Homophobia's newest poster child is Pastor Charles L. Worley, who, in a viral video, proposed (perhaps in jest) that LGBT people (his term was "lesbians and queers") should be rounded up and imprisoned until they "die out" because they "can't reproduce." Like a number of other such
(5) Comments | Posted May 14, 2012 | 1:55 PM
Here's an odd juxtaposition: as I returned home from the movie Bully, I read the Washington Post story about Mitt Romney's high school bullying. There are some who say this 37-year-old story is irrelevant, but there are at least three reasons why that's not so, and why bully-gate does, indeed,...
(14) Comments | Posted May 9, 2012 | 5:37 PM
I have to tell you that over the course of several years, as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors, when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed, monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those...
(466) Comments | Posted March 12, 2012 | 4:56 PM
"It's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve."
We've all heard the cliché, and we all know its meaning: that "male" and "female" are at the heart of God's plan for the world, and that heterosexuality is the only "natural" sexuality. Kirk Cameron, the former child TV star, made this...
(15) Comments | Posted February 23, 2012 | 11:37 AM
We told you so.
Many longtime burners, shocked at the decision by the Burning Man Organization (or BORG) to hold a lottery for tickets to the increasingly popular countercultural community/ festival/happening in the Nevada desert, predicted that scalpers would flood the lottery system, overwhelming legitimate buyers....
(47) Comments | Posted February 8, 2012 | 6:00 PM
Schadenfreude ("shaad-en-froid-uh") is one of those great German words. It's the feeling of pleasure in someone else's unhappiness, and, as fans of the musical Avenue Q know, it's among life's guilty pleasures. It's not noble, but hey, we all do it.
For liberals, especially LGBT folks, watching the Republican...
(16) Comments | Posted January 17, 2012 | 3:02 PM
Our national conversation about equality for LGBT people can often be, well, nasty. Opponents of "gay rights" routinely compare us to perverts, accuse us of horrible things, and deny our very existence. Meanwhile, to many religious people, gay folks really do threaten their understanding of the proper relationship of religion...
(49) Comments | Posted January 4, 2012 | 8:15 AM
LGBT people awoke with a sense of dread to the news of Rick Santorum's near-tie with Mitt Romney in the Iowa caucuses. Santorum is not just the butt (pun intended) of a deservingly dirty joke; he has long been ahead of the curve when it comes to bashing gay...
(1) Comments | Posted November 30, 2011 | 3:39 PM
As I've written in these pages before, I'm not a fan of our nation's airport security protocols. I think they do not adequately factor in the humiliation of old ladies in wheelchairs, incorporate a base level of common sense, or strike the right balance between security and practicality....
(6) Comments | Posted October 5, 2011 | 11:45 AM
"And these children, that you spit on, as they try to make their way... are immune to your consultations; they're quite aware of what they're going through."
Bowie was right, of course: it's precisely what those of us over forty (or thirty) don't get that makes youth movements...
(3) Comments | Posted October 5, 2011 | 10:12 AM
The Jewish High Holidays are an ironic time. It's the time more Jews go to synagogue than any other, yet it foregrounds a theology least likely to appeal to them, one highlighting sin and repentance, judgment and guilt. Is this a good thing?
This is not, strictly speaking, a theological...
(0) Comments | Posted September 23, 2011 | 3:34 PM
I love where I live. Like many people, I came here, several years ago, to escape the intensity of New York City -- which I also love, but which is a lot to take 24/7 -- and to live in a place where I see trees rather than concrete,...
(210) Comments | Posted July 27, 2011 | 2:04 PM
Let's start at the beginning.
November, 2008. Barack Obama has defeated John McCain, and George W. Bush's last, lame-duck weeks in office begin. Without the legally-required environmental reviews, Bush's Bureau of Land Management rushes out 116 leases on public land. This last-minute fire-sale of our shared natural resources is an...
(14) Comments | Posted June 20, 2011 | 9:50 AM
This weekend, the New York State Senate prepares for its final scheduled day of the current legislative session, unsure if a compromise can be reached between its Republican leader and Democratic governor Andrew Cuomo on the issue of same-sex marriage. There is, however, hope for a compromise -- one...
(11) Comments | Posted June 15, 2011 | 4:05 PM
Dear Senator Ball --
You, my state senator, are now among the last holdouts prohibiting me from legally marrying my fiancee at our religious Jewish ceremony in September. If this bill fails to pass, the State will be restricting my religious freedom. I know you may not have heard the...
(12) Comments | Posted May 22, 2011 | 10:28 PM
Today, more than 300 religious leaders are gathering in Washington under the auspices of the Human Rights Campaign, a leading advocacy organization for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. I will be among them, and I want to tell you why.
I grew up believing that being gay was...
(4) Comments | Posted May 16, 2011 | 6:00 AM
There is, in a sense, no such thing as boredom. Boredom is only another name for a certain species of frustration. -- Susan Sontag
As I've traveled to foreign countries, sat for weeks in silence, pored over ancient mystical texts, and dabbled in indigenous shamanic practices, I've sometimes had the...
(50) Comments | Posted April 25, 2011 | 1:00 AM
Most people don't think of Passover as incomplete. Usually, it's quite the contrary. After eight days of (matzo) brei and balls, Chag Hamatzot (the Holiday of Matzo) often feels like it's overstayed its welcome. Bring on the leaven.
But Passover is actually incomplete, technically speaking. Its time is extended by...
(304) Comments | Posted April 15, 2011 | 8:12 AM
The news from the Radical Right this week is that "gay" is out -- and "sodomy" is back in. Yep, a conference at Liberty University this past week has decided that "gay" is too happy, too political and illusory. "'Gay' is a left-wing socio-political construct designed to create...
(11) Comments | Posted March 15, 2011 | 9:14 AM
Often in yoga classes, or in what's sometimes called "New Age spirituality," people talk about how "all is one." Maybe you've heard this a thousand times and have not given it much thought. Or, who knows, maybe each time you chant "om" you're inspired anew by it. Either way, this...

(44) Comments | Posted May 24, 2012 | 1:37 PM