Neither Romney nor Ryan have grown up-- or understand the first thing about social caring or Christian ethics. For them, it is "I" first and "us" is not just second, it is repudiated!

Thank you, Mr.Zogby for writing this. All voters, all people should read it.
03:43 AM on 08/16/2012
How about "money doesn't grow on trees"? Did your mother forget to teach you that lesson?
02:15 PM on 08/18/2012
Except when it comes to illegal wars perpetrated by America, then apparently money does grow on trees; America, with its bloated defense budget that spends about half of what the entire world combined spends on defense. Apparently your mother never told you that money is better spent on health care for the sick than on illegal military occupations (think Israel) and illegal wars, with America setting up military bases all over the world in order to control the flow of oil and manipulate other nations' economies. I would rather have this country comprised of James Zogbys any day over the selfish, self-serving, "altruism is evil" philosophy of the despicable Ayn Rand. I have no respect for a woman who begrudged Medicare and Social Security to others but when she got sick took advantage of it herself. Not to mention that she got sick from lung cancer, after dismissing the claims of the medical community that cigarettes cause cancer as a "hoax." If she wasn't herself addicted to cigarettes, no doubt she would have considered those who smoked as being "weak."
05:16 AM on 08/20/2012
Well I agree with you that the unnecessary wars were a complete waste of money and lives. But it doesn't change the fact that the U.S. and most other developed world countries including Japan and the countries of southern Europe are completely bankrupt.

You could probably say it started in earnest in the 60s or 70s when the gold standard was abandoned. Since then the world has seen an explosion of debt and paper money. But the global financial ponzi scheme started falling apart in 2008 and the government's only real choice was to print more money and keep pumping up the bubble. It's a temporary solution at best - the debt hasn't disappeared, it has just shifted to different balance sheets. Every day in the news we read about how Europe is falling apart and European leaders are running around trying disparately to plug the holes in the dam to stop the debt tsunami from engulfing their continent.

I'm not sure what the solution is - there probably isn't one. This has happened so many times throughout human history. And every time people think that we've become smarter and somehow learned how to avoid Great Depressions (and/or World Wars). It's comical really - part of the human condition.

And while I don't disagree that some degree of social spending makes sense for rich-world economies, provided that it is properly financed (which it's not), talking about it now is kind of like rearranging the deck chairs on the titanic.
12:38 AM on 08/16/2012
Great post. I also liked Rand when I was a self-centered teenager and stopped when I grew up.
I didn't take much deep thinking to realize the philosophy of "it's your own damn fault you aren't as awesome and successful as me!!" has many flaws in it.
I was born with the rare 'responsible gene' and have always made good decisions but I am aware that the facts I am white, had married parents, was never hungry, had access to good schools, was never verbally or sexually abused, etc...heavily plays into my "hard earned success" in life.
09:52 PM on 08/15/2012
The writer misses the point. There is no problem in working together during times of stress. The problem arises when every moment seems to require government to come to the rescue.

Government aid becomes an incentive to approach life casually and thoughtlessly, to reproduce profligately, and to avoid responsibility. Growing an expanding underclass fosters a burgeoning government/bureaucracy, which is just fine with politicians and government. More people to control.

We are drowning in social programs, irresponsible adults, and under-parented children (and wars and politicians). More of any of those is far too much. Governments will not be happy until everyone is standing in line a la the old USSR.

Taking pot-shots at Ayn Rand's ideas, some of which may be simplistic, throws the baby out with the bathwater. Extreme conservatives who demand an end to all regulations make the same logical error.

On the other hand, the wealthy and their political sycophants stood by while government abetted the growth of our underclass, so it is only right that the wealthy pay for the result.
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11:16 AM on 08/15/2012
I have a Republican friend who goes on about personal responsibility and taxes and all of that. He however doesn't make enough money to pay federal income taxes, and years ago the local county hospital paid for his fathers surgery to save his life when he was ill. The state picked up the tab because his family couldn't pay for it. Amazing how many people complain about the largess of the government but who've been on the receiving end of it themselves, including Romney, Ryan, Bachmann, Palin, on and on and on.
11:14 AM on 08/15/2012
Ayn Rand is for children. Obviously Ryan - as are most republicans - is stuck in adolescence.
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11:05 AM on 08/15/2012
Bain Capital made $30 million in profit from the steel foundry they owned and sent into bankruptcy. They reneged on their promised severance pay to their workers, on the promised health insurance, and the government had to take over the underfunded pension plan.

You can talk about the noble Ayn Randian philosophy until you're blue in the face, but in reality Romney fled the business he owned, taking the loot, leaving his workers up a creek and leaving their pension for the government to pay. Maybe what he did was legal, but in my book he's just a crook.
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11:00 AM on 08/15/2012
One of your mother is worth a million of Ayn Rand.
10:46 AM on 08/15/2012
Excellent article. Zogby clearly shows that Ayn Rand was a novelist for adolescents, NOT ADULTS. In adults, an affinity for her writing indicates a juvenile emotional system, narcissism and, frequently, sociopathy.
10:09 AM on 08/15/2012
What this writer -- and many liberals -- fail to acknowledge when talking about Ayn Rand is this: Never once in her novel, "Atlas Shrugged," does she suggest the businessmen who want to build factories are not concerned for the poor, or those who don't have. Liberals who say she does are only parroting what they have heard from someone else since they most likely haven't read the book. I believe in Rand's business philosophy, but I also believe in giving back to my community, as many Republicans do. Those who say Republicans don't are just repeating campaign rhetoric. Why else, then, do we see Republicans giving more to charities than Democrats? In Rand's "Atlas Shrugged" she shows how people who purport to be for the people end up stealing from them in the end and making it harder for them to exist.
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10:58 AM on 08/15/2012
Many people believe in giving back to the community, and many don't. You can't build a society as complex as ours based on voluntary giving. But you know that. I've read her books
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07:30 PM on 08/16/2012
It is ONLY because more republicans have vast sums of money then democrats and no other reason. The democratic party is the middle class/workin class party. So your FALSE EQUIVALENCY about charitable giving is complete nonsense.
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09:58 AM on 08/15/2012
Universal Birthright, say it, Universal Birthright, guarantees a share of our collective resources, the moral foundation as we move forward to a more perfect union.
10:58 AM on 08/15/2012
Even those who fail or refuse to contribute to the collective resources, Clifton Middleton? Guess what happens then? Those who do work toward the collective good start to say, "Why am I working so hard when this person is doing nothing and getting a share!" Then you have less people contributing and more people taking. So, using your logic, I don't feel like working very hard for the next month. Please divvy up your paycheck and send it to me and my friends. I promise to do the same when I feel like working again.
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03:29 PM on 08/15/2012
Gary, do you have a birthright? What is it? Does it include anything real?
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09:22 AM on 08/15/2012
I'm printing this out and giving it to a certain someone who loves to bash the left but who cannot seem to or does not want to look in the mirror and ask himself what the government has done for him. My favorite is the Facebook poster who said "The government is not your baby's daddy" (except it was misspelled, of course). Now, I know when his first child was born, they had a medical card. I guess the government is only allowed to be HIS baby's daddy.