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Jeremy Ben-Ami

Jeremy Ben-Ami

Posted: April 26, 2010 09:05 AM

Alan,

I appreciate your acknowledgment that there is an American national interest in resolving the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I find it amusing that you casually say "of course" there is such an interest since that is what Obama administration officials have been saying and J Street has been arguing, as well. What must account for the diatribe you launched against me and against J Street is the use, in my letter to the New York Times, of the single word "critical" to modify that "interest."

You and I have, it appears, a policy-based disagreement over the depth of the American interest in resolving the conflict, not over the existence of that interest. That's fine - and represents something worthy of further discussion not only between us but in the public policy journals, halls of academia and in government. But I hope you'll acknowledge that it's not worthy of the kind of invective you engaged in, and I would be open to an apology for that.

Not wanting to leave a question unanswered - while still aiming to bring this dialogue to a close - I note that in your most recent post, you ask whether J Street believes that Israel should "have the right to decide" whether to attack Iran should all else fail to prevent Iran from acquiring nuclear weapons and whether the United States should "seek to prevent Israel from acting on that decision as an absolute last resort."

Interestingly, I think you're expecting this to be difficult in some way for J Street to answer, when in reality it's quite easy.

Both Israel and the United States are independent, sovereign nations - and do therefore have every right to make decisions that their governments determine to be in their national interest. Of course, Israel has the "right" to make such a decision. What J Street is concerned about is whether a decision that it has the "right to make" is in fact the right one. Similarly the United States should act in its own self-interest. If those responsible for making U.S. foreign policy determine that American interests would be damaged by an Israeli military strike, then of course, the US should attempt to prevent Israel from taking such action.

I might not agree with Israel's decision and you might not agree with the U.S.'s - but that doesn't change the fact that both are in the end sovereign nations - democratically run - and fully entitled to, and capable of, making independent policy judgments on such a critical issue.

The questions that deserve a thorough airing regarding Iran are what the nature of the threat really is, what is the best strategy for responding, and how can Israel and the United States along with allies in the region and around the world achieve an outcome that maximizes all of our interests while minimizing the risks to those interests.

This isn't a simple yes/no question - and, again, too often traditional advocates for Israel try to oversimplify the questions before us to whether you're "with us or against us." To demand blanket support for an Israeli military strike against Iran should Israel's government decide to undertake one is to my mind an unproductive litmus test for whether one supports Israel with all or even part of one's heart and soul.

The right approach to building the broadest possible base of support for Israel (and to make the strongest case for it) is to step back from the combative my-way-or-the-highway approach that can characterize such discussions and to accept that there are legitimate disagreements on policy and strategy across a broad spectrum of political views in the community of Israel supporters. The more welcome we all feel in this community, the more open and robust the discussion and debate we allow - the stronger the U.S.-Israel relationship will be in the long run.

There has never been - and there certainly never will be - only one opinion and voice in the American Jewish community on these or any other issues. Voices carrying differing opinions may not have had the megaphone in the past that they do today, and the simpler media environment in prior generations may have made it easier to keep voices of dissent muzzled.

But the days when our community could act as if disagreements don't exist and could muscle those with competing views off the stage are long over. We live in an era now and a generation is rising to the forefront of our community that is wired for far freer debate and interchange on complex issues than any that has come before.

We don't need or await an invitation to join any other "mainstream" organization. We will define our positions for ourselves and when we agree or disagree, we'll be more than happy to engage in a robust, public and clearly feisty debate based on the merits of our views where we disagree or to sign joint statements with others when we agree.

I look forward to continuing the conversation in the future - perhaps at further in-person debates and discussions.

 

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10:34 AM on 04/27/2010
Dear Jeremy,

The way you handled yourself during this back and forth was inspiring. I just read on Harratz that a J-Street delegation is on the ground meeting the Israeli president and politicians from the full spectrum of Israeli politics (including even settler organizations who i'm sure disagree with you on the settlement issue). That is awesome.

What is not so "awesome" is that J-Street has it's boots on the ground looking for real solutions to the conflict and yet, here you are, left to defend these baseless attacks back home. I'm saddened that people like Mr. Dershowitz feel the need to tear down those he disagrees with. This is especially disheartening when you both obviously have great love for Israel. You simply have "policy differences" on the best ways to secure it's future as a democratic homeland for the Jewish people.

I think Mr. Dershowitz is scared. He honestly believes that his way is the only way and any other less hawkish path is dangerous to Israel. Some see the status-quo as the safe bet but the status quo is unsustainable and it's certainly not in the best interest of Israel.Many think like him, they believe they hold the absolute truth (the codebook so to speak) on what it means to be Pro-Israel. They will attack you, J-Street or anyone who has the "audacity" of proposing an active push toward a peaceful solution to the conflict.

