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Janis Spindel
With two couples shy of 1,000 marriages, Janis Spindel has been extremely successful in the world of matchmaking for years. Specializing in pairing up upscale clientele who are well-educated, sophisticated, attractive professionals, this self-proclaimed Cupid in a Chanel suit is no-nonsense when it comes to the business of “getting people married.” She recently started a website called, where personal matchmaking meets online dating. Janis is the only matchmaker to have this type of personalized online service. For more information on Janis and her services, check out her website,

Entries by Janis Spindel

Life After Divorce: Is Age Just a Number?

(13) Comments | Posted September 27, 2013 | 4:49 PM

Cougars, sugar daddies, and everything in between -- people are obsessed with their ages, especially when it comes to dating! But relationships work, or don't work, for a number of reasons. These reasons usually have nothing to do with age. If you're on the market again after a divorce, avoid...

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Divorce 102: Sex With Your New Man

(43) Comments | Posted August 7, 2013 | 2:38 PM

The divorce is complete, your marriage is officially over, your husband is now your ex and it's time for you to move on with your life -- in so many ways! Hopefully you've been busy, focusing on building yourself back up after the long and arduous process of a divorce....

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Dating Younger Men After Divorce

(112) Comments | Posted August 7, 2013 | 1:43 PM


1. Easily impressed. This is not to say that any younger man can be swept off his feet just because you graduated one year ahead of him, but you WILL act as a role model, unintentionally or intentionally.

2. New experiences. As you get older, the media is...

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Divorce 101: How to Win Your Divorce

(30) Comments | Posted June 18, 2013 | 12:54 PM

Divorce shouldn't be treated like a game, but sometimes there are winners and there are losers. And when your marriage just isn't working, it's easy to throw in the towel, and act like a loser. But listen up: you're better than that. Forget the sweatpants. Skip the sob stories and...

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Three Signs You Have Fallen In Love After Divorce

(53) Comments | Posted October 3, 2012 | 12:15 PM

After divorce, you may be finding it difficult to tell if you are really in love with your new partner. After sharing so much with someone else, the dating world may seem confusing and like an emotional roller coaster! Here are 3 signs that you have fallen in love again:

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Getting Back Into The Dating World After Divorce

(48) Comments | Posted September 20, 2012 | 12:15 PM

Getting back into the dating world after divorce can be tough. After sporting a wedding ring for what seems like eternity, you may feel naked, vulnerable and alone. You're lost and you don't know exactly who you are without your ex partner.

The most important thing is not to crumble...

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Life After Divorce: How To Meet Single Men

(299) Comments | Posted July 31, 2012 | 3:00 AM

After divorce and being out of the dating scene for a while, it may be hard to remember where to meet single men. A good way to meet single men is through new girlfriends. Remember with new friends come new circles, which brings new men! Thankfully though, there...

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Life After Divorce: Pick Up The Pieces By Making New Friends

(26) Comments | Posted July 26, 2012 | 12:29 PM

Life after divorce can be taxing on anyone, especially if you are unsure about how to pick up the pieces. Many things in your life have dramatically changed, aside from your newly single status. It's likely that most of your friends are still married, and you have little or no...

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Life After Divorce: Sex

(245) Comments | Posted July 2, 2012 | 3:10 AM

Life after divorce is complicated for most, especially when it comes to sex. Sex is a complex and complicated thing and means different things to different people. More specifically, men and women view sex in different ways. I like to think of it like this: Women are emotional and men...

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Getting Back into the Dating Game: Life After Divorce

(43) Comments | Posted June 13, 2012 | 12:15 PM

Life after divorce can be overwhelming for the average divorcee. Some become serial daters for a few years followed by a committed, long-term relationship. Others jump out of the frying pan and into the flame by walking down the aisle right away. My piece of advice is plain and simple:...

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