Janet Carlson is the Beauty & Health Director at Town & Country magazine, and author of a memoir, Quick, Before the Music Stops: How Ballroom Dancing Saved My Life (Broadway Books, July). She has written articles for O, Elle, Redbook, and Departures, among other publications. Carlson started training in ballroom dancing during her college years at Yale University, then competed around the country for seven years before giving up dance to pursue her magazine career. She returned to the ballroom twenty years later. She lives in Westchester County, New York.

Blog Entries by Janet Carlson

More Fathers Present; Sign of Our Times?

Posted October 9, 2009 | 02:16 PM (EST)


I ducked out of my office in NYC early the other evening, at 5 pm sharp, in order to drive like a bat out of midtown up to Westchester to catch my daughter's JV volleyball game for the first time this season. She'd complained twice, "Mom, you haven't seen me...

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Real Ballroom Dancing for Regular People

6 Comments | Posted September 4, 2009 | 04:22 PM (EST)


Anyone who hears I'm a ballroom dancer invariably says, "Oh, I'm dying to start ballroom dancing." And then they explain why they haven't, or why they gave it up after a couple of disappointing lessons. I feel bad; I want them to get into dancing. I'm not sure why. I...

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Why A Freckle Could Be The Death Of Me

3 Comments | Posted July 15, 2009 | 11:37 AM (EST)


Once upon a time, there was a new spot on my left palm. A tiny, pale-brown freckle-thing at the outer base where the hand meets the wrist. I nonchalantly mentioned it at my annual mole-check in 2006; a biopsy showed it was benign.

A few months ago, the shadow-scar that...

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Popular Mechanics: A Modern Woman's Heartthrob

Posted February 11, 2009 | 04:43 PM (EST)


I never thought I'd fall for a handy man, but as my ballroom dancing teacher used to advise, "Be mindful of your expectations. They can get us into trouble." I felt sheepish at first about appreciating M so exuberantly for (among other fine qualities, I insist) his ability to fix...

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It May Be Time to Redefine Family

Posted January 5, 2009 | 05:22 PM (EST)


Roger Angell wrote a wonderful story for the New Yorker a few years back in which he redefined the notion of extended family for our modern times, and I'd like to second that emotion. I liked his story a lot -- perhaps because I... related!

Like Angell, I include...

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My Trip to Google's HQ

Posted August 11, 2008 | 04:36 PM (EST)


I was invited to Google at the end of July to speak at the company's Authors@Google program at the legendary headquarters in Mountain View, California. The idea was to promote my just-published memoir, Quick, Before the Music Stops (How Ballroom Dancing Saved My Life). The authors program is...

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Quick, Be Here Now

Posted May 13, 2008 | 02:06 PM (EST)


No sooner had I finished writing a book called Quick, Before the Music Stops than I found myself in the earliest stages of a long distance relationship with a man who kept saying, "Let's take things slow." Geez, okay. But because I have an impulsive streak, I was frustrated,...

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Why Am I A Ballroom Dancer? Mom Made Me Do It

Posted May 6, 2008 | 10:32 PM (EST)


Three years ago, when I was taking a lot of notes after my ballroom dance lessons so that I'd remember what to practice at home with my broomstick, I figured that the ballroom craze, which was only dawning then, would build. I also decided that it was now or never...

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How Ballroom Dancing Saved My Life

Posted April 21, 2008 | 02:11 PM (EST)


My ballroom dance coach has been talking lately about how important it is for me to make myself available to him. No, not available in that sense. He's referring to my presence as half of the "us" that we create moving around the floor, doing a foxtrot or a waltz....

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