Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. -- Albert Einstein
Instead of obsessing about food, fat, your weight and your multiple failures to lose "it," imagine what your life could look like, the shape it might take, if you shifted your focus to bringing...
(4) Comments | Posted March 19, 2012 | 2:33 PM
The text message reads, "Mom trying tocall U call her"
This typo-heavy yet abbreviated message is from the elusive "son," he who has not visited his mother in more than three months. He who has not spoken to me in nearly 10 months.
I bristle, and then telephone...
(2) Comments | Posted March 5, 2012 | 6:50 PM
The cataract surgery did not go well. Even though it ranks as one of the safest and simplest of surgeries, and even though the literature reports that 95.5 percent of those operated on achieved 20/40 uncorrected vision or better outcomes following cataract surgery, here -- in...
(2) Comments | Posted February 22, 2012 | 11:01 AM
There is a borderland state called hypnagogia. It is a place of transition, a space that is rapt with images, symbols and words that captivate the mind as they move you from wakefulness to sleep (referred to as hypnagogic) and, on the other side of the sleep cycle, give rise...
(1) Comments | Posted December 23, 2011 | 9:32 AM

I understand that we think "'Tis the season to over-indulge, stuff ourselves silly and stress ourselves out," but it really doesn't have to be.
Our Lady of Weight Loss to the rescue! Here are 21 tips to making...
(6) Comments | Posted September 8, 2011 | 4:40 PM
We made it through the storm. The Hurricane of all hurricanes, Irene, which -- as it turned out here in NYC -- wasn't so bad. Praise be. Still, we had our own hurricane of sorts. Hurricane Harriet. Mother of all storms. Oy vey!
As some of you know, my...
(10) Comments | Posted May 19, 2011 | 11:52 AM
Have you ever wondered how it is that after decades of time-saving inventions and new technologies that "free time" has almost disappeared from our culture?
"Lost time is never found again." -- Benjamin Franklin
Are you suffering from "Spiritual Inertia"?
Are we time-poor, insolvent, bankrupt? Is "free...
(28) Comments | Posted April 4, 2011 | 9:36 AM
In emails from Tushkateers (members of the Kick in the Tush Club) and various coaching conversations that I've had with a number of my one-on-one coaching clients, the concepts of "normal" and "perfect" have repeatedly surfaced.
True enough, many have wished that they were "normal" and...
(13) Comments | Posted March 17, 2011 | 9:10 AM
When I imagine what it looks like to live a balanced life, two thoughts come to mind. The first is the "Jack theory": All work and no play makes for a cranky Jack. All this and no that -- too much of this and too little of that -- just...
(33) Comments | Posted March 2, 2011 | 3:58 PM
I'm referencing the one nightstand that sits next to your bed. The stand that you dump the contents of your day onto before you drift off to sleep. The stand that holds your eyeglasses, your meds, your alarm clock, the book(s) you are reading, maybe your laptop, your cell phone,...
(6) Comments | Posted January 19, 2011 | 8:08 AM
What does it mean to be your authentic self?
During their much-touted interview on Monday night, Oprah told Piers Morgan that being her authentic self was and is key to her success. But what does it mean to be your authentic self?
Dr. Phil defines...
(11) Comments | Posted December 13, 2010 | 8:19 AM
Two weeks ago, on "Wellness Wednesday," I moseyed on over to Norma Kamali's Wellness Café to get the skinny on sleep. Geraldine O'Keefe, herbologist, sleep expert and creator of the much touted "Escape to Sleep" tonic was Norma's featured "Wellness Wednesday" expert.
(5) Comments | Posted November 29, 2010 | 4:15 PM
"The things you want are always possible; it is just that the way to get them is not always apparent. The only real obstacle in your path to a fulfilling life is you, and that can be a considerable obstacle because you carry the baggage of insecurities and past experience."...
(13) Comments | Posted November 20, 2010 | 9:48 AM
I am going to go out on a limb here and make an observation about Oprah's Favorite Things 2010 list that may not be taken favorably. In fact, y'all might get mad at me, but I'm going to have to take that risk. Because I can't believe my eyes!
...(1) Comments | Posted November 8, 2010 | 1:12 PM
I had the extreme pleasure and honor of being the keynote speaker at the American Diabetes Association Expo in Pittsburgh this past weekend. In addition to delivering my 'kick tush' talk, I lead workshops and, following a book signing at Journeys Of Life bookstore - a small group...
(4) Comments | Posted October 31, 2010 | 5:52 PM
Halloween (or Hallowe'en), an annual holiday observed on October 31, has its roots in the Celtic of Samhain and the Christian holiday All Saints' Day. Halloween activities include trick-or-treating, wearing costumes, costume parties, carving jack-o'-lanterns, ghost tours, bonfires, apple bobbing, haunted houses, ghost stories, watching horror films, and eating candy....
(1) Comments | Posted October 21, 2010 | 2:20 PM
The body image stars are aligned this week. The NOW Foundation is launching their "Love Your Body" campaign. The "Inner Weigh," the weight loss documentary that we've all been waiting for premieres in Los Angeles on Wednesday, October 20, and coincidentally Norman Kamali, fashion icon, kicks...
(0) Comments | Posted October 21, 2010 | 10:16 AM
On October 21, photographer (to the stars) Heather Swanson unveils her latest project "The Doll Collection" at the The Soho Gallery for Digital Art in SoHo, New York City.
As many little girls are wont to do, when a child Heather played with 'Barbie-like' dolls and loved them. Her...
(5) Comments | Posted September 22, 2010 | 12:41 PM
In need of help? One of Our Lady of Weight Loss's readers gives a shout out for HELP and Our Lady of Weight Loss comes to the rescue!
"Dear Our Lady of Weight...
(1) Comments | Posted September 20, 2010 | 6:00 AM
A letter from Dr. Roger Starner Jones to the President has been circulating on Facebook. The first time it showed up on my page -- posted by an old high school buddy -- she wrote, "I know everyone will agree ..."
I read Dr. Roger Starner Jones' letter and thought,...


(8) Comments | Posted May 18, 2012 | 7:30 AM