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10:32 AM on 04/27/2010
The good news Jeremy , is that , you are not J-Street , WE ARE. J-Street has become a true grassroots movement and can no longer be destroyed by levying personal attacks. You don't get 1,500 people to your first annual convention or $60,000 in small donations within 24 hours from a simple e-mail request if you don't have the support of a grassroots base behind you. Alan Dershowitz would be wise to realize this. When he calls on you to remove pro-Israel from your name, I take umbrage to this almost as much as you. I am pro-Israel and contrary to what they might think , J-Street is full of people who love Israel and have it's best interest at heart.

So Jeremy , when and if you ever get that apology from Mr. Dershowitz. Please let him know he should CC it to each and every one of us who supports J-Street and it's PRO-ISRAEL, pro-peace objectives.
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05:44 PM on 04/30/2010
Perfectly stated. Fanned.
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blaster8
04:27 PM on 04/26/2010
Why are Arabs given a complete free ride when it comes to their policies? Why are they allowed to run an international cartel operation with no consequences? Why the double standard? Has anyone seen some of the cartoons in the Arab world that pertain to Israel? Has anyone seen how they treat their own people, let alone Jews or Christians living in their countries? Do you know how they treat their women?Why are the Arabs held to a lower standard. Isn't THAT racists!?
It's never considered anti-Semitic to criticize Israel. But when you single out Israel for criticism and use a double standard then you most definitely open yourself up to being labeled an anti-Semite. And rightfully so.
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05:28 PM on 04/26/2010
>>Why are Arabs given a complete free ride when it comes to their policies?

Oil.
And the fact that criticism of arab and/or muslim policies can be hazardous to your health.
People who criticize Israel really don't fear a truck bomb plowing into their offices, or having a knife stuck in their chest while walking on a street ( as was done to Theo Van Gogh, a critic of Islam's policies towards women).
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08:21 PM on 04/26/2010
Correct Tallen (fanned). Even South Park writers are on edge after their attempt to make a joke. Jon Stewart at least stood up to the fear mongers (so did the writers of the Simposons, a little). Remember what happend when a cartoonist depicted Mohammed? There were riots all over Europe! Free speech was squashed out of fear and this was in the West!!!
Where is our (the Liberal's) outrage over this?! Why aren't we protesting this hate in our own yard? This is the outrage!
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LeLoup
Res ipsa loquitur, ergo tace!
03:03 PM on 04/26/2010
Jeremy,
The civilized and reasoned, yet forceful way you answered to Dershowitz is one of the many reasons why a gentile like me contribute to J Street.
It's very refreshing to see someone resisting being pushed around by pundits and rabid fanatics.

Keep up the great work
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JustMeInNY
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12:23 PM on 04/26/2010
* I hope you'll acknowledge that It's not worthy of the kind of invective you engaged in, and I would be open to an apology for that.*

Dershowitz expressed his opinion, Ben Ami expressed his. In my worldview, demanding an apology and in public is a bit over the top. I do not believe for one moment that this commentary was anything more than an additional attempt to publicly humiliate Dershowitz.

If your feelings are hurt, you take it up with the person that hurt you, not the entire world.
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01:29 PM on 04/26/2010
On the contrary, I think it is appropriate to call out Dershowitz for his personal and rather nasty attacks. Dershowitz's tactics need to be exposed. He has a history of destroying the careers of people who criticize Israel.
05:00 PM on 04/28/2010
oh he does not either. Finkelstein destroyed his own career, the man has issues. hell he has a whole subscription. Dershowitz is a vulture, not a hawk. He comes in and feasts on the rotting flesh of the dead or dying, he doesnt move in for the kill himself.
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David Norman
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02:55 PM on 04/26/2010
"If your feelings are hurt, you take it up with the person that hurt you, not the entire world. " Problem is that Dershowitz does the opposite, taking every disagreement as a personal attack, and every opinion other than his own as a reason to question the other parties morals or intelligence as if he were somehow the final arbiter of such things. When someone insults you in the public square it is perfectly appropriate to call them out on it and request an apology in that same public square.
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JustMeInNY
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03:03 PM on 04/26/2010
Like I said, Dershowitz had his say, so did Ben Ami, to milk it into another commentary is an attempt at humiliating Dershowitz, I hope that Dershowitz completely ignores Ben Ami.
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11:56 AM on 04/26/2010
I am not sure that if I were in your shoes I could be so rational and calm in responding to the nasty attacks launched by Dershowtiz. You are to be congratulated. Though I would prefer an even tougher response to Israel than you support I am pleased that J Street is moving the conversation to a different level than it has ever been conducted at before. Up to now the established Zionist Jewish organizations simply prefer to attack and destroy anyone who opposes the occupation.
11:59 AM on 04/27/2010
Reply to JustMeinNY

Ben Ami never respond twice, you just missed an article. The discussion has been a pure 1 to 1 discussion between the men. I was somewhat confused at first by your post and could not understand the point you were trying to make. You were saying Ben Ami was humiliating Dershowitz by "milking" "A second commentary". I think this is why the people kept arguing with you. They thought you kept attacking Ben Ami when really, you were just confused.

I don't blame you, following this back and forth would be somewhat confusing unless you were following it from the start.

