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Posted: 03/ 6/2012 6:58 pm

On my blog, A Diary of a Mom, I recently wrote the story of a concurrently heartwarming and heartbreaking interaction between my 10-year-old daughter and a homeless woman who was huddled in front of the Church of the Covenant on Newbury Street in Boston. In that post I made reference to an article that I'd recently read here on HuffPost about a sheriff in Cook County, Ill.

The sheriff, Tom Dart, is threatening to sue state and local government officials. Why? Because, according to the article, "the county jail is so overwhelmed with people whose offenses are more attributable to mental health issues than criminal impulses that the facility has become a source of mental health care for the city, and he's sick of it."

Dart says that the system "is so screwed up that [he's] become the largest mental health provider in the state of Illinois."

The article goes on to say:

[O]f the 11,000 prisoners detained at Cook County Jail at any given time, Dart estimates that about 2,000 suffer from a serious form of mental illness. At an estimated cost of about $143 per detainee per day, the overflow from the nearby state-run Elgin Mental Health Center, which can handle only 582 patients at a time, stands to put an undue burden on the jail's resources.

ABC Chicago interviewed some of the many repeat offenders who spend time in Dart's jail, several of whom described it as one of their only options for consistent access to mental health care and medication.

"What ends up happening is, there's no safety net to catch them, so they end up committing crimes, getting swept up by the police and coming to jail," jail psychiatrist Dr. Jonathan Howard told ABC.

Our nation is at a crossroads. Political rhetoric is as heated as I've ever seen it. "Smaller government!" The candidates scream, to feverish applause. "Personal responsibility! No more entitlements!" they intone to bloodthirsty crowds.

Santorum has laid out his plan for helping those in need in our society. It's brilliant in its simplicity. It's idiocy in practice.

"I'm not going to go out and lay out an agenda about how we're going to transform people's hearts. But I will talk about it," he said. "One of the important things that the President of the United States can do is talk about things that the federal government shouldn't do but talk about what a good society should do."

"If government is going to get smaller, then people have to get bigger. And that means they have to stretch out more, they have to do more things," he said. "But how beautiful is that? How beautiful is that that you're going to have to do more to help those in need in our society?"

Beautiful in its idealism? Yes. Able in any practical sense to keep Tom Dart from being Illinois' largest mental health care provider? Not so much. Just ask the homeless lady huddled by the fence in front of the church.

When I began advocating politically for children with special needs, my autistic daughter Brooke, now almost 9 years old, was just a toddler. Our town's education budget, like so many others around the country, was shrinking dramatically, and tough decisions needed to be made about where the limited monies would be allocated. The arguments that I made to our local officials largely revolved around the fact that providing appropriate support for kids like Brooke was simply the right thing to do.

Within short order, I learned that school boards and government officials are not particularly swayed by "the right thing to do." So I started talking about money.

I told them that we had a choice: either spend some money now in order to enable a generation of kids to participate in and contribute to our society (heaven knows what great things lie beyond our limited imaginations), or pay exponentially more later when we have a generation of adults who are wholly reliant on us because we didn't give them the skills they needed to be even partially self-sufficient when we had the chance. I wondered, though, if that idea was simply too vague to really sink in and impact the political process.

Well, thanks to Sheriff Dart, it's not so vague anymore, is it?

The current crop of candidates is big on Bible thumping. And despite the fact that a host of religious leaders have come together to ask them to cut it out, I'm happy to engage in a little thumping of my own, especially because the following parable from the Gospel of Matthew happens to be the basis for one of my daughter's favorite scenes in her beloved Godspell:

Then the King will say to those on his right, "Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me."

Then the righteous will answer him, "Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?"

The King will reply, "Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me."

Our kids need support. Many of them always will. And I am determined to ensure that that "support" doesn't come in the form of a 10-year-old girl handing them a couple of dollars on the street.