Let me help , I will lay out the articles chronologically for you and anyone else who wants to read this from the start and in order.

Here are the article links :

Dershowitz - J Street Can No Longer Claim to Be Pro Israel : http://huff.to/bCHiNJ

Ben Ami - Alan Dershowitz Is Wrong : http://huff.to/cnIAP6

Dershowitz - A Direct Challenge to J Street From Alan Dershowitz : http://huff.to/cnpvjS

Ben Ami - A Direct Answer to Alan Dershowitz and a Challenge Back : http://huff.to/brH68X

Dershowitz - An Invitation To J Street From Alan Dershowitz : http://huff.to/cTQ70y

Ben Ami -A Final Letter to Alan Dershowitz (for Now) : http://huff.to/9gYHV7

As you can see JustMeinNY , this has been a pure one on one back and forth.
10:13 AM on 04/26/2010
the jews have always been their worst enemies. With elected leaders like Netanahu there is a good chance that he will hurt the Jewish case for good. Iran poses zero threat in the ME. The danger comes from Israel and their quest for a Greater Israel Empire.
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02:58 PM on 04/26/2010
The fact that you use the words "Jews" and "Israel" interchangeably is all the argument one needs against your absurd statement. The nation that openly funds Hezbollah and Hamas and calls for the destruction of Israel is no threat, it is the nation that is taking in Sudanese Muslim Refugees (Israel) that we have to worry about. Ridiculous.
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03:21 PM on 04/26/2010
"The fact that you use the words "Jews" and "Israel" interchangeably is all the argument one needs against your absurd statement." Really? That simple? Semantics trump realities? Nice move to present Israel as a "nation that is taking in Sudanese Muslim refugees". Never mind the 40 year illegal and brutal occupation. I suppose the latter has absolutely nothing to do with calls for the destruction of Israel. Ever the victim of unwarranted aggression. Poor Israel!

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04:37 PM on 04/26/2010
David to make a statement such as, "The fact that you use the words "Jews" and "Israel" interchangeably is all the argument one needs against your absurd statement" is itself absurd.
The "fact" is that Israel proposes to be "the Jewish State" and to represent Jews everywhere.
This is the basis on which any criticism of Israel is taken to be anti-semitic.
Netanyahu as prime minister of Israel does claim to be a (if not THE) Jewish leader.
It behooves all Jews who do not identify with Netanyahu and Israel to make a loud announcement of their objections or to have their silence taken as consent.
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03:06 PM on 04/26/2010
Do you get your news from Al Jazeera?
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Nwo2012
Sue me, I boycott products from the settlements
03:34 PM on 04/26/2010
Al Jazeera is a globally well-respected news organization.

What of it?
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LeLoup
Res ipsa loquitur, ergo tace!
08:55 PM on 04/26/2010
I get my news from ABC, CBS, NPR, Haaretz, Al-Jazeera, El Mundo, El Pais, France-Inter, Reuters and the BBC, as well as the CBC. All of them have RRS feeds, so it's not exactly difficult to stay well informed these days...assuming one wants to be well informed, of course.

My blogroll is also quite extensive.

It's a global world sweet pea! Gotta go with the flow.
10:04 AM on 04/26/2010
The contrast between Ben-Ami's approach to discussing this disagreement and Dershowitz's is telling. I also don't think Dershowitz will ever be capable of fully supporting and accepting free and open speech on the topic of Israel; he was quite clear when he explained to a reporter that he wouldn't mind J Street is they would just be willing to work within the context of AIPAC. So, so long as J Street is willing to work under the umbrella of the essentially sole Jewish voice in Congress' ear and only deal with the 80 percent everyone agrees on so outsiders don't get the impression there's any diversity in Jewish thought -- Alan is perfectly fine with them.
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10:01 AM on 04/26/2010
Hello Jeremy. You certainly deserve an apology for Alan Dershowitz's "you are not pro-Israel" rant. Because you and many others, including myself, won't sign on to a campaign that hasn't worked for Israel or the Palestinians, we are considered anti-Israel.

It's a scurrilous charge meant to discredit critics who are willing to stand up against a policy that includes unending settlement building, which will never bring Israel or the Palestinians peace, but in fact makes Israel's long-term security more precarious as the months and years pass.

But you've obviously touched a nerve with Mr. Dershowitz, as we all have in challenging the Israeli government's policies, which are also impacting our national security interests in the Middle East.
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03:30 PM on 04/26/2010
>>impacting our national security interests in the Middle East.

Yet no one will talk of the elephant in the room--how arab policies impact US security interests.
The arab policies of intolerance are the entire root cause of the conflict itself. ( and in fact the root cause of many conflicts )
All Israeli policy since the arab declared war reflects the original root cause which is never addressed.
To ignore the fact that the original arab declaration of war preceded ANY settlements is to be willfully blind.
09:45 AM on 04/26/2010
Jeremy,

Congratulations on keeping your civil tone as Alan attacks your morals. You truly do represent that which is best about Judaism.