So when arguments based on compassion seem to fall on deaf ears, or when reminders of our sacred responsibility to care for one another (no matter what the level of need may be) as members of a civilized society go nowhere, and Bible thumpers tell us that individuals and churches will care for those in need, send them this as a reminder that one way or another, we will support those in need. And I can't imagine that anyone thinks that our jails are the best place to do it.

 
 
 

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On my blog, A Diary of a Mom, I recently wrote the story of a concurrently heartwarming and heartbreaking interaction between my 10-year-old daughter and a homeless woman who was huddled in front of t...
On my blog, A Diary of a Mom, I recently wrote the story of a concurrently heartwarming and heartbreaking interaction between my 10-year-old daughter and a homeless woman who was huddled in front of t...
 
 
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01:22 AM on 03/12/2012
Jess so clearly articulates what many of us feel. I'd love to see her as a regular contributor to HuffPost to give voice to the masses of special needs families out there who fly under the radar for so many.
01:20 AM on 03/12/2012
This is so well written and clearly articulates what many of us feel. I would love to see Jess as a regular writer on HuffPost to give a voice to the masses of special needs families that fly under the radar for so many people.
11:26 AM on 03/08/2012
Beautiful job : )
09:17 AM on 03/08/2012
i think police officers, almost more than anyone, can articulate how serious of a problem this is...i worked in the mental health field for years, and know the police have no desire to be the safety net for those with behavioral issues...they want to deal with criminals, not neurological differences and mental health issues. and, as you point out here, the jails are filled with people who are not criminals, they just could not get the basic services they needed. great, great post, thanks for sharing this with us jess.
09:25 PM on 03/07/2012
I love reading anything written by Jess and am an avid follower of her "Diary of a Mom" FB page. She conveys with one voice the what is in the hearts of thousands of us out here with special kids. Thanks Jess and congrats on becoming a member of the HuffPost group. You are right where you belong.
02:51 PM on 03/07/2012
This touches me on a very personal level since I have two special needs kids of my own. I hate to think of them ending up in trouble with the law because they were never given the skills to know how to do otherwise. I pray that your words reach many and that changes will happen to better the future of all our special kids.
11:32 AM on 03/07/2012
Well researched and beautifully written as always. So glad to read you now at HuffPost! We need more of you, God bless
09:31 AM on 03/07/2012
Dearest Jessica,
If anyone could move this tilted world with her words, it is you. Your comments are right on the mark. We must focus on the weakest among us because after all isn't that what society and government are supposed to be all about.
Your voice is so very needed in our world now.
Thank you from a very proud dad.
09:20 AM on 03/07/2012
This is so completely spot on. It's one of my favorite of your posts, and that's really saying something. We MUST do better. Congrats on your HuffPo debut, I look forward to many more.
09:17 AM on 03/07/2012
Brilliant Mama! I love the way you think! So proud of you!
08:15 AM on 03/07/2012
Congrats, Jess, on your HuffPo debut. Wonderful, thought-provoking post. Some friends and I were talking last night about this very issue, puzzling over how we can get people (including our own children) to take notice and start to take action. Thank you for starting the conversation...it is the first step toward the action we so desperately need.
07:03 AM on 03/07/2012
Awesome post Jess! Thank you for being a very important voice for the special needs community, and for putting into words what we all feel and go through on a daily basis.
06:46 AM on 03/07/2012
Jess, I appreciate what you have written here. Your passion for the topic is clear, but your level-headedness about the challenges our country faces as a whole helps lay out the issue in a way that (hopefully) promotes civil discourse instead of side-taking. A long time ago, when the program I work for (that provides federally/state subsidized health insurance to children) did not have any federal funding and the staff had to go county to county seeking local support, one Florida county that had a relatively small "child" population was fond of saying, "we pulled ourselves up by our bootstraps - these families can too." It's just not that simple. Matthew said it best in the gospel excerpt you printed - a principle that transcends belief systems.
06:35 AM on 03/07/2012
Welcome to your new world, Jess! Wow, the Huffington Post--impressive!

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